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MrYikes

(720 posts)
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 08:10 PM Nov 2012

Thanksgiving dinner, 26 adults, 8 children: not one republican

What a family. Not one political argument, we all agreed. Three turkeys, a ham and everything else and nothing was spilled. The kids (all under 10) played well and came in and hugged grampa just enough.

This is Democratic family values of one kind. There are many.

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Thanksgiving dinner, 26 adults, 8 children: not one republican (Original Post) MrYikes Nov 2012 OP
Same....except a few less people Marrah_G Nov 2012 #1
I live in a red state but in my little family we're all dems and we enjoyed our family southernyankeebelle Nov 2012 #2
Same here, but with more kids MrScorpio Nov 2012 #3
Same here, except about 15 adults 5 kids. My family is very Liberal. JaneyVee Nov 2012 #4
3 liberals, 1 conservative graywarrior Nov 2012 #5
Heh, heh... that conservative probably behaved because he/she has seen what you can do with beac Nov 2012 #7
LOL! She lives in Canada, dual citizenship. Voted for Obama. graywarrior Nov 2012 #9
Free the Canuck!! beac Nov 2012 #10
Wot dukk? Jackpine Radical Nov 2012 #11
Hmmmmm, I think you meant... graywarrior Nov 2012 #18
And for the chance to see that again, I am TRULY thankful. beac Nov 2012 #21
So happy I could be of service! graywarrior Nov 2012 #31
Yup, but I could no longer find it Jackpine Radical Nov 2012 #30
Will this do for now? graywarrior Nov 2012 #32
Hahahaha! Now THAT's funny! graywarrior Nov 2012 #17
Large gathering here too, friends and family. ananda Nov 2012 #6
I was expecting a group photo of Thanksgiving at the White House Jeff In Milwaukee Nov 2012 #8
i want to join Doctor_J Nov 2012 #12
You are blessed! Liberal In Red State Nov 2012 #13
Adopt me. TheCowsCameHome Nov 2012 #14
I was all alone this year. LancetChick Nov 2012 #15
Alone, but that sounds awesome! Kath1 Nov 2012 #29
Thanksgiving dinner, 2 adults, 1 republican, 1 democrat. tammywammy Nov 2012 #16
That's the way it used to be, that's the way it should be. Jackpine Radical Nov 2012 #28
Spent The Evening With Two Iraqi/Afghan War Vets...Both Democrats! KharmaTrain Nov 2012 #19
You dirty dog, I'm soooo jealous larkrake Nov 2012 #20
There were 7 of us. My mother is 90 and has dementia but when we brought up Obama being kimbutgar Nov 2012 #22
you cannot know how much Duppers Nov 2012 #23
I'm a little jealous. progressoid Nov 2012 #24
I want a "love" button for this. n/t susanna Nov 2012 #25
Same here and (gasp!) in the SOUTH! ncgrits Nov 2012 #26
We're doing our big Thanksgiving tomorrow Madam Mossfern Nov 2012 #27
 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
2. I live in a red state but in my little family we're all dems and we enjoyed our family
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 08:26 PM
Nov 2012

time and meal with no fights. My daughter-in-law's was suppose to go to her uncle's house in AL but thank goodness she is sick and couldn't go. They are all poor the kind of people who should be voting for dems but hate the black man in the white house. I'm glad she didn't go.

beac

(9,992 posts)
7. Heh, heh... that conservative probably behaved because he/she has seen what you can do with
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 09:12 PM
Nov 2012

a roll of duct tape.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
30. Yup, but I could no longer find it
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 11:54 AM
Nov 2012

(or even a non-animated version) online. I was actually looking for the "after" version with the duck freed from the tape but denuded of its feathers in the areas where the tape had been.

ananda

(28,873 posts)
6. Large gathering here too, friends and family.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 09:07 PM
Nov 2012

It was great! No current politics at all and lots of love and conversation.

I did have a great talk with my former sil about Eleanor Roosevelt,
and a talk about the new movie Lincoln with her and some others.

All interesting and pleasant. Wonderful day, much to be thankful
for!

Love and hugs to everyone!

Jeff In Milwaukee

(13,992 posts)
8. I was expecting a group photo of Thanksgiving at the White House
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 09:16 PM
Nov 2012

My family is pretty close. My poor Republican mother managed to raise five rabidly Democratic children, who married like-minded spouses. My eighteen-year-old daughter just cast her first-ever vote earlier this month for the President -- and the other nieces and nephews are of the same persuasion. So mom is woefully out-numbered.

LancetChick

(272 posts)
15. I was all alone this year.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:08 PM
Nov 2012

I was originally going to go to my sister's house for Thanksgiving, but after Obama and California Prop 30 won, she informed me that she was too angry and depressed to have any fun with a liberal like me, who voted for both. So I had turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing-on-the-side, Indian green beans, lotsa gravy, and peanut butter pie all by myself. And had a blast! No arguments, no anger, just James Bond, football, emails, phone calls, food and a big turkey treat for the cats.

Meanwhile, my sister wished me Happy Thanksgiving, said she was sorry to cancel the party, but that she was still depressed and had 3 huge red zits on her chin from stress hormones. Today I'm thankful I'm a liberal. We seem to have a better emotional attitude toward life.

Kath1

(4,309 posts)
29. Alone, but that sounds awesome!
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 10:55 AM
Nov 2012

The weather was great here. My thanksgiving group/family is divided on political lines. Me and the other ultra-liberal chicks spent a lot of time out on the deck chilling out, smoking cigarettes, drinking wine, toasting the Obama victory, discussing liberal politics and basically having a great time. Safe to say we had a lot more fun than the conservatives inside, who are still bemoaning their loss. Your sister needs to have a political conversion. It will be good for her health!

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
16. Thanksgiving dinner, 2 adults, 1 republican, 1 democrat.
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:13 PM
Nov 2012

Not one political argument, we didn't even talk politics. Well sure we both talked about the silliness of "Black Friday" and both felt bad for the workers having to go in tonight.

There are things more important than a political discussion or rant or whatever. And spending time with my mom is one of them. We rarely talk about politics. I know where she stands and she knows where I stand.

My family is more important to me than who they vote for.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
28. That's the way it used to be, that's the way it should be.
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 10:02 AM
Nov 2012

I mourn for the time when people could have very different political opinions and still love and respect each other.

In those days, though, there were some shared goals. Both sides expressed some version of Bentham's "greatest good for the greatest number," but differed on how to attain that end. Both sides were rational and wanted to advance human knowledge. In my part of the world, fundamentalism was viewed as a quaint, harmless delusion held by a few benighted, ill-educated souls. In Wisconsin, at least, even the Republicans were environmentalists

Republicans now seem intent on de-humanizing half the population, and pushing insanely-premised policies that will destroy the planet. If a political party can become demon-possessed, then that is what happened to them. And the demons are well personified by Willard Romney.

KharmaTrain

(31,706 posts)
19. Spent The Evening With Two Iraqi/Afghan War Vets...Both Democrats!
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 10:53 PM
Nov 2012

One had just returned in the summer and works with the IAVA and a OFA volunteer in Colorado. We had a great chat about how the military has changed in his five years in...that President Obama and Democrats in general are popular with the "grunts" cause they care about what type of country these vets are coming back to. He said the only rushpublicans he knew were top brass who were assholes anyway.

If there were any rushpublican/Romney supporters at our dinner, they were very, very, very quiet tonight.

kimbutgar

(21,174 posts)
22. There were 7 of us. My mother is 90 and has dementia but when we brought up Obama being
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 12:53 AM
Nov 2012

Re-elected she shouted yeah! Her two caretakers are from Fiji and they were also happy. My sister told me from the beginning that the president would be re-elected. She is not a political junkie like my husband and I. And our 20 year old son with autism also said he was happy about Obama and that he would have a future. My husband and I have been so worried that if rmoney got elected our son would end up being a throw away and funding would be cut for people with disabilites. When my son filled out his absentee ballot I asked him who he was going to vote for and he said, "mom of course I'm voting for Obama because he cares about people like me". It was such a moment of clarity coming from him.

Duppers

(28,125 posts)
23. you cannot know how much
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 04:12 AM
Nov 2012

I envy You!!!!

Nearly all of my extended family are neanderthals.

My sister has such a personality disorder that I ceased trying to have any discourse with her a decade ago. I know all of her emotional problems are rooted in our unduly strict, controlling, conservative upbringing. I got help, she did not.



ncgrits

(916 posts)
26. Same here and (gasp!) in the SOUTH!
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 08:34 AM
Nov 2012

10 adults. 2 teens. 4 kids. 2 babies. 0 Republucans. And yes, we are in the rural South. Proud Southern Liberals.

Madam Mossfern

(2,340 posts)
27. We're doing our big Thanksgiving tomorrow
Fri Nov 23, 2012, 08:44 AM
Nov 2012

I know it sounds strange, but it started almost 30 years go when we went to my husband's family with our kids (we only had two then) and had an awful time. It was also our 5th anniversary. We knew we had family obligations, but wanted to share the day with people we really loved being with (this did include some of my family).

So now we do Saturday. Friends can fulfill their family obligations and then we have a blast on Saturday. We'll have sixteen adults and two grand kids - 2 and 4 years old. I don't think there's a conservative among them, the conversation is quite lively as my kids like to play devil's advocate and my sister is easily baited, as is my husband. We have a good time with that. One day they'll learn.

Tomorrow is our 35th anniversary.

My how time flies.

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