I admit it..... I fantasize (a lot) about women.....

[Bennyboy]

And in those fantasies we are NEVER talking about our jobs. Or children. Or volunteering to save the manatees.

In those fantasies we are mostly having sex with each other and doing unspeakable acts to each other all in the name of pure pleasure.

What is worse, so I now find out, is that in these fantasies ALL of the women are very attractive. Hell, in these fantasies, I am better looking (if that was possible, I know). I have tried lately to think of unattractive women when fantasizing but there are no swimsuit photos of Hillary Clinton on the interwebs (Ha ha ha!) so my mind tends to turn to more attractive types.

I know I need help and soon. I sent away for my Margaret Thatcher blow up doll, but I am afraid it won't make it by the Holidays.

Poor Julia Roberts till then eh?

[geek tragedy]

1. First

to trash this thread

[pintobean]

60. Maybe it's a reaction

to your meta thread.

[bluesbassman]

2. You're not helping Benny. Seriously.

You may find that self deleting this would save you some grief. YMMV.

[Gormy Cuss]

12. No worries. A jury let it stand 4-2.

It's perfectly acceptable on DU3.

[kcr]

18. Everything's better now!

The quality of DU has improved so much. They've been talking about it in ATA. Isn't it great!

[bluesbassman]

19. Well I don't find it acceptable GC.

But that's the trouble with a jury of six random members out of 200k+. Sometimes it's luck of the draw.

[Gormy Cuss]

39. I don't find it acceptable either

but the management of the place certainly does. BTW, there aren't anywhere near 200K active accounts --the number is probably closer to 5000. I only point that out because the odds are so different and with the number of juries that LEAVE stuff like this it feels less like the luck of the draw and more like a window into the shifting sentiments of DUers.

[arthritisR_US]

103. These are the same sentiments I hear from lottery ticket losers...

[Logical]

68. Why should it of been locked? n-t

[lumberjack_jeff]

72. Embrace the madness. n/t

[bluesbassman]

79. I hear what you're saying, but the truth is I come to DU to get away from the madness.

Apparently I picked the wrong week to stop sniffing glue.

[klook]

81. LOL!! Pretty much my thoughts.

I was thinking earlier, I think it's going to be a DU-free Christmas for me. And maybe that's a good thing.

[Rex]

3. Meta around the holidays! Merry Christmas Benny.

nt.

[maxsolomon]

4. dude.. just don't

you were almost making a point until you said Hillary Clinton was ugly. this isn't helping establish some sort of male right to find women attractive.

[Lex]

5. This is just dumb. nt

[ismnotwasm]

6. "Unspeakable"?

Tell me are you ashamed or just a fan of Edward Lee?

[BainsBane]

7. Is there some reason anyone should care about this?

[trumad]

8. Dude---

Put away the Egg Nog.

[madinmaryland]

85. Ironic, isn't it...

coming from you.

[trumad]

98. As usual...I have no idea what you are talking about.

This is one weird OP.

[madinmaryland]

100. I am glad to see you have been able to change your ways.

[quinnox]

9. Who doesn't?

[Eleanors38]

14. Is that a horn coming out of her head?

[loli phabay]

23. lordy, if she had a horn and a tail then it would be epic win.

[loli phabay]

16. i loved her in firefly, very fantasisable.

[quinnox]

20. I first saw this great beauty in "V", and now am seeing her in "Homeland"

Quite a beauty.

http://www1.pictures.zimbio.com/gi/Morena+Baccarin+UNICEF+Playlist+List+Arrivals+aoonevrOxzTl.jpg

[LittleBlue]

30. She was an absolute vision in Firefly

Great in that aliens show, too. Shame it was canceled

[loli phabay]

113. yeah i wondered what happened with V, still preferred her as anara more than the lizard queen.

lol edit due to funny autocorrect.

[BainsBane]

40. She's okay then

she has good hair.

[quinnox]

54. Yep, her hair is amazing

I love the short hair look she has sometimes. It reminds me of Halle Berry, another short hair beauty I really can appreciate.

[loli phabay]

59. i thought she looked better with longer hair ala firefly.

[quinnox]

62. I understand, tastes vary. Short hair is just a thing with me

I find short hair very attractive on women, like my all time favorite Audrey Hepburn -

[loli phabay]

63. yup, i am more of a fan of longer hair myself, we all have our own likes and dislikes.

[pintobean]

75. Benny should have put some music in the OP

[aikoaiko]

93. And the jury results are in...

...bless your heart.

AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service
Mail Message
At Mon Dec 23, 2013, 08:32 PM an alert was sent on the following post:

Benny should have put some music in the OP
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4220381

REASON FOR ALERT:

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS:

The video is inappropriate for du. Women shouldn't have to put up with this crap here.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Mon Dec 23, 2013, 08:58 PM, and the Jury voted 3-3 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT and said: I'm a fan of snark (and liked the gesture) but I gotta side with the alerter. Sorry dude
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: Sex is a beautiful thing
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: The alerter needs to explain him or herself more. Given the "male gaze" wars of du jour, it seems perfectly appropriate.
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT and said: Many of the images were acceptable, but several seemed overboard. More importantly why is anyone using DU to extend their sexual fantasies. I'm not a fan of censorship in most cases, and I can see an argument for allowing this post for the purpose of engaging discussion, but this post seems to belong elsewhere. This is the first time I've run across material like this on DU and it simply seems out of place. The more I think about this the less I am sure I am correct in my opinion, but I also want children to engage in DU discussions and because of that I stand by my vote.
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: It's the Holidays. Let it be. Boy's will be ummm something
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT and said: Not right… This is pretty much baiting right here.

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.

[pintobean]

96. It was closer than I thought it would be.

Thanks for sharing.

[NaturalHigh]

190. Seriously?

Someone alerted on that?

[seabeyond]

118. you guys kinda prove our point. challlenge your privilege and entitlement, get your naked women out

their to have your bro points again.

feeling all manly again....?

warren does it regularly with his hot celebs. if we women get to vocal, or seem to make any ground, up goes some more picture.

awfully predictable and awfully telling....

[seabeyond]

125. the thread you kick every day or so? lol. i do not care enough about the thread to figure out how

to trash, warren. i was simply making a point, when you men are challenged even a tad, here comes some more naked. almost like a security blanket.

[seabeyond]

128. i guess the point here would be your goofy is our challenging your privilege and your need to make

a statement with another near naked woman.

da man.

[BainsBane]

134. Now, Warren. You know you're proud of that thread

You'd be distraught if it didn't get talked about now and again.

[BainsBane]

136. I'm not entirely convinced

I've seen some posts of yours in those threads that show a sense of pride that it ticks some people off. I think it makes you feel subversive.

[BainsBane]

139. Aren't there like 12 people total who frequent that group?

It's hardly DU's most active.

Am I supposed to know the mustached man? I hope you're not insinuating I'm sporting ironic facial hair. I do need to go in for a waxing, but it's not that bad. At least it's blonde.

[BainsBane]

141. OMG, Warren

I was joking.

[BainsBane]

143. just on the basic of logic

I couldn't actually think you were talking about my facial hair because you can't see me. I've have to suffer from schizo-affective disorder or some such thing to actually believe that.

[Soundman]

152. At least it is twelve real and unique people and not......

[BainsBane]

154. If you have a concern

the appropriate course of action is to bring it to Skinner's attention rather than engaging in petty gossip.

I realize it may shock you to believe that more than five women on the planet consider themselves equal human beings entitled to full human rights, but it is the 21st century and not the 19th, as inconvenient as you may find that fact. Time marches on, while some opt to relegate themselves to the dustbin of history.

[Soundman]

156. Huh?

What? I hear an echo.......there are some VERY, VERY uptight people here. I read a post earlier I though hit the nail on the head, something about five or so people making this place miserable? If there is one saving grace though, it should become much more readable around here after the first of the year.

Merry Christmas to you and yours,

S.M.

[LanternWaste]

184. Quite correct... and they're rather laborious in telling us about the

".there are some VERY, VERY uptight people here..." Quite correct... and they're rather laborious in telling us about the "five or so people making this place miserable", never realizing they are in fact, contributing to the suckage themselves.

(insert rationalization here)

[Soundman]

212. Why thank you,

I hadn't had my morning snark just yet.

[NaturalHigh]

216. Set your alarm clock 15 minutes early...

and log into GD every morning. You'll be loaded on snark before breakfast.

[BainsBane]

138. Some on DU may wish to reduce this discussion to a familiar song

In order to avoid understanding the actual context, but it began because I posted in HOF an Indian PSA about street harassment, the kind that is part of the culture of rape and murder in that country. Redqueen reposted it in GD. It got over 125 recs, but a couple of men decided that such an ad was an affront to their right to treat women as garbage. That an Indian PSA is too progressive for a few around here is really their problem.

In case you missed it:

[NaturalHigh]

197. Okay, Warren, I have to ask...

what is this thread of which you write? It seems like it might be interesting.

[NaturalHigh]

211. Thanks.

I see some reading entertainment in my future.

[pintobean]

155. I'm privileged and entitled?

I had no idea. To what? And what is awfully telling?

It appears to me that I'm entitled to the presumption of guilt, since I'm a man, unless I climb on the HOF bandwagon.

I don't need to be "educated" on things that my parents taught me 40-50 years ago - a code of conduct that I've lived my whole life. None of the women who have been in my life have ever thought of me the way you presume me to be. This is a website for liberals and progressives. I assume that every man here knows how to treat women with respect. Everyone here is entitled to the presumption of innocence.

What you're seeing is push-back against arrogant and insulting presumptions and accusations.

[seabeyond]

178. "What you're seeing is push-back" what i said. women get a little out of line, out comes naked women

[pintobean]

181. You're not out of line because you're a woman.

You're out of line for all the false assumptions and accusations against your fellow DUers - male and female. Agreeing with the HOF pov is not a purity test for this site.

[seabeyond]

183. i beg your pardon. what accusations? we put out a psa, you men flipped for whatever reason.

out comes the naked women. push back.

you do not like whatever

talk about false accusation

none of you can stick to the point. YOU go to the personal attack. and it does not even have to be valid

my POINT. and true. you state, push back... because you do not like what we were saying

out comes the naked

another thread, your creative personal attack

tell me about integrity pinto

where would my false be.... addressing what YOU put out

[NaturalHigh]

185. There you go with the "you men" meme again.

Typical.

[seabeyond]

186. yes. YOU demand i get specific. specific i got. YOU men that are doing this.

you are going to gripe now that i got specific? you gripe when i dont get specific. tells me you leave no option. i am not allowed to address the specific men that are doing this

typical

[NaturalHigh]

188. Which specific men are you addressing?

Who are "you men"? Is it me? Did I do something to personally offend you, or are you just offended in general?

[seabeyond]

191. the men in THIS thread that need to push back with naked women. since that is what i am addressing

[NaturalHigh]

192. I honestly have no idea what you are talking about.

What do you mean by "push back"? Push back against what?

[seabeyond]

194. so. you really didnt read the exchange. simply saw me type you men, and had a gotcha moment. hey.

you are wasting my time. i am outta here

[NaturalHigh]

195. Well, have a nice day.

As always, it's been a pleasure chatting with you.

[quinnox]

116. lol, no doubt!

[LanternWaste]

187. And nothing piques the vapid interests of some people as "Hawt Celebs" also.

And nothing piques the vapid interests of some people as "Hawt Celebs" also.

Six of one, half a dozen of the other-- both as petulant as the other, yet insert distinction without a difference here... just in case)

[NaturalHigh]

189. Well, there's always...

opening doors.

[seabeyond]

198. and another ambiguious comment from the man that expects exact language.

benevolent sexism was in an OP from a man. another man asked what it was. i gave a definition and two or three examples. YOU men (that would be the men harping on "the doors&quot reduced all that, the term benevolent sexism, the definition, and the other two examples to the one example of opening the door.

do lecture me on honesty.

and please. do not make me laugh while you do it.

[NaturalHigh]

199. I wish you WOULD laugh at my post...

since I intended it as a joke. An attempt at humor. Levity. Comedy.

(But, oh goodness, saying that opening doors for women is sexist was funny too.)

[seabeyond]

201. is benevolent sexism. a whole different animal. interesting theory. no one really arguing it.

more a theoretical discussion that turned into stupid with the whole door thing, even a year later.

laughing, i draw in air. drawing in air hurts... why i am trying not to laugh. nothing personal. see how little assuming accomplishes?

[NaturalHigh]

204. Well, I don't want you to laugh so much that it hurts.

I know you're sick, and I sympathize. Being sick sucks, especially in the cold weather. Maybe just a painless chuckle.

[seabeyond]

205. all in the smile and the throat... not letting it go lower. controlled.

i gotta laugh. one way or another. that is the majority of who i am.

i like you. i am ready to call out to all the men that see me as a man hater and tell them to line up, i buy the first round.

or it is the medicine talking, lol lol

[NaturalHigh]

206. Thanks, but you would have to come to Oklahoma.

For reasons that I won't get into right now, I'm never going to Amarillo again.

Have a pleasantly medicated evening. Hopefully you got the cough medicine with the codeine.

[seabeyond]

207. i did. lol. nt

[The Straight Story]

10. If you don't fantasize about men the same way....you're a sexist

Admit it, come on - you treat women differently than men. You kiss them, have sex with them, hold hands with them, look at them.

Don't worry though, a little re-neducation (simpson's reference) and we will have you doing the same thing with men and you won't be a bad person and feel ashamed anymore.

Oh, and you won't be harming those women anymore by your actions (why can't men see the pain they cause women when they only hold their hands and not that of other men???).

And if you really wanted to help, you would be getting the Churchill blowup doll as well, to be fair. You have soooo much to learn.

[Bennyboy]

21. Other than the Verizon guy (can you hear me now?)

I have no man crushes. I've tried.

[The Straight Story]

28. I am partial to John Barrowman myself

He helps me deal day to day because I can look at him and smile and people don't think I am mind raping him.

[demmiblue]

11. You are that half-naked hirsute dude with all the guns... we all know it. n/t

[loli phabay]

17. that guy is a legend on the interwebs.

[MattBaggins]

13. That little voice in your head

that tells you not to say stupid shit, are you missing that?

[Lex]

15. Evidently so.

Some people you really have to wonder about.

[JI7]

22. this is a pretty fucked up thread

[Vashta Nerada]

24. Who doesn't?

Pointless OP.

Thread #11 I have trashed today.

[JI7]

25. your post is similar to wingnut attacks on Hillary Clinton's looks

you may think you are different but it's not really at all.

[loli phabay]

26. congratulations, it means you are a normal human being

fantasy and imagination are part of the human experience.

[LittleBlue]

27. Oh dear lord

I drew my popcorn within 1 sentence. That's a new record, Benny

[intaglio]

29. Do you actually think you are clever?

What tempted you to spawn this piece of ill thought, juvenile twaddle?

Everybody has fantasies but some of them are the fantasies of adults not the fantasies of kiddies who only want sex and only with beautiful people.

[JI7]

32. it looks like mostly playing to a certain loser crowd

[Demo_Chris]

31. I predict 200 replies....

[NaturalHigh]

200. You made it.

[Demo_Chris]

208. lol

[nomorenomore08]

33. And is anyone questioning your right to your own private thoughts?

If they are then they're insane. Full stop.

[RC]

35. You do realize how many people around here you just called insane...

[davidn3600]

42. You ain't joking...

[nomorenomore08]

49. Yeah, God forbid a guy not be rude in public. That really cuts into his fantasy life.

[redqueen]

51. Key word: "private". nt

[oldhippie]

43. Have you been away ......

... for the last 24 hours?

[nomorenomore08]

47. So how is telling you not to stare at people and creep them out *in any way*

the same thing as trying to regulate your private thoughts? I don't see that at all.

[oldhippie]

50. OK

See it your way. I was just wondering.

[nomorenomore08]

53. I literally have not seen a single post condemning sexual fantasies.

At most it seems to be "keep it to yourself." Which I don't find unreasonable.

[gollygee]

34. Nobody cares

And it's creepy to start a thread about it for no reason.

[bettyellen]

37. its dudes feeling entitled to totally free expression, like that duck crap. it's still crap, but...

it;s freedumb.

[Harmony Blue]

36. I consider this thread topic an upgrade

over the penis size thread haha.

[PowerToThePeople]

38. trashcanned this puker

why???!!!!!

Jesus guys, these women deserve our support, not angst.

[BainsBane]

41. You know, try as i might, I just can't make myself fantasize

about stupid men. I have tried, really. I've tried to think about guys who just don't get it--who don't get much at all--as I pleasure myself, but I just can't do it.

I need help and soon. I sent away for my . (fill in a random name).. . . blow up doll, but I'm afraid it won't make it for the holidays. Here I am relegated to fantasizing only about smart, decent guys with IQs over 110. Poor Ran Gavrieli till then, eh?

[Comrade Grumpy]

74. Julie Brown can:

...for what it's worth.

I also enjoyed her "Homecoming Queen's Got a Gun" and "Trapped in the Body of a White Girl."

[BainsBane]

76. I'm sure even she has her limits

[Eleanors38]

89. "Your boyfriend graduated from Yale? My boyfriend just got outta jail."

[MadrasT]

44. Nobody cares. n/t

[xulamaude]

45. I think you posted in the wrong place. nt

[Blue_In_AK]

46. It's humor, people.

Please, can we learn to laugh at ourselves a little?

[Lex]

52. It's creepy

is what it is. Over-share creepy.

[Blue_In_AK]

61. Maybe, but hardly worth getting bent out of shape about.

Obviously, posted with the intention of getting a rise out of certain people -- and, lo and behold -- it WORKED.

[loli phabay]

73. its called fishing on other websites i frequent but it rarely has the same hysterical results.

though the sex wars here are tame compared to some ive seen.

[redqueen]

64. Humor which mocks Hillary Clinton, Margaret Thatcher, and Julia Roberts

for their looks, in the context of a 'they're so ugly, it's outrageous for me to think of them while jacking off, that's why it's funny!' way?

You're defending this as reasonable humor for DU?

[Blue_In_AK]

66. I'm just saying that the outrage gives it more importance than it deserves.

As I said in my other reply, BennyBoy obviously posted this to get a rise out of people, and by giving him what he wants, you're playing right into his hand. If these ridiculous posts were ignored, they would eventually go away.

[redqueen]

67. The joke plays into the original OP, though, and it's an important issue.

As I just said elsewhere, it's really sad that so many work so hard to ensure that these discussions are turned into a big mess. But that's their goal.

I get that ignoring this one individual's post would allow it to sink, but the societal message it carries needs to have a light shone on it, because ignoring the problem just ensures it continues. A lot of people are still not getting it, but things are improving I think.

Hope you're enjoying your holiday season Blue, I really gotta get off this thing

[Blue_In_AK]

70. Thanks, redqueen

I do take your point -- and I used to get ogled myself quite a bit back in my younger days. It's the boobs -- for some reason boobs make men stupid. (Maybe that's why they call them "boobs," I don't know.).

Anyway, one of the many perks of getting old is that that doesn't happen much anymore. It is a blessing.

I'm having a great holiday season. All the shopping and wrapping were done weeks ago, so it's just been baking cookies and planning Christmas dinner for us and the kids. Easy-peasy.

[oldhippie]

107. Nice context, did you come up with that all by yourself?

Jesus.

I think this whole thread is hilarious. It sure stirred up the "certain people."

[Heidi]

119. Huh. Maybe it's just me, then. I prefer humor that contains, well, some humor. (nt)

[Blue_In_AK]

120. I choose not to be angry all the time.

[Heidi]

121. Me, too. And the OP couldn't make me angry if he tried.

I was rebutting your claim that the OP is humorous. I disagree. Nothing personal.

[Blue_In_AK]

122. Maybe I should have said "attempt at humor"

People are taking themselves entirely too seriously here today -- well, not just today -- and I'm kind of bored with it.

[Heidi]

123. I guess I'm at that point, too.

I passed "sad" a while back.

[NaturalHigh]

177. NO! WE MUST BE OUTRAGED!

Outrage all the time! It's terrifying to think that someone might be having fun.

[JackRiddler]

48. Actually, sir, I think Hillary Clinton is pretty good looking.

Here's a swimsuit photo:

http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/.a/6a00d8341c630a53ef01348641bc49970c-400wi

Wish her looks were the only thing to worry about with her.

Your implicit assumption that there is one measure of "attractive" that allows you to categorize one woman as attractive, and another as unattractive, and assume that everyone will take these assessments as self-evident, and to do so in such a public form without regard for the response, is just one of the things that makes you and your post so singularly unattractive.

But maybe you can still get away with the "sorry, I was drunk" excuse.

I too fantasize about women all the time. The difference is to know who wants to hear about it.

[westerebus]

55. This is gonna be a classic.

[A-Schwarzenegger]

56. A ton of simple.

[etherealtruth]

57. Well this is very special

NOT

[smirkymonkey]

58. Look, I fantasize about men a lot too, but I don't see the need to start an OP about it.

What exactly was the point about this?

[BainsBane]

65. The point is some have trouble distinguishing between harassment and normal sexuality

So their response to a post about a video seeking to raise awareness about harassment is to view it as an attack on their own sexuality. For some reason, they can't distinguish physical attraction from predatory behavior. Don't ask me why.

[Electric Monk]

69. Actually, there are swimsuit pictures of Hillary Clinton online, fwiw

There's at least one, anyway http://www.waleg.com/photos/displayimage.php?album=1873&pid=16667

and photoshops...
http://www.buzzfeed.com/katienotopoulos/the-25-most-absurd-hillary-clinton-photoshops
(scroll down to #13)


er.... and then there's this: http://www.i-am-bored.com/bored_link.cfm?link_id=25939

[loli phabay]

77. i think i will give them a miss, better safe than sorry but good investigating.

[Aerows]

157. OMG that second link is FULL of WIN

It had me in stitches

[derby378]

78. ...

[panader0]

80. I had a wet dream once or twice.

I'm so sorry DU!

[pintobean]

82. Like this?

[RiffRandell]

88. The first step is admitting you have a problem.

Congratulations!

[madinmaryland]

84. This could become a real sticky situation!

[kwassa]

87. Why don't you jerk off in private?

Do we really need to know about this?

Or is this part of the thrill for you?

[smirkymonkey]

215. I suppose that he must lett us know how much of a pathatic loser he is.

It seems to be the only exlplaination.

[darkangel218]

90. Lol this is funny!!

[Whisp]

106. oiy veh...

[BKH70041]

91. Farrah Fawcett wouldn't even talk to Steve Martin.

And after all the times he held up her poster with just one hand.

[Squinch]

92. I admit it. Sometimes I eat lunch....(Ha ha ha!)

See how that's not funny?

Trashing.

[alcibiades_mystery]

94. Jeez, Admins...feel free to step in on this shit at any time

[badtoworse]

95. A guy fantasizing about outrageous sex with gorgeous women. Now that is weird.

And I thought I'd seen or heard of everything.

[NaturalHigh]

180. Shocking indeed.

[NuclearDem]

97. What the fuck? Why is this disgusting shit allowed to stand here?

[Whisp]

102. Juried 2-4 to leave it alone.

sick shit.

and the boys with the crusty shorts are giggling about now.

[NuclearDem]

104. Seriously, reducing powerful and accomplished women to just fuck slaves

This shit has got to stop.

And that a jury allowed this shit to stand and people actually rec'd it is just fucking depressing.

[Whisp]

105. the community has spoken...nice neighbourhood, eh? n/t

[Whisp]

112. 'man haters'.

LOL.

I think you shaked yer head too fast and hard for too long.

hard and fast... oooo, baby.


baaaaaby.
yeh.

[NuclearDem]

115. Man haters? Oh give me a fucking break.

[BainsBane]

132. Check the urban dictionary definition for man hater

daring to question privilege; imagining women to be equal to men. Such an outrage.

[Oakenshield]

133. Look on the bright side.

Jury system actually worked for a change.

[pinboy3niner]

99. ...

h/t rug http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018540062

[In_The_Wind]

151. ...

[Whisp]

101. Margaret Thatcher blow up doll?

way to go there, Studdly McPistol.

So even a woman of such stature as Thatcher was (even though I thought she was a horrible leader/person) is just some pokey holey thing to you?

W.T.F.
Why isn't this thread gone? What the Hell is wrong with some of you sickos?

[Sheldon Cooper]

146. What makes it even more pathetic is the poor little Benny here

will never, NEVER, accomplish even a quarter of what Senator Clinton and PM Thatcher achieved. But yet he gets to sit in judgement of their fuckability. As if they'll be crushed to learn that he would never 'do' them. He's apparently still waiting for Julia Roberts. As if.

[smirkymonkey]

213. How much do you want to bet that there are absolutely NO hot women fantasizing about him?

What a pathetic little boy.

[redqueen]

162. Gone hell, people are recommending it.

This place.

[dflprincess]

108. Doesn't crap like this belong in the lounge?

[Whisp]

109. It doesn't belong anywhere here. n/t

[dflprincess]

110. Good point

[Starry Messenger]

160. +1

[El_Johns]

114. Who cares?

[sheshe2]

117. Crass and Clueless post. nt

[JTFrog]

127. Good thing it's not against the TOS to be a misogynistic pig.

Banhammers would be falling left and right this month.

[UtahLib]

129. Anybody want to buy a slightly used star?

After seeing all the garbage left standing over the last few days, I may just give it away.

Trashing this garbage.

[De Leonist]

131. So what are supposed to do?

Unwanted Sexual Advances? Cat calling I can understand. But how exactly will I know if it's unwanted if I don't actually approach her. I mean it's not like I'm telepathic here, or is there a memo I didn't get. Say I see an attractive(that word believe it or not has a very complex continuum for men, I find many body types of women sexy and I'm not talking about hair color) woman and I approach her NOT because of her t'n'a but because shes maybe wearing an Iced Earth shirt or something else that shows a common interest is that than okay, or am I supposed to wait for some signal? Look if your talking about repeated advances after making it clear that you are otherwise attached or just not interested than certainly yes that is not okay. But again, not a mind reader so if I'm interested how the hell do I communicate that fact without approaching her or otherwise getting her attention? I mean sometimes I wonder just how many women who talk about unwanted advances are actually talking about being bothered by advances from UGLY guys. Again not that a woman doesn't have a right to her personal space. But ya'll get mad at us for liking to look at naked pictures of attractive women and say we shouldn't be so superficial than when a guy who doesn't exactly look like Johnny Depp approaches you eyeball the poor bastard like he's the Hunchback of Notre Dame. I agree that yes Beauty standards for women are becoming unrealistic and I agree that women shouldn't be blamed for being victimized because of what they wear. But damn it all what the hell are we supposed to do than? Wear a big ass sign that says "GIRLFRIEND WANTED".

[bettyellen]

145. if you sincerely want to know….

http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2013/04/how-to-reform-creeper/

[De Leonist]

163. HAHAHA!

Touche

I trolled and was trolled.

[nolabels]

173. I love slow morning weedays at department stores, it's so much easier to get around

Being unattractive troll has it's advantages, you just have to figure them out

Also if you could find me one of those signs "NO GIRLFRIEND WANTED". Often if you sometimes even glance at someone of the opposite because they are in your line of sight, they somehow figure they are in a size-me up game. When i was younger it was a bother but at age 55 i just don't give a damn what they think, just get the hell out of the way honey, you're wasting what time i have left on the earth

[treestar]

202. That would be "desperate"

Which is what girls get called if they are the ones to show interest.

It's the old fashioned sexist rule that men get to chose and women are to be chosen from.

True, most guys who fit "ugly" should accept that and not figure they are going to get any positive reaction when they insist on asking good looking women out, because well, Billy Joel managed it.

You don't have to look like Johnny Depp, but maybe talking to the girl instead of ogling might be more useful.

[malaise]

147. I'm seriously trying not to laugh

Happy Holidays

[boston bean]

148. sexist dribble

asserting your privilege in light of leering, staring, male gaze threads, using female democratic politicians as tools to explain what you like to jack off too.

[B Calm]

149. LOL

[Buns_of_Fire]

150. But what would the holidays be without a good old-fashioned DU free-for-all?

Silent night, holy night.....

[Iris]

153. Why isn't this in the Lounge?

[Aerows]

158. WTF?

[yardwork]

159. This OP stands. At least two threads complaining about it were locked/hidden

That says a lot about DU and it isn't good. There are better places to be during the holidays and nicer people to be with. Happy holidays everyone. Over and out.

[UtahLib]

161. Could not agree more.

I can only hope that Admin is experiencing the same WTH moment so many DUers have expressed in some pretty disturbing threads over the last few days.

Happy Holidays, yardwork

[Iris]

165. at this point I don't care if I ever have a star next to my name again.

Why would I donate money to a place that is no better than a Yahoo comments section?

[boston bean]

167. yeah, i got a hidden because posting about

how offensive this post is, was certainly more offensive than the post itself about whacking off to Hillary or not cause she is too ugly... or something....

Something is wrong here on DU....

Happy Holidays to you!!! Enjoy, I know I will.. spending time with close family having a nice dinner, then a little gathering with extended family members a little later in the day!

[pintobean]

170. The OP is a parody

of multiple posts in your safe have group that accuse DU men of jerking off to various outrages. You don't seem to have any problems with those posts, and you're a host there.

[boston bean]

172. oh, I guess that makes it all ok, then....

NOT.

[worstexever]

164. Pretty much explains why the OP is unable to maintain any intimate relationships

with real women.

[LeftishBrit]

166. Fantasize all you want, but could you please keep it to yourself, especially on a large political

board, right in the middle of the holidays at that?

In particular, I did NOT need to know about your Margaret Thatcher blow up doll!

[badtoworse]

169. The Margaret Thatcher blow up doll was a scream!

[retread]

168. As long as you confine your fantasies to your living quarters in your

mom's basement, society at large should be fine. It is a little worrisome that you have gone public though.

[antiquie]

171. Late to the party...

I thought it was satire.


http://www.waleg.com/photos/displayimage.php?album=1873&pid=16667#top_display_media

[Marr]

174. This post is embarrassing, insulting, intentionally divisive, and should've been deleted. /nt

[Doctor_J]

175. good Lord, benny. This is horrifying

There's such a thing as a Thatcher blow up doll????

Thanks for the holiday diversion

[Niceguy1]

176. sounds like a normal guy to me lol

[LanternWaste]

179. I imagine many creepy guys who can't get dates do that too.

I imagine many creepy guys who can't get dates do that too.

[randr]

182. I appreciate your openess and honesty

But I wish their was a Topic area just for guys lacking a healthy sex life.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

193. why are you advertising that you are not getting laid?

is it really something to be that proud of?

[PassingFair]

196. He's used to it. nt

[smirkymonkey]

214. LOL!