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http://thenewcivilrightsmovement.com/school-9-year-old-boy-to-blame-for-being-bullied-bans-his-my-little-pony-backpack/news/2014/03/17/84438In fact, Noreen Bruce, Graysons mom, calls it flawed logic; it doesnt make any sense, and adds, saying a lunchbox is a trigger for bullying is like saying a short skirt is a trigger for rape.
Grayson is a big fan of My Little Pony, but when he brought his new Rainbow Dash backpack to school, classmates at his North Carolina school started punching me, pushing me down, calling me horrible names, stuff that really shouldnt happen, he told WLOS News.
Graysons mom says she was later contacted by the principal saying Grayson could no longer bring this lunchbox to school. My son is being called awful names and has even been told to go home and kill himself! Now on top of everything he cant bring a lunch box he really likes and I feel like is being sent the message that this is his fault.
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MineralMan
(146,288 posts)Are you saying that his parents and he are to blame for his being bullied? Over a cartoon character backpack. I'm sure that can't be what you mean, but that's what it sounds like.
Blaming the victim is not really appropriate here.
Lost_Count
(555 posts)arcane1
(38,613 posts)Let's just create a world where we all bow down to bullies, and let them always have their way. Let's make all of our choices by asking the question "will some asshole beat me up for this choice?"
What could go wrong?
CreekDog
(46,192 posts)he's been blaming the victims of bullying for the bullying for ages.
arcane1
(38,613 posts)ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)Or one of the other FAUX News clowns like Manatty?
Lost_Count
(555 posts)... but you seem unusually well informed about their activities.
Keep an eye out for this fascinating story and report back...
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)bravenak
(34,648 posts)City Lights
(25,171 posts)Why do you blame the victim rather than those responsible for the bullying and violence?
tenderfoot
(8,426 posts)sooner rather than later.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Imaginary social constructs are not "reality".
Nay
(12,051 posts)allows Grayson to be bullied over a lunchbox is beyond insane. Why on earth would a school want to encourage bullying??? Honestly, I think I was dropped on the wrong planet.
You know what's really sad? Once Grayson defends himself by punching some dimwit who punched him first, the damn school will have him suspended.
eShirl
(18,490 posts)Way to send the wrong message!
arcane1
(38,613 posts)City Lights
(25,171 posts)redqueen
(115,103 posts)yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)adding One!
warrprayer
(4,734 posts)Response to KamaAina (Original post)
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MineralMan
(146,288 posts)Please explain, if you don't mind.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Google "bronies".
Brickbat
(19,339 posts)NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)"Pray to God but row away from the rocks"
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)kowtow to all the bullies and just get through life.
At least until they find something else to pick on you about.
Or live the life you want and see the groundswell of support you may get which leads to many teachable moments, especially with the dangers of bullying.
GeorgeGist
(25,320 posts)to be a Democrat.
Brickbat
(19,339 posts)MineralMan
(146,288 posts)carry the gear he likes? Why is he punished, instead of the bullies?
arcane1
(38,613 posts)nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)joeybee12
(56,177 posts)when they find yet another thing to bully you about, change that...repeat ad nasuem
Bernardo de La Paz
(49,001 posts)RebelOne
(30,947 posts)on bullying in Atlanta schools last night.
It was of special interest to me because of a friend of mine whose son committed suicide in a North Georgia middle school because of bullying.
This happened in the late '90s. He was bullied because of his weight. One day, he took his father's pistol to the school. He stood up in class and told everyone he could not take the bullying any longer and shot himself fatally in the head.
LostOne4Ever
(9,288 posts)If he likes MLP he should be allowed to bring his lunchbox, and the SCHOOL should STOP THE BULLIES.
Why do people have to be so hateful.
Besides, Rainbow Dash is awesome
redqueen
(115,103 posts)It is associated with no small amount of controversy.
This boy should be protected from gender-obsessed bullies, but that label does not belong to him unless he's claimed it himself.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)adult males.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)that they have to make up a special name for themselves.
It is adult male fans who came up with the term. If any boys are caught up in the need to set themselves apart from the 'target audience' solely on account of their sex, well that's just unfortunate.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)bvar22
(39,909 posts)I have no idea what a Brony is,
but if someone is being bullied for being one,
then I'm one too!
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Bro + pony = brony.
Usually, the term refers to an adult male -- but this is the second time I've heard of a schoolboy being bullied over My Little Pony.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)The distinction isn't super-relevant really, this boy was bullied and that is wrong. But the term Brony was coined to refer to adult males, good or bad.
(I think it may have started in 4Chan if that helps. Mostly started as viciousness toward furries, etc.)
William769
(55,146 posts)It's the bullied kids fault that he is being bullied. Whats next?
I could go on how these tactics are the exact same one's being used by Russia but then I would be accused of being a bully. God only know we have our share of puntinista's here. Eyes:
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sakabatou
(42,152 posts)Blame the bullies, not the victim!
William769
(55,146 posts)Last edited Mon Mar 17, 2014, 05:31 PM - Edit history (1)
I have it on my site. Here is the link: http://lgbtworld.info/school-bans-bullied-kids-my-little-pony-schoolbag/
davidn3600
(6,342 posts)I think the parents have a very nice gender discrimination lawsuit against the school.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)first blame the victim, when that does not work, pressure the victim to leave.
We never want to deal with the bullies.
jmowreader
(50,557 posts)The bullies will keep on bullying him until they succeed in forcing his family to pull him out of school, or he kills himself. And then they'll celebrate. Because that's what sociopaths do - and ALL bullies have sociopathic tendencies. They know they've won this one; they bullied him out of his Rainbow Dash bag.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)or the adult world.
Bettie
(16,095 posts)I think that makes him a child who likes a children's show, not an adult male who is really, really into a children's show.
Banning his backpack and/or lunchbox, stupid. They should be addressing the bullies and dealing with it from that angle.
WHEN CRABS ROAR
(3,813 posts)He's only nine years old for gods sake, he's an Innocent child.
Kurska
(5,739 posts)If you're bullied for being different, it is your fault for being different.
Auggie
(31,167 posts)Just had to post this.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)I can't stand bullying and I'm sorry the school messed up.
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)I was picked on due making high grades. Even sadder, it was other girls making me feel bad about it! It was the norm for girls not to do god in things like math or science, etc..
If you did Anything out of the "Norm", you were an outcast.
And here it is again today! This kind of thing needs to STOP!
R0ckyRac00n
(84 posts)...and the principal's name is Stephen Chandler. His email is: stephen.chandler@bcsemail.org. (not suggesting anything malicious, just posted for anyone who might want to write a civil note in support of Garyson and suggesting the fault lies in the bullies and not the bullied.
SwankyXomb
(2,030 posts)to find out his home address and phone number and post them here for all to see. Terribly wrong.
d_legendary1
(2,586 posts)because their parents have instilled their bigotry onto their offspring. And it doesn't help anyone if the victim is labeled the offender to appease his attackers.
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)It's incumbent on the administration to punish people who bully, regardless of the degree of deviation from social norms that the victim exhibits.
WonderGrunion
(2,995 posts)Brohoof
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)http://blog.sfgate.com/sfmoms/2014/03/21/school-allows-bullied-boy-to-wear-my-little-pony-backpack-to-school/
But then a social media firestorm ensued. Graysons mom, Noreen Bruce, launched a Support for Grayson Facebook page, attracting over 70,000 fans, and people all over the world wrote in messages telling the boy that his love for My Little Pony is awesome. Men posted images of themselves holding pony dolls. Media outlets across the country picked up the story and it sounds like the folks over at Hyatt Elementary heard the outcry because theyve changed their minds and are letting Grayson wear his Rainbow Dash backpack to school.
Yesterday, administrators at Buncombe County School district met with Graysons parents and they posted a message on the district Facebook page.
We have appreciated the opportunity to meet with the Bruce family and discuss the issues. We sincerely regret that the issue of being told to leave the bookbag at home was perceived as blaming Grayson. While that was not the intent, the perception became reality. We support Grayson bringing the bookbag to school.
Oh, how swell of them.
Also, I just realized that the earlier incident of Pony-related bullying was also in NC.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1014718304