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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsHawaii Legalized Same-Sex Marriage 6 Months Ago -- Guess What's Happened Since
Back in November, Hawaii became the 15th state to legalize same-sex marriage. While the debate was surprisingly contentious for the solidly Democratic state, these past few months have been nothing short of a honeymoon period.
Since ceremonies began taking place on Dec. 2, nearly 1,500 same-sex marriages have occurred -- that means one in every seven marriages in the past five months has been a same-sex couple.
And the happy occasions show no sign of stopping.
After the initial rush of couples tying the knot in December and January, wedding planner Gigi Lee said she's now seeing couples who are taking their time and planning something big.
"They're making a huge event out of it," Lee told Hawaii News Now. "They're renting boats and having big theme parties -- it's a huge event so there are lots of different elements. They're going on helicopter rides, so aside from just the wedding itself, I think it's really impacting the tourism industry as well."
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/05/16/impact-same-sex-marriage-hawaii_n_5334779.html
cyberswede
(26,117 posts)I wish the greeting card industry would catch up. I had a dickens of a time finding a suitable wedding card for our nephew's marriage last summer.
William769
(55,146 posts)I get all of mine online.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)for cards. It's not like flowers-by-wire, or the greeting card industry would have changed during the days of I Love Lucy.
Psst. I have some ideas.
greatauntoftriplets
(175,733 posts)The Illinois law goes into effect June 1, although some marriages have occurred in cases where one partner was not likely to live long enough. Sad, but it's great that they were accommodated.
William769
(55,146 posts)greatauntoftriplets
(175,733 posts)William769
(55,146 posts)For a time back in early 2000 I was a Sales & Marketing Director for a resort on Fort Myers Beach. One of our marketing campaigns in the winter was mailing out a ice scrapper to past guests with our logo & toll free # on it and the message "missing us now?". Reservation lines always lit up after that.
greatauntoftriplets
(175,733 posts)laundry_queen
(8,646 posts)Cha
(297,196 posts)Taken just now.. synchronized humpbacks!
with Lucy Khemka and 11 others in Kawela Bay, HI.
Not too bad a place to visit.. or even live here..
SunSeeker
(51,550 posts)Cha
(297,196 posts)Have an Awesome visit on Maui.. the whether was warm with cool breezes in the shade today.. IOW, Perfect!
William769
(55,146 posts)Just another reason to visit Cha.
Cha
(297,196 posts)Married, William!
sheshe2
(83,751 posts)I would love to come there for a visit~ sigh.
Cha
(297,196 posts)sheshe2
(83,751 posts)brooklynite
(94,520 posts)Mind you, you can still GO to Hawaii...for your honeymoon.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)in fact, Roy's, one of the standard-bearers of Pacific Rim cuisine, has a location in lower Manhattan.
Fearless
(18,421 posts)Or closer to home for me (and a touch cheaper!)... Cape Cod, MA...
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Damn it. now I need to plan something this summer...
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Wounded Bear
(58,648 posts)Sorry, couldn't help myself. Congrats and best wishes to the new happy couples.
rpannier
(24,329 posts)ended. The divorce rate among heterosexuals is 100%. And they're now living with water fowl
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)and all I got was this damn duck.
Fearless
(18,421 posts)William769
(55,146 posts)Fearless
(18,421 posts)William769
(55,146 posts)Fearless
(18,421 posts)William769
(55,146 posts)Fearless
(18,421 posts)shenmue
(38,506 posts)I love weddings.
mopinko
(70,092 posts)deep down, i think the whole thing was a cynical ploy to stimulate the economy.
;P
srsly, wait till we get it goin here. chicago is gonna boom.
tooeyeten
(1,074 posts)Right wingers are whirling dervishes?
xchrom
(108,903 posts)Lizzie Poppet
(10,164 posts)Initech
(100,068 posts)Gay marriage = great for economy
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)It had such a direct effect on all of those poor people, they all got divorced or snuffed out their spouse.
Cha
(297,196 posts)From your link..
"Retired Supreme Court Justice Steven Levinson, who has officiated many of Hawaii's same-sex ceremonies, told Hawaii News Now that most of the couples he's seen so far have waited a long time for the right to marry.
"My couples are averaging over 30 years together," he said. "The record is a couple going into their 48th year. They were 79 and 92 years old when I married them. They waited 48 years for the right to do it, so this is a very happy time."
ladyVet
(1,587 posts)Pardon me while I wipe a tear from my eye.
I'm so happy for these couples, yet sad to think they've had to wait so long to be legally united and recognized.
Cha
(297,196 posts)LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)All Hawaiian straight marriages were supposed to immediately crumble! There were supposed to be hurricanes, dammit, HURRICANES!!
But seriously, this is a happy thing to see.
rpannier
(24,329 posts)people because... uh.... never mind
nods to Steve Martin 1977
Donald Ian Rankin
(13,598 posts)Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)on hold to STILL stop marriage equality? It is a tactic I have noticed them using, when the red states appeal rulings that the laws are unconstitutional. So, even if these anti marriage equality laws get ruled unconstitutional, they are still able to deny rights that way. And they seem to be getting by with it, because no one has called them on it...yet. It's a crock how they are doing that and getting by with it.
I'm glad to see some states are allowing people to have equality. Props to Hawaii for that. MAJOR props.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)divorced. Oh wait, that never happens due to it. There goes a talking point!
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)the wedding planning and support industry ought to be all over this.
Hekate
(90,674 posts)Johonny
(20,841 posts)sheshe2
(83,751 posts)I think I have something in my eye.
So sweet, William.
William769
(55,146 posts)Thanks sheshe.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)Hey you said to guess...