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My Wife: 'See? You brothers just stood there looking at it. It took a sister to take it down.' (Original Post) Playinghardball Jun 2015 OP
I hear that! dixiegrrrrl Jun 2015 #1
Your wife is one smart woman! lunatica Jun 2015 #2
Agreed! Stellar Jun 2015 #17
Great video! Thanks! lunatica Jun 2015 #18
+1 Stellar Jun 2015 #21
Given that so many black men are being shot to death by police for no reason snagglepuss Jun 2015 #3
It is happening to black women too, but they don't hit the news cycle as much Cal Carpenter Jun 2015 #4
+100 kath Jun 2015 #8
I did not mean to slight her bravery however I don't think it fair to snagglepuss Jun 2015 #15
Being a woman climber isn't an insult to men lunatica Jun 2015 #19
She can and should praised for what she did however there snagglepuss Jun 2015 #26
It was a heroic act of community Fairgo Jun 2015 #51
I think you should read Post #25 by Heaven05 before dismissing snagglepuss Jun 2015 #56
Your point is valid Fairgo Jun 2015 #57
I didn't insinuate *anyone* is a coward Cal Carpenter Jun 2015 #20
Boom! Starry Messenger Jun 2015 #24
Thank you cal JustAnotherGen Jun 2015 #27
yes you did heaven05 Jun 2015 #30
You misunderstand me, man Cal Carpenter Jun 2015 #33
I agree. Had it been a black male, he might have gotten shot. nm rhett o rick Jun 2015 #60
Goes to show you: "Roosters Crow, But Hens Deliver" DinahMoeHum Jun 2015 #5
That bottom photo is an instant icon. It will be in textbooks and archives. JaneyVee Jun 2015 #6
yes! That photo is fantastic! kath Jun 2015 #9
Yes, but a black man stood a much better chance... MohRokTah Jun 2015 #7
A lot of loudmouths on DU cwydro Jun 2015 #10
Do you think it should have happened? JaneyVee Jun 2015 #11
Hell to the yeah. cwydro Jun 2015 #16
You don't know heaven05 Jun 2015 #28
Misunderstanding here. cwydro Jun 2015 #31
Lol! True... bravenak Jun 2015 #38
Thank you for noticing. cwydro Jun 2015 #40
I'm proud to be a woman too. Nothing wrong with feeling pride in female accomplishments. bravenak Jun 2015 #43
Yes ma'am. cwydro Jun 2015 #44
! bravenak Jun 2015 #46
Dollars to donuts if a white person did that you'd be snagglepuss Jun 2015 #41
I know who isn't white. cwydro Jun 2015 #42
You said "I'm making fun of white posters here" snagglepuss Jun 2015 #47
Oh for crying out loud. cwydro Jun 2015 #49
By that logic, you didn't take it down either mythology Jun 2015 #50
Of course, cwydro Jun 2015 #52
Pssssst.... MohRokTah Jun 2015 #48
I didn't have the money or the time awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #55
A black man would have been shot davidn3600 Jun 2015 #12
That fucker murdered 6 women and 3 men at the church. Racists aren't afraid to kill women. PeaceNikki Jun 2015 #13
THAT'S RIGHT. Brickbat Jun 2015 #14
You go girl. cwydro Jun 2015 #22
Honestly, I felt in my gut that someone would try this and couldn't figure out how CTyankee Jun 2015 #23
me too Quayblue Jun 2015 #32
I was going to let this pass, but no heaven05 Jun 2015 #25
I definitely can understand your angst Quayblue Jun 2015 #29
I get it JustAnotherGen Jun 2015 #54
DU of late never misses an opportunity to try to DIVIDE on issues that should unite us all. MADem Jun 2015 #59
She is an exceptionally well trained and educated film maker mnhtnbb Jun 2015 #34
I want to applaud this woman. madaboutharry Jun 2015 #35
I have always said it will be the women, the sisters, who will change the world KauaiK Jun 2015 #36
There's an IndieGoGo to raise bail for Bree and future actions starroute Jun 2015 #37
She was magnificent. realFedUp Jun 2015 #39
Let put this quote into the history books. TRoN33 Jun 2015 #45
Damn right! Number23 Jun 2015 #53
Serious question. Have they put it back up yet? Rosco T. Jun 2015 #58

snagglepuss

(12,704 posts)
3. Given that so many black men are being shot to death by police for no reason
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 04:20 PM
Jun 2015

at all, I think that comment is grossly unfair.

snagglepuss

(12,704 posts)
15. I did not mean to slight her bravery however I don't think it fair to
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 04:55 PM
Jun 2015

insinuate that the black men who were there are coward, no black person can be faulted for being prudent is such situations.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
19. Being a woman climber isn't an insult to men
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 05:17 PM
Jun 2015

No matter what color. But every once in a while a women does something that you think only men do and a pride of gender shows itself. Why not celebrate that instead of taking offense?

snagglepuss

(12,704 posts)
26. She can and should praised for what she did however there
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 05:40 PM
Jun 2015

is no reason to dis others who didn't do what she did. I object to putting anyone down, to elevate someone else. Her merit stands on its own.

Fairgo

(1,571 posts)
51. It was a heroic act of community
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 07:08 PM
Jun 2015

that defies a symbol of exclusion. The OP puts an asterisk next to the act that specifies who is worthy to be included in its reflected collective ownership...and who is not. The OP could have chosen to celebrate the person, the act and even the fact that a woman stood for us. But the frame is, undeniably, "not a brother". Fortunately, its just a fart in church (i believe that the slur was not the intent of the poster). The act and the woman transcend it all. She is my hero. Her act speaks for me. How about you?

snagglepuss

(12,704 posts)
56. I think you should read Post #25 by Heaven05 before dismissing
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 08:27 PM
Jun 2015

the slur quoted in the OP as simply "a fart in a church".

Fairgo

(1,571 posts)
57. Your point is valid
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 10:18 PM
Jun 2015

The insinuation is doubly harmful because it negates the community spirit of inclusion that the defiant act represents AND it treads on old and poisoned ground it's implied denegration of men in the course of that exclusion. As another act of community, I simply tried to create a path to save face, walk the slur back, and return to the uplifting celebration of her brave act. However, what followed was a flurry of sad and small bigotries wher DU regulars compete to see which of us was unworthy of inclusion in this celebration. Your point stands, sadly. As a group, we regress to a shameful mean.

Cal Carpenter

(4,959 posts)
20. I didn't insinuate *anyone* is a coward
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 05:18 PM
Jun 2015

I'm just sick of black women being ignored as though they aren't as vulnerable to systemic racism and police violence as black men are. And on several posts on this very thread, people are making it clear that they either don't know or don't care that black women are not only being killed by cops and other racists, they are being ignored by the media and forgotten in the national conversation about these problems. My goal is only to point out the misinformation that you and others are spreading.

If you have a problem with the dude who tweeted it, take it up with him.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
30. yes you did
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 05:47 PM
Jun 2015

period. No one here in their right mind has ignored the murder and executions of black women. No one here that I have read have dissed the black woman by inferring she does not face the same institutional and systemic racism all POC face. Your "goal" is suspect to me. The one who tweeted it? WRONG!!!!! At this time in history.

Cal Carpenter

(4,959 posts)
33. You misunderstand me, man
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 05:54 PM
Jun 2015

Three people on this very thread have implied that black woman are not vulnerable like black men in terms of systemic racism and violence by cops.

I was just trying to speak up for those women. I've seen it here time and time again, and in real life, in my own community, when unarmed black women are killed by cops or other racists and there is no outcry, there is barely a mention until some people start agitating about it.

I'm sorry I was part of opening a wound for you. I am sincere about that. I think if you read my other posts here about racism, police brutality and murder, etc, you will see I have no suspicious agenda.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
10. A lot of loudmouths on DU
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 04:36 PM
Jun 2015

kept saying this should happen

They didn't do it.

We all know who they are.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
16. Hell to the yeah.
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 04:55 PM
Jun 2015

Just laughing that none of the social justice warriors here would do such a thing.

Bree is from my city, and I am proud of her.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
28. You don't know
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 05:43 PM
Jun 2015

what I would do if I could, I laugh at the assumptions on this thread about black men. I am very proud of ms. Newsome also, but not at the expense of dignity and pride and courage that black men carry, ALSO!

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
31. Misunderstanding here.
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 05:48 PM
Jun 2015

I'm actually making fun of the WHITE posters here.

None of whom did a damn thing despite clamoring for the flag to come down.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
40. Thank you for noticing.
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 06:21 PM
Jun 2015

A lot of yammering here that goes nowhere. Nothing but white folks bitching about that flag. No one on DU took that flag down.
So they need to shut the f up.

I certainly meant NO disrespect for black men.

As a female however, lol, I always think we women will get WHATEVER needs to be done, DONE.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
43. I'm proud to be a woman too. Nothing wrong with feeling pride in female accomplishments.
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 06:31 PM
Jun 2015

We always do what needs done.

snagglepuss

(12,704 posts)
41. Dollars to donuts if a white person did that you'd be
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 06:27 PM
Jun 2015

claiming whites wanted to show black people up, that white were acting paternalistic.

And how exactly do you know who is white on this thread?

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
49. Oh for crying out loud.
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 06:40 PM
Jun 2015

I have been on DU for almost ten years. I sure do know those who are AA or not. Usually they speak up about that fact, as I do that I am gay.

And as a white person, sadly, it is pretty effing obvious when a poster IS white.

What is your problem? Embarrassed that a young AA woman climbed that flagpole and did what no one here had the guts (or physical ability) to do?

Get off your silly soapbox and congratulate this young woman.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
50. By that logic, you didn't take it down either
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 07:07 PM
Jun 2015

So obvious lack the guts or physical ability to do so.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
52. Of course,
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 07:18 PM
Jun 2015

no way could I climb a flagpole.

Just laughing at all the keyboard warriors here recently.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
23. Honestly, I felt in my gut that someone would try this and couldn't figure out how
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 05:30 PM
Jun 2015

in all good conscience anyone would seriously stop them.

I absolutely love Bree. What a courageous and strong woman. She hurt no one. I'm glad Michael Moore stepped up and said he'd pay for any expenses she would incur as a result of her heroic action. In fact, I thought for sure more people, esp. celebrities, would step up.

I am in awe and respect of Bree.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
25. I was going to let this pass, but no
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 05:40 PM
Jun 2015

So the consequence of Ms Newsome taking down the confederate rag which is back up by the way, and I DO COMMEND HER COURAGE AS A POC with principle, is, inferred, that black men are cowards, shiftless and/or lazy. Yet reading this thread's title and content/responses shows me the black male is seen as a coward for not doing this act. I take extreme exception to the divisive nature of the OP comment and most of the responses, and I don't give a damn where the OP originated. The bravery of many a POC who happened to be male that has sacrificed blood and life so all can be free has been openly spit upon and does those enemies of POC proud. The black male can be relegated to the back room again while the black woman stands up for black pride. And oh, he's probably drunk back there in the back room anyway. But I digress.

The nature of this OP goes back historically to some bad times and is repeating a generations old mistake of giving all respect to the black woman and while inferring nay saying no courage in that black "boy". Historically that has always been a tool of division among black people generated and perpetuated by the controlling racist forces of this country. I AM DISGUSTED! And it has, this OP, opened a wound in me from many battles, both internally and externally, against the racist forces in this country.. Aww fuck, you all want to keep division in the ranks be my guest, but this is disappointing to me, in a big way dammit.

Quayblue

(1,045 posts)
29. I definitely can understand your angst
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 05:46 PM
Jun 2015

As there are many, MANY, black men in the trenches as well.

We can give appreciation and credit to all fighters, no matter where and how they choose to fight, without taking away from others.

JustAnotherGen

(31,866 posts)
54. I get it
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 07:25 PM
Jun 2015

I don't know how to put it into words -

Maybe -

The ones who have protected us when they could - were always black men.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
59. DU of late never misses an opportunity to try to DIVIDE on issues that should unite us all.
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 10:21 PM
Jun 2015

Makes ya wonder...!!! Here's my take:



Isn't it nice that this human being engaged in a powerful and visual protest.

Isn't it cool that this person was a woman!!

Isn't it neat that she was a black American, because that flag was proudly waved as a symbol of the "whiteness rightness" of oppressing a large portion--and that would be the BLACK portion-- of American society!


I mean...shit. It's ALL GOOD!!! I can't understand why there should be ANY discussion of what men did or didn't do, or what black men did or didn't do. It's just not the point. Would it have been better if ten people went up the pole? Or a team? A man, a woman, a child?

I mean, really--it was a great protest. It was beautifully executed.

So here's what I say: Good for HER! We should cheer for her, and not worry about anything else.

Because anything else is just ... noise.

mnhtnbb

(31,401 posts)
34. She is an exceptionally well trained and educated film maker
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 05:56 PM
Jun 2015

as well as civil rights activist.

http://www.breenewsome.com/

She is a unique individual--that is not to say a young Spike Lee might not have done the same--but
I don't think her sex had as much to do with her actions as her identity as a film maker did.

She created an extremely theatrical moment and I applaud her for doing it.



KauaiK

(544 posts)
36. I have always said it will be the women, the sisters, who will change the world
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 06:10 PM
Jun 2015

Women are emotionally and intellectually stronger. Females face adversity head on.

First they ignore you
Then they laugh at you
Then they fight you
Then you win.

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