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My mother was found dead in her home this morning. Her health wasn't great, but this was not expected.
My mother, July 17 1934 - May 21 2014
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GentryDixon
(2,953 posts)May you find peace.
bmbmd
(3,088 posts)Thoughts and prayers.
OneCrazyDiamond
(2,032 posts)Jackie Kennedy like. Thoughts and prayers.
REP
(21,691 posts)She and her friend Sofia were regularly mistaken for Elizabeth Taylor and Sophia Loren.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)UncleYoder
(233 posts)Ed Suspicious
(8,879 posts)Frustratedlady
(16,254 posts)myrna minx
(22,772 posts)DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)I wish you peace.
CherokeeDem
(3,709 posts)May you find comfort and peace in her memory.
Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)Baitball Blogger
(46,736 posts)She was beautiful.
Uben
(7,719 posts)That sucks, but most of us have to go thru it at some point. She was a very pretty lady! She was born the same year as my mom, so I know it's coming for me, too. Mom has rheumatoid arthritis and barely gets around without her scooter.
SamKnause
(13,108 posts)What a lovely lady.
Sending good vibes your way.
arthritisR_US
(7,288 posts)She was such a beautiful and elegant woman. After the shock subsides may peace and her love which still resides, envelop you.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)She was beautiful.
Peace.
jwirr
(39,215 posts)warrior1
(12,325 posts)Your mother was beautiful.
TBF
(32,067 posts)and I'm very sorry for your loss.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)democrank
(11,096 posts)May your lovely Mother rest in peace.
ProfessorGAC
(65,076 posts)Take care. One thing i'll say from personal experience was that my mom died rather suddenly and basically in her sleep. There was no long lingering decay. I always felt that was a good thing.
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)My dad was born in Dec 1933 and mom in August 1935.
I like the picture.
I want to use one like that for my own obituary. So often an 80 year old is shown with their latest photo. As if they were 70+ all of their life.
hedgehog
(36,286 posts)let me offer this condolence: it is my father's stated wish that he be found dead in his home. Please, don't feel any guilt over this! I suspect that this is the way your mother wanted to pass.
hlthe2b
(102,292 posts)Marrah_G
(28,581 posts)What a beautiful woman.
~hug~
Triana
(22,666 posts)She was a beauty and no doubt so much more than that. What a terrible, shocking loss!
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)I'm so sorry. And what a way to find out. She was a beautiful woman. God with the goddesses, dear woman.
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)I'm sure she's at peace.
Brigid
(17,621 posts)Warpy
(111,277 posts)Tsiyu
(18,186 posts)She was a fine woman it appears.
So sorry for this sudden loss.
msanthrope
(37,549 posts)Sanity Claws
(21,849 posts)She was just short of her 80th birthday. May she rest in peace.
I hope you have wonderful memories of your times together.
okaawhatever
(9,462 posts)octoberlib
(14,971 posts)tosh
(4,423 posts)Raine1967
(11,589 posts)devils chaplain
(602 posts)Sheepshank
(12,504 posts)peace
LibDemAlways
(15,139 posts)This happened with my father-in-law as well on Christmas Eve in 1998, so I know the shock that comes with sudden, unexpected loss.
Your mother was beautiful. I hope memories of good times shared bring you comfort and peace.
PumpkinAle
(1,210 posts)it must have been an awful shock for you.
The CCC
(463 posts)My condolences.
Thekaspervote
(32,778 posts)GeorgeGist
(25,321 posts)My father was from Kansas City.
TuxedoKat
(3,818 posts)I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved mother. What a beautiful woman she was. She was born the same year as my mom. (((HUGS)))
47of74
(18,470 posts)libodem
(19,288 posts)My sincere condolences for the unexpected loss of your beautiful mother.
polly7
(20,582 posts)Peace and strength to you and yours on the loss of your beautiful mother.
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)DesertDiamond
(1,616 posts)she had been sick for years I never really thought she would not be there. However, my mom and your mom are not really gone. They have just left their bodies. Your mom is right there with you, loving you, and I hope you can feel her presence because I know she wants you to.
yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)I understand why you are going through. I lost my Mom in November and it is tough. We are here for you.
ladyVet
(1,587 posts)Ohio Joe
(21,758 posts)My thoughts go out to you and your family
daleanime
(17,796 posts)reflection
(6,286 posts)I'm so sorry.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)date of birth and had to look twice...
Exactly one day younger than my mom!
Very sorry for your loss...that picture of her is just beautiful
LoisB
(7,206 posts)arely staircase
(12,482 posts)renate
(13,776 posts)What a traumatic way to find out... that's horrible. I'm so sorry.
ConservativeDemocrat
(2,720 posts)- C.D. Proud Member of the Reality Based Community
barbtries
(28,799 posts)she was very beautiful.
panader0
(25,816 posts)NEOhiodemocrat
(912 posts)She was a beautiful lady.
MissDeeds
(7,499 posts)What a terrible shock that must have been. Wow...she was a beautiful lady. Many good vibes and healing thoughts going out to you today.
Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)She sure was pretty.
giftedgirl77
(4,713 posts)Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)Chellee
(2,097 posts)My condolences to you and your family.
malaise
(269,054 posts)Deepest sympathy to you and yours
spooky3
(34,458 posts)on your loss.
cyberswede
(26,117 posts)What a lovely woman. My thoughts are with you today.
TorchTheWitch
(11,065 posts)Losing a parent is really hard no matter what your age.
Jefferson23
(30,099 posts)aikoaiko
(34,172 posts)She was very photogenic.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)Your thoughts of her will always be good thoughts.
radhika
(1,008 posts)joanbarnes
(1,722 posts).
freshwest
(53,661 posts)What a beauty!
RIP
greatauntoftriplets
(175,742 posts)TheNutcracker
(2,104 posts)Lifelong Protester
(8,421 posts)You have my sympathy-from a person who also got that bad phone call from a State Trooper
Demo_Chris
(6,234 posts)cantbeserious
(13,039 posts)eom
CreekDog
(46,192 posts)jimlup
(7,968 posts)Peace to you and your family
MerryBlooms
(11,770 posts)kpete
(71,996 posts)gorgeous photos
so sorry,
don't know what else to say
a huge loss...
peace in time,
kp
AverageJoe90
(10,745 posts)Not Me
(3,398 posts)She has such a beautiful smile. Please hold your memories of her close.
get the red out
(13,466 posts)Solly Mack
(90,773 posts)sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)Your mother is beautiful.
So sad to lose someone so close to you. Take care of yourself.
yellerpup
(12,253 posts)So sorry for your loss.
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)Ilsa
(61,695 posts)Was such a lovely lady. I bet she was a dear, sweet mom.
mfcorey1
(11,001 posts)Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)geardaddy
(24,931 posts)liberal N proud
(60,336 posts)Granny M
(1,395 posts)What a shock to receive a phone call like that in the middle of the night. Wishing you peace and comfort.
hootinholler
(26,449 posts)My best and most sincere condolences.
gademocrat7
(10,659 posts)icymist
(15,888 posts)Your mom was a very beautiful woman.
ismnotwasm
(41,989 posts)And sorry you had to hear about it that way.
What a beautiful, engaging presence she has in those photographs.
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)She was beautiful and elegant.
Beacool
(30,250 posts)My sincere condolences on your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
May your mom rest in peace.
VA_Jill
(9,983 posts)My mother died a year ago. It is hard to find yourself at the head of the generational train.
littlewolf
(3,813 posts)are seldom good, and when from the police even less so.
840high
(17,196 posts)Behind the Aegis
(53,961 posts)Kaleva
(36,312 posts)greatlaurel
(2,004 posts)So sorry for your loss. You mother had such lovely eyes, full of life and intelligence. Please take care of yourself during this difficult time.
Thank you for sharing your pictures.
bleedinglib
(212 posts)I'll bet she was as beautiful inside as she was outside!!
She is at peace!!
MineralMan
(146,317 posts)My thoughts are with you.
me b zola
(19,053 posts)I wish you comfort and peace during this difficult time. Keeping her memory alive will keep a part of her with you,
bearssoapbox
(1,408 posts)She is an elegant looking lady.
Condolences to you and your family.
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)My condolences.
I lost my Mom too, several years ago now. The first 24 hours are the worst. Try not to be alone. The first year of mourning sucks. After that it's not as painful.
My Mom gave me a lot of little signs she was still there with me, and came in a dream to me, too.
I hope you'll receive signs too as they are very comforting.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)I'm so sorry.
WillyT
(72,631 posts)Peace...
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)Judging by the sort of person you are, I'll bet your mom was as lovely on the inside as the outside.
Lint Head
(15,064 posts)Both of my parents have passed away a while ago. Is hard to let go but it will get better. Love!!!!
trusty elf
(7,394 posts)My sincerest condolences, REP.
redwitch
(14,944 posts)I miss my mom every day, talk to her too. I hope you are surrounded by loving friends and family now and always.
Your mom was stunning, lovely photos.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)Your mom was certainly a lovely and elegant lady.
PEACE!
Worried senior
(1,328 posts)MADem
(135,425 posts)My deepest condolences to you. I hope you have friends and family who can help you cope with this difficult loss. It is so difficult to lose a parent. It can seem like the pain is unending. It gets better, but it takes time. I hope you aren't alone and have people to lean on.
Rex
(65,616 posts)RIP.
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)My condolences...
Terra Alta
(5,158 posts)JI7
(89,252 posts)Squinch
(50,955 posts)liberal from boston
(856 posts)So sorry for the loss of your lovely mother. May all the incredible memories of your beautiful mother bring comfort to you & your family during this difficult time.
annabanana
(52,791 posts)My heart goes out to you.
WoodyD
(215 posts)So sorry for your loss. The photos show such a lovely, elegant woman.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)may you know no more pain. and your mother was a stunning woman!
Snotcicles
(9,089 posts)snagglepuss
(12,704 posts)A beautiful woman. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Bossy Monkey
(15,863 posts)countryjake
(8,554 posts)What a striking photo that is of your mother...a vibrant lovely woman!
So sorry for your shocking news.
cate94
(2,811 posts)heaven05
(18,124 posts)my sincere condolences on your loss.
blackspade
(10,056 posts)I love that first picture. Winona Ryder kind of looks like her!
Cha
(297,323 posts)May she Rest in Peace~
shenmue
(38,506 posts)Borchkins
(724 posts)I'm so sorry for your loss.
B
herding cats
(19,565 posts)My deepest condolences to you and all your family.
glinda
(14,807 posts)beautiful woman. Thank you for sharing the pictures of her. RIP.
Stuart G
(38,436 posts)Stellar
(5,644 posts)What a beautiful woman. I'm so sorry for your loss.
tomm2thumbs
(13,297 posts)She and you are in our thoughts. <hugggg>
REP
(21,691 posts)It still doesn't seem real.
Off to the doctor to deal with a kidney infection.
MrScorpio
(73,631 posts)May your lovely mom rest in power.
santamargarita
(3,170 posts)Gormy Cuss
(30,884 posts)It's very hard to lose someone so suddenly.
gopiscrap
(23,761 posts)prayers and healing wishes for you and yours!
westerebus
(2,976 posts)etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)Your mom was truly beautiful.
Will keep you and those that your mom in my heart and on my mind
Ruby the Liberal
(26,219 posts)and having to be notified in such an unexpected way.
Thank you for sharing the pictures - she was a beautiful woman.
eridani
(51,907 posts)Dorian Gray
(13,496 posts)I am so sorry. That is devastating.
Your mother is very beautiful. I'm sure you and many others will miss her immensely.
displacedtexan
(15,696 posts)She looks very kind and happy!
bananas
(27,509 posts)LiberalEsto
(22,845 posts)wildbilln864
(13,382 posts)catrose
(5,068 posts)what a shock. thinking of you...
niyad
(113,344 posts)lovely soul.
Tess49
(1,580 posts)fizzgig
(24,146 posts)peace and comfort to you
dflprincess
(28,079 posts)My mom died two years ago today.
It takes time, be kind to yourself.
City Lights
(25,171 posts)Your mom was a lovely lady.
REP
(21,691 posts)And now they will always be the same age: 79
Her sister, and my only "blood" aunt died 5/1/2002.
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)Ms. Toad
(34,075 posts)NealK
(1,870 posts)Samantha
(9,314 posts)Your mother looks like a lovely person, and I am sure she was important to you. In time you will realize, a part of her will always be with you. So sorry for your loss.
Sam
Sissyk
(12,665 posts)I hope your family and friends surround you with love and support.
mwrguy
(3,245 posts)Generic Other
(28,979 posts)So sorry for your loss.
Rhiannon12866
(205,509 posts)What a terrible way to find out, let alone to happen at all. She was quite lovely. I lost my mother 2 1/2 years ago, an accident, and it's still tough to deal with. Thank you for sharing this with us and remember that we're here if you need us...
proReality
(1,628 posts)I'm very sorry for your loss.
sheshe2
(83,791 posts)May she rest in peace, REP.
Major Hogwash
(17,656 posts)I don't know if you are her son, or her daughter, but she must have been a great mother because I don't remember ever reading anything that you said here that was untoward or rude.
snot
(10,530 posts)Beautiful.
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pacalo
(24,721 posts)What a beautiful, elegant woman she was.
littlemissmartypants
(22,694 posts)Sorry for your loss.
Hekate
(90,714 posts)May you be comforted by loving memories, and may she rest in peace.
brett_jv
(1,245 posts)billhicks76
(5,082 posts)Everyones worst fear losing their mom. Hope you're holding up ok. She looks radiant in those pics.
handmade34
(22,756 posts)very sorry
secondwind
(16,903 posts)80th also...
I hope you have many loving memories of this beautiful woman and mother. {{hugs}}
babylonsister
(171,070 posts)onecaliberal
(32,864 posts)May she rest in peace.
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)Supersedeas
(20,630 posts)to you and your family from me and mine.
mountain grammy
(26,624 posts)REP
(21,691 posts)And if you have sleep apnea WEAR YOUR DAMN CPAP.