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derby378

(30,252 posts)
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:23 PM Dec 2012

Yeah, it's me...

Go ahead. Blame my AK. Blame the latest Call of Duty videogame release. Blame those old, hyperviolent Popeye cartoons from the AAP studios if you like. Or better yet, just blame every liberal Democrat who owns a gun, already.

The smug self-righteousness of certain gun-grabbers is something we have tolerated for a long time because we actually believe in their Constitutional rights as well as our own. Just keep in mind that most of you DUers do not fall into the category I've just mentioned. Those of you whom I have met in person have been a swell bunch, and I'm glad to know each and every one of you.

You probably remember that my wife, ChickMagic, was a strong supporter of gun control. I'm a little surprised she never joined the Brady Campaign. But you know what? Even though we could disagree strongly on the issue of guns and the Second Amendment, we could discuss the issue like civilized human beings over pizza and sodas. And we even made each other think about our positions once in a while. Believe me, we'd both be furious over what happened in Newtown today, crying our eyes out and hurling curses at the shooter. And I've already shed my tears for those poor kids and their families, pleading with God to bring a measure of solace to those who have had their lives shattered by this tragedy.

But now is not the time to go all Chicken Little on the Constitution. If I remember correctly, the Columbine tragedy happened at a time when our nation's gun laws were at their strongest. The moment we throw reason and justice to the wind and start screaming for the head of every gun owner in America regardless of race, gender, or party affiliation, we are allowing long-dormant demons to awaken and seize control of our mental faculties.

You want laws that would make it harder for the next Lanza to get hold of those weapons? I'm listening. You want improved mental-health screenings to be part of every instant background check? We can look into that. Just because I own a Kalashnikov does not mean that my heart is not sickened by what unfolded today. I want something meaningful done to head off the next VTech, the next Columbine, the next Newtown.

But if all you want is a scapegoat that you can blame this massacre on, look no further than the Lanza family. The answer is in that dysfunctional family dynamic somewhere, and if we can all just calm down long enough for the truth to come out about the Lanzas, I think it will - and it will be a sorry story, indeed.

I need to relax. No, I need to vent my rage. No, I need to shed a few more tears. No, I need to be still. I'm as torn up about Newtown as the rest of you. Surprise? I'm human, after all.

And you folks are my friends. I love you. Without you, DU would be an electronic vacant lot. You make DU what it is.

I'm spent. Off the soapbox now...

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Yeah, it's me... (Original Post) derby378 Dec 2012 OP
How often does your militia meet? HERVEPA Dec 2012 #1
Well, you and I are talking right now... derby378 Dec 2012 #3
It is meeting right now! cleanhippie Dec 2012 #11
It meets every time two or more people interact, including right here and now. slackmaster Dec 2012 #33
It's not about you, but I can tell from your post that you realize that BeyondGeography Dec 2012 #2
I appreciate that greatly derby378 Dec 2012 #6
The gungeon is that way ----> To the right. morningfog Dec 2012 #4
Deal with it, bucko... derby378 Dec 2012 #5
A perfect example of why we cannot have a serious conversation on this subject. cleanhippie Dec 2012 #9
Kidergarden? Sick shit. morningfog Dec 2012 #10
Day care? cleanhippie Dec 2012 #13
You are too cute by half. Still sick. morningfog Dec 2012 #16
Still unsure why saying you belong in preschool is "sick shit." cleanhippie Dec 2012 #27
he or she is thinking your reference to where children gather- in light of... stlsaxman Dec 2012 #36
Thats a stretch. cleanhippie Dec 2012 #39
Dude, recognize that most of the kids killed were in kindergarten. Barack_America Dec 2012 #44
First grade actually. : ( nt rDigital Dec 2012 #45
Yeah, I suppose I can see that. cleanhippie Dec 2012 #47
Unbelievable, isn't it? cordelia Dec 2012 #31
I hope Skinner sees it, TheCowsCameHome Dec 2012 #32
Hope springs eternal. cordelia Dec 2012 #35
I concur. 99Forever Dec 2012 #42
yikes. Gidney N Cloyd Dec 2012 #18
What a nasty thing to post. myrna minx Dec 2012 #26
And they act like they don't understand. These people. morningfog Dec 2012 #29
It's no act. TheCowsCameHome Dec 2012 #46
That is sick beyond belief. TheCowsCameHome Dec 2012 #30
Here is the BIGGEST hug you will ever get! cleanhippie Dec 2012 #7
Thanks, friend (n/t) derby378 Dec 2012 #15
Love? uh huh...sure... marions ghost Dec 2012 #8
The well regulated militia isn't regulated at all. RomneyLies Dec 2012 #12
Here's one thing that might help... derby378 Dec 2012 #14
Apparently, the mother of today's shooter had these guns in her house with him living there RomneyLies Dec 2012 #17
I think we have a starting point for a serious conversation on gun laws derby378 Dec 2012 #19
Here's another point. If you are on the terrorist watch list, ... RomneyLies Dec 2012 #21
Due process derby378 Dec 2012 #22
You are thinking the "no-fly list" RomneyLies Dec 2012 #24
Alright, who left the lid open? TheCowsCameHome Dec 2012 #20
La tapa esta abierta! nt greyl Dec 2012 #28
The 2nd Amendment is safe, if that's what you're upset about. Honeycombe8 Dec 2012 #23
don't run. we are your friends tiny elvis Dec 2012 #25
Pfffft! derby378 Dec 2012 #41
The problem is that rational discourse disappears when the swarming at either or both ends starts. hobbit709 Dec 2012 #34
I just to know why it is so important for anyone to have easy access to assault weapons. mmonk Dec 2012 #37
When you call us gun-grabbers, you lose us. DainBramaged Dec 2012 #38
Look, I know you have strong feelings about gun control... derby378 Dec 2012 #40
Its a conflict between "rights" and which is greater? My right to live or your right to carry a gun? riderinthestorm Dec 2012 #43

BeyondGeography

(39,374 posts)
2. It's not about you, but I can tell from your post that you realize that
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:29 PM
Dec 2012

Here's the school principal who died; look what a beautiful soul she was; let's argue another day and keep the focus where it belongs for now:

derby378

(30,252 posts)
6. I appreciate that greatly
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:33 PM
Dec 2012

The principal looks like an old friend of mine. She was never a teacher, I don't think, but she loves children and loves to stimulate their minds with scientific stuff, especially anything that has to do with dinosaurs.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
9. A perfect example of why we cannot have a serious conversation on this subject.
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:35 PM
Dec 2012

Kindergarden is that way---->

stlsaxman

(9,236 posts)
36. he or she is thinking your reference to where children gather- in light of...
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 10:04 AM
Dec 2012

where the shooting occurred- is sick...?

Barack_America

(28,876 posts)
44. Dude, recognize that most of the kids killed were in kindergarten.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 04:22 PM
Dec 2012

So yeah, that's why people are taking offense to you directing them to "kindergarten".

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
47. Yeah, I suppose I can see that.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 06:51 PM
Dec 2012

But its not what I meant. And taken in context to the post I responded to which was nothing but a childish insult...

cordelia

(2,174 posts)
35. Hope springs eternal.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 09:52 AM
Dec 2012

That posting is about as odious as anything I've ever seen on this site.

Take care.

 

RomneyLies

(3,333 posts)
12. The well regulated militia isn't regulated at all.
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:36 PM
Dec 2012

It's time for some regulation and we need to do it well.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
14. Here's one thing that might help...
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:41 PM
Dec 2012

Seung-hui Cho was only able to shoot up VTech in 2007 because his mental health records were kept out of the public record by his counselor. They were at the guy's house, for fuck's sake. Why?!?

I would like to see all of our mental health records centralized and make part of any NICS background check. What'll it do, add may 10-15 seconds to the check as the databases are accessed? An extra 10 seconds could have saved all those students at VTech.

 

RomneyLies

(3,333 posts)
17. Apparently, the mother of today's shooter had these guns in her house with him living there
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:46 PM
Dec 2012

And deja vu, he had been diagnosed with mental instability.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
19. I think we have a starting point for a serious conversation on gun laws
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:50 PM
Dec 2012

Lanza's mom might have been legally able to own those weapons, but what the hell? If he was mentally ill or unstable, why did he have access to those guns?

I'd like to see other people take on the NICS issue and let's see where this goes. It could be a good law that saves lives.

 

RomneyLies

(3,333 posts)
21. Here's another point. If you are on the terrorist watch list, ...
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:56 PM
Dec 2012

your name will NOT be flagged during a background check for buying a gun.

How fucked up is that shit?

derby378

(30,252 posts)
22. Due process
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 10:59 PM
Dec 2012

Besides, those watch lists are totally fucked up. Ted Kennedy wound up on one of them. I don't trust them.

 

RomneyLies

(3,333 posts)
24. You are thinking the "no-fly list"
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 11:05 PM
Dec 2012

That's a far broader list than the terrorist watch list. The guy who did the bomb in a car thing in NYC was on the terrorist watch list.

At the very least I hope some alarms go off automatically in the FBI whenever somebody on that list tries to buy a gun, whether they are successful or not in buying one.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
23. The 2nd Amendment is safe, if that's what you're upset about.
Fri Dec 14, 2012, 11:03 PM
Dec 2012

There is zero chance that the 2nd Amendment is going to be abolished.

But you mentioned a few things in your post that are feasible to be done, and would probably prevent some deaths, and MAY prevent another mass murder incident. Stats do show that gun laws do result in decreased deaths-by-gun.

Glock...there's really no reason for a glock to be out in the public owned by private citizens. It has no civilian purpose, other than killing a lot of people. We used to have a ban on selling assault weapons. Maybe it's time to reinstate that.

Waiting several weeks between applying to buy a gun and picking it up would help prevent deaths in some instances.

Things like that would have an impact and make gun ownership more responsible and sane.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
41. Pfffft!
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 04:11 PM
Dec 2012

I'm not sure what the message is, but your post made me grin like an idiot. We need all the healing we can get, so I thank you.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
40. Look, I know you have strong feelings about gun control...
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 04:09 PM
Dec 2012

...but if you're not a gun-grabber, you shouldn't feel offended by my choice of verbiage.

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