Mon Jun 22, 2015, 05:28 PM
Bjorn Against (12,041 posts)
I have some tragic news to report.
Five years ago I told the story of Liam to DU and received all kinds of love and support from the community here, sadly I am going to have to ask for your support once again.
Liam passed away over the weekend at the age of five. I can't even begin to describe the pain the family is going through right now. Liam was like a son to me, he lived with me for a year and I played a major role in helping to raise him. Liam and his mother moved out a few years ago but we have remained not just friends but family. I have continued to care for Liam, he was literally the most important person in the world to me and I can't even imagine what life is going to be like without him. Liam lived a challenging life but he managed to stay happy through most of it despite the enormous obstacles he faced. Liam was only six weeks old when he suffered a traumatic brain injury at the hands of an abusive "father". Liam nearly died when he was an infant, but he managed to hang in there and he made a pretty miraculous recovery. His brain injury prevented him from ever learning how to walk or talk, but it did not prevent him from showing everybody how much he loved them. Liam was filled with laughter and smiles, he loved to give kisses, and while he never learned to talk he did learn to hum along with songs and he sang to us regularly. Last year Liam's little sister Autumn was born and as she started to learn new things he would follow suit. Once she learned to stand he started to stand up on his own, Autumn was helping to teach him new things in a way no adult could ever do and we were totally thrilled with the progress he was making. Everything seemed fine, and then Friday night he went to bed and he never woke up again the next morning. The medical examiners have not completed their report yet so I can't say anything about the cause of death, but I am convinced that it is related to the brain injury that Liam suffered as an infant. There is a possibility that murder charges could be filed against the monster that assaulted him but we have to be able to prove that the death was related to the brain injury so charges will be dependent on how conclusive the medical examiner's report is. No matter what happens however, the loss of Liam has had a devastating impact on Liam's mother and his new father Brandon, a person who has shown Liam an enormous amount of love ever since he came into his life. Brandon served as a Personal Care Assistant for Liam and a very large chunk of the family income came from the PCA hours that he received. Not only has the family lost a child, but they lost half their income as well and are now trying to figure out how they will be able to keep their home. I have never asked for donations on DU before but this time I need help. If anyone can afford to donate please follow the link to the GoFundMe page I have provided below. I understand that many people can't afford a donation themselves, but if you could please share the link with anyone who might be able to help it would be very much appreciated. Thank you all in advance for your support during this very difficult time. http://www.gofundme.com/x5wvbc9s ![]()
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Bjorn Against | Jun 2015 | OP |
marym625 | Jun 2015 | #1 | |
BeyondGeography | Jun 2015 | #2 | |
CaliforniaPeggy | Jun 2015 | #3 | |
polly7 | Jun 2015 | #4 | |
joeybee12 | Jun 2015 | #5 | |
herding cats | Jun 2015 | #6 | |
Bjorn Against | Jun 2015 | #49 | |
bluesbassman | Jun 2015 | #7 | |
vankuria | Jun 2015 | #8 | |
question everything | Jun 2015 | #9 | |
rocktivity | Jun 2015 | #10 | |
heaven05 | Jun 2015 | #11 | |
calimary | Jun 2015 | #12 | |
etherealtruth | Jun 2015 | #13 | |
Aerows | Jun 2015 | #14 | |
brer cat | Jun 2015 | #15 | |
passiveporcupine | Jun 2015 | #16 | |
Lifelong Protester | Jun 2015 | #17 | |
barbtries | Jun 2015 | #18 | |
democrank | Jun 2015 | #19 | |
catbyte | Jun 2015 | #20 | |
MoonRiver | Jun 2015 | #21 | |
alfredo | Jun 2015 | #22 | |
Blue_In_AK | Jun 2015 | #23 | |
Flatulo | Jun 2015 | #24 | |
Starry Messenger | Jun 2015 | #25 | |
Enthusiast | Jun 2015 | #26 | |
BeanMusical | Jun 2015 | #27 | |
840high | Jun 2015 | #28 | |
whathehell | Jun 2015 | #29 | |
elehhhhna | Jun 2015 | #30 | |
onecaliberal | Jun 2015 | #31 | |
Bjorn Against | Jun 2015 | #50 | |
Bjorn Against | Jun 2015 | #32 | |
hifiguy | Jun 2015 | #33 | |
myrna minx | Jun 2015 | #34 | |
UtahLib | Jun 2015 | #35 | |
shenmue | Jun 2015 | #36 | |
KT2000 | Jun 2015 | #37 | |
AngryAmish | Jun 2015 | #38 | |
Bjorn Against | Jun 2015 | #60 | |
AwakeAtLast | Jun 2015 | #39 | |
MH1 | Jun 2015 | #40 | |
FailureToCommunicate | Jun 2015 | #41 | |
Liberal_in_LA | Jun 2015 | #42 | |
MrMickeysMom | Jun 2015 | #43 | |
Pauldg47 | Jun 2015 | #44 | |
Pauldg47 | Jun 2015 | #45 | |
montana_hazeleyes | Jun 2015 | #46 | |
magical thyme | Jun 2015 | #47 | |
MerryBlooms | Jun 2015 | #48 | |
City Lights | Jun 2015 | #51 | |
blackspade | Jun 2015 | #52 | |
raouldukelives | Jun 2015 | #53 | |
Chan790 | Jun 2015 | #54 | |
Bjorn Against | Jun 2015 | #61 | |
lunamagica | Jun 2015 | #55 | |
Bluzmann57 | Jun 2015 | #56 | |
tblue | Jun 2015 | #57 | |
rock | Jun 2015 | #58 | |
lark | Jun 2015 | #59 | |
Bjorn Against | Jun 2015 | #62 | |
Bjorn Against | Jun 2015 | #63 | |
LiberalLoner | Jun 2015 | #64 |
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 05:31 PM
marym625 (17,997 posts)
1. Kick
I'm sorry i can't give anything. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Mon Jun 22, 2015, 05:31 PM
BeyondGeography (38,561 posts)
2. Beautiful child, RIP
Thank you for sharing his story with us.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 05:32 PM
CaliforniaPeggy (145,055 posts)
3. Greatest Page for this important and very sad story...n/t
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 05:35 PM
polly7 (20,582 posts)
4. I am so very sorry.
What a beautiful little boy.
It sounds like he brought so much joy to your lives, I hope, in time, those good memories can lessen some of the pain. Deepest condolences to his mother and new father, you, and everyone who knew and loved him. R.I.P. little Liam. |
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 05:37 PM
joeybee12 (56,177 posts)
5. This is heart-breaking...sweet dreams little Liam
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 05:39 PM
herding cats (18,898 posts)
6. I'm so very sorry for all of you who loved Liam.
He had a life of both tragedy and joy it sounds like. At least if he had to pass, he did it peacefully in his sleep. The poor little baby!
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Response to herding cats (Reply #6)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 08:43 AM
Bjorn Against (12,041 posts)
49. Thank you so much for sharing
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 05:40 PM
bluesbassman (18,711 posts)
7. So sad to hear this, and sorry for this tragic loss.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 05:45 PM
vankuria (891 posts)
8. So very sorry
he was a beautiful little boy and you can see his wonderful spirit in that big smile. May his spirit live on and his memory always be a blessing.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 05:49 PM
question everything (45,066 posts)
9. Oh how sad for all of you
will poor Autumn ever remember how she helped her brother?
My deepest condolences to you and to the family. ![]() ![]() |
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 05:55 PM
rocktivity (44,394 posts)
10. Before Abuse Occurs...
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Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:00 PM
heaven05 (18,124 posts)
11. I am so sorry
may he be with angels
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Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:03 PM
calimary (74,927 posts)
12. So sad. What a sweet little face.
How could anyone be physically abusive to that? Or to ANY child? ANY abuse, for that matter.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:04 PM
etherealtruth (22,165 posts)
13. i am so sorry for your loss of this beautiful little boy
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:07 PM
Aerows (39,961 posts)
14. I'm so sorry for your loss, Bjorn
I never know what to say when tragedy hits someone.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:10 PM
brer cat (20,982 posts)
15. What a beautiful little boy.
My deepest sympathy to you and his family, Bjorn Again.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:12 PM
passiveporcupine (8,175 posts)
16. So sorry for your loss of this beautiful child
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Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:12 PM
Lifelong Protester (8,421 posts)
17. So sorry to hear this.
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:19 PM
barbtries (27,318 posts)
18. Bjorn
so sorry for your loss.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:25 PM
democrank (10,512 posts)
19. Rest in peace, precious Liam.
So sorry, Bjorn.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:26 PM
catbyte (32,034 posts)
20. I'm so very sorry, Bjorn Against
I'll do what I can & I will certainly keep you and Liam's family in my thoughts. What a tragedy.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:29 PM
MoonRiver (36,926 posts)
21. So horribly tragic
RIP sweet baby Liam
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:31 PM
alfredo (59,816 posts)
22. Sad news.
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Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:31 PM
Blue_In_AK (46,436 posts)
23. I'm so sorry.
My sincerest condolences.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:32 PM
Flatulo (5,005 posts)
24. If there is a hell, there's a special place reserved for monsters who harm children.
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Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:33 PM
Starry Messenger (32,335 posts)
25. k&r
No words. Love and peace to the family of Liam. xo
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Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:34 PM
Enthusiast (50,983 posts)
26. Very sorry, Bjorn Against.
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Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:34 PM
BeanMusical (4,389 posts)
27. I'm so sorry.
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Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:46 PM
840high (17,196 posts)
28. Kick with great sadness.
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Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:53 PM
whathehell (27,904 posts)
29. I'm so very sorry.
Rest in peace, little one.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 06:56 PM
elehhhhna (32,076 posts)
30. He stood. With his sister.
What a fine boy.
My heart breaks for you all. |
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 07:04 PM
onecaliberal (29,349 posts)
31. I am so sorry. Just chipped in a bit.
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Response to onecaliberal (Reply #31)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 08:47 AM
Bjorn Against (12,041 posts)
50. Thank you so much for your generosity, it means a great deal
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 07:37 PM
Bjorn Against (12,041 posts)
32. Thank you so much everyone
Sorry I am not able to respond to everyone personally right now, things are extremely hectic. I want to say however that just in the last hour we raised $1000 which will cover the next months rent. Thank you so much to everyone who has chipped in, to the $500 anonymous donor if you are reading this thank you so much.
I will update everyone later, thank you all for the support. |
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 07:44 PM
hifiguy (33,688 posts)
33. Oy. Heartbreaking.
I hope the individual responsible for hurting him in the first place is in prison.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 07:45 PM
myrna minx (22,772 posts)
34. I am so sorry for your loss, Bjorn.
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Mon Jun 22, 2015, 07:50 PM
UtahLib (3,175 posts)
35. K&R for sweet baby Liam. nt
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Mon Jun 22, 2015, 08:04 PM
KT2000 (20,336 posts)
37. this is so sad
my sympathies to you and the rest of his family. Rest in Peace dear Liam.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 08:17 PM
AngryAmish (25,704 posts)
38. Leave nothing to chance
Is there a law against you walking into the medical examiner's office and giving them the background? Just do it. The worst is they can say no. Make them know the background. They are human.
Or the state's attorney? Lite a fire on his ass. 5 year olds do not die in their sleep. The standard is in civil cases a proximate cause: not the most, or the most recent but any cause that contributed. |
Response to AngryAmish (Reply #38)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 02:49 PM
Bjorn Against (12,041 posts)
60. The medical examiner is aware of the background
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 08:21 PM
AwakeAtLast (13,950 posts)
39. I am so, so sorry
What an extraordinary child with such an extraordinary story. My sincere condolences to you and the entire family. I hope justice is swift.
Autumn will be an excellent teacher when she grows up! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 08:56 PM
MH1 (17,162 posts)
40. I am so sorry for your loss.
So heartbreaking.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 11:14 PM
FailureToCommunicate (13,379 posts)
41. Wonderful that you took him into your life. Thank you for giving us a chance to help out.
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 11:26 PM
Liberal_in_LA (44,397 posts)
42. Bjorn _ I am sorry that this beautiful kid has passed
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Mon Jun 22, 2015, 11:31 PM
MrMickeysMom (20,453 posts)
43. Nothing like this should happen...
He brought joy out of it, though… I'm so very sorry.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 01:45 AM
Pauldg47 (640 posts)
44. I'm so sorry.......
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 01:49 AM
Pauldg47 (640 posts)
45. I'm so sorry.......
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 04:22 AM
montana_hazeleyes (3,424 posts)
46. I am so sorry.
I see the joy on his little face and it is so wrong his beautiful life was so short.
My heart goes out to all who love him. ![]() ![]() |
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 06:25 AM
magical thyme (14,881 posts)
47. I am so very sorry for your loss...
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 07:56 AM
MerryBlooms (11,271 posts)
48. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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Tue Jun 23, 2015, 08:49 AM
City Lights (25,171 posts)
51. What a beautiful child.
So very sad to read this.
My sincere condolences to all who loved him. ![]() |
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 09:18 AM
blackspade (10,056 posts)
52. RIP Liam.
My condolences.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 09:55 AM
raouldukelives (5,178 posts)
53. I am so sorry. What a sweet child.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 10:50 AM
Chan790 (20,176 posts)
54. Kicked. Recommended. Donated. n/t
Response to Chan790 (Reply #54)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 02:49 PM
Bjorn Against (12,041 posts)
61. Thank you so much for the donation.
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 11:01 AM
lunamagica (9,967 posts)
55. I'm so sorry
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 11:05 AM
Bluzmann57 (12,336 posts)
56. What a beautiful child
May he find peace in his unfortunate passing and may the creature who caused that horrifying injury get what's coming to him.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 11:36 AM
tblue (16,350 posts)
57. Ill ever understand
why things like this happen to sweet innocent souls. I'm so sorry. The heart just breaks.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 01:42 PM
rock (13,218 posts)
58. My sympathy to all
I'm truly sorry.
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Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 01:59 PM
lark (22,225 posts)
59. Thank you for letting us know and help.
Condolences on the loss of this little bit of sunshine and bright smiles. I'm glad to be able to contribute a little to help out his family in this sad time.
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Response to lark (Reply #59)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 02:50 PM
Bjorn Against (12,041 posts)
62. Thank you so much.
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 03:06 PM
Bjorn Against (12,041 posts)
63. I want to say once again how grateful I am for everyone's support
Thank you to all those who have expressed sympathy, recommended this thread, shared the link to the GoFundMe page, and thank you especially to those who donated.
In the first 24 hours we have raised $1,715 dollars which is an amazing start, that will pay next month's rent and some additional expenses as well. They will probably still have to move to a cheaper apartment at some point, but if they can have a few months to mourn without having to panic about their financial situation that will no doubt help the healing process. I know the mother is extremely grateful to everyone who donated, she is extremely traumatized and seeing people she doesn't even know step up to help her has allowed her to have a few smiles at a time when she desperately needs them. |
Response to Bjorn Against (Original post)
Tue Jun 23, 2015, 03:28 PM
LiberalLoner (9,050 posts)
64. I am so very sorry.
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