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Left Coast2020

(2,397 posts)
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 01:16 AM Jan 2014

A Time To Say Thank You

There is much I could say here but first things first. I just want to say thank you to the many DU'ers who responded to my initial post pertaining to my homeless situation. The only good news I can report is that I am out of the tea-baggers house--forever. It was mental hell. But now I seem to feel I am in a mental state of limbo based on recent developments. A dead phone with no minutes is also adding to the worries.

But first I have to make an honorable mention. There are a couple of members here who need special recognition: First The1one (?) in Texas for putting me in motel here in Calif. for a few days. A "five-star" performance in my book. She is a warm hearted liberal. My kind of people.

Second, Freakin DJ gets the best supporting award for allowing me to stay where I'm at now--in his camper trailer. Another 5-star performance. I am grateful. And there are many other supporting stars--too numerous to mention for their thoughts and prayers. But there is still a bit of worry on this end.

I was told a few days ago that this community has been hosting a fund raiser to help me relocate to another state. The reason being is an awesome DU'er in Ohio has offered temp housing situation(and leads for jobs opportunities?) till I can get independent again--which would mean I would be perm resident of Ohio. If you want help getting rid of Kacick(sp) I would be happy to do it. But I have been in limbo because I have not heard from them in a couple of days. I'm trying not to panic. Not knowing what is going on tends to work on your mind and cause you to worry. I want to think this is going to work out. Maybe its being over 50 that has something to do with it. Nonetheless, the plan (as I was told) was to try to get U-Haul like truck to get me and belongings to Ohio. I also got message that I should put something on wish-a-doo. I did check but apparently can't post because "wish" section is closed.

So I guess the best thing I can say is I'm not homeless, but stuck at "point A-trying to get to point B".

I hope you can understand what I'm trying to say in a virtual medium. I'm still a bit emotionally scared from all that has transpired recently. But I think I can heal from it in time if I'm in environment that's me to do so. I'm trying to look forward, but have a feeling of uncertainty. Its this uncertainty that is eating at me. So if there is some other fundraiser of some kind going on for a moving truck, I'm curious as to how it is doing. I'm flattered beyond words you guys and gals would do this. You are family as far as I'm concerned. I would love to invite everyone over and cook a big dinner to celebrate life with my friends. And I would do it if I could. I value friends. I value people who care. That's how I feel about those who are close to me. That's coming from the heart. When you don't have family, you desire for one.

Someone wrote me that this period would be tough. They were right. It has been tough. Still would be in catch-22 if I was at tea-baggers house. But fuck her. She's in the past and out of my life. I'm happy about that. I would be happier, though, if I could get to another place where I can live life, make new friends, fight for good causes, be an inspiration to younger people(teaching), and perhaps find someone special. That's all we need as humans. Just the essentials for some form of a pleasant existence. That's all I wish for. Bless you all. Thank you.

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A Time To Say Thank You (Original Post) Left Coast2020 Jan 2014 OP
Glad to hear you have a roof over your head and some prospects. Not knowing what's next is killer. freshwest Jan 2014 #1
You are correct that "Not Knowing" can wreck your mind. Left Coast2020 Jan 2014 #3
I know about the pain that a place can carry. Good journey to Ohio and new start. n/t freshwest Jan 2014 #5
A long-term friend of mine quit his job in DC to relocate to California Samantha Jan 2014 #8
Be here now. Relax. The future will unfold. roody Jan 2014 #2
Thank you Roody Left Coast2020 Jan 2014 #4
Hi Left! chillfactor Jan 2014 #6
I'm in Sacramento CA. Left Coast2020 Jan 2014 #7
No offense to the state of Ohio, ohheckyeah Jan 2014 #11
Yes your correct. It is nice. Left Coast2020 Jan 2014 #12
I drove across the country ohheckyeah Jan 2014 #13
No offense to the beautiful state roody Jan 2014 #21
I am glad you have a place to stay even if it is temporary. DUers are wonderful. sabrina 1 Jan 2014 #9
Yes.DU'ers are wonderful. Left Coast2020 Jan 2014 #15
How much stuff do you have? Th1onein Jan 2014 #10
Do you know if there is a fundraiser going on? Suich Jan 2014 #14
I've done that too. It does give more choices as far as travelling. sabrina 1 Jan 2014 #16
I'm assuming that you're who's mentioned in the original post renate Jan 2014 #19
The mystery is who put 1000 minutes on Left Coast's phone? Th1onein Jan 2014 #22
Someone who represents the best of DU roody Jan 2014 #23
Absolutely! Th1onein Jan 2014 #30
How do you do that? LiberalEsto Jan 2014 #24
Amtrak does that too. You can travel roody Jan 2014 #28
I can probably get you some phone minutes a2liberal Jan 2014 #17
I'm going to look at starting a paypal acct. Left Coast2020 Jan 2014 #18
Sorry, you're having to be in Cha Jan 2014 #20
I am glad for you nadinbrzezinski Jan 2014 #25
I'm not sure if I'm setting this right or not but trying to get Paypal going. Left Coast2020 Jan 2014 #26
I am not good with paypal. nadinbrzezinski Jan 2014 #27
As Christy's righthand dude noted last week.... Left Coast2020 Jan 2014 #29

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
1. Glad to hear you have a roof over your head and some prospects. Not knowing what's next is killer.
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 01:27 AM
Jan 2014

Is there any kind of assistance you can get for a job in CA? It's great about the offer of a move to OH, but that's a big haul to go there. Having tranversed the country myself, I know how very expensive, dangerous and stressful it can be on a person. I'm no longer up to making such drives, myself. Let us know what is going on about everything. Don't worry, any lack of response is more than likely just confusion or lack of money. Great to get help from those 3... that's the best news.

Left Coast2020

(2,397 posts)
3. You are correct that "Not Knowing" can wreck your mind.
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 01:38 AM
Jan 2014

Yes its also a big haul, but I take it as a "fresh start" kinda thing that I would look forward to. Too much pain has been suffered and memories of that pain are all over this area--for me personally. I was going to get into the "known unknowns" stuff, but that's another story.

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
8. A long-term friend of mine quit his job in DC to relocate to California
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 02:20 AM
Jan 2014

He left an excellent paying job because he felt certain he could get something out there. He said the U of CA had over 1,000 job openings. He had an interview the first week and was hired. He asked to start in the middle of January since he had to get his new home situated, and he was allowed to do that.

I guess my point is perhaps you should make sure you cannot find something where you are now before you go through the stress of moving again. Relocating your home is in the top ten stressors. If you could check that out, that might be a good thing.

I hope you stay in touch.

Sam

chillfactor

(7,575 posts)
6. Hi Left!
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 02:04 AM
Jan 2014

I have no idea where you are but i live in New Mexico and I have an extra room if you need a permanent place to live. Email me if interested.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
11. No offense to the state of Ohio,
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 02:39 AM
Jan 2014

but if I had a choice of Ohio or the area in your profile, I'd most definitely take New Mexico. That's a beautiful area! That's my dream area to live in.

Left Coast2020

(2,397 posts)
12. Yes your correct. It is nice.
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 02:48 AM
Jan 2014

I was ready to accept downside of Ohio...that being the cold. But I'm used to it living in Oregon and Northern China. And that's really cold about now.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
13. I drove across the country
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 02:52 AM
Jan 2014

and if I had been rich I would have just stopped and stayed in New Mexico. LOL

I hope things get better for you soon.

roody

(10,849 posts)
21. No offense to the beautiful state
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 12:46 PM
Jan 2014

of Ohio, but California is nice too. We are on the upswing economically, though drought may drive us all out.

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
9. I am glad you have a place to stay even if it is temporary. DUers are wonderful.
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 02:31 AM
Jan 2014

It is very hard not to know what the future holds but for now maybe taking a little time to recover from your experiences might not be a bad thing.

I hope you get to where you want to go.

Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
10. How much stuff do you have?
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 02:31 AM
Jan 2014

Little enough that it can be shipped by bus? I've shipped a lot of stuff that way, and big stuff, too.

Suich

(10,642 posts)
14. Do you know if there is a fundraiser going on?
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 02:56 AM
Jan 2014

Wishadoo is shut down until she can hire some help.

renate

(13,776 posts)
19. I'm assuming that you're who's mentioned in the original post
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 04:08 AM
Jan 2014

You are, literally, an angel... and I say that with no religious overtones if you don't want them, but you really are an angel. What a beautiful, compassionate, human thing to do.

Th1onein

(8,514 posts)
22. The mystery is who put 1000 minutes on Left Coast's phone?
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 04:32 PM
Jan 2014

It surprised the heck out of him, but its the first time I've heard him laugh since this whole thing started. He was so grateful.

 

LiberalEsto

(22,845 posts)
24. How do you do that?
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 09:27 PM
Jan 2014

My daughter's bf will probably be moving from LA to Pittsburgh soon, and can't fit everything in his car.

a2liberal

(1,524 posts)
17. I can probably get you some phone minutes
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 03:34 AM
Jan 2014

I know not having phone communication can be a major pain. Message me your carrier and I'll see if there's a way to buy online (or tell me if you know).

I don't know if a fundraiser already exists, but if it doesn't you can create one without Wishadoo while it's down... try gofundme for example (there's others too, don't know off the top of my head). I think you would need permission from admin to post it here though.

Left Coast2020

(2,397 posts)
18. I'm going to look at starting a paypal acct.
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 04:04 AM
Jan 2014

I've never had one before but I'll check it now. If I have questions, I'll come back and ask.

Cha

(297,211 posts)
20. Sorry, you're having to be in
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 05:12 AM
Jan 2014

such limbo, Left Coast. Hope you get on Terra Firma sooner than later.

Left Coast2020

(2,397 posts)
26. I'm not sure if I'm setting this right or not but trying to get Paypal going.
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 10:50 PM
Jan 2014

I've got an account, but not sure of the questions its asking and how it works. Some insight would be appreciated since wishadoo is down. Need to get this going ASAP.

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