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Last edited Sun Nov 15, 2015, 08:25 PM - Edit history (2)
We haven't been to the store in a week and needed some things. I went after breakfast.
Nebraska has no pro football team. The closest team is KC. I'm a life long Packer fan. The year I got my own TV for Christmas I watched the "Ice Bowl" in my room on a small B&W set. (I wanted a mini-bike) http://www.nfl.com/videos/nfl-films-americas-game/09000d5d821e1541/America-s-Game-The-Ice-Bowl
Today I was wearing a Packer sweatshirt. Several people in the store had Packer shirts on. I talked with all of them including a checker.
I was out the door when I saw a young lad in a Packers jersey coming towards me. I immediately pointed at him and yelled "I love that shirt" His face broke into a huge smile. We high fived. We started talking football.
His mom said because of his medical problems he can't play the game, but he "so loves" the game.
Many years ago I bought a box of Packer wrist bands for some fund raiser. Whenever I see kids in Packer gear I offer them the one I'm wearing as a gift. (I remember some kid that was going into the Obama rally before the 08 caucus going nuts over one of those too.)
I showed my miniature Super Bowl ring on my keyring. I started to make the offer and his mother stopped me. I noticed she was crying. She told her son to go inside and get a basket. I gave him a hug goodbye.
She told me that to most people that don't know him her son in invisible. People will go out of their way to avoid him. Others stare. And it is hard on her being a single mom.
She thanked me and gave me a hug. She wasn't the only one crying by then.
OS
Edit to add the ring photo
brucefan
(1,549 posts)roguevalley
(40,656 posts)ripples in the world that go one forever. your simple kindness changed the entire universe today. Bless you. And that little family too.
merrily
(45,251 posts)Here's that hug back. You may need it for someone else.
daleanime
(17,796 posts)ms liberty
(8,573 posts)erronis
(15,241 posts)Logical
(22,457 posts)Tipperary
(6,930 posts)GliderGuider
(21,088 posts)Well done.
ejbr
(5,856 posts)Quackers
(2,256 posts)malaise
(268,968 posts)SusanCalvin
(6,592 posts)My mom MADE me be friends with those we encountered during my school years, and I am grateful.
PatSeg
(47,419 posts)Thank you for sharing.
TM99
(8,352 posts)Sienna86
(2,149 posts)Your kindness is a wonderful thing.
AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)Thespian2
(2,741 posts)Thanks, OS...
Wilms
(26,795 posts)longship
(40,416 posts)madokie
(51,076 posts)now either
yardwork
(61,599 posts)marym625
(17,997 posts)marym625
(17,997 posts)Cracklin Charlie
(12,904 posts)Sometimes it only takes a few seconds to make a lasting impression.
That boy and his mother will never forget your kindness.
sueh
(1,826 posts)Dont call me Shirley
(10,998 posts)SoapBox
(18,791 posts)You're the best.
Raster
(20,998 posts)Bless. Your. Heart.
a kennedy
(29,655 posts)You are the best one.
Omaha Steve
(99,618 posts)a kennedy
(29,655 posts)Love the cheeseheads.....
rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)retrowire
(10,345 posts)jwirr
(39,215 posts)for the mother is the best. That is what my tears are for in this thread. Thank you.
Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)historylovr
(1,557 posts)Generic Other
(28,979 posts)You have a good heart.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Iwillnevergiveup
(9,298 posts)to another: cheers and thanks for sharing your generous heart.
artislife
(9,497 posts)stage left
(2,962 posts)Nice person you are.
Dustlawyer
(10,495 posts)I have a grandson with Downs Syndrome and totally understand!
redstatebluegirl
(12,265 posts)What a beautiful story! Life is about small things that are big things to those we share them with.
niyad
(113,284 posts)demigoddess
(6,640 posts)i thank you for putting this up. Our kids are not only kids, they are great kids. I could tell you stories about my daughter that would blow your mind!!!!
bamaprogressive
(5 posts)It is truly incredible, not only how cruel and mean kids can be, but also how disgustingly some of their parents can behave, as well. I sometimes how otherwise decent people can clam up and gawk with the best of them when out kids would act out of have a meltdown at Wally World, etc. We need to talk to our kids often about
how their attitude towards those who may be slightly different can possibly affect the trajectory of a kids entire life.
You're a good man, Charlie Brown.
valerief
(53,235 posts)erpowers
(9,350 posts)You are a really good guy. Thank you for being such a good guy. The world needs more people like you.