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Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 07:32 PM Mar 2015

Ohio lawmaker caught laughing as colleague reveals horrifying story of her own rape

More info on Ohio State Rep. Teresa Fedor's speech earlier. And you wonder why women get upset about not being taken seriously. We need to stand with her.

http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2015/03/ohio-lawmaker-caught-laughing-as-colleague-reveals-horrifying-story-of-her-own-rape/

Ohio state Rep. Teresa Fedor (D) accuses a fellow legislator of laughing right after telling her colleagues that she underwent an abortion after being raped while serving in the military, in footage posted by Mother Jones on Thursday.

“I don’t want government in my business. I want my freedom. I fought in the military for that freedom. And for all those women in the military who were raped — I see people laughing; I don’t appreciate that on the other side. And it happens to be a man who’s laughing,” Fedor says in the video. “I don’t know if it’s about what I’m saying, but this is serious business right now, and I’m speaking for all the women in the state of Ohio who didn’t get the opportunity to be in front of that committee and make this statement.”


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Ohio lawmaker caught laughing as colleague reveals horrifying story of her own rape (Original Post) Skidmore Mar 2015 OP
Pigs trumad Mar 2015 #1
that is insulting to pigs. niyad Mar 2015 #32
Lower than pond scum lark Mar 2015 #38
K&R Grey Mar 2015 #2
I hope he is outed tosh Mar 2015 #3
Found his job interview.... Spitfire of ATJ Mar 2015 #23
omg Liberal_in_LA Mar 2015 #4
I hope she was taking names brer cat Mar 2015 #5
Yes. Taking names and NAMING names. calimary Mar 2015 #18
Total scum alfredo Mar 2015 #6
Make that... ailsagirl Mar 2015 #11
Good on her for calling him out. beam me up scottie Mar 2015 #7
The only creature on earth capable of this kind of assolery hifiguy Mar 2015 #8
His mama must be so proud. His name really needs to be published. Hekate Mar 2015 #9
We need to ask the people who elected him if they find rape funny too.... Spitfire of ATJ Mar 2015 #24
Men who think rape is a laughing matter, SheilaT Mar 2015 #10
No words. nt cwydro Mar 2015 #12
K & R Thespian2 Mar 2015 #13
GodOffalParty! Oh MAN, Thespian2 - that's gotta be the best one I've seen! calimary Mar 2015 #21
Thanks Thespian2 Mar 2015 #29
Think I'll use it, if you don't mind. lark Mar 2015 #39
Thanks Thespian2 Mar 2015 #44
Please make his name public. TNNurse Mar 2015 #14
I'll help in any campaign to get rid of him from office. Rex Mar 2015 #16
You have to wonder how sane a man is that laughs at hearing about rape from a rape victim. Rex Mar 2015 #15
Because he hates her so much that he took pleasure in her pain. Spitfire of ATJ Mar 2015 #26
Exactly, shows a sadistic nature in public. Relishes cruelty and torture. Rex Mar 2015 #28
Lucky I wasn't there to see a laugh occur. raven mad Mar 2015 #17
Would anyone feel one iota of pity for him if something karmically bad should happen to him? hobbit709 Mar 2015 #19
not in the least. niyad Mar 2015 #45
The issue of rape in the military has not been properly dealt with! Dustlawyer Mar 2015 #20
As if we needed more proof... gregcrawford Mar 2015 #22
Were any of them die hard Bush supporters? Spitfire of ATJ Mar 2015 #27
Disgusting libodem Mar 2015 #25
"I dont know if its about what Im saying" Wella Mar 2015 #30
if he was laughing at something else then he's still a douche tk2kewl Mar 2015 #31
Assuming he heard her and that he wasn't in conversation with someone else Wella Mar 2015 #34
and just what difference does it make--laughing at her, or at her experience? either one niyad Mar 2015 #33
It makes a difference if he was laughing at something else entirely and didn't hear her Wella Mar 2015 #35
I have no reason at this point to believe he was laughing at anything other than her statements. LanternWaste Mar 2015 #36
There's no evidence that he was. Synchrony is not enough. Wella Mar 2015 #37
why the determination to excuse his inexcusable behaviour? he was talking to someone else, niyad Mar 2015 #46
Because it could have been inadvertent. Let me give you an example. Wella Mar 2015 #49
wow,you really are determined. the situations are different. these people were niyad Mar 2015 #51
Thank you. LeftOfWest Mar 2015 #42
What if he didn't hear what she was talking about? Wella Mar 2015 #50
do keep trying, at this point we need the laughs. what part of the fact that niyad Mar 2015 #52
So angry at the person laughing I am at a loss of what to say Jon82 Mar 2015 #40
i hope it happens to him one day allan01 Mar 2015 #41
Kicking to keep it on the top of the page. Hoping we find out who did this riderinthestorm Mar 2015 #43
. . . niyad Mar 2015 #47
Horrible fucking people. Enthusiast Mar 2015 #48

lark

(23,097 posts)
38. Lower than pond scum
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 02:40 PM
Mar 2015

Pond scum would be so insulted if I said Repugs were like them, non-sentient, ugly and nasty. Pond scum aren't mean, racist or hateful so Repugs are far far worse.

brer cat

(24,562 posts)
5. I hope she was taking names
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 08:00 PM
Mar 2015

and will publish them. That scum needs to be exposed and ridiculed and run out of town.

calimary

(81,231 posts)
18. Yes. Taking names and NAMING names.
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 09:53 PM
Mar 2015

Drag 'em into the public square so everybody can see and know.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
8. The only creature on earth capable of this kind of assolery
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 08:18 PM
Mar 2015

and just plain cruelty is the genus ursus porcus Republicanus neanderthalis a/k/a the Repuke manbearpig.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
24. We need to ask the people who elected him if they find rape funny too....
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 10:34 PM
Mar 2015

Knowing the typical Republican voter, they'll say it was either him or or Obama's commie, Negro army was going to take their guns and Bibles and turn their kids queer.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
10. Men who think rape is a laughing matter,
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 08:56 PM
Mar 2015

well what I really think should happen to them would probably get my post hidden and possibly even kicked of DU. Suffice it to say, at a minimum they need to be outed so that everyone around them can know what total scum they are.

Thespian2

(2,741 posts)
13. K & R
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 09:11 PM
Mar 2015

OMG! When you think the GodOffalParty can't go any lower, they do. No, I don't know if it was a Repug laughing, but I know the Repugs want to abolish women's rights.

calimary

(81,231 posts)
21. GodOffalParty! Oh MAN, Thespian2 - that's gotta be the best one I've seen!
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 10:12 PM
Mar 2015

We have many times indulged in "What Do the Letters "G-O-P" Stand For?" threads. Usually you see some pretty great ones anyway. Greedy Old Pirates. Grab Our Pensions. Gouge Old People. People have come up with some very memorable ones! But this one is the best BY FAR!!!

MAGNIFICENT!!!

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
15. You have to wonder how sane a man is that laughs at hearing about rape from a rape victim.
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 09:14 PM
Mar 2015

OR why does he find that funny?

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
28. Exactly, shows a sadistic nature in public. Relishes cruelty and torture.
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 11:06 PM
Mar 2015

Not the kind of person I would want deciding policy. Had one, nearly destroyed the country...I think his name was Dick Cheney.

Dustlawyer

(10,495 posts)
20. The issue of rape in the military has not been properly dealt with!
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 10:11 PM
Mar 2015

I would never be able to sleep if one of my daughters joined!

gregcrawford

(2,382 posts)
22. As if we needed more proof...
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 10:29 PM
Mar 2015

... that Republicans are lowlife pieces of shit. Sweet Jesus, don't these people have ANY shame? The ones in my family sure as fuck don't.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
30. "I dont know if its about what Im saying"
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 02:39 AM
Mar 2015

Even the Representative doesn't know if the man was laughing at her or her experience. Anyone who would laugh about a rape should be strung from a light fixture, but it's not clear that this man was doing this. I'll wait for the facts.

 

tk2kewl

(18,133 posts)
31. if he was laughing at something else then he's still a douche
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 11:55 AM
Mar 2015

for not having the decency to listen or at least sit quietly while his colleague is talking about such a serious and personal issue

niyad

(113,283 posts)
33. and just what difference does it make--laughing at her, or at her experience? either one
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 01:47 PM
Mar 2015

makes him disgusting and despicable. there is NO excuse for his disgusting, rude, insulting, belittling behaviour.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
35. It makes a difference if he was laughing at something else entirely and didn't hear her
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 02:02 PM
Mar 2015

I don't know what the truth is on this issue.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
36. I have no reason at this point to believe he was laughing at anything other than her statements.
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 02:09 PM
Mar 2015

I have no reason at this point to believe he was laughing at anything other than her statements.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
37. There's no evidence that he was. Synchrony is not enough.
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 02:11 PM
Mar 2015

Don't you think it would be nice to find out the truth before bringing out the pitchforks?

niyad

(113,283 posts)
46. why the determination to excuse his inexcusable behaviour? he was talking to someone else,
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 05:26 PM
Mar 2015

about something else? still rude, period, especially given the topic of her speech. but, keep trying.

 

Wella

(1,827 posts)
49. Because it could have been inadvertent. Let me give you an example.
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 08:01 PM
Mar 2015

You and I are at a small gathering with some friends. I talk to the assembled group about genital mutilation and its horrors. Suddenly, I hear you laughing. I think it is insensitive. I jump your case, call you an insensitive, rude, person and tell you your behavior is inexcusable and you are to leave the house AT ONCE.

.....

Then I realize you are on your cell phone with your child, who is telling you about something that happened in school. You had no idea what I was talking about and were not intending to be rude.

Now, wouldn't you be happy if I had waited for the facts before yelling at you?

niyad

(113,283 posts)
51. wow,you really are determined. the situations are different. these people were
Sat Mar 28, 2015, 12:05 PM
Mar 2015

IN SESSION, which means people were speaking, which means you shut up, and do your colleague the courtesy of, if not listening, at least not speaking to someone else. how freaking difficult is this to understand? it is as rude as talking in a theatre.

niyad

(113,283 posts)
52. do keep trying, at this point we need the laughs. what part of the fact that
Sat Mar 28, 2015, 12:07 PM
Mar 2015

they were in session, and she was the one speaking, do you NOT understand? didn't hear her? are you KIDDING ME??????? honestly, the effort you have devoted to defending this rude, obnoxious jerk is, to say the least, interesting.

Jon82

(92 posts)
40. So angry at the person laughing I am at a loss of what to say
Fri Mar 27, 2015, 02:52 PM
Mar 2015

I try to remain civil when I disagree with the reactions of idiot lawmakers but I do not know how to when it comes to the ass hole, hypocritical, ignorant, stupid (by choice), insensitive, poor excuse for a man, inhuman... the list goes continues forever. This man should be named and shamed. he is probably someone who stands on the belief that if you are raped it was meant to be. Remember that when a loved one in your life is a victim of this most evil of crimes. Oh yeah, you do not have any loved ones because you are incapable of love, concern, and understanding.

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