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RandySF

(58,911 posts)
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:37 PM Jun 2015

Sarah Palin Says Media Ignored ‘Pedophile’ Lena Dunham While Shaming Duggars

Bristol and Sarah Palin lashed out at the media Thursday for its response to the scandal surrounding reality TV star Josh Duggar, comparing his family’s treatment with that of Lena Dunham after passages in her memoir were labeled evidence of child abuse.

In separate posts, Bristol and Sarah Palin blast the “liberal media” for reacting with furor over news that Duggar had inappropriately touched his younger sisters, some of whom were sleeping, while downplaying passages from Lena Dunham’s recently published memoir in which she describes looking at her sister’s vagina and bribing her for kisses as a child.

TLC has pulled episodes of the Duggar family’s hit show amid the scandal and Josh stepped down from his position at the Family Research Council. Dunham released a statement apologizing for triggering painful responses by including the offending passages in the memoir.

But both Palins believe the media response has been uneven. “I can’t believe how crazy the media is going over the Duggar family compared to the big fat yawn they gave Lena Dunham when she wrote in her book that she sexually experimented with her sister,” Bristol Palin wrote in a blog post. “The double standards make me sick.”


http://time.com/3909779/sarah-palin-duggars-lena-dunham-pedophile/

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Sarah Palin Says Media Ignored ‘Pedophile’ Lena Dunham While Shaming Duggars (Original Post) RandySF Jun 2015 OP
Oh bullshit shenmue Jun 2015 #1
Oh FFS, he didn't rape his sisters or the babysitter SickOfTheOnePct Jun 2015 #62
wasn't Lena Dunham seven years old at the time of the incident in question? fishwax Jun 2015 #2
Lena Denham didn't hide it dem in texas Jun 2015 #3
On target. randome Jun 2015 #16
Damn you FOX news for your two part interview with the Duggars and not having one of Lena Dunham Johonny Jun 2015 #4
thanx a big old shit pile John McCain for S. Palin Botany Jun 2015 #5
I mean, what she did to her sister was not 'normal' and she shouldn't get a pass. Joe the Revelator Jun 2015 #6
Lena Dunham is disgusting. nt NOVA_Dem Jun 2015 #10
Not to mention unfunny... Oktober Jun 2015 #15
Do you notice how everyone in the thread is pretending like they don't know what Dunham did? NOVA_Dem Jun 2015 #17
No motivation... Oktober Jun 2015 #18
she didn't say she put the pebbles in Beaverhausen Jun 2015 #22
"The point is, Dunham doesn't go around preaching to others..." Nuclear Unicorn Jun 2015 #23
I wasn't trying to defend Dunham Beaverhausen Jun 2015 #30
Such as? Nuclear Unicorn Jun 2015 #31
Such as the fact that she was only seven years old Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #35
No. She wasn't just 7. She continued her sexual predations into her teenage years including Nuclear Unicorn Jun 2015 #38
Cite me one piece of evidence that she ever touched her sister as a teenager Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #39
Here is a quote from her: Juicy_Bellows Jun 2015 #41
The sexual predator line was clearly an example of her poking fun at herself Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #44
Those goal posts just keep on trucking down the road don't they? NOVA_Dem Jun 2015 #42
I never moved the goal posts Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #45
Your quote and link look a lot better than mine! Juicy_Bellows Jun 2015 #46
Do you really believe that...really? NOVA_Dem Jun 2015 #24
She was seven years old Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #37
You are uninformed on this issue. NOVA_Dem Jun 2015 #40
No you did not provide proof Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #43
In the same bed? Juicy_Bellows Jun 2015 #47
It is certainly not something I would recommend doing Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #48
We can agree on that for sure. nt. Juicy_Bellows Jun 2015 #49
Here's how the goal posts moved: NOVA_Dem Jun 2015 #51
No, I asked for proof that she touched her sister past the age of seven Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #52
You know people can see what you actually wrote in the thread right? NOVA_Dem Jun 2015 #53
Yes, people can read what I wrote Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #54
So now you're defense is she's a comedian? NOVA_Dem Jun 2015 #58
She already has a comedy show on HBO Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #59
Yes she is. 840high Jun 2015 #61
As you can see posters have their minds made up w/o any facts NOVA_Dem Jun 2015 #63
Very common on DU. 840high Jun 2015 #64
the palins can read? nt Javaman Jun 2015 #7
surprised me also. rurallib Jun 2015 #57
The media didn't shame the Duggars. They shamed themselves. City Lights Jun 2015 #8
"That woman is an idiot." hifiguy Jun 2015 #9
He is still right n/t irisblue Jun 2015 #28
Wait, who is this "Sarah Palin" lady of which you speak? nt Tommy_Carcetti Jun 2015 #11
Sarah Palin says Media Ignoring Sarah Palin. n/t Orsino Jun 2015 #12
'sarah palin says...' bwahahahahahaaaa spanone Jun 2015 #13
If Bristol Palin was any dumber she would require fertilizer and regular watering. 11 Bravo Jun 2015 #14
"Klondike Kardashian" FTW! KamaAina Jun 2015 #25
Lena Dunham doesn't champion herself as a morality crusader. Initech Jun 2015 #19
I don't think anyone ignored Lena Dunham RockaFowler Jun 2015 #20
Thank you. A quick google search shows that every major news org covered that story underpants Jun 2015 #27
Nobody was calling for her show to get canceled like the Duggars. NobodyHere Jun 2015 #34
Why would they cancel the show over something she did when she was in elementary school? Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #36
Dunham's show vankuria Jun 2015 #50
Maybe because Dunham.. sendero Jun 2015 #21
Who is this Lena Dunham of which Caribou Barbie speaks? KamaAina Jun 2015 #26
She is the creator, director, and lead actress in HBO's Girls Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #33
Has Lena Dunhan shared her opinion on political candidates and issues? brooklynite Jun 2015 #29
Yes, she made an ad for Obama that compared voting to sex Bjorn Against Jun 2015 #32
I had to look up who Lena Dunham is. yewberry Jun 2015 #55
I wish Lena would offer to appear on Fox to tell her side of this story kimbutgar Jun 2015 #56
Delete Blue_In_AK Jun 2015 #60

shenmue

(38,506 posts)
1. Oh bullshit
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:38 PM
Jun 2015

Lena and her sister played a seconds-long game of "you show me yours, I'll show you mine." The incident happened once and was never repeated.

Josh Duggar raped his sisters and their friend several times over the course of at least a year.

See the difference?

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
62. Oh FFS, he didn't rape his sisters or the babysitter
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 10:21 PM
Jun 2015

He committed criminal sexual assault, no question, but he didn't rape anyone.

I'm consistently amazed at the amount of misinformation and outright distortion of facts that happen on this site. What he did was bad enough, why exaggerate it?

fishwax

(29,149 posts)
2. wasn't Lena Dunham seven years old at the time of the incident in question?
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:42 PM
Jun 2015

Seems like a pretty obvious difference from Duggar.

dem in texas

(2,674 posts)
3. Lena Denham didn't hide it
Thu Jun 4, 2015, 11:52 PM
Jun 2015

The bad thing about the Duggars is their hypocrisy. They present themselves as being "holier than thou" while they hid Josh's problem. That is what is so sick about them. We have Oprah's show to thank for doing the right thing, contacting the police. If her show had not done that, we would probably never found out about the molesting while the Duggars continued racking in the money on TLC by presenting themselves to be such pure Christian people.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
16. On target.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 10:48 AM
Jun 2015

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Johonny

(20,851 posts)
4. Damn you FOX news for your two part interview with the Duggars and not having one of Lena Dunham
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 12:04 AM
Jun 2015

It is just like the liberal media that Palin used to be on. You betcha!

 

Joe the Revelator

(14,915 posts)
6. I mean, what she did to her sister was not 'normal' and she shouldn't get a pass.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 12:31 AM
Jun 2015

but I hate Sarah Palin soooo.....

"I look at my sister, now a slim, tough one-year-old, and at her tiny belly. I imagined her eggs inside her, like the sack of spider eggs in Charlotte's Webb, and her uterus, the size of a thimble. 'Does her vagina look like mine?' 'I guess so,' my mother said. 'Just smaller.' One day, as I sat in our driveway in Long Island playing with blocks and buckets, my curiosity got the best of me," Lena wrote. "Grace was sitting up, babbling and smiling, and I leaned down between her legs and carefully spread open her vagina. She didn't resist and when I saw what was inside I shrieked."
"My mother came running. 'Mama, Mama! Grace has something in there!'"
"My mother didn't bother asking why I had opened Grace's vagina," the 28-year-old creator, producer and star of HBO's Girls continued. "This was within the spectrum of things I did. She just on her knees and looked for herself. It quickly became apparent that Grace had stuffed six or seven pebbles in there. My mother removed them patiently while Grace cackled, thrilled that her prank had been a success."

In another passage, the actress recalled, "As [Grace] grew, I took to bribing her for her time and affection: one dollar in quarters if I could do her makeup like a 'motorcycle chick.' Three pieces of candy if I could kiss her on the lips for five seconds. Whatever she wanted to watch on TV if she would just 'relax on me.' Basically, anything a sexual predator might to do woo a small suburban girl I was trying. Maybe, I thought, she would be more willing to accept kisses if I wore the face mask my grandmother had for when she did her dialysis. (The answer was no.) What I really wanted, beyond affection, was to feel that she needed me, that she was helpless without her big sister leading her through the world.


http://www.eonline.com/news/594155/lena-dunham-responds-to-accusations-that-she-molested-her-younger-sister-grace-dunham

NOVA_Dem

(620 posts)
17. Do you notice how everyone in the thread is pretending like they don't know what Dunham did?
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 11:41 AM
Jun 2015

Bragging about how as a 7 yr old placing pebbles in a 1 yr old's vagina and other subsequent "grooming" activities that continued until she was 17 is sick behavior.

 

Oktober

(1,488 posts)
18. No motivation...
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 11:44 AM
Jun 2015

Lots of folks hate the Duggers and have latched onto an opportunity to expose their hypocrisy.

Most folks either don't know or just don't care about Dunham. She falls in with the other million sickos that we don't do anything about on a daily basis.

Beaverhausen

(24,470 posts)
22. she didn't say she put the pebbles in
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 12:33 PM
Jun 2015

her sister had done it.

The point is, Dunham doesn't go around preaching to others that she is a 'good christian' the way the Duggars do.

It's the hypocrisy.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
23. "The point is, Dunham doesn't go around preaching to others..."
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 12:43 PM
Jun 2015

So pedophiles are OK so long as they openly embrace it?

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
35. Such as the fact that she was only seven years old
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 07:19 PM
Jun 2015

A seven year old's curiosity is not pedophilia, it is ridiculous to see people go after her for something she did when she was just beginning elementary school.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
38. No. She wasn't just 7. She continued her sexual predations into her teenage years including
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 07:53 PM
Jun 2015

enticing her kid sister to sleep in her bed while she masturbated.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
39. Cite me one piece of evidence that she ever touched her sister as a teenager
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:07 PM
Jun 2015

Lots of teenagers who share a room with their sibling masturbate after their sibling falls asleep. There is no evidence that her sister even knew this was happening nor is there any evidence that Lena Dunham was having fantasies of her sister while she masturbated. This is a completely made up controversy, there is no evidence what so ever that she touched her sister past the age of seven.

Juicy_Bellows

(2,427 posts)
41. Here is a quote from her:
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:14 PM
Jun 2015

"As she grew, I took to bribing her time and affection: one dollar in quarters if I could do her makeup like a “motorcycle chick.” Three pieces of candy if I could kiss her on the lips for five seconds. Whatever she wanted to watch on TV if she would just “relax on me.” Basically, anything a sexual predator might do to woo a small suburban girl, I was trying. Maybe, I thought, she would be more willing to accept kisses if I wore the face mask my grandmother had for when she did her dialysis. (The answer was no.) What I really wanted, beyond affection, was to feel that she needed me, that she was helpless without her big sister leading her through the world. I took a perverse pleasure in delivering bad news to her — the death of our grandfather, a fire across the street — hoping that her fear would drive her her into my arms, would make her trust me."

Not exactly Duggar level I suppose but pretty damned troubling.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
44. The sexual predator line was clearly an example of her poking fun at herself
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:21 PM
Jun 2015

It may have been a bad joke, but a bad joke is not the same as child molestation.

NOVA_Dem

(620 posts)
42. Those goal posts just keep on trucking down the road don't they?
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:16 PM
Jun 2015

another passage directly from her book:

As she grew, I took to bribing her for her time and affection: one dollar in quarters if I could do her makeup like a “motorcycle chick.” Three pieces of candy if I could kiss her on the lips for five seconds. Whatever she wanted to watch on TV if she would just “relax on me.” Basically, anything a sexual predator might do to woo a small suburban girl I was trying.

http://www.mediaite.com/online/concha-lena-dunhams-disturbing-passage-deserves-all-the-scorn-its-getting/

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
45. I never moved the goal posts
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:25 PM
Jun 2015

I asked for evidence that she touched her sister past the age of seven, you still have not provided that. A bad joke about sexual predators meant to poke fun of herself is not the same as child molestation, she clearly did not mean for that joke to be taken literally.

NOVA_Dem

(620 posts)
24. Do you really believe that...really?
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 12:46 PM
Jun 2015

I would like to meet the 1 yr old that can:
1) Remove their own diaper
2) Find seven pebbles and place them in their vagina
3) Put their diaper back on

1 yr old toddlers do NOT have that kind of manual dexterity.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
37. She was seven years old
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 07:32 PM
Jun 2015

There is no evidence at all that this continued past the age of seven, the right wing media made the allegation that it continued until she was seventeen with no evidence to back it up. I challenge you to find any proof that she ever touched her sister after graduating from the second grade, you won't find such proof because that allegation was completely made up by the right wing media.

NOVA_Dem

(620 posts)
40. You are uninformed on this issue.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:11 PM
Jun 2015

this is quoted directly from her book:

I shared a bed with my sister, Grace, until I was seventeen years old. She was afraid to sleep alone and would begin asking me around 5:00 P.M. every day whether she could sleep with me. I put on a big show of saying no, taking pleasure in watching her beg and sulk, but eventually I always relented. Her sticky, muscly little body thrashed beside me every night as I read Anne Sexton, watched reruns of SNL, sometimes even as I slipped my hand into my underwear to figure some stuff out.

http://www.mediaite.com/online/concha-lena-dunhams-disturbing-passage-deserves-all-the-scorn-its-getting/

Now that I have provided proof I doubt you'll change your position. You'll just move the goal posts a little further.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
43. No you did not provide proof
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:18 PM
Jun 2015

I asked for proof that she touched her sister, you only provided proof that she masturbated while her sister was sleeping. There is no evidence that her sister even knew she was masturbating. Lots of teenagers who share a room discreetly masturbate after their sibling falls asleep, that is not child molestation.

Juicy_Bellows

(2,427 posts)
47. In the same bed?
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:27 PM
Jun 2015

I guess, I am sure that happens but man alive that is unsavory. Sharing a room and sharing a bed seem like a pretty broad divide.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
48. It is certainly not something I would recommend doing
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:33 PM
Jun 2015

As long as she kept her hands to herself and her sister was not aware then it is mot sexual abuse. It may be ill advised, but people are accusing her of child molestation and masturbating while a sibling is sleeping is not child molestation.

NOVA_Dem

(620 posts)
51. Here's how the goal posts moved:
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:39 PM
Jun 2015

1)You claimed Dunham wasn't the one who placed the pebbles in her sisters vagina. It is ridiculous to believe a 1 yr old can do this on their own.

2)Then you said there was no proof that anything happened after Dunham was 7 yrs old and that the right-wing made up the assertion that her abuse continued until Dunham was 17.

You've been provided with multiple quotes from her own book detailing grooming behavior (dressing her sister in inappropriate attire for a child, bribing for affection (long kisses on the lips), manipulation of emotions, etc) that Dunham HERSELF says occurred until she was 17.

You're just pretending the proof wasn't provided.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
52. No, I asked for proof that she touched her sister past the age of seven
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:50 PM
Jun 2015

I never said anything about how the pebbles got into her vagina nor do I care, Lena Dunham was only seven years old at the time and I am not going to stand in judgment over what someone may have done when they were seven years old.

I stand by my assertion that there is no evidence of abuse past the age of seven, there is no evidence that Lena Dunham ever had sexual feelings for her sister. Taking a quote about kissing her sister and trying to make it into something sexual is pathetic, lots of siblings kiss and it is rarely sexual.

NOVA_Dem

(620 posts)
53. You know people can see what you actually wrote in the thread right?
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:59 PM
Jun 2015

You're cognitive dissonance may be preventing you from accepting proof:
Dunham was probably around the same age as that other Duggar abuser when she was sexualizing her 5 yr old sister:
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Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
54. Yes, people can read what I wrote
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 09:14 PM
Jun 2015

Which means they can clearly see that you are wrong, I never said anything about how the pebbles got into her vagina. If you think I am wrong then link to where I said such a thing.

Lena Dunham is a comedian and like most comedians she makes some over the top comments sometimes, but a white tee shirt that says "Bad Girl" is not evidence of abuse.

Grace Dunham who is the person you are alleging was abused does not think it was abuse either as she has publicly stated. This "story" originated when the right-wing media took quotes from Lena's book out of context, nobody who actually knows Lena Dunham has alleged she was abusive.

NOVA_Dem

(620 posts)
58. So now you're defense is she's a comedian?
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 09:33 PM
Jun 2015

I'll be waiting for her first stand up special on HBO.

Those quotes contained paragraphs directly from her book how can they be taken out of context?

Dressing up a 5 yr old and telling her she's Hell's Angel's sex property isn't grooming behavior?

If a victim doesn't recognize the abuse a crime that doesn't negate the abuse.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
59. She already has a comedy show on HBO
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 09:45 PM
Jun 2015

It may not be stand up comedy, but she is the writer and lead actress in a comedy series so that clearly makes her a comedian.

Taking three paragraphs from a comedian's book that say nothing about child molestation and suggesting those three paragraphs prove she is a child molestor is most definitely taking things out of context.

Not one single person who knows Lena Dunham has accused her of abuse, she was accused of abuse by a right wing web site. You can choose to believe the right-wing website that first made these allegations, I will choose to believe Grace Dunham.

NOVA_Dem

(620 posts)
63. As you can see posters have their minds made up w/o any facts
Sat Jun 6, 2015, 12:27 AM
Jun 2015

and when you present facts they find ridiculous ways to disregard them to hold on to what they prefer to believe.

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
14. If Bristol Palin was any dumber she would require fertilizer and regular watering.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 10:44 AM
Jun 2015

As for the Klondike Kardashian, she's just see's another "griftable moment".

Initech

(100,081 posts)
19. Lena Dunham doesn't champion herself as a morality crusader.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 11:46 AM
Jun 2015

Unlike the Duggars who do, and have made campaigns demonizing the LGBT community, and joined the bigoted American Family Association, and have appeared with just about every campaigning republican presidential candidate. That's why they are being attacked.

RockaFowler

(7,429 posts)
20. I don't think anyone ignored Lena Dunham
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 11:55 AM
Jun 2015

As a matter of fact many people called her out for writing this in her book

underpants

(182,830 posts)
27. Thank you. A quick google search shows that every major news org covered that story
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 01:23 PM
Jun 2015

Time
USA Today
All 3 networks websites and broadcasts
NYT
AP
CNN
and Fox News
The Daily Beasts has an article "The Rightwing's War on Lena Dunham"
Salon
Huff Po
And on and on and on

 

NobodyHere

(2,810 posts)
34. Nobody was calling for her show to get canceled like the Duggars.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 03:52 PM
Jun 2015

Or at the very least for Dunham to be removed from that show.

vankuria

(904 posts)
50. Dunham's show
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 08:36 PM
Jun 2015

is on HBO, a paid cable channel that you don't have to receive if you don't want it. The Duggar's reality show is on TLC a part of every cable channel package so even if you don't watch TLC the show is advertised on other channels so it's hard to escape it.

While I personally do not care for Lena Dunham and she lost me as a viewer to her show, she also doesn't go around the country as a moral crusader shaming others, trying to overturn laws that protect people and accusing others of being child predators.

I also question Lena Dunham's version of what she did with her sister when she was 7 yrs. old. She seems to look for shock value and I wouldn't be surprised if she embellished a large portion of what she wrote about her sister.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
33. She is the creator, director, and lead actress in HBO's Girls
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 03:32 PM
Jun 2015

She is also an outspoken feminist which is why the religious right hates her.

The "child molestation" she is being accused of happened when she was only seven years old. Apparently Sarah Palin thinks seven year olds are child molestors.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
32. Yes, she made an ad for Obama that compared voting to sex
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 03:27 PM
Jun 2015

She is also an outspoken feminist, the religious right hates her.

The "child molestation" she has been accused of happened when she was seven years old. If she is a child molestor than every kid who ever played doctor is a child molestor.

yewberry

(6,530 posts)
55. I had to look up who Lena Dunham is.
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 09:17 PM
Jun 2015

Apparently she is in the entertainment industry. I'm not aware that she took a management position with a group whose mission is telling other people that they are better than everyone else is, as Mr. Duggar did.

kimbutgar

(21,163 posts)
56. I wish Lena would offer to appear on Fox to tell her side of this story
Fri Jun 5, 2015, 09:25 PM
Jun 2015

Since they are so " fair and balanced" over there.

Something tells me Ms Lena would go to town and have fun with that interview!

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