In Oklahoma: Tracy and Kathryn's Gay Wedding Plans

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http://www.washingtonpost.com/national/deeply-conservative-oklahoma-adjusts-to-sudden-arrival-of-same-sex-marriage/2015/01/24/590ac902-a0d6-11e4-b146-577832eafcb4_story.html

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“I don’t think they’ll come,” Tracy said. “We’re just sending a postcard to be polite.” She looked at another name and laughed. “I just cannot imagine inviting her to this wedding.”

But they would, they decided. They would invite everybody to this wedding and let them decide for themselves whether to come.

“It feels very emotional and vulnerable to be inviting all these people,” Kathryn said.

“But that’s why you have a wedding,” Tracy replied.

So the next week, they put the save-the-dates in the mail, and soon after, the invitations, and then they waited.

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