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What a cruel, male-dominated culture! (Malcolm Evans cartoon, 2011) (Original Post) closeupready Jul 2014 OP
Very interesting.Thanks for sharing. SummerSnow Jul 2014 #1
Very welcome. closeupready Jul 2014 #2
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.. Malone Jul 2014 #26
I wonder if women in midEastern countries would really make that assumption. DesertDiamond Jul 2014 #4
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It's about individual perception, not necessarily reality. nomorenomore08 Jul 2014 #7
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I see what you're saying. And I do agree the equivalency is a stretch at best. nomorenomore08 Jul 2014 #11
No, the cartoonist is depicting the women's differing perspectives Jim Lane Jul 2014 #18
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It was 100 degrees 100 years ago but no woman in this country would have publicly shown so much skin Jim Lane Jul 2014 #25
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Your expected response, like clockwork. closeupready Jul 2014 #14
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I'm not aware of a law that makes the girl on the left dress like that lame54 Jul 2014 #9
But there ARE Western laws prohibiting the hijab. closeupready Jul 2014 #13
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In France, there sure is. Also in Turkey if I recall correctly. closeupready Jul 2014 #20
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And the irony is palpable ismnotwasm Jul 2014 #10
I see it as being something like, the distinction we make between "free" and "unfree" societies nomorenomore08 Jul 2014 #12
Well yes ismnotwasm Jul 2014 #28
kick & recommended. William769 Jul 2014 #16
The woman on the right would face severe punishment for dressing like the woman on the left. Nye Bevan Jul 2014 #22
Western society still has "punishments" for stepping out of line. nomorenomore08 Jul 2014 #29
This is a commentary on self-regulation of hegemonic masculinity... Gravitycollapse Jul 2014 #30
There's also a sense of "Freedom is doing things *my* way!" without regard for difference of opinion nomorenomore08 Jul 2014 #32
A to O - one lives in a secular society and the other is controlled by religious fundamentalists. Rex Jul 2014 #31
Nonsense. I - me, myself - get to choose whether I wear a bikini or a space suit. Squinch Jul 2014 #33

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Malone

(39 posts)
26. ..
Mon Jul 7, 2014, 11:38 PM
Jul 2014

Part of that is a human nature thing where people are defensive of their own family/country/culture when questioned by someone outside of it. It's the "I can call my dad a drunk, but you can't" situation. They don't want to admit their flaws to western culture, but may discuss it amongst themselves.

DesertDiamond

(1,616 posts)
4. I wonder if women in midEastern countries would really make that assumption.
Mon Jul 7, 2014, 06:00 PM
Jul 2014

Possibly some of them would, while others would think, "I wish I could be that free." They would get that women who live in cultures where bikinis are allowed are doing so because they enjoy wearing bikinis, it feels good and it feels freeing, and if they look great ina bikini then they can enjoy that, but it's necessarily not to please men. Speaking for myself, and my belief is that I speak for a lot of women, although men may think everything we do is about them, that's actually their delusion.

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nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
7. It's about individual perception, not necessarily reality.
Mon Jul 7, 2014, 06:19 PM
Jul 2014

Of course women - in most respects at least - have it far better in the West. But a Muslim woman, within her own cultural context, may not see it that way. Then of course, like all human beings, her perspective is limited by her individual experience of the world.

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nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
11. I see what you're saying. And I do agree the equivalency is a stretch at best.
Mon Jul 7, 2014, 06:38 PM
Jul 2014

Just considering the fact that what we see as "liberating," others in a different context may not.

 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
18. No, the cartoonist is depicting the women's differing perspectives
Mon Jul 7, 2014, 09:09 PM
Jul 2014

It's not an equivalence between a society that allows bikinis and another that requires burqas. That would be false. Instead, the equivalence is that each woman thinks her own attitude is the natural one. Each woman further thinks that the other woman's attitude is unnatural, purely a product of culture.

Of course, there is a genuine underlying equivalence -- each woman is right in thinking that the other one's style of dress and her attitude toward choice of dress are shaped by culture.

I'm reminded of Marx's famous statement (using "men" in the generic sense): "It is not consciousness of men that determines their being, but, on the contrary, their social being that determines their consciousness."

In a commentary on this passage, Erich Fromm wrote:

In the first place, it should be noted that Marx, like Spinoza and later Freud, believed that most of what men consciously think is "false" consciousness, is ideology and rationalization; that the true mainsprings of man's actions are unconscious to him. According to Freud, they are rooted in man's libidinal strivings; according to Marx, they are rooted in the whole social organization of man which directs his consciousness in certain directions. and blocks him from being aware of certain facts and experiences.


These two women have been shaped by their societies to hold certain beliefs. Each can see that in the other. For each of them, as for almost all of us, it is harder to see that in oneself.

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Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
25. It was 100 degrees 100 years ago but no woman in this country would have publicly shown so much skin
Mon Jul 7, 2014, 11:17 PM
Jul 2014

What changed? Was it, by any chance, the culture?

I'm not contending that all cultural norms are purely bourgeois illusions. Back at the link I gave, Fromm quotes Marx: ""The production of ideas, of conceptions, of consciousness, is at first directly interwoven with the material activity and the material intercourse of men, the language of real life." I doubt he was thinking specifically of swimwear but, based on that statement, I don't think he'd be surprised to learn that most women don't like burqas at the beach.

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closeupready

(29,503 posts)
13. But there ARE Western laws prohibiting the hijab.
Mon Jul 7, 2014, 07:17 PM
Jul 2014

Because, lawmakers say patronizingly, we know that no woman who wears one is doing so because they want to.

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closeupready

(29,503 posts)
20. In France, there sure is. Also in Turkey if I recall correctly.
Mon Jul 7, 2014, 09:59 PM
Jul 2014

I'm not an expert in international law, but even I know those two for starters - there's probably more. Russia, perhaps?

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nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
12. I see it as being something like, the distinction we make between "free" and "unfree" societies
Mon Jul 7, 2014, 06:41 PM
Jul 2014

isn't quite so cut-and-dried in reality.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
22. The woman on the right would face severe punishment for dressing like the woman on the left.
Mon Jul 7, 2014, 10:05 PM
Jul 2014

She would probably be accosted and physically attacked. Maybe even stoned to death.

The woman on the left could dress like the woman on the right without any repercussions.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
29. Western society still has "punishments" for stepping out of line.
Mon Jul 7, 2014, 11:52 PM
Jul 2014

They just aren't so overt (or bloody) in most cases.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
30. This is a commentary on self-regulation of hegemonic masculinity...
Tue Jul 8, 2014, 12:01 AM
Jul 2014

And not on the objective consequences of either side not participating in normative performance.

The point of this is not to equate the laws of either culture with each other but to define the underlying reasons for women lacking personal autonomy. The joke in this (the horrifying absurdity, really) is that each woman judges and thus regulates the other using the "morals" of the ruling order. They are middle managers for male dominance.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
32. There's also a sense of "Freedom is doing things *my* way!" without regard for difference of opinion
Tue Jul 8, 2014, 04:23 AM
Jul 2014

or, indeed, cultural difference. A form of myopia unfortunately common to all human societies.

Also shows why "morals" (as opposed to ethics) are repressive bullshit, and invariably rooted in such.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
31. A to O - one lives in a secular society and the other is controlled by religious fundamentalists.
Tue Jul 8, 2014, 12:20 AM
Jul 2014

I will let you guess as to which one is which. The lady on the left might be religious, the lady on the right MUST be religious or will face possible torture.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
33. Nonsense. I - me, myself - get to choose whether I wear a bikini or a space suit.
Tue Jul 8, 2014, 09:50 AM
Jul 2014

No one else can legally force me. No man can beat me on the street if I am not covered up or if I am not wearing what he wants me to wear. No one can require that I can't drive a car or go outside without a male relative. In my culture, if I am out alone in a crowd of men, it is not assumed that I am asking to be assaulted. Genital mutilation is not commonplace in my culture as a means to keep me "in line."

The lady on the right is much more likely to be subjected to all of those horrors than I am. She is likely not to have choice in these matters. I do have those choices.

This is a silly, false, equivalence. A hajib and a burka are different things. A hajib may not be oppression, but a burka most definitely is.

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