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William769

(55,146 posts)
Fri May 16, 2014, 01:30 PM May 2014

Hawaii Legalized Same-Sex Marriage 6 Months Ago -- Guess What's Happened Since



Back in November, Hawaii became the 15th state to legalize same-sex marriage. While the debate was surprisingly contentious for the solidly Democratic state, these past few months have been nothing short of a honeymoon period.

Since ceremonies began taking place on Dec. 2, nearly 1,500 same-sex marriages have occurred -- that means one in every seven marriages in the past five months has been a same-sex couple.

And the happy occasions show no sign of stopping.

After the initial rush of couples tying the knot in December and January, wedding planner Gigi Lee said she's now seeing couples who are taking their time and planning something big.

"They're making a huge event out of it," Lee told Hawaii News Now. "They're renting boats and having big theme parties -- it's a huge event so there are lots of different elements. They're going on helicopter rides, so aside from just the wedding itself, I think it's really impacting the tourism industry as well."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/05/16/impact-same-sex-marriage-hawaii_n_5334779.html
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Hawaii Legalized Same-Sex Marriage 6 Months Ago -- Guess What's Happened Since (Original Post) William769 May 2014 OP
Excellent! Now... cyberswede May 2014 #1
Sorry to hear that. William769 May 2014 #2
Sounds like a business opportunity to me KamaAina May 2014 #3
It is. People still want to browse in brick & mortar stores Eleanors38 May 2014 #16
And such a romantic place for weddings! greatauntoftriplets May 2014 #4
Yes can't forget Illinois or the other States but... William769 May 2014 #8
And it's not 38 degrees there! greatauntoftriplets May 2014 #9
Great point. William769 May 2014 #10
I can see how that was effective! greatauntoftriplets May 2014 #11
HAHA that's great! nt laundry_queen May 2014 #17
Oh Wow, William.. I put that same pic on my FB page! Here's another one taken by my friend.. Cha May 2014 #22
I'll be landing in Maui tomorrow. Can't wait! SunSeeker May 2014 #34
Alo-ha, Sunseeker! Cha May 2014 #35
Great Pics! William769 May 2014 #36
A great place to get Cha May 2014 #43
That's beautiful Cha! sheshe2 May 2014 #47
Aloha, we'd love to have you, she.. Cha May 2014 #50
Now wouldn't that be fun! sheshe2 May 2014 #51
...but try to find a restaurant as good as NYC.. brooklynite May 2014 #29
It doesn't do too badly for a state with the population of the Bronx KamaAina May 2014 #52
From my own vacation a few months ago... Fearless May 2014 #44
A tsunami? A volcano? KamaAina May 2014 #5
How's the divorce rate going? Wounded Bear May 2014 #6
I've heard in every state where they've legalized it hetero marriages have ended rpannier May 2014 #23
Michael Sam kissed his white boyfriend... awoke_in_2003 May 2014 #30
Funny... I got something that rhymes with duck... Fearless May 2014 #32
a pluck? William769 May 2014 #37
That would be bad luck! Fearless May 2014 #38
Only if you got stuck. William769 May 2014 #39
That would suck! Fearless May 2014 #41
Like being in the muck! William769 May 2014 #42
Ugh, proper hygeine please! Fearless May 2014 #45
Whee! shenmue May 2014 #7
i'm tellin ya mopinko May 2014 #12
What happened since? tooeyeten May 2014 #13
du rec. xchrom May 2014 #14
What is "a lot of gay people got married?" I'll take Positive Trends for $500, Alex. Lizzie Poppet May 2014 #15
HAAAAA! I said this years ago! Initech May 2014 #18
Yabbut it ruined all the straight marriages on the islands! Arugula Latte May 2014 #19
Aloha William! It's so Awesome to see the happy couples around this Island.. Cha May 2014 #20
48 years! Wow. ladyVet May 2014 #25
I know ladyVet.. it's very heartwarming.. Cha May 2014 #27
Butbutbut the world was supposed to end!!!1! LadyHawkAZ May 2014 #21
It did. Don't you remember? It was not long ago. They packed everyone up and didn't tell the stupid rpannier May 2014 #46
My guess is "gay people have gotten married"? N.T. Donald Ian Rankin May 2014 #24
Anybody else noticed how the red states are putting rulings as unconstitutional Jamastiene May 2014 #26
I thought you were going to tell me a bunch of straight people nadinbrzezinski May 2014 #28
Good to hear... awoke_in_2003 May 2014 #31
Love rainbows. Love weddings. Love Hawai'i. Love this thread. Hekate May 2014 #33
Hawaii just was leveled by Godzilla! Johonny May 2014 #40
Now that is just beautiful~ sheshe2 May 2014 #48
Great PIC! William769 May 2014 #49
Pineapples started growing larger? Egnever May 2014 #53

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
1. Excellent! Now...
Fri May 16, 2014, 01:32 PM
May 2014

I wish the greeting card industry would catch up. I had a dickens of a time finding a suitable wedding card for our nephew's marriage last summer.

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
16. It is. People still want to browse in brick & mortar stores
Sat May 17, 2014, 01:45 PM
May 2014

for cards. It's not like flowers-by-wire, or the greeting card industry would have changed during the days of I Love Lucy.

Psst. I have some ideas.

greatauntoftriplets

(175,733 posts)
4. And such a romantic place for weddings!
Fri May 16, 2014, 01:36 PM
May 2014

The Illinois law goes into effect June 1, although some marriages have occurred in cases where one partner was not likely to live long enough. Sad, but it's great that they were accommodated.

William769

(55,146 posts)
10. Great point.
Fri May 16, 2014, 01:49 PM
May 2014

For a time back in early 2000 I was a Sales & Marketing Director for a resort on Fort Myers Beach. One of our marketing campaigns in the winter was mailing out a ice scrapper to past guests with our logo & toll free # on it and the message "missing us now?". Reservation lines always lit up after that.

Cha

(297,196 posts)
22. Oh Wow, William.. I put that same pic on my FB page! Here's another one taken by my friend..
Sat May 17, 2014, 05:23 PM
May 2014


Taken just now.. synchronized humpbacks!
— with Lucy Khemka and 11 others in Kawela Bay, HI.


Not too bad a place to visit.. or even live here..

Cha

(297,196 posts)
35. Alo-ha, Sunseeker!
Sun May 18, 2014, 02:53 AM
May 2014

Have an Awesome visit on Maui.. the whether was warm with cool breezes in the shade today.. IOW, Perfect!



brooklynite

(94,520 posts)
29. ...but try to find a restaurant as good as NYC..
Sat May 17, 2014, 10:20 PM
May 2014

Mind you, you can still GO to Hawaii...for your honeymoon.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
52. It doesn't do too badly for a state with the population of the Bronx
Mon May 19, 2014, 06:03 PM
May 2014

in fact, Roy's, one of the standard-bearers of Pacific Rim cuisine, has a location in lower Manhattan.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
44. From my own vacation a few months ago...
Mon May 19, 2014, 03:49 AM
May 2014


Or closer to home for me (and a touch cheaper!)... Cape Cod, MA...





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Damn it. now I need to plan something this summer...

Wounded Bear

(58,648 posts)
6. How's the divorce rate going?
Fri May 16, 2014, 01:39 PM
May 2014


Sorry, couldn't help myself. Congrats and best wishes to the new happy couples.

rpannier

(24,329 posts)
23. I've heard in every state where they've legalized it hetero marriages have ended
Sat May 17, 2014, 06:11 PM
May 2014

ended. The divorce rate among heterosexuals is 100%. And they're now living with water fowl

mopinko

(70,092 posts)
12. i'm tellin ya
Sat May 17, 2014, 09:09 AM
May 2014

deep down, i think the whole thing was a cynical ploy to stimulate the economy.
;P

srsly, wait till we get it goin here. chicago is gonna boom.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
19. Yabbut it ruined all the straight marriages on the islands!
Sat May 17, 2014, 04:17 PM
May 2014

It had such a direct effect on all of those poor people, they all got divorced or snuffed out their spouse.

Cha

(297,196 posts)
20. Aloha William! It's so Awesome to see the happy couples around this Island..
Sat May 17, 2014, 04:42 PM
May 2014

From your link..

"Retired Supreme Court Justice Steven Levinson, who has officiated many of Hawaii's same-sex ceremonies, told Hawaii News Now that most of the couples he's seen so far have waited a long time for the right to marry.

"My couples are averaging over 30 years together," he said. "The record is a couple going into their 48th year. They were 79 and 92 years old when I married them. They waited 48 years for the right to do it, so this is a very happy time."

ladyVet

(1,587 posts)
25. 48 years! Wow.
Sat May 17, 2014, 08:41 PM
May 2014

Pardon me while I wipe a tear from my eye.

I'm so happy for these couples, yet sad to think they've had to wait so long to be legally united and recognized.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
21. Butbutbut the world was supposed to end!!!1!
Sat May 17, 2014, 04:44 PM
May 2014

All Hawaiian straight marriages were supposed to immediately crumble! There were supposed to be hurricanes, dammit, HURRICANES!!



But seriously, this is a happy thing to see.

rpannier

(24,329 posts)
46. It did. Don't you remember? It was not long ago. They packed everyone up and didn't tell the stupid
Mon May 19, 2014, 04:47 AM
May 2014

people because... uh.... never mind

nods to Steve Martin 1977

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
26. Anybody else noticed how the red states are putting rulings as unconstitutional
Sat May 17, 2014, 08:49 PM
May 2014

on hold to STILL stop marriage equality? It is a tactic I have noticed them using, when the red states appeal rulings that the laws are unconstitutional. So, even if these anti marriage equality laws get ruled unconstitutional, they are still able to deny rights that way. And they seem to be getting by with it, because no one has called them on it...yet. It's a crock how they are doing that and getting by with it.

I'm glad to see some states are allowing people to have equality. Props to Hawaii for that. MAJOR props.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
28. I thought you were going to tell me a bunch of straight people
Sat May 17, 2014, 09:56 PM
May 2014

divorced. Oh wait, that never happens due to it. There goes a talking point!

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