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Bristol and Sarah Palin lashed out at the media Thursday for its response to the scandal surrounding reality TV star Josh Duggar, comparing his familys treatment with that of Lena Dunham after passages in her memoir were labeled evidence of child abuse.
In separate posts, Bristol and Sarah Palin blast the liberal media for reacting with furor over news that Duggar had inappropriately touched his younger sisters, some of whom were sleeping, while downplaying passages from Lena Dunhams recently published memoir in which she describes looking at her sisters vagina and bribing her for kisses as a child.
TLC has pulled episodes of the Duggar familys hit show amid the scandal and Josh stepped down from his position at the Family Research Council. Dunham released a statement apologizing for triggering painful responses by including the offending passages in the memoir.
But both Palins believe the media response has been uneven. I cant believe how crazy the media is going over the Duggar family compared to the big fat yawn they gave Lena Dunham when she wrote in her book that she sexually experimented with her sister, Bristol Palin wrote in a blog post. The double standards make me sick.
http://time.com/3909779/sarah-palin-duggars-lena-dunham-pedophile/
shenmue
(38,506 posts)Lena and her sister played a seconds-long game of "you show me yours, I'll show you mine." The incident happened once and was never repeated.
Josh Duggar raped his sisters and their friend several times over the course of at least a year.
See the difference?
SickOfTheOnePct
(7,290 posts)He committed criminal sexual assault, no question, but he didn't rape anyone.
I'm consistently amazed at the amount of misinformation and outright distortion of facts that happen on this site. What he did was bad enough, why exaggerate it?
fishwax
(29,149 posts)Seems like a pretty obvious difference from Duggar.
dem in texas
(2,674 posts)The bad thing about the Duggars is their hypocrisy. They present themselves as being "holier than thou" while they hid Josh's problem. That is what is so sick about them. We have Oprah's show to thank for doing the right thing, contacting the police. If her show had not done that, we would probably never found out about the molesting while the Duggars continued racking in the money on TLC by presenting themselves to be such pure Christian people.
randome
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Johonny
(20,851 posts)It is just like the liberal media that Palin used to be on. You betcha!
Botany
(70,516 posts)Joe the Revelator
(14,915 posts)but I hate Sarah Palin soooo.....
"I look at my sister, now a slim, tough one-year-old, and at her tiny belly. I imagined her eggs inside her, like the sack of spider eggs in Charlotte's Webb, and her uterus, the size of a thimble. 'Does her vagina look like mine?' 'I guess so,' my mother said. 'Just smaller.' One day, as I sat in our driveway in Long Island playing with blocks and buckets, my curiosity got the best of me," Lena wrote. "Grace was sitting up, babbling and smiling, and I leaned down between her legs and carefully spread open her vagina. She didn't resist and when I saw what was inside I shrieked."
"My mother came running. 'Mama, Mama! Grace has something in there!'"
"My mother didn't bother asking why I had opened Grace's vagina," the 28-year-old creator, producer and star of HBO's Girls continued. "This was within the spectrum of things I did. She just on her knees and looked for herself. It quickly became apparent that Grace had stuffed six or seven pebbles in there. My mother removed them patiently while Grace cackled, thrilled that her prank had been a success."
In another passage, the actress recalled, "As [Grace] grew, I took to bribing her for her time and affection: one dollar in quarters if I could do her makeup like a 'motorcycle chick.' Three pieces of candy if I could kiss her on the lips for five seconds. Whatever she wanted to watch on TV if she would just 'relax on me.' Basically, anything a sexual predator might to do woo a small suburban girl I was trying. Maybe, I thought, she would be more willing to accept kisses if I wore the face mask my grandmother had for when she did her dialysis. (The answer was no.) What I really wanted, beyond affection, was to feel that she needed me, that she was helpless without her big sister leading her through the world.
http://www.eonline.com/news/594155/lena-dunham-responds-to-accusations-that-she-molested-her-younger-sister-grace-dunham
NOVA_Dem
(620 posts)Oktober
(1,488 posts)NOVA_Dem
(620 posts)Bragging about how as a 7 yr old placing pebbles in a 1 yr old's vagina and other subsequent "grooming" activities that continued until she was 17 is sick behavior.
Oktober
(1,488 posts)Lots of folks hate the Duggers and have latched onto an opportunity to expose their hypocrisy.
Most folks either don't know or just don't care about Dunham. She falls in with the other million sickos that we don't do anything about on a daily basis.
Beaverhausen
(24,470 posts)her sister had done it.
The point is, Dunham doesn't go around preaching to others that she is a 'good christian' the way the Duggars do.
It's the hypocrisy.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)So pedophiles are OK so long as they openly embrace it?
Beaverhausen
(24,470 posts)but to compare what she did to what Josh did is wrong in so many ways.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)A seven year old's curiosity is not pedophilia, it is ridiculous to see people go after her for something she did when she was just beginning elementary school.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)enticing her kid sister to sleep in her bed while she masturbated.
Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)Lots of teenagers who share a room with their sibling masturbate after their sibling falls asleep. There is no evidence that her sister even knew this was happening nor is there any evidence that Lena Dunham was having fantasies of her sister while she masturbated. This is a completely made up controversy, there is no evidence what so ever that she touched her sister past the age of seven.
Juicy_Bellows
(2,427 posts)"As she grew, I took to bribing her time and affection: one dollar in quarters if I could do her makeup like a motorcycle chick. Three pieces of candy if I could kiss her on the lips for five seconds. Whatever she wanted to watch on TV if she would just relax on me. Basically, anything a sexual predator might do to woo a small suburban girl, I was trying. Maybe, I thought, she would be more willing to accept kisses if I wore the face mask my grandmother had for when she did her dialysis. (The answer was no.) What I really wanted, beyond affection, was to feel that she needed me, that she was helpless without her big sister leading her through the world. I took a perverse pleasure in delivering bad news to her the death of our grandfather, a fire across the street hoping that her fear would drive her her into my arms, would make her trust me."
Not exactly Duggar level I suppose but pretty damned troubling.
Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)It may have been a bad joke, but a bad joke is not the same as child molestation.
NOVA_Dem
(620 posts)another passage directly from her book:
http://www.mediaite.com/online/concha-lena-dunhams-disturbing-passage-deserves-all-the-scorn-its-getting/
Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)I asked for evidence that she touched her sister past the age of seven, you still have not provided that. A bad joke about sexual predators meant to poke fun of herself is not the same as child molestation, she clearly did not mean for that joke to be taken literally.
Juicy_Bellows
(2,427 posts)I think we're on the same page though.
NOVA_Dem
(620 posts)I would like to meet the 1 yr old that can:
1) Remove their own diaper
2) Find seven pebbles and place them in their vagina
3) Put their diaper back on
1 yr old toddlers do NOT have that kind of manual dexterity.
Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)There is no evidence at all that this continued past the age of seven, the right wing media made the allegation that it continued until she was seventeen with no evidence to back it up. I challenge you to find any proof that she ever touched her sister after graduating from the second grade, you won't find such proof because that allegation was completely made up by the right wing media.
NOVA_Dem
(620 posts)this is quoted directly from her book:
http://www.mediaite.com/online/concha-lena-dunhams-disturbing-passage-deserves-all-the-scorn-its-getting/
Now that I have provided proof I doubt you'll change your position. You'll just move the goal posts a little further.
Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)I asked for proof that she touched her sister, you only provided proof that she masturbated while her sister was sleeping. There is no evidence that her sister even knew she was masturbating. Lots of teenagers who share a room discreetly masturbate after their sibling falls asleep, that is not child molestation.
Juicy_Bellows
(2,427 posts)I guess, I am sure that happens but man alive that is unsavory. Sharing a room and sharing a bed seem like a pretty broad divide.
Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)As long as she kept her hands to herself and her sister was not aware then it is mot sexual abuse. It may be ill advised, but people are accusing her of child molestation and masturbating while a sibling is sleeping is not child molestation.
Juicy_Bellows
(2,427 posts)NOVA_Dem
(620 posts)1)You claimed Dunham wasn't the one who placed the pebbles in her sisters vagina. It is ridiculous to believe a 1 yr old can do this on their own.
2)Then you said there was no proof that anything happened after Dunham was 7 yrs old and that the right-wing made up the assertion that her abuse continued until Dunham was 17.
You've been provided with multiple quotes from her own book detailing grooming behavior (dressing her sister in inappropriate attire for a child, bribing for affection (long kisses on the lips), manipulation of emotions, etc) that Dunham HERSELF says occurred until she was 17.
You're just pretending the proof wasn't provided.
Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)I never said anything about how the pebbles got into her vagina nor do I care, Lena Dunham was only seven years old at the time and I am not going to stand in judgment over what someone may have done when they were seven years old.
I stand by my assertion that there is no evidence of abuse past the age of seven, there is no evidence that Lena Dunham ever had sexual feelings for her sister. Taking a quote about kissing her sister and trying to make it into something sexual is pathetic, lots of siblings kiss and it is rarely sexual.
NOVA_Dem
(620 posts)You're cognitive dissonance may be preventing you from accepting proof:
Dunham was probably around the same age as that other Duggar abuser when she was sexualizing her 5 yr old sister:
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Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)Which means they can clearly see that you are wrong, I never said anything about how the pebbles got into her vagina. If you think I am wrong then link to where I said such a thing.
Lena Dunham is a comedian and like most comedians she makes some over the top comments sometimes, but a white tee shirt that says "Bad Girl" is not evidence of abuse.
Grace Dunham who is the person you are alleging was abused does not think it was abuse either as she has publicly stated. This "story" originated when the right-wing media took quotes from Lena's book out of context, nobody who actually knows Lena Dunham has alleged she was abusive.
NOVA_Dem
(620 posts)I'll be waiting for her first stand up special on HBO.
Those quotes contained paragraphs directly from her book how can they be taken out of context?
Dressing up a 5 yr old and telling her she's Hell's Angel's sex property isn't grooming behavior?
If a victim doesn't recognize the abuse a crime that doesn't negate the abuse.
Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)It may not be stand up comedy, but she is the writer and lead actress in a comedy series so that clearly makes her a comedian.
Taking three paragraphs from a comedian's book that say nothing about child molestation and suggesting those three paragraphs prove she is a child molestor is most definitely taking things out of context.
Not one single person who knows Lena Dunham has accused her of abuse, she was accused of abuse by a right wing web site. You can choose to believe the right-wing website that first made these allegations, I will choose to believe Grace Dunham.
840high
(17,196 posts)NOVA_Dem
(620 posts)and when you present facts they find ridiculous ways to disregard them to hold on to what they prefer to believe.
840high
(17,196 posts)Javaman
(62,530 posts)rurallib
(62,423 posts)City Lights
(25,171 posts)Not surprised that Sarah doesn't get it.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)- Keith Olbermann
irisblue
(32,982 posts)Tommy_Carcetti
(43,182 posts)Orsino
(37,428 posts)spanone
(135,844 posts)11 Bravo
(23,926 posts)As for the Klondike Kardashian, she's just see's another "griftable moment".
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Initech
(100,081 posts)Unlike the Duggars who do, and have made campaigns demonizing the LGBT community, and joined the bigoted American Family Association, and have appeared with just about every campaigning republican presidential candidate. That's why they are being attacked.
RockaFowler
(7,429 posts)As a matter of fact many people called her out for writing this in her book
underpants
(182,830 posts)Time
USA Today
All 3 networks websites and broadcasts
NYT
AP
CNN
and Fox News
The Daily Beasts has an article "The Rightwing's War on Lena Dunham"
Salon
Huff Po
And on and on and on
NobodyHere
(2,810 posts)Or at the very least for Dunham to be removed from that show.
Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)vankuria
(904 posts)is on HBO, a paid cable channel that you don't have to receive if you don't want it. The Duggar's reality show is on TLC a part of every cable channel package so even if you don't watch TLC the show is advertised on other channels so it's hard to escape it.
While I personally do not care for Lena Dunham and she lost me as a viewer to her show, she also doesn't go around the country as a moral crusader shaming others, trying to overturn laws that protect people and accusing others of being child predators.
I also question Lena Dunham's version of what she did with her sister when she was 7 yrs. old. She seems to look for shock value and I wouldn't be surprised if she embellished a large portion of what she wrote about her sister.
sendero
(28,552 posts).... did not hold herself up as an icon of American virtue? Idiots?
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)She is also an outspoken feminist which is why the religious right hates her.
The "child molestation" she is being accused of happened when she was only seven years old. Apparently Sarah Palin thinks seven year olds are child molestors.
brooklynite
(94,598 posts)Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)She is also an outspoken feminist, the religious right hates her.
The "child molestation" she has been accused of happened when she was seven years old. If she is a child molestor than every kid who ever played doctor is a child molestor.
yewberry
(6,530 posts)Apparently she is in the entertainment industry. I'm not aware that she took a management position with a group whose mission is telling other people that they are better than everyone else is, as Mr. Duggar did.
kimbutgar
(21,163 posts)Since they are so " fair and balanced" over there.
Something tells me Ms Lena would go to town and have fun with that interview!