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FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:06 AM Dec 2012

Sandy Hook mass murderer Adam Lanza, 20, 'deeply disturbed kid'

He was dark and disturbed, a deeply troubled boy from a wealthy family who unnerved his neighbors and classmates. Mass murderer Adam Lanza, 20, was a ticking time bomb, people who knew him told the Daily News.

“This was a deeply disturbed kid,” a family insider told the Daily News. “He certainly had major issues. He was subject to outbursts from what I recall.” Lanza, who friends and officials said suffered from Asperger’s syndrome or a personality disorder, had a tortured mind.

...

Lanza’s strange behavior was well-known among his well-heeled neighbors in leafy Newtown, Conn. His antics irked several residents. “Adam Lanza has been a weird kid since we were 5 years old,” a neighbor and former classmate named Tim Dalton wrote on Twitter. “As horrible as this was, I can't say I am surprised . . . Burn in hell, Adam.”

...

Lanza was living with his devoted mother, Nancy, in the family’s four-bedroom, 3,100-square-foot estate. Nancy Lanza divorced Adam’s father, Peter, in 2008. Peter Lanza, now a vice president of taxes for GE Energy Financial Services, agreed to annual alimony payments that started at $240,000 and would have reached $298,800 in 2015.

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/adam-lanza-20-deeply-disturbed-kid-article-1.1220752

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Sandy Hook mass murderer Adam Lanza, 20, 'deeply disturbed kid' (Original Post) FarCenter Dec 2012 OP
Wasn't the Aurora shooter's dad wealthy and connected , too? morningfog Dec 2012 #1
The local news said from a unconfirmed source "his brother said former-republican Dec 2012 #2
"Split personality" is a meaningless lay term. kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #3
I'm just saying what the local news reported former-republican Dec 2012 #5
The question now is "Who was his doctor, what did the doctor know, and what meds was he on?" FarCenter Dec 2012 #7
I would be curious why his mother thought it necessary to have an assault weapon in the house still_one Dec 2012 #16
and why it wasn't secured and inaccessible to this son who she knew tosh Dec 2012 #59
"Schizophernia" literally means "broken soul or heart". Very close to the cause, imo Cetacea Dec 2012 #28
Actually, Schizophrenia literally means "cracked head" and it seems to be Ecumenist Dec 2012 #30
Close enough and debatable. It still does mean "split personality" Cetacea Dec 2012 #38
Schizophrenia has nothing to do with "deep sadness". It has nothing to do with kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #61
I should know. Cetacea Dec 2012 #66
My sister is in fine mental health. My mom had it and she's dead, prematurely kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #73
Thank you, Kestrel. This person strikes me as someone who knows NOTHING about SchizoPhrenia Ecumenist Dec 2012 #71
The schizo in schizophrenia means "split", and it refers to the split from reality that they have. kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #74
Amen. The have visual and auditory hallucinations..... BOY, once you;ve Ecumenist Dec 2012 #75
After 40 years of dealing with my mom, I do know a thing kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #77
Wow, you know nothing about it. eShirl Dec 2012 #36
Wow. Try me. Cetacea Dec 2012 #37
"It must be because of a traumatic childhood" is a comforting fiction. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2012 #41
You are misquoting. Cetacea Dec 2012 #47
In addition... Cetacea Dec 2012 #49
People, no matter how poor their parenting skills, can not make a child schizophrenic. kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #64
Mental illness is a catch-all term for a lot of different disorders. kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #63
Until there is a cure, everyone's belief systems are incorrect. Cetacea Dec 2012 #68
Stop perpetuating these myths about schizophrenia. kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #62
I am a diagnosed schizophrenic. Cetacea Dec 2012 #65
All mental illness is not caused by abuse. Shiraz Dec 2012 #57
Schizophrenia is a physical brain disease. There is a genetic component - children of kestrel91316 Dec 2012 #60
CETACEA. with all due respect, it's not biochemical. It's ORGANIC It can actually be seen on Ecumenist Dec 2012 #72
Meds are key here. ananda Dec 2012 #14
If the report is accurate he was on some type of psychiatric medication former-republican Dec 2012 #20
It seems that violence can be a side effect or a result of withdrawal when the patient goes off meds FarCenter Dec 2012 #22
Having worked in the MH field "take their meds" is the key phrase underpants Dec 2012 #48
I don't understand what this "devoted mother" was doing ... frazzled Dec 2012 #4
That has me puzzled, too. Blue_In_AK Dec 2012 #6
With alimony at $250+ K / year, I'd bet that Adam was in some kind of treatment FarCenter Dec 2012 #8
I would hope so, Blue_In_AK Dec 2012 #13
and it's making me really angry at the parents JI7 Dec 2012 #9
Boy do I agree with that! napi21 Dec 2012 #10
The father is alive and well. Early reports were wrong. FarCenter Dec 2012 #11
I wonder if he was close enough to his son to provide any answers? nt napi21 Dec 2012 #15
Earlier on TV, a neighbor said that they'd never seen the son at the house in Stamford FarCenter Dec 2012 #23
Not very smart. Unless she had them to protect herself from him. Michigan Alum Dec 2012 #19
“She said she would often go target shooting with her kids,” landscaper Dan Holmes said underpants Dec 2012 #51
Maybe she was a gun nut. We just don't know many of the facts yet. Cetacea Dec 2012 #56
Like most people that buy guns Horse with no Name Dec 2012 #21
For all we know she got half her husbands gun collection in the divorce. Lone_Star_Dem Dec 2012 #27
Lots of people like guns. I knew a surfing Grandmother with a hip replacement. vaberella Dec 2012 #31
And yet his fucking stupid mother kept 5 guns, one an assault rifle, in the house. kysrsoze Dec 2012 #12
Unbelievable still_one Dec 2012 #18
"Adam Lanza’s mother found dead, ‘badly disfigured’" FarCenter Dec 2012 #17
So that was a head shot. n/t vaberella Dec 2012 #32
Earlier reports were that she was shot in the face FarCenter Dec 2012 #33
He clearly had a long history of mental disturbance--as others TwilightGardener Dec 2012 #24
found this former-republican Dec 2012 #25
He had a nevous system defect FarCenter Dec 2012 #26
The mentally ill are no more violent than any other group. Why deprive them of guns? Cetacea Dec 2012 #42
LOL! tabasco Dec 2012 #46
There are different forms of mental illness, and it's all on TwilightGardener Dec 2012 #67
If Caretakers Can Not or Will Not Provide Necessary Care LarryNM Dec 2012 #29
Republicans have shut those resources down. Barack_America Dec 2012 #40
Asperger's OR a personality disorder?? The press seems to believe they do not owe the public Jefferson23 Dec 2012 #34
+1 n/t lumberjack_jeff Dec 2012 #43
That is absolutely the case! CountAllVotes Dec 2012 #54
Lanza's mom, according to another article, was an avid gun collector zen_bohemian Dec 2012 #35
“She said she would often go target shooting with her kids,” landscaper Dan Holmes said underpants Dec 2012 #52
geeze zen_bohemian Dec 2012 #58
And yet, another profile has him as shy and intelligent muriel_volestrangler Dec 2012 #39
What exactly was the mother devoted to? Her guns? Cali_Democrat Dec 2012 #44
Come on - that's not fair underpants Dec 2012 #50
$240K alimony per year? My God. That kid ought to have been getting the best care in the world. reformist2 Dec 2012 #45
Only if he wanted treatment Freddie Dec 2012 #55
or a personality disorder CountAllVotes Dec 2012 #53
"who friends and officials said suffered from Asperger’s syndrome or a personality disorder," KamaAina Dec 2012 #69
The reporting has been beyond pathetic, worse than their usual for the MSM. Jefferson23 Dec 2012 #70
Really? Old and In the Way Dec 2012 #76
 

former-republican

(2,163 posts)
2. The local news said from a unconfirmed source "his brother said
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:09 AM
Dec 2012

He had a split personality and might have been on meds

Unconfirmed I want to emphasize but it was said on local news.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
3. "Split personality" is a meaningless lay term.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:13 AM
Dec 2012

It is mistakenly applied to schizophrenics, who suffer from psychotic delusions, when those words would more rightly apply to multiple personality disorder. But now they have apparently decided that MPD is fake.

So there is no such thing as a split personality. It's an epithet and nothing more.

Cetacea

(7,367 posts)
28. "Schizophernia" literally means "broken soul or heart". Very close to the cause, imo
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:33 AM
Dec 2012

The ancients were on the right track long before we started treating them like sub-humans, rather than real people undergoing what is perhaps the most painful of all disabilities. There odd behaviors mask their suffering very well.IMO, they are people who had their hearts or spirits broken at a very early age along with limited coping skills of childhood. Young girls who turn in on themselves and become "mad" rather than out their beloved abusive parents, for instance.
My theory is that behind every mentally ill person lies a crimnal act or another king of early trauma. The biochemical effects onset follows.

Ecumenist

(6,086 posts)
30. Actually, Schizophrenia literally means "cracked head" and it seems to be
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 06:14 AM
Dec 2012

an apt name to apply to a horrific mental illness.

Cetacea

(7,367 posts)
38. Close enough and debatable. It still does mean "split personality"
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 12:53 PM
Dec 2012

And "cracked head " isn't exactly accurately descriptive or flattering to describe PEOPLE who have a sadness too deep for most people to comprehend.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
61. Schizophrenia has nothing to do with "deep sadness". It has nothing to do with
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:49 PM
Dec 2012

depression or emotional trauma (though it famously causes these in family and friends of the affected becauseof all the crap we have to witness and deal with from them).

You know ZERO about it. Please stop perpetuating these myths.

Cetacea

(7,367 posts)
66. I should know.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 03:29 PM
Dec 2012

I don't care if your alleged sister has it. Is she happy?


Goodbye Keesie. Go bully somebody else. I son't see you attacking Cali's OP, which is the same as mine was before I deleted it.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
73. My sister is in fine mental health. My mom had it and she's dead, prematurely
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 08:19 PM
Dec 2012

because her illness made her paranoid about doctors for decades and health problems went untreated.

You really don't belong here if you are going to be needlessly cruel along with making false statements about mental illness and its victims.

Ecumenist

(6,086 posts)
71. Thank you, Kestrel. This person strikes me as someone who knows NOTHING about SchizoPhrenia
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 07:49 PM
Dec 2012

Schizo= cracked while Phrenia=Head. I was ENGAGED to a guy who turned out to be a PARANOID SCHIZOPHRENIC for 3 years...exactly, 2 years, 365.5 TOO LONG!! He was a jerk too but good grief, the ignorance is astounding.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
74. The schizo in schizophrenia means "split", and it refers to the split from reality that they have.
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 08:20 PM
Dec 2012

They live in a world of fantasy and paranoid delusions.

Ecumenist

(6,086 posts)
75. Amen. The have visual and auditory hallucinations..... BOY, once you;ve
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 11:24 PM
Dec 2012

known a schizophrenic, you NEVER forget it. NEVER.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
77. After 40 years of dealing with my mom, I do know a thing
Wed Dec 19, 2012, 02:01 AM
Dec 2012

or three about how schizophrenics think and act, and what motivates them to do a lot of the things they do.

You can't imagine how much I wish I didn't know, and hadn't had to learn.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
41. "It must be because of a traumatic childhood" is a comforting fiction.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:04 PM
Dec 2012

mental illness can strike anyone, or their children.

We look for causes to try to make us feel less vulnerable.

Cetacea

(7,367 posts)
47. You are misquoting.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:30 PM
Dec 2012

I wrote that it was my own opinion.

To clarify, mental illness has many cofactors including socio/economics conditions,childhood trauma, abusive parents, and biochemical disruptions. However, I believe that the biochemical disruptions come after the other factors, not before. Unless there is clear organic brain damage or other neurological conditions.

Cetacea

(7,367 posts)
49. In addition...
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:36 PM
Dec 2012

It is , to use your words, a "comforting fiction" to believe people do not have the means or capacities to make children mentally ill. Ask any social worker. Or Psychiatrist.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
64. People, no matter how poor their parenting skills, can not make a child schizophrenic.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:55 PM
Dec 2012

And good parenting cannot fix it. Psychotherapy cannot fix it. Drugs cannot cure it, though some can help diminish the paranoia and delusions. It is a CHRONIC, incurable disease of the brain. It is NOT a sign of bad personal character nor is it a personality defect. It's not bad behavior - it's a broken brain.

Are you aware that schizophrenia is the exact name for a specific disease? That it is not just some vague descriptive term?

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
63. Mental illness is a catch-all term for a lot of different disorders.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:53 PM
Dec 2012

Some, like schizophrenia, are due to physical brain disease with genetic and infectious disease and in utero nutritional influences.

Others, like depression and some of the behavioral and temperament problems have a huge environmental component.

Your belief system is not correct.

Cetacea

(7,367 posts)
68. Until there is a cure, everyone's belief systems are incorrect.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 04:11 PM
Dec 2012

And that is all we have to work with, theories and belief systems. And we haven't even scratched the surface on the role of side effects various psych meds on people once they are diagnose (or misdiagnosed). The side effects of many of the drugs can produce the symptoms they are intended to stop.
Read the black box warnings and entries in the PDR.
I am not anti-meds.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
62. Stop perpetuating these myths about schizophrenia.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:50 PM
Dec 2012

Seriously. Such gross misconceptions are not helpful to victims or families.

Cetacea

(7,367 posts)
65. I am a diagnosed schizophrenic.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 03:20 PM
Dec 2012

We only have theories to work with, dear. Psychiatry has no known solutuion and they really do not what causes this hell.
In the meantime, I will continue to theorize and search for a real cure as well as the real cause.
And yes, people are capable of driving other people mad.

Shiraz

(302 posts)
57. All mental illness is not caused by abuse.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:53 PM
Dec 2012

I have a family full of mental disorders and it is linked to Fragile X syndrome.

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
60. Schizophrenia is a physical brain disease. There is a genetic component - children of
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:46 PM
Dec 2012

the affected have at least double the normal chance of developing the disease. They also suspect in utero neurologic damage (there is some speculation about exposure to Toxoplasma gondii).

What they DO know is that it it NOT caused by emotional trauma of any kind. Parental abuse does not make a person schizophrenic. Again, it's multiple personality disorder that was supposedly brought about by trauma from abuse - but now they have decided that MPD is fake. I tend to concur. The three faces of Eve story and the Sybil story were proven to be faked.

I'm sort of an expert. My mom was schizophrenic and we had a whole lot of nonsense to deal with from her for most of her life.

Ecumenist

(6,086 posts)
72. CETACEA. with all due respect, it's not biochemical. It's ORGANIC It can actually be seen on
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 07:53 PM
Dec 2012

live scans of the brain. There are theories that the age of onset may be related to puberty and the action os sex hormones on an affected brain. One can have Schizoid issues that mimic some parts of schizophrenia as a result of certain drug ingestion, for instance but true SCHIZOPHRENIA IS NOT CHEMICAL., not in the classical sense, ie, Bipolar syndrome or clinical depression.

 

former-republican

(2,163 posts)
20. If the report is accurate he was on some type of psychiatric medication
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:51 AM
Dec 2012

I'm sure the physician is having a long night tonight.

This is probably something that will take a couple of days to develop and be reported accurately.

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
22. It seems that violence can be a side effect or a result of withdrawal when the patient goes off meds
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:52 AM
Dec 2012

Not sure what percent of mass murderers have been on meds, but it seems high.

underpants

(182,830 posts)
48. Having worked in the MH field "take their meds" is the key phrase
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:35 PM
Dec 2012

we have made huge gains in MH drugs. As long as they TAKE THEIR MEDS that removes about 95% of the threat of a problem.

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
4. I don't understand what this "devoted mother" was doing ...
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:14 AM
Dec 2012

with such an arsenal of weapons registered in her name, when she knew she had a disturbed son in the house. I honestly don't understand it.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
6. That has me puzzled, too.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:21 AM
Dec 2012

I could see maybe having one weapon for protection since she seems to be well-to-do and might have been a target for thieves, but three high-powered weapons seems a bit much. Maybe she got them in the divorce settlement.

A shame the kid couldn't have gotten the help he so obviously needed.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
13. I would hope so,
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:38 AM
Dec 2012

but sometimes parents refuse to see the flaws in their children or think they can handle the child themselves. Or there is also the possibility that he had an unfortunate reaction to some psychotropic drug that he had been prescribed. I assume that any treating physician would be released from doctor-patient confidentiality constraints now that Adam and his mother are dead; perhaps someone will come forward with more insight.



napi21

(45,806 posts)
10. Boy do I agree with that!
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:28 AM
Dec 2012

When I heard it was Mom who bought the gunsd, I questionhed the same thing. A teacher, more than any other professional, should recognize a problem child, and why in the world would she buy guns (for them) if she knew one of her sons had a problem? Obviously we'l never know since mom and dad is dead and so is the son. How much his living brother knows or will tell anyone is debateable.

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
11. The father is alive and well. Early reports were wrong.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:31 AM
Dec 2012

The father is living in Stamford with his new wife. Nancy initiated the divorce.

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
23. Earlier on TV, a neighbor said that they'd never seen the son at the house in Stamford
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:54 AM
Dec 2012

However, they didn't spend much time at home. He had a full time job and also taught college on the side.

Cetacea

(7,367 posts)
56. Maybe she was a gun nut. We just don't know many of the facts yet.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:51 PM
Dec 2012

And according to some reports, he was an intelligent and level headed person. I don't think he just "snapped". There must have been events occurring within this family that we simply do not know about.

Too sad all around.

Horse with no Name

(33,956 posts)
21. Like most people that buy guns
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:52 AM
Dec 2012

to protect herself from all threats...outside and inside.

And they never think that somehow the person they are scared of the most will get hold of the gun. And they almost always do.

Lone_Star_Dem

(28,158 posts)
27. For all we know she got half her husbands gun collection in the divorce.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:10 AM
Dec 2012

This was what I started wondering when I heard it reported the father also owned several guns.

Sometimes people do stupid things during a divorce.

vaberella

(24,634 posts)
31. Lots of people like guns. I knew a surfing Grandmother with a hip replacement.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 06:19 AM
Dec 2012

Unusual things happen.

kysrsoze

(6,022 posts)
12. And yet his fucking stupid mother kept 5 guns, one an assault rifle, in the house.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:32 AM
Dec 2012

We are now in bizarro world.

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
33. Earlier reports were that she was shot in the face
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 11:13 AM
Dec 2012

However, entry wounds from a 9 mm would not disfigure her face. So either he shot her in the back of the head, and her face was disfigured by the exit wounds (which would need to be multiple to cause disfiguration), or he caused trauma to her face by other means.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
24. He clearly had a long history of mental disturbance--as others
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:54 AM
Dec 2012

have said, WHY would his mother keep ANY guns in the house? It makes zero sense. But it does sadden me to read that no one outside of his parents ever seemed to love or care about this kid. He was a pariah all his life, if the quotes are accurate. Doesn't take a lot of imagination to see what this does to a young person's sense of empathy and his world view.

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
26. He had a nevous system defect
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:04 AM
Dec 2012
A “longtime” family friend said Lanza had a condition “where he couldn’t feel pain.”

“A few years ago when he was on the baseball team, everyone had to be careful that he didn’t fall because he could get hurt and not feel it,” said the friend. “Adam had a lot of mental problems.”


Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/adam-lanza-20-deeply-disturbed-kid-article-1.1220752

Cetacea

(7,367 posts)
42. The mentally ill are no more violent than any other group. Why deprive them of guns?
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:07 PM
Dec 2012

And in fact they are more likely to be victims of violent crime than the rest of the population. Therefore, they are even more entitled to self-defense than the rest of us.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
67. There are different forms of mental illness, and it's all on
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 03:38 PM
Dec 2012

a spectrum anyway. I don't consider Aspergers to be a mental illness, BTW, that is a development issue. I do consider schizophrenia to be one of the reasons not to own a gun. Severe depression, PTSD, certain personality disorders, etc.--reasons not to own a gun, at least not until there is certain recovery and normal functioning. You wouldn't want a person with poorly controlled epilepsy to drive a car. You don't want someone with poorly controlled moods, thoughts, emotions, and impulses to be able to take out a schoolroom full of children.

LarryNM

(493 posts)
29. If Caretakers Can Not or Will Not Provide Necessary Care
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 03:01 AM
Dec 2012

Then Mandatory InPatient Care should be Required for the safety and well being of the rest of society, as well as, the patient themselves.

Barack_America

(28,876 posts)
40. Republicans have shut those resources down.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 12:58 PM
Dec 2012

The mentally ill have been forced to fend for themselves in most states. They can get periodic inpatient treatment, but long-term resources have been gutted.

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
34. Asperger's OR a personality disorder?? The press seems to believe they do not owe the public
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 11:31 AM
Dec 2012

validated information. Among other false reports, his mother was a teacher at the school, now
that is not true either. The shooter's brother gets named as the shooter, on an on with mistakes.

Now the shooter was an Asperger kid OR a personality disorder..as if the two are in any way
similar...what fucking bullshit shoddy reporting.

Instead of waiting to confirm anything, they release speculation.

zen_bohemian

(417 posts)
35. Lanza's mom, according to another article, was an avid gun collector
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 11:31 AM
Dec 2012

and target shooter, thus the guns in the home. I am not sure if these guns were locked up in the home or what, but knowing that this young man was mentally ill and recently having more chronic episodes, maybe the guns should have been taken out of the home or locked up and all ammo taken out of the home, for his protection as well as the protection of others, what a horrible senseless heinous tragedy, it just makes me sick.

zen_bohemian

(417 posts)
58. geeze
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:54 PM
Dec 2012

I am not a gun person, so I guess I just can't understand this obsession with gun collecting and shooting. What a sad situation, those poor children and their families, something needs to be done to protect our children in school, this is happening way too much, it has to stop now.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,322 posts)
39. And yet, another profile has him as shy and intelligent
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 12:53 PM
Dec 2012
They talk of a boy who dressed smartly and worked hard, but who barely said a word during his time at school.
...
Lanza was "obviously not well", a relative told ABC News.
...
He went on to Newtown High School, but made few friends. Intelligent but shy and nervous were the most common memories of those who learnt beside him.

A former classmate, Olivia DeVivo, told the New York Times: "I never saw him with anyone. I can't even think of one person that was associated with him."
...
"You know the trouble kids, and you figure, 'Pfft, that one's going to be trouble.' But I never would have thought that about them," she told the Hartford Courant newspaper.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-20738732


And a similar profile: Shock in Connecticut that nice kid could be responsible for such horror

reformist2

(9,841 posts)
45. $240K alimony per year? My God. That kid ought to have been getting the best care in the world.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:19 PM
Dec 2012

Instead it looks like he was being left alone all day in a house full of guns? O_O

Freddie

(9,267 posts)
55. Only if he wanted treatment
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:50 PM
Dec 2012

Sadly, as an adult, he could not be forced into any kind of treatment or meds. This is the tragedy of mental illness as many of them, including schizophrenia, manifest in young adults who can no longer be forced into treatment by their parents or school.

CountAllVotes

(20,876 posts)
53. or a personality disorder
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:42 PM
Dec 2012

There you go, a "personality disorder" perhaps. This is what these professionals always come up with as a DX when they do not know what the real problem or DX is!

In any event, this psycho creep has killed 27 people, 20 of them being children.

Personality disorder? Personality disorder my ass!

How about a plain evil human being?



 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
69. "who friends and officials said suffered from Asperger’s syndrome or a personality disorder,"
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 07:59 PM
Dec 2012

Well, which is it? They are two entirely different things. Personality disorder is consistent with mass murder. Asperger's isn't. But as long as the M$M keeps putting it out there, neurotypicals (the rest of you) are going to continue to view us as potential mass murders, serial killers, what have you.

Jefferson23

(30,099 posts)
70. The reporting has been beyond pathetic, worse than their usual for the MSM.
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 09:41 AM
Dec 2012

I hear your frustration on the false causation that is implied..it is not helpful and
I worry about the implications of it too.

Old and In the Way

(37,540 posts)
76. Really?
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 11:30 PM
Dec 2012

Is this news? Of course he was...maybe the most insane of all the mass killers that have committed mass killings. Wouldn't he, by CV, be the gold standard of the Disturbed?

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