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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsA Time To Say Thank You
There is much I could say here but first things first. I just want to say thank you to the many DU'ers who responded to my initial post pertaining to my homeless situation. The only good news I can report is that I am out of the tea-baggers house--forever. It was mental hell. But now I seem to feel I am in a mental state of limbo based on recent developments. A dead phone with no minutes is also adding to the worries.
But first I have to make an honorable mention. There are a couple of members here who need special recognition: First The1one (?) in Texas for putting me in motel here in Calif. for a few days. A "five-star" performance in my book. She is a warm hearted liberal. My kind of people.
Second, Freakin DJ gets the best supporting award for allowing me to stay where I'm at now--in his camper trailer. Another 5-star performance. I am grateful. And there are many other supporting stars--too numerous to mention for their thoughts and prayers. But there is still a bit of worry on this end.
I was told a few days ago that this community has been hosting a fund raiser to help me relocate to another state. The reason being is an awesome DU'er in Ohio has offered temp housing situation(and leads for jobs opportunities?) till I can get independent again--which would mean I would be perm resident of Ohio. If you want help getting rid of Kacick(sp) I would be happy to do it. But I have been in limbo because I have not heard from them in a couple of days. I'm trying not to panic. Not knowing what is going on tends to work on your mind and cause you to worry. I want to think this is going to work out. Maybe its being over 50 that has something to do with it. Nonetheless, the plan (as I was told) was to try to get U-Haul like truck to get me and belongings to Ohio. I also got message that I should put something on wish-a-doo. I did check but apparently can't post because "wish" section is closed.
So I guess the best thing I can say is I'm not homeless, but stuck at "point A-trying to get to point B".
I hope you can understand what I'm trying to say in a virtual medium. I'm still a bit emotionally scared from all that has transpired recently. But I think I can heal from it in time if I'm in environment that's me to do so. I'm trying to look forward, but have a feeling of uncertainty. Its this uncertainty that is eating at me. So if there is some other fundraiser of some kind going on for a moving truck, I'm curious as to how it is doing. I'm flattered beyond words you guys and gals would do this. You are family as far as I'm concerned. I would love to invite everyone over and cook a big dinner to celebrate life with my friends. And I would do it if I could. I value friends. I value people who care. That's how I feel about those who are close to me. That's coming from the heart. When you don't have family, you desire for one.
Someone wrote me that this period would be tough. They were right. It has been tough. Still would be in catch-22 if I was at tea-baggers house. But fuck her. She's in the past and out of my life. I'm happy about that. I would be happier, though, if I could get to another place where I can live life, make new friends, fight for good causes, be an inspiration to younger people(teaching), and perhaps find someone special. That's all we need as humans. Just the essentials for some form of a pleasant existence. That's all I wish for. Bless you all. Thank you.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)Is there any kind of assistance you can get for a job in CA? It's great about the offer of a move to OH, but that's a big haul to go there. Having tranversed the country myself, I know how very expensive, dangerous and stressful it can be on a person. I'm no longer up to making such drives, myself. Let us know what is going on about everything. Don't worry, any lack of response is more than likely just confusion or lack of money. Great to get help from those 3... that's the best news.
Left Coast2020
(2,397 posts)Yes its also a big haul, but I take it as a "fresh start" kinda thing that I would look forward to. Too much pain has been suffered and memories of that pain are all over this area--for me personally. I was going to get into the "known unknowns" stuff, but that's another story.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)Samantha
(9,314 posts)He left an excellent paying job because he felt certain he could get something out there. He said the U of CA had over 1,000 job openings. He had an interview the first week and was hired. He asked to start in the middle of January since he had to get his new home situated, and he was allowed to do that.
I guess my point is perhaps you should make sure you cannot find something where you are now before you go through the stress of moving again. Relocating your home is in the top ten stressors. If you could check that out, that might be a good thing.
I hope you stay in touch.
Sam
roody
(10,849 posts)Enjoy the moment, the rain, the sunshine.
Left Coast2020
(2,397 posts)chillfactor
(7,575 posts)I have no idea where you are but i live in New Mexico and I have an extra room if you need a permanent place to live. Email me if interested.
Left Coast2020
(2,397 posts)I appreciate the offer. What city are you in?
ohheckyeah
(9,314 posts)but if I had a choice of Ohio or the area in your profile, I'd most definitely take New Mexico. That's a beautiful area! That's my dream area to live in.
Left Coast2020
(2,397 posts)I was ready to accept downside of Ohio...that being the cold. But I'm used to it living in Oregon and Northern China. And that's really cold about now.
ohheckyeah
(9,314 posts)and if I had been rich I would have just stopped and stayed in New Mexico. LOL
I hope things get better for you soon.
roody
(10,849 posts)of Ohio, but California is nice too. We are on the upswing economically, though drought may drive us all out.
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)It is very hard not to know what the future holds but for now maybe taking a little time to recover from your experiences might not be a bad thing.
I hope you get to where you want to go.
Left Coast2020
(2,397 posts)Th1onein
(8,514 posts)Little enough that it can be shipped by bus? I've shipped a lot of stuff that way, and big stuff, too.
Suich
(10,642 posts)Wishadoo is shut down until she can hire some help.
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)renate
(13,776 posts)You are, literally, an angel... and I say that with no religious overtones if you don't want them, but you really are an angel. What a beautiful, compassionate, human thing to do.
Th1onein
(8,514 posts)It surprised the heck out of him, but its the first time I've heard him laugh since this whole thing started. He was so grateful.
roody
(10,849 posts)Th1onein
(8,514 posts)LiberalEsto
(22,845 posts)My daughter's bf will probably be moving from LA to Pittsburgh soon, and can't fit everything in his car.
roody
(10,849 posts)With the boxes.
a2liberal
(1,524 posts)I know not having phone communication can be a major pain. Message me your carrier and I'll see if there's a way to buy online (or tell me if you know).
I don't know if a fundraiser already exists, but if it doesn't you can create one without Wishadoo while it's down... try gofundme for example (there's others too, don't know off the top of my head). I think you would need permission from admin to post it here though.
Left Coast2020
(2,397 posts)I've never had one before but I'll check it now. If I have questions, I'll come back and ask.
Cha
(297,211 posts)such limbo, Left Coast. Hope you get on Terra Firma sooner than later.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)Left Coast2020
(2,397 posts)I've got an account, but not sure of the questions its asking and how it works. Some insight would be appreciated since wishadoo is down. Need to get this going ASAP.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)I wish I could help.
Left Coast2020
(2,397 posts)Got It!
(fingers crossed).