Anna Duggar ‘partly blames herself’ and will never leave her cheating anti-LGBT activist husband

[diabeticman]

http://www.rawstory.com/2015/08/anna-duggar-partly-blames-herself-and-will-never-leave-her-cheating-anti-lgbt-activist-husband-source/


Anna Duggar won’t likely leave her husband despite his admitted cheating and will instead blame herself, according to a new report.

Josh Duggar, the former reality TV star and anti-LGBT activist, admitted Thursday to an addiction to pornography and infidelity after reports revealed he paid for two accounts on the adultery website Ashley Madison.


This comes three months after revelations that he molested four of his sisters and a family friend as they slept more than a decade ago, when he was a teenager.

A source told People magazine that Anna Duggar, who gave birth last month to the couple’s fourth child, would likely “absorb some of the blame” for her husband’s cheating.

“Anna will not leave him,” the source said. “As with her in-laws, she is turning more to her faith than ever. She and Josh are probably praying around the clock right now, I would assume.”

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I am not anti-religion. I will defend your right to believe whatever you want BUT honestly sometimes with these fundies you have to wonder if their "beliefs" are more dangerous than helpful.

This is the whole Blame the female because she is the sex that created the greatest sin/we need to control dominate and treated like crap!

[Stargazer09]

1. I feel sorry for her

It will be very difficult for her to escape that horrible, abusive marriage. She has four young children, and unless her family is willing to help her, she probably has nowhere to go.

With that said, if he truly told her before they were married that he molested his sisters, she may be too far into that awful culture to even think about getting out.

[Johonny]

15. It's hard not to

She likely born into a "faith" society that teaches her to accept these things, have lots of kids, and look/act a certain way. Sadly she is turning to that faith for more help. Ugh.

[nichomachus]

19. Once a child molester, always a child molester

If she really cares for those kids, she'd get them as far away from Josh as humanly possible.

[Sunlei]

2. surprised she doesn't blame the internet porn industry, thats the root of the problem with her 'man'

[Cal Carpenter]

8. The root?

This guy molested his sisters when he was a teenager. He cheated on his wife. I don't think internet porn is the 'root' of his problem. Another symptom, perhaps, but not the root.

[Chiyo-chichi]

13. You are right, but Josh Duggar tried to make it sound like it was the root of his problem

in his "apology" statement yesterday.

[Cal Carpenter]

24. Ah, thanks, I haven't been paying close attention so I didn't catch that.

[PJMcK]

14. Probably sarcasm

At least that's how I read Sunlei's post. After all, without porn, the Internet wouldn't be much fun, would it? (wink)

[Cal Carpenter]

25. Gotcha. Guess I was a little tone deaf this morning

[CanonRay]

3. She is completely brainwashed

by these evil people.

[Beaverhausen]

4. Who is the source?

I'll wait and see.

[waddirum]

5. "She and Josh are probably preying around the clock now, I would assume"

They are both predators. She is complicit, essentially giving him the green light for his awful behavior.

[Bettie]

9. She'll blame herself when he molests his daughters too

and he will, if he hasn't already. Those types do not change.

[hamsterjill]

41. I fear you are correct.

There's something sick and twisted about Josh. I realize that is the understatement of the year! But it's not only that he's done the horrible things that he's admitted to doing, it's the "I have sinned" confession coming so quickly. He's deeply in need of the spotlight and attention, something he obviously never got growing up in a house with 18 other siblings.

I think he'll molest his daughters down the line, if for no other reason than to be able to have more publicity. Anna Duggar is (indeed) in a difficult situation and I realize it would be difficult for her to leave him, but in my opinion, her duty as the mother of those children should trump anything else and she needs to get the hell away from that creep to protect her children.

[Bettie]

44. The problem is that she's been programmed

to believe that any "straying" he does, either with hookers, porn, or her children, is all her fault for not being "enough".

Just saw a thing on KOS with the statement: "Sex is like pre-chewed chewing gum ... Is that what you want to present to your husband?"

The thing is, the boys/men are taught that once they've "chewed that gum" it is worthless except as a vehicle for child production.

In the end, she'll never leave him, because doing so would show his family, her family, and everyone she actually knows that she wasn't "good enough" to hold his interest.

I have a very cynical view of extremely religious families I guess.

[Eleanors38]

40. "Preying around the clock?"

[alcibiades_mystery]

6. Is this what Raw Story is up to these days? Enquirer-like stories in which an unnamed source

speculates about the goings-on in the home of former reality show quasi-celebrities?

My, my. How have the mighty fallen.

[msanthrope]

21. pretty much sums up my reaction to this. Josh Duggar is disgusting

But this is tabloid level bullshit.

[Rex]

30. Raw Story was always crap, it just looks like you finally smelt it.

Fallen from the grate in the sewer into a cesspool is more like it.

[catrose]

7. Dear Anna,

It's not your fault.

[N_E_1 for Tennis]

39. ?"....

Dear Anna,
No it's not your fault. But you are an enabler.
Get help!
He is to blame but you had a large part in it.
Can't see that?
Get help.

[catrose]

43. Maybe give her a few weeks to recover

From the birth of her 4th baby.

[CBGLuthier]

10. Even as an atheist i feel it is not the religion that is poisonous it is the culture.

I have very good friends who believe in Jesus and all that and they would never believe women are breeding machines that must accept a man's dominance even when he is a fucking idiot tool scumbag not worthy of anyone's respect.

Same way i feel about some Muslims. Not the religion but the cultural misinterpretation.

[yardwork]

11. It's the authoritarian patriarchal mindset.

Ironically, this is what Jesus preached against.

[hunter]

38. My family is matriarchal religious. My great grandmas were all very strong Christian women...

... masters of their Wild West domains.

It's still like that, and in my wife's family too. Bad men earn Darwin Awards, at best by simple "you are the weakest link" rejection, or at worst by extreme mayhem and call the county sheriff-coroner to clean up the mess.

Genghis Khan may have died like that. Mother Mary and Saint Brigit were very dangerous women too.

From Biblical evidence early Christianity was matriarchal. It took a feckless guy like Paul to reinvent the religion into something acceptable in patriarchal societies, especially Roman society. My Christian-insane-talks-to-God-mom thinks Paul can be a jerk sometimes, and has always said so, making me and my siblings and my supernaturally patient dad frequently uncomfortable in Church. We also had to leave Franco's Spain in the middle of the night once upon a time.

I would never claim such matriarchal religious societies are ideal. Abusive Catholic school teacher and adoption agency and orphanage nuns are not good people.

But the patriarchal Christianity of the Duggar sort seems somehow worse. They live in the same sewers as all the child abusing and other sexually dishonest and closeted freaks.

Anyone who is entirely honest with their enthusiastically consenting "safe sex" adult gay or straight sexual partners is doing no wrong.

It's the cheaters and child molesters who most deserve the scorn of ordinary society.

Josh Duggar is at best a cheater, but more likely worse scum. I wouldn't trust him with children, I'd probably cut off his balls and nail them to the fireplace mantle as a trophy if I was his wife.

[yardwork]

12. Rec your comment.

[Logical]

16. Religion, make believe for grownups! George Carlin nt

[leftyladyfrommo]

17. That family is so twisted.

I just saw where they are pitching a new show where they do counseling for sexual abuse.

Lord.

[hobbit709]

18. This is what happens when you're brainwashed into a culture that considers women chattel.

[Octafish]

20. ''Sex is the poor man's opera.'' -- George Bernard Shaw

And for a guy who's never worked a day in his adult life, Mr. Duggar has done a lot of it.

[logosoco]

22. I don't really read a lot of these stories indepth,

but from what I see, I notice they don't seem to talk much about LOVE and care when they are discussing marriage and raising families. That seems to be a word I use often when I speak of these things.

[Kaleva]

23. She apparently didn't follow the advice her mother-in-law gave

"Her mother-in-law, Michelle Duggar, advises married women to have sex with their husband whenever he wants.

“Be available,” the 49-year-old said in an interview last year. “Anyone can fix him lunch, but only one person can meet that physical need of love that he has. You always need to be available when he calls.”"

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[Initech]

26. When does a relationship like this border on Stockholm Syndrome?

Anna needs to get out of that relationship and get the kids away from that monster as soon as possible. The Duggars have definitely brainwashed her.

[randys1]

27. When I wonder how ANY Woman could EVER vote for ANY republican, I will remember this

the harm done by white heterosexual males, is so overwhelming there is no way to measure it.


Yes, all men regardless of race are potentially horrible, but white men have all the power.

[roscoeroscoe]

28. Josh Duggar needs to leave the reservation for good

Take Anna and the kids to Big Sur, go get real

[Jester Messiah]

29. Stockholm syndrome.

I hope one day she finds the strength to break free.

[Gothmog]

31. The wife is the victim of the cheating by her husband

This lady is brainwashed

[Rex]

32. I don't care, she can be that way the rest of her life...go for it moran!

Stupid morans deserve each other and the shitty tabloid that makes them infamous.

[hifiguy]

33. Idiots gonna idiot.

Klowns gonna klown.

[awoke_in_2003]

34. People like this

Make me even happier that I'm an atheist.

[DefenseLawyer]

35. None of my business. n/t

[VMA131Marine]

36. This will get worse...

Sooner or later there is going to be a tell-all interview with one or more of the women he cheated with.

[City Lights]

37. It's sad that she partly blames herself.

Not really surprising, though, considering the environment in which she lives.