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Quackers

(2,256 posts)
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:01 PM Nov 2015

Ok DUers, I need your help.

I am the one who posted, "fuck off" toward Michael Moore in this thread.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=7364765

Apparently, some members took that as a personal insult. That was not my intention at all! As stated in that thread, I believe MM made that post for self-gain using the plight of the refugees.

If you have a different opinion, that's great! What I don't understand is the personal attacks dirieving from that post. I tried to ignore it but it seems to keep getting more and more.

So, it seems my presence in itself is disruptive to the community. I don't want that! So I come before the community to ask you your opinion.

Would you prefer that I go away or do I stay here and let things blow over?

To any host, I'm not trying to make a meta-thread. On the contrary, I wish to minimize the disruptions that I'm causing. I would ask that this stay open to allow the community to give their opinion. If indeed the consensus is for me to go, then I will. I do not wish to cause any problems for you, the community, or for Skinner. Thank you!


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Ok DUers, I need your help. (Original Post) Quackers Nov 2015 OP
My thoughts? Take the day off, hang out, channel surf or read... breathe ScreamingMeemie Nov 2015 #1
By all means stay. cherokeeprogressive Nov 2015 #2
Yeah, I remember thinking that bvf Nov 2015 #13
The pope's not even on my radar. He offered the vatican to two people? cherokeeprogressive Nov 2015 #23
Right around the time all the public in-fighting bvf Nov 2015 #25
I don't know you mainstreetonce Nov 2015 #3
Lots of us like and respect Michael Moore. You told him to fuck off. DisgustipatedinCA Nov 2015 #4
Well stated. n/t bvf Nov 2015 #18
Your post was jerked off but I support the free expression of your thoughts, Hoppy Nov 2015 #5
Stay for now. But make sure you give us a weekly vote just to be on the safe side. CJCRANE Nov 2015 #6
LOL. Iggo Nov 2015 #10
Definitely stay tularetom Nov 2015 #7
That's tiny compared to a lot of dustups here. Waiting For Everyman Nov 2015 #8
Jeezus. Iggo Nov 2015 #9
Don't let people with crap social skills drive you away. Lizzie Poppet Nov 2015 #11
My thoughts? Android3.14 Nov 2015 #12
If you are pressured to the point of leaving, then that shows abusiveness. TheBlackAdder Nov 2015 #14
I was on a jury in that thread judging one of those ugly insults hurled your way. cwydro Nov 2015 #15
If you make a strong statement here, be ready for the flack! Just try to improve the prose & poetry! dmosh42 Nov 2015 #17
I agree people need to have a thick skin. cwydro Nov 2015 #19
If you want to stay on DU, expressing your opinions, better grow a thick skin. mnhtnbb Nov 2015 #16
Stay. I'm not a Moore fan. 840high Nov 2015 #20
Stay TSIAS Nov 2015 #21
Stay. Being wrong is not a disqualification for posting here. NightWatcher Nov 2015 #22
Stay if you want and it this shows some of the problems of internet communication uppityperson Nov 2015 #24
people need to take their hides in stride and STOP WHINING Skittles Nov 2015 #26
I don't agree with your sentiment at all, but that's no reason to want to run you out. Scootaloo Nov 2015 #27
Stay, its your opinion darkangel218 Nov 2015 #28
I want you to stay on Tues-Thurs-Sat and stay away all other days bigwillq Nov 2015 #29

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
1. My thoughts? Take the day off, hang out, channel surf or read... breathe
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:05 PM
Nov 2015

and don't focus on it. This is NOT real life. This is a message board and sometimes we need to remember that.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
2. By all means stay.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:08 PM
Nov 2015

Personally I thought it comical that he offered to house TWO people. He with his hundreds of millions of dollars.

Self-aggrandizing dude to be sure.

 

bvf

(6,604 posts)
13. Yeah, I remember thinking that
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:45 PM
Nov 2015

about the pope when he essentially did the exact same thing a couple of months ago.

 

bvf

(6,604 posts)
25. Right around the time all the public in-fighting
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 05:32 PM
Nov 2015

began in the EU wrt refugees not too long ago.

To be fair to Frank, it might have been two whole families, but I'm pretty sure it wasn't the entire Vatican (maybe a confessional in the basilica--I couldn't find any details. I'd point you to the one member around here who might know more, but you'll have to wait until his time-out is over).

Anyway, Frank got beaucoup atta-boys (even around here) for that.

 

DisgustipatedinCA

(12,530 posts)
4. Lots of us like and respect Michael Moore. You told him to fuck off.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:12 PM
Nov 2015

You have no evidence of wrongdoing, just your opinion that he is using Syrians for his own publicity purposes. So it's kind of jarring to read your words of attack against the man.

As to whether you should stay or go, that's one of the many areas where you're going to need to take personal responsibility. It's your responsibility to decide whether you should stay or go. The words you type are your responsibility. If you're looking for someone to stroke your ego and tell you you're a good person and so on, I'm not that person. You're responsible for how you feel about yourself.

 

Hoppy

(3,595 posts)
5. Your post was jerked off but I support the free expression of your thoughts,
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:15 PM
Nov 2015

No matter how jerked off they may be.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
7. Definitely stay
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:19 PM
Nov 2015

Michael Moore is not necessarily some liberal icon whose motives are above questioning.

While he seems to be on the correct side of most issues, he is definitely prone to an unseemly degree of self promotion and this seems to be an opportunity for him to keep his name in the news.

Particularly since he knows he will most likely not be called upon to make good on his offer.

Waiting For Everyman

(9,385 posts)
8. That's tiny compared to a lot of dustups here.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:26 PM
Nov 2015

But my advice would be, don't allow others to make your decisions for you. They don't have that right. If they're so bothered by your opinion, maybe they should do.

Besides, I don't like the whole concept of "sacred cows".

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
11. Don't let people with crap social skills drive you away.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:31 PM
Nov 2015

This place is being completely taken over by bullies. Tell them, by your actions, to fuck off.

TheBlackAdder

(28,194 posts)
14. If you are pressured to the point of leaving, then that shows abusiveness.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:46 PM
Nov 2015

.


There are some here who relish in silencing discourse.

Perhaps they haven't matured past high school, perhaps they are caught up in political hysteria, perhaps they are just abusive and treat everyone like that. Some seem unable to have an exchange of ideas, instead work on flagging threads, bullying, work with counter ops, psy-ops, etc. to control messaging.

Since this is a quasi-public board, all types join and participate.


Having said that, what type of response did you anticipate from a half-baked post like that?


.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
15. I was on a jury in that thread judging one of those ugly insults hurled your way.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:51 PM
Nov 2015

I believe it was a 7-0 hide for that nasty comment the poster made...so that should give you your answer right there.

Something is seriously wrong with posters who hurl that kind of invective at others on a discussion board. I even read that poster's profile and learned that he/she was WAY beyond old enough to know better.

Ignore them and move on.

We all have a right to our opinions here.

dmosh42

(2,217 posts)
17. If you make a strong statement here, be ready for the flack! Just try to improve the prose & poetry!
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:57 PM
Nov 2015
 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
19. I agree people need to have a thick skin.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 04:01 PM
Nov 2015

But I also think that some people here just love to hurl insults and be rude.

It only reflects on them.

My favorite thing to say is that as adults we should be able to disagree without being disagreeable.

mnhtnbb

(31,388 posts)
16. If you want to stay on DU, expressing your opinions, better grow a thick skin.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 03:53 PM
Nov 2015

This place can be brutal. Somebody will undoubtedly take issue with
your view, and when you take on somebody like MM, well, you will get
a reaction.



NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
22. Stay. Being wrong is not a disqualification for posting here.
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 04:12 PM
Nov 2015

I'm regularly wrong about something.

I don't even know if you were wrong in the other thread.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
24. Stay if you want and it this shows some of the problems of internet communication
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 05:09 PM
Nov 2015

Sometimes when we think we are clear, we are to ourselves but not to others. Your point seemed to be you thought he was posing rather than honestly helping. It is ok to have opinions, but sometimes it is necessary to take time to explain your opinions clearly.

I appreciate some of what MM has done but also recognize he has failings.

If you need, take a break because sometimes Du can be too much negative.

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
26. people need to take their hides in stride and STOP WHINING
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 05:36 PM
Nov 2015

juries are a crapshoot - sometimes they get it right and sometimes THEY SUCK

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
28. Stay, its your opinion
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 06:37 PM
Nov 2015

MM is a public figure. Yes I know many of us like him, but I'm sure there are other DUrs besides you who have a different opinion.

It would be silly to quit DU over a post.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
29. I want you to stay on Tues-Thurs-Sat and stay away all other days
Sat Nov 21, 2015, 07:18 PM
Nov 2015

On the days you stay, you must post standing upside down.
On the days you stay away, you must eat only celery.

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