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The shooter's mother was armed to the teeth (Original Post) brentspeak Dec 2012 OP
because they caused them. Cooley Hurd Dec 2012 #1
Because her son murdered her with them. That's why...n/t CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2012 #2
Oh, picky picky picky. Indeed. He used them to murder her, then took them and murdered children. uppityperson Dec 2012 #3
What is your point, brentspeak? DemoTex Dec 2012 #4
It's gonna be a long night for the gungeoneers...eom Kolesar Dec 2012 #13
good point La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2012 #5
You're not making sense. Do you believe guns are magical talismans? nt rDigital Dec 2012 #6
That's the point. HAVING A GUN DOESN'T KEEP YOU SAFE OR CONFER ANY SPECIAL PROTECTION ON YOU! baldguy Dec 2012 #10
I don't think she had them on her though. nt rDigital Dec 2012 #11
He did and look what happened. aandegoons Dec 2012 #30
Uh huh...sure. nt rDigital Dec 2012 #31
You had your part in this murder. aandegoons Dec 2012 #32
Statements like this are the reason you can't be taken seriously. nt rDigital Dec 2012 #33
I think kid grew up in gun culture, and look what happened. Hoyt Dec 2012 #17
If only she had more guns! baldguy Dec 2012 #7
So now she's the villain? Union Scribe Dec 2012 #8
She was a gun owner ...... oldhippie Dec 2012 #9
Are you saying the massacre yesterday wasn't a crime? baldguy Dec 2012 #27
Has it actually been proven those guns were hers and not left behind when.... OldDem2012 Dec 2012 #34
Yes, she was a victim brentspeak Dec 2012 #12
Blame the victim is running rampant on DU today ProgressiveProfessor Dec 2012 #18
Do you deny that the weapons brentspeak Dec 2012 #23
That is not clear at this point...and dog piling the dead is at best unseemly until we know more ProgressiveProfessor Dec 2012 #26
If SHE owned the guns and SHE let them fall into the hands of kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #25
it doesn't have to be one or the other JI7 Dec 2012 #28
Perhaps she knew what her son was. bklyncowgirl Dec 2012 #14
She probably bought them for the boys. nt rrneck Dec 2012 #15
I wonder why she was "armed to the teeth"? n/t Cerridwen Dec 2012 #16
I am too ProgressiveProfessor Dec 2012 #19
Very little gets past "the children." Cerridwen Dec 2012 #24
This message was self-deleted by its author dionysus Dec 2012 #20
have some class now. nt dionysus Dec 2012 #21
From 1995 to 2000 an average of 4 to 5 children died every day in nonhomicide firearm incidents upi402 Dec 2012 #22
More guns in the house makes you & your family less safe. baldguy Dec 2012 #29
 

baldguy

(36,649 posts)
10. That's the point. HAVING A GUN DOESN'T KEEP YOU SAFE OR CONFER ANY SPECIAL PROTECTION ON YOU!
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:21 PM
Dec 2012

In fact, having a gun makes you LESS SAFE.

aandegoons

(473 posts)
30. He did and look what happened.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 07:49 AM
Dec 2012

And you sitting right there enabling the next one. Your finger was on that trigger just like it will be on the next...

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
17. I think kid grew up in gun culture, and look what happened.
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:46 PM
Dec 2012

Just a few days ago, one of Gungeoneers was talking about how he was going to leave his weapons cache to his kids and grandkids. How friggin nice of him. Hope they grow up and tell him they don't want his damn lethal weapons.

OldDem2012

(3,526 posts)
34. Has it actually been proven those guns were hers and not left behind when....
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 02:27 PM
Dec 2012

her husband left home prior to their divorce? Has it been proven she bought any of those guns, some of the guns, or any of the guns?

We have a ton of speculation in the press about who owned the guns but like most parts of this story, we have a real shortage of verifiable facts.

To be honest, the only thing we know for sure is that Adam Lanza became a mass murderer using weapons that he took from his mother's house. That's it.

brentspeak

(18,290 posts)
12. Yes, she was a victim
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:24 PM
Dec 2012

There's no question about that.

My post makes a facetious reference to the circular and cliched illogic that "if only someone had a gun, someone could have stopped the killer". Her weapons, supposedly purchased to protect herself, were all-too easily turned against her and the many other innocent victims.

ProgressiveProfessor

(22,144 posts)
18. Blame the victim is running rampant on DU today
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 11:10 PM
Dec 2012

What we know about seems odd collection for someone who is not a shooting enthusiasm of some sort. Looking for more data to come out on what all she had, how they were stored, and why she had them.

brentspeak

(18,290 posts)
23. Do you deny that the weapons
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 11:24 PM
Dec 2012

were not secured enough from a clearly deranged member of the household?

The mother being a victim is incidental. In another reality, she would not have been shot, yet I would have posted the exact same thread. The issue still remains.

ProgressiveProfessor

(22,144 posts)
26. That is not clear at this point...and dog piling the dead is at best unseemly until we know more
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 12:13 AM
Dec 2012

That the son was deranged is also premature.

- We know she was the registered owner of the three weapons
- We do not know which ones were used
- We do not know if there were more in the home
- We do not know why she had them
- We do not know how they were stored
- We do not know how the son had access to them

At this point it seems to me to be more productive to mourn the victims while the facts emerge and not knee jerk blame the apparent first victim.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
25. If SHE owned the guns and SHE let them fall into the hands of
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 11:44 PM
Dec 2012

a person who then murdered with them, she bears some responsibility.

Along with gun rights comes gun responsibility. You keep them LOCKED UP unless you are personally using them.

bklyncowgirl

(7,960 posts)
14. Perhaps she knew what her son was.
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:40 PM
Dec 2012

Is it possible that she thought she needed protection against her own child?

ProgressiveProfessor

(22,144 posts)
19. I am too
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 11:13 PM
Dec 2012

What we know about so far sounds like ones a shooting enthusiast of some sort would own.

Looking for more data to come out as to what else she might have owned, how they were stored and why she owned them.

As a parent I was amazed at how many of our secrets that our kids knew, including where the copy of the safe combination was stored.

Cerridwen

(13,258 posts)
24. Very little gets past "the children."
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 11:28 PM
Dec 2012

I'm surprised more people don't remember their own childhood when they become parents.

There are too many conflicting stories about this horrific event to come to a clear understanding at this point, if ever.

The mother was a teacher; no, a volunteer; no, no one at the school knew her. The shooter was the older brother; no, the younger; he was a good boy; no, he was "socially awkward"; no, he was autistic. And on and on.

Why was she "armed to the teeth"? I wonder if we'll ever know.

Response to brentspeak (Original post)

upi402

(16,854 posts)
22. From 1995 to 2000 an average of 4 to 5 children died every day in nonhomicide firearm incidents
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 11:23 PM
Dec 2012

and it hasn't gotten any better. more guns in the house don't make you safer.

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