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AverageOldGuy

(2,163 posts)
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 03:03 PM Aug 2024

Today, I acted like Joe Biden

We have lived in a rural VA county for 18 years after retiring, me from the Army, my wife from teaching. When we arrived here and built our house, we looked for volunteer opportunities. I met a guy who recruited me into the local volunteer rescue squad, first driving an ambulance, then as an assistant to the EMTs, then EMT, and finally I earned Paramedic certification.

I have been captain of the squad for past 5 years. Last week I responded to five rescue calls, all after midnight, three with serious injuries from falls, a heart attack that went from mild to big time, and a stroke. I was absolutely physically and mentally exhausted. The last two patients, after we got them on the stretcher, we had to roll them across a wooden deck, down rickety stairs, across uneven lawn and gravel driveway to the ambulance . . . I was on one end of the stretcher praying that I would not drop the patient.

I'll be 80 in December. I have neuropathy in one leg and spinal stenosis. I cannot do this any longer. Today, I met with the squad leadership -- 1LT, 2LT, Pres, VP -- and announced that I am retiring today. I will monitor the radio and help when I can but I will answer no more calls. I'll conduct training, order supplies, wash the ambulances, but the time has come . . . .

And that, folks, is the same decision Joe Biden made. He was right. And he was brave.

Anyone who claims that he's seething and angry needs to STFD and STFU and hope that you have his courage when your time comes. And it will.

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Today, I acted like Joe Biden (Original Post) AverageOldGuy Aug 2024 OP
Seriously thank you. That's a lot of service. underpants Aug 2024 #1
From an old guy, too Roy Rolling Aug 2024 #44
Wow. You the man. Thanks. Silent Type Aug 2024 #2
Best thing we'll read all day. 80 years old. marble falls Aug 2024 #3
Gee whiz,.. that schedule at 80 yrs is way beyond the call of duty. magicarpet Aug 2024 #4
Thank you snowybirdie Aug 2024 #5
I know a fat orange man who wouldn't do anything like that even if he could . . . hawkeye21 Aug 2024 #6
you have really gone above and beyond. barbtries Aug 2024 #7
Thank you for your service to your community. applegrove Aug 2024 #8
Yep, just like Biden . . . wordstroken Aug 2024 #9
Thank you for jobs well done. 👍 dchill Aug 2024 #10
Youre a hero!!!! Karadeniz Aug 2024 #11
Thank you for serving. COL Mustard Aug 2024 #12
Thank you for your service. Mr.Bill Aug 2024 #13
My heart goes out to you. You are sooo much more than average. Hope22 Aug 2024 #14
Thank you gademocrat7 Aug 2024 #15
You're amazing! redwitch Aug 2024 #16
Real leadership is quite and does it by example Botany Aug 2024 #17
Yep. After 36 years in public service, I'll be stepping down at the end of next year. PatrickforB Aug 2024 #18
Yes, but it isn't that difficult to tell them. OldBaldy1701E Aug 2024 #21
Heh, I'm just hoping to -live- to 80 ArkansasDemocrat1 Aug 2024 #19
You have served well. Thank you. oasis Aug 2024 #20
Thank you for your service. FemDemERA Aug 2024 #22
Joe will achieve all his goals, without the howler monkeys and haters on his back. usonian Aug 2024 #23
for YOU about to stop! onethatcares Aug 2024 #24
Acting like Joe Biden puts you in a very special group. An honorable one. Biophilic Aug 2024 #25
Thank you for your volunteer service sir, and thank you for the reminder to everyone to appreciate our GREAT Prez Biden. onetexan Aug 2024 #26
And this is the BEST of America. You and Joe Biden and countless others. yardwork Aug 2024 #27
Good for you! c-rational Aug 2024 #28
What a life of service you have had Thank you LoisB Aug 2024 #29
You, sir, are a hero. Joinfortmill Aug 2024 #30
Biden was right. And brave. And clever. Rocknation Aug 2024 #31
Going out like a hero canetoad Aug 2024 #32
.... markie Aug 2024 #33
You went above and beyond my friend! Aging comes without a manual because we are all different. surfered Aug 2024 #34
Yep. Torches are meant to be passed gracefully. calimary Aug 2024 #35
My husband also has spinal stenosis proud patriot Aug 2024 #36
Congratulations! wblffmike Aug 2024 #37
You don't sound like an 'Avg.OldGuy' to me.... democratsruletheday Aug 2024 #38
President Biden is the most consequential President in my life to now. onecaliberal Aug 2024 #39
Wow!! I didn't know any nurses who were over 70! Everyone plain old retired. LeftInTX Aug 2024 #40
Back before I retired as a registered nurse in markodochartaigh Aug 2024 #42
Absolutely correct thing for you to do h2ebits Aug 2024 #41
Thank you for serving the people of your community. Take care. HeartsCanHope Aug 2024 #43
Ohh... Good on You, AOG!!! Cha Aug 2024 #45
You are going to need to change your user name. You are clearly NOT average in any way! MLAA Aug 2024 #46
Virginia is for lovers. Enjoy. Don't work part-time. twodogsbarking Aug 2024 #47
rural areas are in great need et tu Aug 2024 #48
You sir, are far from average. Well done. dameatball Aug 2024 #49
I wonder if there was a lot of strategy behind Joe's deciding to withdraw Siwsan Aug 2024 #50
You are far more than an average old guy, Ocelot II Aug 2024 #51
Wow. Now, go enjoy your full retirement. n/t iluvtennis Aug 2024 #52
Proud to be Rec #300 CoopersDad Aug 2024 #53
You can be proud of all you've done! CaptainTruth Aug 2024 #54
Great OP malaise Aug 2024 #55
You are an extraordinary all day every day hero. Thank you for your service to your country and community. chia Aug 2024 #56

Roy Rolling

(7,198 posts)
44. From an old guy, too
Tue Aug 20, 2024, 04:32 AM
Aug 2024

I also retired from 14-hour days as a medic. But how the hell did you make it to age 79 with the physical strength required? Much respect, my man, much respect.

But you deserve a change. When I retired an entire, more lucrative career started from there. I wasn’t expecting that, I just knew my knees hurt and couldn’t run anymore. 😂


snowybirdie

(5,680 posts)
5. Thank you
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 03:19 PM
Aug 2024

your service is commendable. You'll still be there to share your expertise. The best of both worlds. Job well done?

hawkeye21

(284 posts)
6. I know a fat orange man who wouldn't do anything like that even if he could . . .
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 03:20 PM
Aug 2024

And he's two years younger than you.

Thank you for your service. You are what this country is really all about. And may you live long and continue to prosper.

barbtries

(29,939 posts)
7. you have really gone above and beyond.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 03:42 PM
Aug 2024

thank you. I'll be 69 this month and couldn't even begin to fathom doing what you were just last night! that's wild.

COL Mustard

(6,963 posts)
12. Thank you for serving.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 04:01 PM
Aug 2024

You have given a lifetime of service, you've earned the chance to sit down and put your feet up. Let the young 'uns have their turn.

Mr.Bill

(24,849 posts)
13. Thank you for your service.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 04:02 PM
Aug 2024

When I retired I volunteered at our local hospital. I ran the waiting room for a small hospital in our small town, but only on Mondays. Easy job, but I'm not an early morning person and I had to be there at 5:30 am., but only on that day. I only did it for six years but then Covid shut down the volunteer program. I'm currently researching new volunteer jobs where we live now. Thanks for inspiring me to keep volunteering. I just turned 71.

Hope22

(3,082 posts)
14. My heart goes out to you. You are sooo much more than average.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 04:06 PM
Aug 2024

Thank you for all that you have done to make this world a better place. Congratulations to you and to President Biden for carrying it all until the time came to say enough! 💗💗💗🙏🏼💐

gademocrat7

(11,206 posts)
15. Thank you
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 04:08 PM
Aug 2024

for rendering aid to the people in your community. You have a true servant’s heart. Enjoy retirement.

Botany

(72,639 posts)
17. Real leadership is quite and does it by example
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 04:11 PM
Aug 2024

both you and President Biden are examples of
real leadership.

On behalf of your co workers, your community,
and your friends here on DU thank you. And I hope you and your wife have a beautiful fall and one day when the sky is the bluest blue, the leaves are in color, and the temperature is
perfect you guys get to sit out and relax.

PatrickforB

(15,125 posts)
18. Yep. After 36 years in public service, I'll be stepping down at the end of next year.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 04:13 PM
Aug 2024

It has been a great ride, but as Steely Dan sang so long ago:

The world that we used to know
People tell me it don't turn no more
The places we used to go
Familiar faces that ain't smilin' like before
The time of our time has come and gone
I fear we been waiting too long

I've been midnight cruisin' for a long time, and going into my late sixties. Nearly time to move on...

As to you, that is a pretty amazing story of selfless service. Good for you! And bless you for all the lives you've helped save. I've always felt we all create ripples through our actions, our words, and yes, even our thoughts. Think of all the ripples those who serve have created. I have often told young professionals I train that you never know but what some little thing you say or do can literally make a lifetime of difference for someone.

We cannot forget that. Ever.

OldBaldy1701E

(6,555 posts)
21. Yes, but it isn't that difficult to tell them.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 04:43 PM
Aug 2024
I have often told young professionals I train that you never know but what some little thing you say or do can literally make a lifetime of difference for someone.


I agree with you, but it sure helps the person having the impact when they are told that something they did had a positive effect on someone. Otherwise, one tends to go around with the thought that nothing they do has or ever will matter.

And that leads to 'why bother?'.

ArkansasDemocrat1

(3,213 posts)
19. Heh, I'm just hoping to -live- to 80
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 04:17 PM
Aug 2024

No idea of what I'm predisposed for as I age, no family history. So I'm hoping for 20 more years with my wife til 80.

usonian

(14,512 posts)
23. Joe will achieve all his goals, without the howler monkeys and haters on his back.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 04:49 PM
Aug 2024

He will have broken the glass barrier for presidents, and will have beaten Trump (again) WITHOUT EVEN RUNNING.

The greatest.

onetexan

(13,912 posts)
26. Thank you for your volunteer service sir, and thank you for the reminder to everyone to appreciate our GREAT Prez Biden.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 05:07 PM
Aug 2024

yardwork

(64,686 posts)
27. And this is the BEST of America. You and Joe Biden and countless others.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 05:09 PM
Aug 2024

Decent, honest, hardworking people who give their best. You are what makes America great. Not the MAGATs, not Trump, not the complainers.

THANK YOU.

Rocknation

(44,885 posts)
31. Biden was right. And brave. And clever.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 05:22 PM
Aug 2024

Clever enough to leave Trump on the ballot as the OTHER candidate who was too old and cognitively impaired to be fit to hold public office.

I think we were ALL psy-opped, possibly with the help with Barack "The Rope-A-Dope Kid" Obama. But I'm not complaining...


Rocknation

surfered

(3,677 posts)
34. You went above and beyond my friend! Aging comes without a manual because we are all different.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 05:35 PM
Aug 2024

I’m a little behind you, but I notice I’m slowing down. I could blame Covid, heat, travel with the wife and lack of quality surf, but Father Time is a MF.

calimary

(84,573 posts)
35. Yep. Torches are meant to be passed gracefully.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 05:36 PM
Aug 2024

And with love and with care. That’s a symbolic passage that is as significant as anyone can imagine it gets.

wblffmike

(3 posts)
37. Congratulations!
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 07:05 PM
Aug 2024

I was a paid oncall firefighter/EMT for 26 years, retiring at 61 years age. For you to do it until 80 is impressive. I remember the feeling of rolling the stretcher across uneven ground. Enjoy your retirement!

democratsruletheday

(1,229 posts)
38. You don't sound like an 'Avg.OldGuy' to me....
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 07:09 PM
Aug 2024

far from it, what a difference you've made in countless lives. Enjoy your semi-retirement, you've earned it.

onecaliberal

(36,264 posts)
39. President Biden is the most consequential President in my life to now.
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 07:53 PM
Aug 2024

President Biden made a conscious decision because he is a selfless man. I can’t think of another man that is capable of making such a decision.

markodochartaigh

(2,221 posts)
42. Back before I retired as a registered nurse in
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 10:16 PM
Aug 2024

Texas, I knew a number of nurses, and ancillary staff who still worked past 70. Nursing used to not pay that much, indeed where I worked we were forced to work unpaid overtime and paid straight time instead of time and a half when we were paid. Also, until the last decade or so home prices in most of Texas hadn't ballooned, so there wasn't some gigantic nest egg from paying off a house. Now that I'm pushing 70, I don't know how they did it.

h2ebits

(774 posts)
41. Absolutely correct thing for you to do
Mon Aug 19, 2024, 08:13 PM
Aug 2024

I have been and will continue to be a Joe Biden fan. He is correct to be taking care of himself by resigning at the end of his term.

There is too much going on the world right now for his attention to be diverted to the campaign trail and we need him now to be the President.

And, congratulations to you for recognizing that you are done and acting on it.

MLAA

(18,659 posts)
46. You are going to need to change your user name. You are clearly NOT average in any way!
Tue Aug 20, 2024, 07:08 AM
Aug 2024

May I suggest: WAYWAYWAYaboveaverageoldguy

et tu

(1,889 posts)
48. rural areas are in great need
Tue Aug 20, 2024, 08:43 AM
Aug 2024

of volunteers and you have given your all!
our bodies may wear out, but not our spirits!

dameatball

(7,603 posts)
49. You sir, are far from average. Well done.
Tue Aug 20, 2024, 09:28 AM
Aug 2024

I spent about seven years in Damascus, VA. Rural Virginia is beautiful.

Siwsan

(27,338 posts)
50. I wonder if there was a lot of strategy behind Joe's deciding to withdraw
Tue Aug 20, 2024, 09:35 AM
Aug 2024

Like maybe the decision was made well ahead of the announcement because they knew the effect it would have. It might have been an epic psych out.

It certainly shook up the convicted felon's plans.

Congrats on your retirement!!

Ocelot II

(121,374 posts)
51. You are far more than an average old guy,
Tue Aug 20, 2024, 09:56 AM
Aug 2024

and you've more than earned your retirement. In large and small ways we all have to be able to figure out when it's time to hang it up. In his late 80s, my dad was still driving, and he loved his car and the freedom it gave him. He had moved to a senior apartment after my mom died, and he kept active and liked to get out during the day (he wouldn't drive at night). But one day he had an accident. It wasn't serious, just a fender-bender, but it damaged someone else's car a bit as well as his own. And then he understood that the accident happened because he wasn't seeing as well or reacting as quickly as he used to, so he decided to stop driving and sell the car. I know it was hard for him ; he didn't like having to rely on others in order to go anywhere - but we didn't have to talk him into it or take the keys away from him. I guess in a small way that was a little bit like your retirement or Biden's decision; if we have enough self-awareness we'll give up the keys ourselves, gracefully.

CoopersDad

(2,915 posts)
53. Proud to be Rec #300
Tue Aug 20, 2024, 10:04 AM
Aug 2024

It rarely gets this high, your post deserves to be seen, read, and followed.

Thank you for your remarkable service.

chia

(2,399 posts)
56. You are an extraordinary all day every day hero. Thank you for your service to your country and community.
Tue Aug 20, 2024, 12:46 PM
Aug 2024
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