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People with mental illness 'should get jobs with health insurance and take care of themselves' (Original Post) LuckyTheDog Dec 2012 OP
Sounds like a mental illness n/t Fumesucker Dec 2012 #1
I would dearly love to speak to that person... CBHagman Dec 2012 #2
Were you talking to my sisters? Cold people. nt Mnemosyne Dec 2012 #3
Apparently they are unaware of St. Ronnie Reagan Ilsa Dec 2012 #4
If we use the excellent Dyedinthewoolliberal Dec 2012 #5
+1 n/t area51 Dec 2012 #12
That right there.... frostfern Dec 2012 #6
Reader's Digest version: our society is well and truly fucked in the head - n/t coalition_unwilling Dec 2012 #31
I always thought these assholes live in a parallel universe. lpbk2713 Dec 2012 #7
Lock this guy in a cell with the naked guy who tried to eat somebody's face. eppur_se_muova Dec 2012 #8
Amen. DebJ Dec 2012 #23
If someone had said that to me today Zoeisright Dec 2012 #9
Stupid asshats! Most insurance doesn't cover psychiatric needs! DearHeart Dec 2012 #10
The ACA is changing that. Ins. policies will be required to provide some sort of Honeycombe8 Dec 2012 #13
That'll be great...once it takes effect! DearHeart Dec 2012 #16
Yes...I'm hanging on until the ACA is fully implemented. I'm older and am so afraid Honeycombe8 Dec 2012 #17
Yes my name if from the movie/song Dear Heart...one of my favorites! DearHeart Dec 2012 #18
I love that movie. I recorded it to DVD from TCM. As for COBRA... Honeycombe8 Dec 2012 #19
I also recorded it to DVD from TCM, never seen it for sale anywhere on DVD. DearHeart Dec 2012 #25
No, Dear Heart is not on DVD. And the only VHS you can get is used. Honeycombe8 Dec 2012 #26
I'm so glad that we both got this movie!! DearHeart Dec 2012 #34
We will be paying $18000 a year for health insurance beginning this March for two years DebJ Dec 2012 #24
tell me they were not on DU Skittles Dec 2012 #11
OP thread title sounds like beginning of a joke that needs a punch line...nt fadedrose Dec 2012 #14
That's the cancer this country suffers from. dawg Dec 2012 #15
Hell, I can't find a job. white_wolf Dec 2012 #20
Gross. Can you do me a favor, and Quantess Dec 2012 #21
I have bipolar II syndrome, a full time job, and pay for my BCBSM coverage out of pocket. Denninmi Dec 2012 #22
You rock. napoleon_in_rags Dec 2012 #27
It was like walking a minefield covered in broken glass and cobras. Denninmi Dec 2012 #32
I have the same mental health issue as you, and I'm arguing the mental health angle. napoleon_in_rags Dec 2012 #35
Thanks. I find it rather hard to chill about this. Denninmi Dec 2012 #36
Here's the thing you need to know about better supports for mentally ill: napoleon_in_rags Dec 2012 #41
I'm having a great deal of trouble envisioning the "no stigma" part, first and foremost. Denninmi Dec 2012 #43
No, you're totally right. napoleon_in_rags Dec 2012 #44
My problem is the reach is likely to be much greater than the problem. HereSince1628 Dec 2012 #38
It could go that way, but it just doesn't have to be like that. napoleon_in_rags Dec 2012 #39
Mean-sprited though this will sound, I hope severe mental illness visits coalition_unwilling Dec 2012 #28
Why do we have to share this country with idiots like this? AZ Progressive Dec 2012 #29
I wonder if that person knows one of my former bosses who said those who coalition_unwilling Dec 2012 #30
People like that are why we have mass shootings - n/t lbrtbell Dec 2012 #33
Heh--some of them already have jobs--as bosses librechik Dec 2012 #37
You can't fix stupid etherealtruth Dec 2012 #40
wtf? zappaman Dec 2012 #42

CBHagman

(16,986 posts)
2. I would dearly love to speak to that person...
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 12:12 AM
Dec 2012

...both from the perspective of someone who screens job applicants and someone who deals with insurance companies.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
4. Apparently they are unaware of St. Ronnie Reagan
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 12:15 AM
Dec 2012

Defunding and Closing the mental hospitals, or that mentally I'll people might be disabled and unable to work, among other factors.
Geesh.

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(15,577 posts)
5. If we use the excellent
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 12:18 AM
Dec 2012

problem solving technique called 'root cause analysis' so popular in some manufacturing concerns, I think we'd find the shooters mental illness as the root cause of todays tragedy.
Treating it is time consuming and expensive. As a nation we deserve better. This issue has to rise to the top of the list. We have no idea how many unexploded time bombs are walking around in our society today. It can only get worse...........

frostfern

(67 posts)
6. That right there....
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 12:18 AM
Dec 2012

is what causes people to snap and go on shooting sprees like the one that happened today. There is something very wrong with American culture. Our society causes mental illness in those susceptible to estrangement. We create a unique kind of hell for those who for whatever reason just can't function in our soul crushing society.

lpbk2713

(42,759 posts)
7. I always thought these assholes live in a parallel universe.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:07 AM
Dec 2012



Every now and then I hear them say something like this and I know my belief is confirmed.


eppur_se_muova

(36,269 posts)
8. Lock this guy in a cell with the naked guy who tried to eat somebody's face.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:33 AM
Dec 2012

That should give him some perspective on mental illness.

DearHeart

(692 posts)
10. Stupid asshats! Most insurance doesn't cover psychiatric needs!
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 03:26 AM
Dec 2012

So, yes, everyone is essentially is taking care of themselves" or their GP is prescribing psychiatric drugs without the proper training and/or knowledge needed to prescribe correctly, and therein lies the damn problem!

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
13. The ACA is changing that. Ins. policies will be required to provide some sort of
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 12:18 PM
Dec 2012

mental health services. At least that's what I read.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
17. Yes...I'm hanging on until the ACA is fully implemented. I'm older and am so afraid
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 12:09 AM
Dec 2012

I'll lose my job and have to spend my life savings on insurance. Maybe the ACA won't help me much, but it's something. And I may need to go to a therapist, if that happens.

Is your pseudonym from the movie/song Dear Heart?

DearHeart

(692 posts)
18. Yes my name if from the movie/song Dear Heart...one of my favorites!
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 12:30 AM
Dec 2012

I am out of work right now and COBRA will run out on Jan 2nd. Don't know what I'm going to do. Can't find anything and only had 1 interview; so horrible out here still!

I hope that you don't have any problems with your job!! I'm hoping the ACA will help a lot of people, like you said, it's something...better than nothing!

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
19. I love that movie. I recorded it to DVD from TCM. As for COBRA...
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 01:18 AM
Dec 2012

COBRA is so expensive. You can probably find another policy on yur own for less. www.healthcare.gov.

People say it's important not to let your ins. lapse and to move from one policy into another with no break in coverage. Otherwise, it's harder to get coverage.

DearHeart

(692 posts)
25. I also recorded it to DVD from TCM, never seen it for sale anywhere on DVD.
Mon Dec 17, 2012, 02:54 AM
Dec 2012

Thanks for the info. I'm going to try and get my insurance company to sign me up to at least a short term policy...but then again, they'll probably say I have a pre-existing condition. Wish that took effect with the ACA in 2013 instead of 2014. I hope they'll do it!!

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
26. No, Dear Heart is not on DVD. And the only VHS you can get is used.
Mon Dec 17, 2012, 03:01 AM
Dec 2012

It is not duplicated or sold any longer. I investigated this in some old movie forums. It seems the company that made the movie went out of business or something, and whoever has the rights, if anyone, cannot duplicate it or sell it because of some reason that I forget.

It also doesn't come on TCM very often. So I consider myself lucky that I ran across it in time to record it. It's like gold to me.

DearHeart

(692 posts)
34. I'm so glad that we both got this movie!!
Mon Dec 17, 2012, 11:03 PM
Dec 2012

I never understood why it wasn't released on DVD. So many people love this movie and I always have people asking me if my "name" is for the movie! I'm going to check into the rights and who owns the rights, just cuz I'm curious as to why they cannot duplicate or sell.

Thank God for TCM!

DebJ

(7,699 posts)
24. We will be paying $18000 a year for health insurance beginning this March for two years
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 01:49 AM
Dec 2012

My husband's chronic kidney disease has advanced and so he has to retire at age 63,
two years before Medicare (unless he goes on dialysis; which we are working as hard
as we can to delay/prevent), so we have to go Cobra, and that is
the annual cost.....until September, when I just pray to God that it doesn't go up.

It's MORE than a house payment.

Plus retiring early costs us $500 a month in social security benefits and $500 a month
in lost pension.

Lose $1000 a month in income, pay $1500 more in expenses. Great deal!

dawg

(10,624 posts)
15. That's the cancer this country suffers from.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 12:20 PM
Dec 2012

I can understand why the plutocrats push this kind of thinking. I am at a loss to understand why so many working class people fall for it.

white_wolf

(6,238 posts)
20. Hell, I can't find a job.
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 01:19 AM
Dec 2012

It's got to be even harder if you have a mental illness. Do these people think before they speak?

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
21. Gross. Can you do me a favor, and
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 01:25 AM
Dec 2012

let them know that I think they are a gross excuse for a human being?

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
22. I have bipolar II syndrome, a full time job, and pay for my BCBSM coverage out of pocket.
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 01:41 AM
Dec 2012

Geesh, the teabaggers and freepers need to get a life.

I went to work some evenings AFTER spending the day at the psych ward day program. Because the world moves along no matter what, and there were deadlines to meet. Pleadings and filings to draft, tax returns and IRS collections cases that needed attention, several estate plans to draft, a couple of deeds.

Was it easy, no, especially in light of the fact I had been locking myself in my office a few weeks prior out of extreme anxiety.

Got done at the psych ward on Friday pm, was back to work Monday regular schedule.

Here's an irony, my taxes probably pay for the Medicare, Medicaid, and SSI/SSDI some of these people get while they complain about "freeloaders".

So, to those with the attitude of "get a job" I say bite me. I've got one, what's your excuse?

napoleon_in_rags

(3,991 posts)
27. You rock.
Mon Dec 17, 2012, 04:53 AM
Dec 2012

A lot of people don't know that people who suffer from mental illness can be, and often are, totally independent self sustaining members of society. The problem is, for a lot of folks its skating on thin ice: If the anxiety gets so bad you lose your job before you get treatment, than you can't get treatment and its a downward spiral from there. I'm saying 'you rock' because it sounds like you stepped over all of that. I've been in the same boat and I know how hard it is to do that.

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
32. It was like walking a minefield covered in broken glass and cobras.
Mon Dec 17, 2012, 05:03 AM
Dec 2012

It was damned hard, and I got through it because luck was on my side at a couple of critical junctures.

Only to be told I'm so much dangerous sub-human trash who should be locked away for the good of society, because of one man's actions and one meme from the gun lobby.

Because, you know, the fact that this country is armed to the teeth isn't the problem, it's all of us crazy folks running around that are the real problem.

I'm no one's second class citizen.

Anyone who thinks I am can go fuck off.

napoleon_in_rags

(3,991 posts)
35. I have the same mental health issue as you, and I'm arguing the mental health angle.
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 08:09 AM
Dec 2012

I've suffered from the anxiety disorders, so I've been on Citralopram and the rest. But I'm also a mental health worker, and that means in addition to folks like you and me, or the poor depressive folks, or so many other non-violent folks with some minor mind issues, I deal with people who are schizophrenics, violent psychotics, etc. In a sense these people are like you and me, but their disorder takes them to far scarier places, places where they will lash out and attack the demons around them, without seeing that those demons are actually people. The truth is that these are good hearted people, but without proper supports they can pose a threat. Unfortunately we have been cutting those supports for some time.

When I went to a counselor for my anxiety disorder, she taught me this exercise where I find a place in my body that doesn't have anxiety, and move my consciousness there. (for me usually my thigh for some reason) Its a cool exercise to try next time you feel anxiety, if you haven't heard of it. But as for the mental health aspect of this debate, DC can no longer afford to listen to blowhards when Phd experts are available, and they know that. And the experts know what I know; the particular mental illnesses this debate is about - and guess what: its not about you. so relax, listen to some music and move you're consciousness to a peace place within you. You're not trash.

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
36. Thanks. I find it rather hard to chill about this.
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 11:12 AM
Dec 2012

I tend to take it personally when random strangers tell me I should be wearing a scarlet letter and put on a registry. Because I take 300 mgs of lamictal daily? If someone can tell me my other crimes, I would like to know, because I sure don't remember committing any.

So, we're going to move to the type of society that reduces or eliminates rights and freedoms, or worse, not because of what a person does, but who they are? Like Germany, or Rwanda, or Afghanistan under the Taliban?

Music. Chill. I'll try.

napoleon_in_rags

(3,991 posts)
41. Here's the thing you need to know about better supports for mentally ill:
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 07:38 PM
Dec 2012

They would reduce crime.

Why? Because first and foremost they would result in people with mental illness being the victims of less crimes.

That's the thing you need to understand about what I'm advocating: Its not involuntary incarceration in mental institution, its voluntary trade - you agree to certain guidelines in order to receive supports. You get a system where they can talk to counselors, etc.

So lets look at you in relation to what I'm advocating. First of all, you never lost your job so you never needed desperate support, so you don't even apply. But suppose you did. You lose your job, your feeling desperate, so you apply for the supports. You agree to hand in your weapons, stop consuming drugs and alcohol, and in turn you receive some assistance with living and meds, and counselor. You work with a job counselor, get another job so you no longer need financial supports. At this point almost no guideline restraints apply to you. You can drink, and so forth. You see a counselor for the next few months, and then you're out, back on your feet, no stigma, no more guidelines because you're independent.

Is that so scary?

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
43. I'm having a great deal of trouble envisioning the "no stigma" part, first and foremost.
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 08:36 PM
Dec 2012

In this society, I think it's wishful thinking at best. In a perfect world, yes, but based on the ugliness I've seen right here on DU the past few days it makes me think it's not likely to happen.

Since you're the mental health professional, I'll demure to your judgement, but I do question why access to health care has to come with "strings attached"? It seems to me that people have to want to do something, forcing them to do something against their will never seem to work long-term in my experience.

napoleon_in_rags

(3,991 posts)
44. No, you're totally right.
Wed Dec 19, 2012, 07:30 PM
Dec 2012

"forcing them to do something against their will never seem to work long-term in my experience."

The number one driving all people lash out (esp. mentally ill) is the feeling of being unheard, the feeling of being totally powerless. That's why the deal, the trade is so important.

Its bizarre when you first see this work. I remember seeing a situation on video where a mentally ill guy was waving a knife, police were standing back with guns drawn. (really a seemingly rational response) but then a little female cop with mental health training walked up with no gun, smiled, and made a deal with him to hand over the knife, for something like a cookie. The guy felt empowered because he had the power to make or not make a deal, gave her the knife and took the cookie.

The cop was bold, and I don't recommend that as a policy for police, but it shows the key psychological technique for de-escalation: Make people feel heard, give people a sense of empowerment over their own lives.

In my opinion, the way to do mental health outreach is to offer people protection and support. And to make them understand that they have to trade some things for that protection and support, a choice they make. And then its key that they deliver, too. I'll never forget one woman I saw, who was clearly mentally ill, standing in her front yard, yelling at me as I passed. She had no supports, just a "normal" person. Unfortunately for her, she was also very attractive. I thought I saw a car circling her house, and could just imagine the predators sneaking around thinking "nobody will be believe her if she tells, she's crazy." I tried to start a conversation but couldn't, so there was nothing I could do, I moved on, knowing the police were aware now. What's totally unacceptable to me is the idea of somebody like that seeking support, only to get "loon: do not sell weapons to" stamped on her ID, and being pushed back out on the streets to be raped, totally unable to defend herself. So protection and supports means overt protection and supports. Even common sense things like issuing cell phones with a support person to talk to could make a difference in a dangerous situation.

Which brings us to the last thing, stigma. When somebody sees somebody getting treated, the idea should be that here is a person getting supports, like a senior, guy in wheelchair, or kid. The corresponding attitude should be the same. When a person no longer needs supports, the idea should be like somebody who had an accident, needed crutches for awhile, but no longer does. Its important for people receiving supports, like any disabled person, to have hope that they can at some point overcome their disability.

Okay, sorry to make you the target of a long, coffee fuel rant, but I feel like I got all the ranting off my chest. No more DU for me for awhile! DU addition is one of my own issues, I have to manage it carefully!

Peace

HereSince1628

(36,063 posts)
38. My problem is the reach is likely to be much greater than the problem.
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 12:40 PM
Dec 2012

People with the delusional disorders you seem to refer to, whose aggression is reactive and immediate, seem unlikely to plan and implement a mass murder.

Yet, the available evidence about aggressive violence targeted at others by the mentally ill suggests much of it, maybe the largest fraction of it, is mostly about violence against caregivers and co-habitators. The sort of thing that places clinicians and corrections officers in a path to see it.

I really have doubts about lawmakers and their 20-something clerks being able to really understand what they read. Considering pressure that will be applied from Homeland Security, the FBI, and the constabulary, I don't trust them to bother with differentiating types of hostility with respect to reactivity, targeting etc..

I can't imagine that requiring reporting of mental conditions would be limited to the conditions most linked to planned, targeted aggression in public places.

In the interest of 'safety' and with 'an excess of caution' any net they create is going to be very large.

It's almost certain to include requirements for reporting all the illnesses most associated with criminal offenses.

It seems likely to me that it would include a wide array of affective disorders, and contrary to your opinion, would include bipolar disorder and other conditions that because they sometimes involve hostility (as opposed to acts of aggression) may have potential for violence. Of course it would include a handful of what have been considered Cluster A and B personality types. Indeed antisocial personality would seem of great interest to them to have as reportable.

And, ISTM, as they will want to be on the safe side there would likely to be a catch-all requirement that if a clinician 'feels'/judges a person represents a danger to others they are obligated under penalty of law to enter it into the system.

As a back up to catch things that go unreported there would probably be a pharmacy database which would be required to report purchases of controlled chemicals associated with treatments of some mental illnesses. Which in an excess of caution would probably include intoxicants and precursors of commonly abused substances since substance abuse has the highest correlation with aggressive violence toward others out in society.

I too would like to see gun violence reduced in America. But the best predictor of violence is previous acts of violence NOT a diagnosis with a mental illness. Targeting everyone labelled with one or more 'reportable' mental illnesses will sweep up a lot of people who we know from actuarial studies won't be violent.

What could go wrong?

Perhaps you've seen the way that police and security treat people that they suspect could be violent? It often isn't pretty. Imagine what could follow a check for outstanding warrants during a minor traffic stop that brings back an alert that the car is registered to a 'potentially violent' mental patient.

I have broad reservations about how this gets into surrendering rights to more than gun possession...what happens to rights to privacy, protection from prior restraint, and government targeting non-offenders as part of a 'class' that actuarially includes a fraction of offenders.

I have reservations about the potential social outcomes about this information spreading to 'other parties with valid interests'. And once society decides mental illness is a public concern there WILL be pressure to expand access to this data.

Imagine the damage that could befall a whole lot of people who have never done anything but be afflicted by a mental illness if this sort of information were made available to employers, financiers, or landlords?

napoleon_in_rags

(3,991 posts)
39. It could go that way, but it just doesn't have to be like that.
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 06:09 PM
Dec 2012

Last edited Tue Dec 18, 2012, 07:05 PM - Edit history (1)

What I envision is a system where family members of an individual can take that individual in, and have the individual provided supports in terms of living, meds help with finding employment, etc. Once the individual gets on his or her feet, and doesn't need the program, than the status of the individual goes to being exactly the same as every other member of society. If they need to go back in, they go back in.

You're right about the majority of people with mental illnesses, even the more severe ones, as not being dangerous. And many, like the many Americans who go to work every day but take some med sometimes for something, like this post, as basically being normal. But from the reports I've heard on Lanza so far, this guy was too messed up to hold down a job, or even socially interact. To me that should have been a sign that he should have been getting some kind of help.

Edit: Phamacy database? Really? God I hope they wouldn't be that dumb. "Don't take the meds, or THEY will know, and start to track you."

The best kind of loss prevention in stores is simply good customer service. Similarly, I believe the best way to prevent mentally ill violence is simply compassionate involvement. I can tell you there would be a big reduction in crime right off the bat. How? Mentally ill would be victims of less crimes. That's how. And if somebody has big problems, if they need something like involuntary incarceration, somebody would there to see it.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
28. Mean-sprited though this will sound, I hope severe mental illness visits
Mon Dec 17, 2012, 04:56 AM
Dec 2012

that person's family soon.

That's the only language assholes and douchenozzles understand.

AZ Progressive

(3,411 posts)
29. Why do we have to share this country with idiots like this?
Mon Dec 17, 2012, 04:56 AM
Dec 2012

I just can't believe the assholery and stupidity of so many people in this country, damnit.

 

coalition_unwilling

(14,180 posts)
30. I wonder if that person knows one of my former bosses who said those who
Mon Dec 17, 2012, 04:59 AM
Dec 2012

stayed behind during Katrina "deserved" what happened because they refused to leave.

I don't like to use the 'B*' word for women generally speaking but on this occasion I was sorely tempted. I actually walked out on the job without giving notice for related reasons a couple days later.

librechik

(30,674 posts)
37. Heh--some of them already have jobs--as bosses
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 11:37 AM
Dec 2012

and god knows how they got in those positions cough nepotism cough because it is very DIFFICULT to get hired if you are mentally ill.

Of course some jobs make you mentally ill--but that's another story!

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