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shcrane71

(1,721 posts)
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 12:06 PM Feb 2013

Why Won’t We Talk About Violence and Masculinity in America?

http://msmagazine.com/blog/2012/12/17/why-wont-we-talk-about-violence-and-masculinity-in-america/

Young white men have entitlements and privileges that, when combined with disappointment, illness, loss and soul-strippingly unhealthy and common glorification of violence, can lead to tragedy. The only place I heard this discussed this weekend was on MSNBC’s Up with Chris Hayes, when Salon’s David Sirota pointed out that white men are really the only group in America that is “not allowed to be profiled.” We need more white men like David Sirota and Chris Hayes, who disproportionately make up our media experts and political leaders, to step up and talk openly about exactly this. About how ideas about whiteness and maleness are not only our unquestioned norms, but are imbued with an innocence and authority that makes it almost impossible to critically talk about them in terms of a pattern of horrific events like Sandy Hook.


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Romulox

(25,960 posts)
1. This story starts out with a false premise. Several "mass shooters" have been people of color.
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 01:07 PM
Feb 2013

Also, Adam Lanza was the son of a Wall Street banker. What privilege was slipping away from him, again?

 

Phillip McCleod

(1,837 posts)
5. almost all male even if not almost all white male
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 01:42 PM
Feb 2013

i think the conversation would go farther if we examined the masculinity correlation first and then look at the racial component. let's not forget that machismo and masculine posturing are not unique to white men. people of all races have a terrible propensity for violence that is completely lopsided along the gender line, whether the violence is domestic or military.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
6. Short attention span theater.
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 02:12 PM
Feb 2013

Welcome to the quarterly "what's wrong with men" issue of Ms Magazine.

Seriously? Cognitive dissonance much? What you're doing is EXACTLY profiling.

 

S.A.M

(162 posts)
7. Gender role playing.
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 02:22 PM
Feb 2013

Masculinity has been used as tool for social engineering for hundreds of years. The great revolution of the 60's challenged sex role playing. We need another revolution to raise conscience for more independent thinking on role playing. That's my opinion

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
8. American culture is INTOLERANT of males who do not fit the rough-and-tumble stereotype
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 02:25 PM
Feb 2013

Talk to any high school boy who lacks interest in sports and/or reads a lot or plays classical music or dances and/or is small and slight.

shcrane71

(1,721 posts)
10. I know. I recently heard an interview of our state's lead correction officer.
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 06:58 PM
Feb 2013

The gist of what he said was that the late teenage years and the early 20s are the most difficult times for men in our society. He also said that it is unfortunate, even in our very white state, that the majority of the incarcerated men are non-whites.

It makes me think that these mass shooters, who are predominantly white, are falling through our justice system's net. Maybe we should be rooting them out more.

DreamGypsy

(2,252 posts)
9. I am the masculine American man.. ...
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 02:48 PM
Feb 2013

... I kill, therefore I am.

Extreme violence is by no means limited by gender, nationality, race, age, education, religion, height, weight, eye color, or any other criterion for classifying human individuals, so feel free to substitute your own characteristics into the lyrics of this Phil Ochs' song.

Phil just happened to choose 'masculine' and 'American'...perhaps based on his experiences, the times in which he lived, and the hopes he had for change.

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
11. Because this IS American culture. There's not going to be a radical make-over any time....ever.
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 07:00 PM
Feb 2013

Indeed, the nexus of masculinity and violence is as old as...well, pretty old.

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