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I thought this was interesting food for thought.
SummerSnow
(12,608 posts)closeupready
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Part of that is a human nature thing where people are defensive of their own family/country/culture when questioned by someone outside of it. It's the "I can call my dad a drunk, but you can't" situation. They don't want to admit their flaws to western culture, but may discuss it amongst themselves.
DesertDiamond
(1,616 posts)Possibly some of them would, while others would think, "I wish I could be that free." They would get that women who live in cultures where bikinis are allowed are doing so because they enjoy wearing bikinis, it feels good and it feels freeing, and if they look great ina bikini then they can enjoy that, but it's necessarily not to please men. Speaking for myself, and my belief is that I speak for a lot of women, although men may think everything we do is about them, that's actually their delusion.
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nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Of course women - in most respects at least - have it far better in the West. But a Muslim woman, within her own cultural context, may not see it that way. Then of course, like all human beings, her perspective is limited by her individual experience of the world.
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nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Just considering the fact that what we see as "liberating," others in a different context may not.
Jim Lane
(11,175 posts)It's not an equivalence between a society that allows bikinis and another that requires burqas. That would be false. Instead, the equivalence is that each woman thinks her own attitude is the natural one. Each woman further thinks that the other woman's attitude is unnatural, purely a product of culture.
Of course, there is a genuine underlying equivalence -- each woman is right in thinking that the other one's style of dress and her attitude toward choice of dress are shaped by culture.
I'm reminded of Marx's famous statement (using "men" in the generic sense): "It is not consciousness of men that determines their being, but, on the contrary, their social being that determines their consciousness."
In a commentary on this passage, Erich Fromm wrote:
These two women have been shaped by their societies to hold certain beliefs. Each can see that in the other. For each of them, as for almost all of us, it is harder to see that in oneself.
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Jim Lane
(11,175 posts)What changed? Was it, by any chance, the culture?
I'm not contending that all cultural norms are purely bourgeois illusions. Back at the link I gave, Fromm quotes Marx: ""The production of ideas, of conceptions, of consciousness, is at first directly interwoven with the material activity and the material intercourse of men, the language of real life." I doubt he was thinking specifically of swimwear but, based on that statement, I don't think he'd be surprised to learn that most women don't like burqas at the beach.
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closeupready
(29,503 posts)The perfect foil, and I thank you.
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lame54
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(29,503 posts)Because, lawmakers say patronizingly, we know that no woman who wears one is doing so because they want to.
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closeupready
(29,503 posts)I'm not an expert in international law, but even I know those two for starters - there's probably more. Russia, perhaps?
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ismnotwasm
(41,976 posts)Because it's exactly correct.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)isn't quite so cut-and-dried in reality.
ismnotwasm
(41,976 posts)Well put
William769
(55,145 posts)Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)She would probably be accosted and physically attacked. Maybe even stoned to death.
The woman on the left could dress like the woman on the right without any repercussions.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)They just aren't so overt (or bloody) in most cases.
Gravitycollapse
(8,155 posts)And not on the objective consequences of either side not participating in normative performance.
The point of this is not to equate the laws of either culture with each other but to define the underlying reasons for women lacking personal autonomy. The joke in this (the horrifying absurdity, really) is that each woman judges and thus regulates the other using the "morals" of the ruling order. They are middle managers for male dominance.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)or, indeed, cultural difference. A form of myopia unfortunately common to all human societies.
Also shows why "morals" (as opposed to ethics) are repressive bullshit, and invariably rooted in such.
Rex
(65,616 posts)I will let you guess as to which one is which. The lady on the left might be religious, the lady on the right MUST be religious or will face possible torture.
Squinch
(50,949 posts)No one else can legally force me. No man can beat me on the street if I am not covered up or if I am not wearing what he wants me to wear. No one can require that I can't drive a car or go outside without a male relative. In my culture, if I am out alone in a crowd of men, it is not assumed that I am asking to be assaulted. Genital mutilation is not commonplace in my culture as a means to keep me "in line."
The lady on the right is much more likely to be subjected to all of those horrors than I am. She is likely not to have choice in these matters. I do have those choices.
This is a silly, false, equivalence. A hajib and a burka are different things. A hajib may not be oppression, but a burka most definitely is.