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FourScore

(9,704 posts)
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 05:42 PM Dec 2011

My 82-year-old mother just told me what happened to her on Christmas Eve...

Over the last three weeks, my mother has complained over the phone to me about how she just couldn't get in the mood for Christmas this year. She didn't want it, she didn't care for it, she just wanted it to be over. We talked about it, with me reassuring her it would come -- but it never did.

Then, on Christmas Eve, she went out to do some last minute shopping. Since she did not want to worry about her purse, she decided to carry all of her cards in the pockets of her jeans. In one front pocket, she put her driver's license and medical ID card. Then she took a one hundred dollar bill, wrapped it neatly around two credit cards and stuck them in her other front pocket. While shopping at the first stop, she decided to buy something for $2.01. That's when she noticed her one hundred dollar bill was missing. She retraced her steps; she dug in her pants over and over, but she just couldn't find it. She was baffled. The cards were still there, only the $100.00 was gone. Frustrated and bewildered (how in the world did that happen? It was neatly wrapped around the cards!!!), she went ahead with her shopping.

Next, she headed to Walmart for some kitchen staples -- flour, sugar, etc. She said the lines were very, very long. While standing there, thinking about what could've happened to her money and feeling the financial loss, she noticed a tiny, elderly woman in a shopper's wheelchair at the neighboring checkout. The checkout attendant was taking things OUT of the shopping bags and removing them from the purchase. My mother noticed that it was all food to make a Christmas dinner --the same kind of things that my mother was purchasing. Only it wasn't just a couple of items -- it was the whole dinner. When the cashier's total finally reached a sum which the woman could afford, there was very little left. My mother leaned over and asked the attendant why she was removing the items. "Because she doesn't have enough money to pay for them." My mother looked at the lady, bent over in her chair, and said, "Please ring them back up, I'd like to pay this woman's bill." My mother said her decision held up both lines as the items were re-tallied. No one said a word of complaint. They all watched as the items were given to the woman. The woman beamed a toothless grin at my mother and thanked her. My Mother smiled back and said, "I hope you have a very Merry Christmas." In that moment, my mother was awash in the Christmas spirit. She felt the tears well up in her eyes and she felt so grateful.

That evening, while getting undressed, the hundred dollars fell out of my mother's pocket.

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My 82-year-old mother just told me what happened to her on Christmas Eve... (Original Post) FourScore Dec 2011 OP
Thank you. n/t Geoff R. Casavant Dec 2011 #1
Neat story treestar Dec 2011 #2
Blessings to your dear mother housewolf Dec 2011 #3
K&R Sherman A1 Dec 2011 #4
I love stories like this. Thanks for sharing it and give your mother a big hug! cbayer Dec 2011 #5
your mom was someone's angel. Tell her there are no coincidences and that this was meant to be. :) roguevalley Dec 2011 #30
Best thread of the season. What a great woman...n/t monmouth Dec 2011 #6
I recently saw a couple pay for groceries in a similar situation Bluenorthwest Dec 2011 #7
Beautiful story. eom Frustratedlady Dec 2011 #8
Your momma has a heart. Your story is really nice. I remember back in 1984 (I think) my husband southernyankeebelle Dec 2011 #9
A nice story....your mom most certainly has the Chistmas spirit. nt Old and In the Way Dec 2011 #10
Great story :) But suggest to her to next time use a rubber band Tx4obama Dec 2011 #11
Me too & I use a cc wallet Historic NY Dec 2011 #23
Tell her to get a change purse that fits in her pocket and holds her EC Dec 2011 #12
Love this story. Lisa D Dec 2011 #13
You made me cry! liberalmuse Dec 2011 #14
Great story tooeyeten Dec 2011 #15
Merry Christmas ornotna Dec 2011 #16
It appears she did indeed have Christmas spirit... polmaven Dec 2011 #17
May I save this story in my Christmas file? noel711 Dec 2011 #18
My mother would be honored if you did. FourScore Dec 2011 #35
And that is why I send my mom out shopping Christmas eve jberryhill Dec 2011 #19
yeah, everyone is a con newspeak Dec 2011 #47
I did not see that one coming. Thank you! Maraya1969 Dec 2011 #20
Great story liberal N proud Dec 2011 #21
I love Christmas parables! Fair Witness Dec 2011 #22
What a lovely lady your emilyg Dec 2011 #24
Yes! Love it! Tell your Mom that she helped a whole lot of people (& me) regain the Christmas spirit AnotherMother4Peace Dec 2011 #25
A lovely story, your mom is an angel. sabrina 1 Dec 2011 #26
Your mom is beautiful! BlueMTexpat Dec 2011 #27
what a lovely story shanti Dec 2011 #28
That was great, thanks. joshcryer Dec 2011 #29
Your mother is a saint. no_hypocrisy Dec 2011 #31
Thank you for that story. THAT is the Christmas spirit. jwirr Dec 2011 #32
Your story is right up there with O'Henry- Thanks to you and your mom for sharing it NBachers Dec 2011 #33
Thank you for sharing this with us MissDeeds Dec 2011 #34
beautiful... FirstLight Dec 2011 #36
beautiful. I love your Mom. robinlynne Dec 2011 #37
Great story! GoddessOfGuinness Dec 2011 #38
Beautiful story and beautifully told OhioBlue Dec 2011 #39
Bless your Mother's sweet heart. sueh Dec 2011 #40
Something is in my eye KT2000 Dec 2011 #41
Cheers to your Mom; she's got real style. marasinghe Dec 2011 #42
Hug your mother for the rest of us nadinbrzezinski Dec 2011 #43
Thans for sharing this lovely story SpiralHawk Dec 2011 #44
What a lovely story malaise Dec 2011 #45
I don't celebrate the holidays... WillParkinson Dec 2011 #46
Isn't this why we're Democrats? Gregorian Dec 2011 #48
Thank you for sharing such a lovely, touching story!! n/t ljm2002 Dec 2011 #49
You made me sniffle. Curses! Zhade Dec 2011 #50
Beautiful story siligut Dec 2011 #51
Wonderful! geardaddy Dec 2011 #52
Your mother is a treasure! RueVoltaire Dec 2011 #53
OH! I really loved this O.P. Howler Dec 2011 #54
Goosebumps! BlancheSplanchnik Dec 2011 #55
This happened exactly as it should have and as I fully expected. Mira Dec 2011 #56
Nice. blackspade Dec 2011 #57

housewolf

(7,252 posts)
3. Blessings to your dear mother
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 05:48 PM
Dec 2011

Such generosity is all too rare in today's world. Your mother is truly an angel.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
30. your mom was someone's angel. Tell her there are no coincidences and that this was meant to be. :)
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 09:25 PM
Dec 2011
 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
7. I recently saw a couple pay for groceries in a similar situation
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 05:57 PM
Dec 2011

and I think of them daily since then as if they were these angels I saw with my own eyes. Such random acts of kindness are the greatest thing there is.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
9. Your momma has a heart. Your story is really nice. I remember back in 1984 (I think) my husband
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 05:59 PM
Dec 2011

was stationed at an Air Force base in MT. Nice little place where people are friendly. Any way my husband and the chaplain he was with had to go to another post for a conference. They decised to go out to eat. They were sitting at the counter and he overheard a waitress talking to her mother about her adopting this baby. She was short about $200.00 and was really in a bad situation. Any she walked away and my husband was talking with her mother about it. He called me and asked if it would be ok to write a check and would I mind. I told him to do it. He asked the girl the information she needed and wrote a check. She thought he might want something from her. Of course he didn't. He gave a the check and walked away never to hear from her. I often wondered what happened with the adoption. We felt we helped somebody and that was all. You see my husband was adopted when he was 4 yrs old. So it meant something to him. I always hope things went well for them.

Tx4obama

(36,974 posts)
11. Great story :) But suggest to her to next time use a rubber band
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 06:03 PM
Dec 2011

I never take a purse shopping.
I always but a rubber band (the strong type usually found on a head of broccoli) around my debit card, drivers license and folded money before putting them into my pocket.
Works nicely and keeps everything all together.

EC

(12,287 posts)
12. Tell her to get a change purse that fits in her pocket and holds her
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 06:14 PM
Dec 2011

$$ and cards. That's what I use. In the winter I always wear a jacket with an inside pocket and that's where everything important goes. I just don't carry purses...I had a habit of misplacing them.

tooeyeten

(1,074 posts)
15. Great story
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 06:53 PM
Dec 2011

thanks for sharing it, and the lesson of "it always pays to be nice and caring" in so many ways we can't imagine.

polmaven

(9,463 posts)
17. It appears she did indeed have Christmas spirit...
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 07:00 PM
Dec 2011

Your mother displayed the true spirit of Christmas, IMO. She is a wonderful woman, obviously!

noel711

(2,185 posts)
18. May I save this story in my Christmas file?
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 07:00 PM
Dec 2011

Every year I struggle with how to reach, at Christmas, folks who wander in the church.
I try not to spend time on stories of sentimentality, nor on 'sweetness and magic,'
but on real people coping with the struggle of life.
A sermon shouldn't be a wagging of the finger at folks, but storytelling
to drawn them into connecting with others.

This is a wonderful story, and your mother is terrific.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
19. And that is why I send my mom out shopping Christmas eve
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 07:12 PM
Dec 2011

We hit about ten stores, she pulls the "I can't pay" routine, and we clean up. Some years, the haul is mid-four digits.

newspeak

(4,847 posts)
47. yeah, everyone is a con
Tue Dec 27, 2011, 01:52 PM
Dec 2011

all those devious poor and homeless people, all cons I tell ya!

And I would still help those even though one might be a con. Because there are a lot more who will not be.

 

Fair Witness

(119 posts)
22. I love Christmas parables!
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 07:28 PM
Dec 2011


Only way it would have been better if it was at Costco instead of Wally World.

BlueMTexpat

(15,374 posts)
27. Your mom is beautiful!
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 08:59 PM
Dec 2011

I remember being a grad student (single parent with two kids) in the 1970s and having to remove basic items (all that I could afford) because I had forgotten to account for the sales tax. The budget never stretched to anything beyond the basics.

I'll never forget those years although I have come a long way since then.

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
34. Thank you for sharing this with us
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 10:01 PM
Dec 2011

Like your mom, I have not had the Christmas spirit. That changed tonight as I read your post.

Please give your mom a hug for me. What a terrific lady!

FirstLight

(13,367 posts)
36. beautiful...
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 10:26 PM
Dec 2011

thanks for sharing that "goodwill towards men" moment. they are sometimes few and far between.

and give your mom a huge hug from us!


(my youngest son (8) had a interesting assignment at school, if you could be a christmas gift, what would you be? he wrote a whole paragraph on how he wished he was a cure for cancer because our sweet neighbor is sick and he misses seeing he in the yard and hopes she will get better... sometimes a big heart is the best thing ever!)

WillParkinson

(16,862 posts)
46. I don't celebrate the holidays...
Tue Dec 27, 2011, 01:32 PM
Dec 2011

But your story really lifted my mood. Thank you and please thank your mom for me.

Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
48. Isn't this why we're Democrats?
Tue Dec 27, 2011, 02:24 PM
Dec 2011

Isn't this why we cherish Social Security?
Isn't this why we are willing to pay taxes?

Isn't this what makes us compassionate?

Isn't this what the world should be?

I can't help but think that your mom is like many others. Not an isolated instance. Even so, it makes your mother very special.

geardaddy

(24,931 posts)
52. Wonderful!
Tue Dec 27, 2011, 02:37 PM
Dec 2011

We did something different this year. We helped out at a homeless shelter for Christmas lunch. It's not much, but we felt better about helping people.

Mira

(22,380 posts)
56. This happened exactly as it should have and as I fully expected.
Tue Dec 27, 2011, 03:55 PM
Dec 2011

That it happened "so fast" is a nice by product. Karma can be more slow at times.

I once had a camera, a good point and shoot, that I on the spur of the moment gave to my young nephew whose parents could not afford to buy him one. It made his life so much better, he has a great eye for photography.

I had an old one at home that was broken and that I was long going to send to Canon to maybe get repaired.
I pulled it out once back home, and it fully worked as if nothing had ever been wrong.
It still does, I used it yesterday, a year later now.

Nice!!!
Expect the best.

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