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senseandsensibility

(17,066 posts)
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:36 PM Dec 2012

His mother WASN'T a teacher at the school after all?

http://talkingpointsmemo.com/archives/2012/12/nancy_lanza_not_a_teacher.php?ref=fpblg
If true, this is important. I'm a teacher, and yesterday after school I was approached by a distraught parent. She was devastated by the shootings, and seemed very concerned that a teacher's son was the suspect.

If she was not a teacher at the school, this needs to be corrected ASAP. As Josh Marshall, writes, there have been questions about this for hours now, yet mainstream sources are STILL identifying her as a kindergarten teacher at that school.

This fact matters because facts matter. But I know from experience that the idea that it was the teacher's son who did this adds a new layer of terror to the situation for parents.

Also, as a teacher for nearly thirty years, I found it very strange that a credentialed teacher would keep so many high powered weapons (legal or not) in a home with an unbalanced son. It just didn't ring true to me. Teachers aren't perfect, but I was shocked to hear that.

Again, it matters, and if she was not a teacher at the school it needs to be corrected. Even if a correction is made, ninety percent of the population will always believe that it was the teacher's son who did it. Once something like this gets into the public's mind, it's in there for good.
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His mother WASN'T a teacher at the school after all? (Original Post) senseandsensibility Dec 2012 OP
No. She was not. proud2BlibKansan Dec 2012 #1
No relationship? senseandsensibility Dec 2012 #2
She was reportedly an ex-wife with a healthy alimony settlement proud2BlibKansan Dec 2012 #3
Do you have a link for that? senseandsensibility Dec 2012 #6
I think its just hard to get good information in a crisis. undeterred Dec 2012 #23
Link - NY Daily News so you know the source underpants Dec 2012 #25
Thanks! senseandsensibility Dec 2012 #29
here proud2BlibKansan Dec 2012 #4
Was that limited to the present tense? jberryhill Dec 2012 #30
I saw that too. proud2BlibKansan Dec 2012 #35
ABC reported she was once a classroom aide. Info was from ex sister-in law. n/t Fla Dem Dec 2012 #36
The investigators said yesterday they could find no proof she was. Lone_Star_Dem Dec 2012 #5
Well, I read many reports yesterday from "reliable" news sources senseandsensibility Dec 2012 #8
Yeah, so did I. Lone_Star_Dem Dec 2012 #13
I heard she was a former teacher, but not at that school. undeterred Dec 2012 #7
He was, still it's K-4. Lone_Star_Dem Dec 2012 #9
So why was she there? GreenPartyVoter Dec 2012 #10
she wasn't at the school MrsBrady Dec 2012 #12
I heard there was a dead brother at home, but that was yesterday's confused reporting. GreenPartyVoter Dec 2012 #17
I don't think any of that MrsBrady Dec 2012 #19
Heard that too. It's not true. Lone_Star_Dem Dec 2012 #20
update, ok I found this MrsBrady Dec 2012 #15
I heard on either ABC or CBS last night that she was a volunteer teacher's aide. WorseBeforeBetter Dec 2012 #16
she had no connection with the school MrsBrady Dec 2012 #18
"Classroom aide" according to former sister-in-law. WorseBeforeBetter Dec 2012 #39
You should ALWAYS assume that most everything you hear about a disaster, is wrong, the first time... Schema Thing Dec 2012 #11
Forced his way in - no school work by her - Adam has altercation with 4 school staff the day before, underpants Dec 2012 #14
There was an altercation the day before? In hindsight I guess asking the cops to GreenPartyVoter Dec 2012 #21
Hindsight 20/20 underpants Dec 2012 #22
Yes, it would depend on what kind of altercation. senseandsensibility Dec 2012 #24
Exactly, especially since some of the staff probably knew him as a child and didn't GreenPartyVoter Dec 2012 #26
You have probably read the two profiles of him that I have underpants Dec 2012 #28
She was a substitute teacher, not at school at the time. HooptieWagon Dec 2012 #27
I don't even think she was a substitute teacher. senseandsensibility Dec 2012 #31
She is John2 Dec 2012 #33
I was just relaying information from today's paper. HooptieWagon Dec 2012 #34
Just heard that too malaise Dec 2012 #32
Journalism took a vacation yesterday jsr Dec 2012 #37
According to her sister-in-law, she was formerly a classroom aide at the school FarCenter Dec 2012 #38

proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
1. No. She was not.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:37 PM
Dec 2012

School district released a statement early this morning. She had no relationship with the school.

senseandsensibility

(17,066 posts)
2. No relationship?
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:50 PM
Dec 2012

Was she even a teacher? I find this a very strange mistake for so many news outlets to make. What was it based on?

proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
3. She was reportedly an ex-wife with a healthy alimony settlement
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:51 PM
Dec 2012

Her son may have gone to school there. But the district says she was not an employee.

senseandsensibility

(17,066 posts)
6. Do you have a link for that?
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:54 PM
Dec 2012

I'm not doubting you, but I have would love to read more about this. I haven't seen that in my searches. The reporting on this particular aspect of the case is appalling IMO.

undeterred

(34,658 posts)
23. I think its just hard to get good information in a crisis.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:21 PM
Dec 2012

Its hard to satisfy the media when the #1 priority still has to be the investigation. From the news conference this morning it appears that there is an adult survivor who was hospitalized and will be able to tell the police what happened inside the school yesterday... otherwise everyone was killed.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
30. Was that limited to the present tense?
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:31 PM
Dec 2012

According to one report which included extensive information about the divorce, alimony, etc. she had been a teacher there up until some years ago when she left to take care of Adam full time.

Was the statement in response to reports that she is currently a teacher, or did the statement indicate that she had not been one at some prior time?

proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
35. I saw that too.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 06:14 PM
Dec 2012

All i have is a statement from the school district saying she was not an employee. Don't know if she used to be or not.

Lone_Star_Dem

(28,158 posts)
5. The investigators said yesterday they could find no proof she was.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:53 PM
Dec 2012

It appears to have all come from on person (allegedly a parent) saying they thought maybe she was a substitute teacher there.

senseandsensibility

(17,066 posts)
8. Well, I read many reports yesterday from "reliable" news sources
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:56 PM
Dec 2012

that called her a kindergarten teacher at that school, not a substitute. Really appalling reporting.

Lone_Star_Dem

(28,158 posts)
13. Yeah, so did I.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:06 PM
Dec 2012

One outlet would hear a rumor and state it as fact. Then the rest would grab it up and make the same claim. No vetting of the information whatsoever. Now a lot of people are still spreading fabrications as fact. It's as if the media is no more trustworthy than a local small town gossip.

Lone_Star_Dem

(28,158 posts)
9. He was, still it's K-4.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 01:58 PM
Dec 2012

He wouldn't have went there for 11 years or so now. Not saying that's not the connection, but damn.

MrsBrady

(4,187 posts)
12. she wasn't at the school
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:04 PM
Dec 2012

that was mis-reported.

I think she's dead at home, but I don't think they've said who's dead at her house yet.
I'm not even sure if she's dead or not, really.

This is the problem...much mis-information. I've been reading through
current news articles to try to get some more accurate information.

Lone_Star_Dem

(28,158 posts)
20. Heard that too. It's not true.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:14 PM
Dec 2012

Lots of bad reporting by major outlets yesterday.

He killed his mother at home. His brother lived in NJ, not CT. He was at work at the time of the shooting. He's fine.

WorseBeforeBetter

(11,441 posts)
16. I heard on either ABC or CBS last night that she was a volunteer teacher's aide.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:08 PM
Dec 2012

(This is the first I'm tuning in today, so I'm not aware of any updates...)

WorseBeforeBetter

(11,441 posts)
39. "Classroom aide" according to former sister-in-law.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 07:32 PM
Dec 2012
http://abcnews.go.com/Blotter/adam-lanzas-mom-pulled-school-relative/story?id=17985433

But I'm not accepting anything as gospel. Other than that we've got huge fucking problems in this country, on many different levels.

Schema Thing

(10,283 posts)
11. You should ALWAYS assume that most everything you hear about a disaster, is wrong, the first time...
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:03 PM
Dec 2012


you hear it, for at least the first 24 hours.


underpants

(182,830 posts)
14. Forced his way in - no school work by her - Adam has altercation with 4 school staff the day before,
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:06 PM
Dec 2012

3 of the 4 staff members were murdered yesterday
The mother took her sons target shooting
the father left the home to her in the divorce and $240K/year alimony
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10021989843

GreenPartyVoter

(72,378 posts)
21. There was an altercation the day before? In hindsight I guess asking the cops to
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:17 PM
Dec 2012

keep an eye out would have been a good idea, but who knew, right?

underpants

(182,830 posts)
22. Hindsight 20/20
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:20 PM
Dec 2012

Yeah but people tend not to think that anything will happen. I mean no one could really consider that THAT would have happened. I still can't believe it myself and I know it happened.

senseandsensibility

(17,066 posts)
24. Yes, it would depend on what kind of altercation.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:22 PM
Dec 2012

If it was violent, of course police would have been called. Verbal? It depends. With so few facts, we can't really judge.

GreenPartyVoter

(72,378 posts)
26. Exactly, especially since some of the staff probably knew him as a child and didn't
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:24 PM
Dec 2012

see him as that kind of threat.

underpants

(182,830 posts)
28. You have probably read the two profiles of him that I have
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:26 PM
Dec 2012

everyone in that town (of 27,000) seemed to know each other.

He was either seen as a brilliant but troubled rich kid or a whackjob-accident-waiting-to-happen rich kid

I have read both.

 

HooptieWagon

(17,064 posts)
27. She was a substitute teacher, not at school at the time.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:26 PM
Dec 2012

Her body was discovered at home. This was from a NYT article reprinted in my local paper today, and contradicts reports from yesterday that she was killed in a classroom at the school.

 

John2

(2,730 posts)
33. She is
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 02:57 PM
Dec 2012

a victim, but I think she might have been an extremist. That is my opinion as more information comes in. Her son had no regards for life and she taught him to shoot.

 

HooptieWagon

(17,064 posts)
34. I was just relaying information from today's paper.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 03:17 PM
Dec 2012

There may be more corrections and clarifications in over the next couple days.

jsr

(7,712 posts)
37. Journalism took a vacation yesterday
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 07:02 PM
Dec 2012

Much of what was reported and repeated ad nauseam yesterday - in print and on TV - was speculative bullshit.

 

FarCenter

(19,429 posts)
38. According to her sister-in-law, she was formerly a classroom aide at the school
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 07:05 PM
Dec 2012
Marsha Lanza, who is Adam's aunt and Nancy's ex-sister-in-law, called her former sister-in-law an "awesome ... giving person." She also told Evelyn Holmes of ABC-owned-and-operated station WLS in Chicago that Nancy had once been a classroom aide at the Sandy Hook school.


http://abcnews.go.com/Blotter/adam-lanzas-mom-pulled-school-relative/story?id=17985433

This may not have been a paid position or it may have been billed through a temp agency so the school may not have a payroll record of her.
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