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kentuck

(111,089 posts)
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 01:54 PM Jun 2016

My wife and I went out to eat with our visiting relatives and I saw this guy with a gun....

...in a hip holster. After we had finished our pizzas and salads and beer, we were sitting in the lobby of this pizzaria - which is very popular for tourists and their children - waiting for the rain shower to slow down so we could make a dash for the car.

He had his arm straight down by his right side as he and couple of other people walked by us, so you could not see the gun from the front. But, as he passed, I noticed a handgun, perhaps a .38, on his right side in a holster. I noticed that it was strapped in the holster. It was not un-buttoned.

My first thought was, is it a bit out of the ordinary to be carrying a gun into such a non-threatening place as the family pizzaria?

I determined that I did not feel threatened by him and I did not feel that he meant any harm? He may have been working for the government? He may have been part of a militia, I don't know? But, I did not feel that he was a threat to anyone? Maybe other people might consider him a threat? We do not know. We do not know.

But the bigger question is: Have we already lost our freedom?

And on second thought? Should I have been carrying a gun, also??

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My wife and I went out to eat with our visiting relatives and I saw this guy with a gun.... (Original Post) kentuck Jun 2016 OP
Well, you can't be too careful at pizzerias. They have been known to forget the extra cheese. KamaAina Jun 2016 #1
Ya never know when the meat will be too rare and you have to finish it off pinboy3niner Jun 2016 #14
Bigger question: How many concealed firearms have you NOT seen ? Bonx Jun 2016 #2
Realistically speaking, I would say... kentuck Jun 2016 #5
If we had lost our freedom nobody could have guns. pipoman Jun 2016 #3
He could be a cowboy that grabs his gun and starts shooting if some kid pops a paper bag. Hoyt Jun 2016 #4
Not a lot to disagree with... kentuck Jun 2016 #7
You don't know what you're talking about. NaturalHigh Jun 2016 #17
I remember while my father-in-law was dying, we went to a restaurant and some local Hoyt Jun 2016 #19
And like I said, you don't know what you're talking about. NaturalHigh Jun 2016 #21
Depends on what you call rude. A Dick walking around in a family restaurant with dual shoulder Hoyt Jun 2016 #23
Says the guy who doesn't like guns or cops. NaturalHigh Jun 2016 #35
Police are pretty much OK with me unless they are like Darren Wilson, are racist, intimidating or Hoyt Jun 2016 #37
Maybe it's where I live or I just don't notice, but I have never seen someone open carrying (well MillennialDem Jun 2016 #20
It's illegal here in Portland. Lizzie Poppet Jun 2016 #30
Yep! That need to show it off most likely comes from some feeling of inadequacy. brush Jun 2016 #32
Your addiction to Hollywood movies ManiacJoe Jun 2016 #52
Well, it happens in real life like the cowboy who thought he'd be a hero when a clerk was being Hoyt Jun 2016 #55
Whether I felt threatened or not, at that point I would have requested my bill, informed the manager Arkansas Granny Jun 2016 #6
I agree. (nt) enough Jun 2016 #15
Agreed! pandr32 Jun 2016 #16
That's exactly how I feel. Vinca Jun 2016 #29
I actually did that very thing in a pizza joint in a town near to us (relatively). Maru Kitteh Jun 2016 #57
My exact take on it, too. nt Nay Jun 2016 #62
Its the same as "defensive driving". JoePhilly Jun 2016 #65
The only thing about that is that crazies walk in and start shooting right away. They usually don't Seeinghope Jun 2016 #72
And then there's Dylann Roof who sat through a church study class before he opened fire. Arkansas Granny Jun 2016 #73
There are exceptions to everything. Most don't sit thru Bible class though. Seeinghope Jun 2016 #74
edited : kentuck Jun 2016 #8
Call 911 and report a possible robbery randr Jun 2016 #9
We never thought much else about it at that time... kentuck Jun 2016 #10
Massacres will do that gratuitous Jun 2016 #42
You may be right. kentuck Jun 2016 #47
That would be a crime hack89 Jun 2016 #11
I'd never report it as a robbery, just say there is a person with a gun at John's Pizzeria and MillennialDem Jun 2016 #22
And if the cops end up killing the guy? hack89 Jun 2016 #25
I don't know if he's a dangerous nutcase or a non-dangerous nutcase. And yes, it would be MillennialDem Jun 2016 #27
That is a very callous attitude hack89 Jun 2016 #31
I'm as unauthoratarian as they come... would love to have anarchy... I realized I need to work MillennialDem Jun 2016 #70
That would be the risk the guy took when he went out in public with his rod showing randr Jun 2016 #58
NO, NO, NO! That's what go the black guy at Walmart killed 2 years ago. And he just had pellet gun. brush Jun 2016 #34
Well that case was likely because the dude was racist and knew it was a toy gun - but if I saw MillennialDem Jun 2016 #71
...and risk arrest. Lizzie Poppet Jun 2016 #24
That would be against the law, a crime in and of itself. Alex4Martinez Jun 2016 #28
I would have no idea a crime is in progress randr Jun 2016 #60
Can you visually distinguish a soon-to-be-active shooter from any ol' schlub with a gun? Orrex Jun 2016 #12
More guns makes you safer liberal N proud Jun 2016 #13
Compensating for certain inadequacies, I'd guess. Crunchy Frog Jun 2016 #18
That is my assumption... kentuck Jun 2016 #48
I spend time in a big city, where I rarely see guns. cwydro Jun 2016 #26
I've felt like shooting my lawnmower many times. leveymg Jun 2016 #38
Now I like my lawnmower, but the weedwhacker? cwydro Jun 2016 #40
I sold my gas weedwacker at a garage sale, MineralMan Jun 2016 #43
I have an electric one too, and it's so much easier to use. cwydro Jun 2016 #46
Hey. You never know when a dandelion might might need to be shown whos boss! bunnies Jun 2016 #39
Lol! cwydro Jun 2016 #41
haha! Good decision. bunnies Jun 2016 #45
Those of us who don't believe in carrying or owning large stashes of firearms have lost our rights. redstatebluegirl Jun 2016 #33
What rights, exactly, have you lost? Marengo Jun 2016 #44
Have we already lost our freedom? I would have lost my appetite, and leveymg Jun 2016 #36
We had already eaten and it was a joyful dinner and we were leaving.... kentuck Jun 2016 #49
call 911 to report a man with a gun mwrguy Jun 2016 #50
That type of nonsense is frowned on by the cops. ManiacJoe Jun 2016 #53
He was probably a detective. deaniac21 Jun 2016 #51
That's what I was thinking TexasBushwhacker Jun 2016 #56
if it's legal for you sweetapogee Jun 2016 #54
People like that WISH!!!!! someone will do something to give them an excuse to unholster it. tenderfoot Jun 2016 #59
I'm going to bet this was a white guy in a primarily white neighborhood. Squinch Jun 2016 #61
Black guys also can't look at pellet guns for sale in Walmart, and black kids Nay Jun 2016 #63
Or sit on swings with their hands in their pockets when they are twelve. Squinch Jun 2016 #64
It's just horrifying. Only sociopaths can shoot kids for this stuff. nt Nay Jun 2016 #66
Seen a guy in walturd the other night with a chrome or nickle plated semiauto OCin' ileus Jun 2016 #67
Maybe we should all carry questionnaires printed on notepads, or a checklist to ask each armed mahina Jun 2016 #68
One thing is for sure: NOBODY CAN TELL by looking. WinkyDink Jun 2016 #69
 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
3. If we had lost our freedom nobody could have guns.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:00 PM
Jun 2016

Oh,and almost every mass shooting happens at a "non-threatening place".

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
4. He could be a cowboy that grabs his gun and starts shooting if some kid pops a paper bag.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:00 PM
Jun 2016

Whenever I see someone with a gun on their hip, I know it's just a chicken ____ pissant. A professional policeman, not in uniform, doesn't need to show off his gun. A pissant does.

Never think a silly fool who needs a gun to go to Chuck E Cheeze is harmless. At a minimum, they have esteem issues.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
17. You don't know what you're talking about.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:09 PM
Jun 2016

I know several police officers who work in plain clothes and carry their weapons.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
19. I remember while my father-in-law was dying, we went to a restaurant and some local
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:14 PM
Jun 2016

Dick was wearing a dual shoulder holster. My FIL -- dying, 20+ years a policeman and 20+ in Air Force and held up by a physical therapy belt -- called him a "Silly Fool" to his face. I loved it. Like I said, a PROFESSIONAL policeperson is not going to strut around with his gun showing, except maybe at a crime scene. A Dick might.

Carrying a weapon and flashing it to "impress" are two different things.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
21. And like I said, you don't know what you're talking about.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:16 PM
Jun 2016

Just because you father in law chose to be rude doesn't make him right.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
23. Depends on what you call rude. A Dick walking around in a family restaurant with dual shoulder
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:19 PM
Jun 2016

holsters is a pissant. Sorry.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
37. Police are pretty much OK with me unless they are like Darren Wilson, are racist, intimidating or
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:28 PM
Jun 2016

like your buddies who like to flash their weapons.

 

MillennialDem

(2,367 posts)
20. Maybe it's where I live or I just don't notice, but I have never seen someone open carrying (well
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:16 PM
Jun 2016

besides police/soldiers).

If I saw a plain clothes person carrying a gun, I'd call the police and let them sort it out.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
30. It's illegal here in Portland.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:21 PM
Jun 2016

Oregon has open carry, but allows local jurisdictions to prohibit it, the sole exception to our state-level preemption for gun laws. I have no problem with this at all. Open carry for civilians is silly.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
55. Well, it happens in real life like the cowboy who thought he'd be a hero when a clerk was being
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:35 PM
Jun 2016

robbed. Unfortunately, he hit her in the head. The gunners' favorite -- george zimmerman -- would have stayed in his car without a gun. The Bundy ranch militia guys would have stayed home guzzling cheap beer and smoking meth without gunz.

But, I get gunz are very important to you.

Arkansas Granny

(31,515 posts)
6. Whether I felt threatened or not, at that point I would have requested my bill, informed the manager
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:01 PM
Jun 2016

that I was leaving the establishment because of the gun toting customer and never returned unless/until they instituted a policy of no firearms on the premises.

I am unable ascertain the intent of an armed person in a public place. If he feels so threatened that he has to carry a weapon at all times, I don't know what it might take to cause him to draw that weapon and start firing.

Vinca

(50,269 posts)
29. That's exactly how I feel.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:21 PM
Jun 2016

There's no way to definitely sort the non-crazies from the crazies and I come down on the side of caution.

Maru Kitteh

(28,340 posts)
57. I actually did that very thing in a pizza joint in a town near to us (relatively).
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:53 PM
Jun 2016

Mr. Maru and I were eating pizza the next day after a football game and heading home and a big plaid-and-camo guy with a huge dunlap came in wearing a sidearm.

I asked the waitress for a to-go box and the check and spoke to the manager on the way out, told them we would be back when we saw a "no firearms" sign on the door, and not before.

Fuck that shit.

JoePhilly

(27,787 posts)
65. Its the same as "defensive driving".
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 05:57 PM
Jun 2016

Sure, you could assume that all of the other drivers know what they are doing and they will follow the law.

And then, when you die in an accident that's not your fault, ooops.

So ... as a defensive driver, you start with the assumption that most of the people driving around you have no idea what they are doing and are about to do crazy and illegal maneuvers.

And you prepare for them to do so ... and you avoid them the instant they give you cause.

Unknown person with a gun ... I'm not assuming he/she is sane. I'm not assuming that they know how to use that weapon safely.

I remove myself from the situation. If they feel so threatened that they brought a gun. I'm not staying.

 

Seeinghope

(786 posts)
72. The only thing about that is that crazies walk in and start shooting right away. They usually don't
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 08:08 PM
Jun 2016

Just walk in and go order food.

I don't like people being able to carry guns period. It is not necessary. Our gun laws need to be enforced and toughened. This is such bullshit that groups like the NRA control the votes.

The 2nd Amendment is such a shitty reason. If you want to fall back on the 2nd Amendment then pass out the guns that were used when the 2nd existed.

kentuck

(111,089 posts)
10. We never thought much else about it at that time...
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:07 PM
Jun 2016

But, after this latest massacre, it has changed the way that I look at the issue. Maybe it is just me?

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
42. Massacres will do that
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:45 PM
Jun 2016

Seeing someone strapped in a public place without law enforcement insignia, I don't know that I would bet my life on the vibe the fellow was giving off. Maybe he's the calm type just before he explodes in murderous rage, and he's carrying just the tool for the job.

kentuck

(111,089 posts)
47. You may be right.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:09 PM
Jun 2016

It is legal here but, after the massacre, I have a different perspective on it.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
11. That would be a crime
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:07 PM
Jun 2016

Last edited Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:17 PM - Edit history (1)

You also might get an innocent person killed by the cops.

 

MillennialDem

(2,367 posts)
22. I'd never report it as a robbery, just say there is a person with a gun at John's Pizzeria and
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:17 PM
Jun 2016

hang up.

 

MillennialDem

(2,367 posts)
27. I don't know if he's a dangerous nutcase or a non-dangerous nutcase. And yes, it would be
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:20 PM
Jun 2016

his fault.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
31. That is a very callous attitude
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:22 PM
Jun 2016

But then you always find an authoritarian when you look closely at a gun grabber.

 

MillennialDem

(2,367 posts)
70. I'm as unauthoratarian as they come... would love to have anarchy... I realized I need to work
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:40 PM
Jun 2016

within our crappy system though.

brush

(53,776 posts)
34. NO, NO, NO! That's what go the black guy at Walmart killed 2 years ago. And he just had pellet gun.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:25 PM
Jun 2016

He was just trying it out and some busybody called it in and got him killed.

I don't like to see armed people in public places either. You have to make a decision whether to stay or leave. You can also mention to the manager as you leave why you're leaving.

 

MillennialDem

(2,367 posts)
71. Well that case was likely because the dude was racist and knew it was a toy gun - but if I saw
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:41 PM
Jun 2016

a guy with a toy gun and didn't know it was a toy I would call it in too. If I knew it was a toy, I wouldn't.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
24. ...and risk arrest.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:19 PM
Jun 2016


Don't get me wrong: open carry is for idiots, at least in most circumstances. But you might have a hard time convincing a police officer (and district attorney/judge) that you really did think a robbery was about to unfold...and you call wasn't what it actually was: SWAT'ing someone.

Alex4Martinez

(2,193 posts)
28. That would be against the law, a crime in and of itself.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:20 PM
Jun 2016

Dispatchers don't need that kind of bullshit, people calling in to report crimes that are not happening.

randr

(12,412 posts)
60. I would have no idea a crime is in progress
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:58 PM
Jun 2016

I would not be reporting on a crime in progress; just the suspicion that one may be about to take place. That is the risk taken by the person with the exposed weapon in public, someone may think they are up to no good and usually they are. People are shot in the work place each and every day.

Orrex

(63,208 posts)
12. Can you visually distinguish a soon-to-be-active shooter from any ol' schlub with a gun?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 02:13 PM
Jun 2016

Nope, and neither can anyone else.

And on second thought? Should I have been carrying a gun, also??
Two guns, at least. Probably seven or eight. Otherwise, how can you possibly feel safe?
 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
26. I spend time in a big city, where I rarely see guns.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:19 PM
Jun 2016

I work in a rural county where it's not unusual to see men (and women) openly carrying.

My favorite was when I saw a guy mowing his lawn with a holster on his hip. I mean, wtf?

That being said, the crime rate is much higher in the big city. Very low in the rural county.

leveymg

(36,418 posts)
38. I've felt like shooting my lawnmower many times.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:34 PM
Jun 2016

Thing is, I don't see the point of people carrying weapons to do everyday things. Seems to invite immediate escalation in any social conflict and may deter most all social interaction as well.

That poor lawnmower would have died long ago if I packed heat to do yard work.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
40. Now I like my lawnmower, but the weedwhacker?
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:41 PM
Jun 2016

I'd like to shoot it first and then drown it.

Usually I just throw it...

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
43. I sold my gas weedwacker at a garage sale,
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:47 PM
Jun 2016

and bought an electric one. It starts up fine every time. I dislike tiny 2-stroke engines more than I can say. Nasty little things that sit in your garage and wait for you to need them. Then, they refuse to start. Hate 'em.

Noisy, too, when you can get them to run. Now, they always start right up when you first get them, but a year later? Good luck.

"Go ahead...just try to start me. I know what you want and I'm not going to cooperate!"

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
46. I have an electric one too, and it's so much easier to use.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:04 PM
Jun 2016

But I live on a large rural property and have to use the gas engine one for a lot of the property.

But god, I HATE it!

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
39. Hey. You never know when a dandelion might might need to be shown whos boss!
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:37 PM
Jun 2016

Take THAT you little yellow bastid!

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
41. Lol!
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:43 PM
Jun 2016

I've never forgotten that sight.

I actually stopped and stared, but moved along lest I arouse his anger.

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
33. Those of us who don't believe in carrying or owning large stashes of firearms have lost our rights.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:23 PM
Jun 2016

The only ones that matter are the gun people, not us. We have left businesses before without buying anything because of people showing their guns. Many of them don't look bright enough to be carrying but that isn't my call. What we can and do do is take our business elsewhere.

There is going to be a wild west type shooting in a store someday when one guy pulls his gun and all of the others pull theirs and innocent people will be killed. Maybe then and only then will people come to their senses.

leveymg

(36,418 posts)
36. Have we already lost our freedom? I would have lost my appetite, and
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:28 PM
Jun 2016

foregone my freedom to stay out of the rain. Drop the slice and get the hell out of there without making a fuss about it.

kentuck

(111,089 posts)
49. We had already eaten and it was a joyful dinner and we were leaving....
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:16 PM
Jun 2016

...and for the children, it is a memorable experience. It just seemed out of place to be openly carrying a gun. The more paranoid ones, exactly the ones that should not have a gun, will say that is exactly the place to carry your weapon because that is the place someone would most likely shoot up - knowing that most of the people there would probably be women and children?

sweetapogee

(1,168 posts)
54. if it's legal for you
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:28 PM
Jun 2016

to carry in your state and if you are not disqualified to own a firearm and you know how to handle the weapon and you have the desire to carry then I think you should. If you answer no to any of those questions then no you shouldn't.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
61. I'm going to bet this was a white guy in a primarily white neighborhood.
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 05:37 PM
Jun 2016

Black guys are - unofficially - not allowed to do this in white neighborhoods, and really they aren't allowed to do this in black neighborhoods where there might be police who might misinterpret their guns.

So yes. Many of "us" have already lost our freedom. It happened a really, really long time ago.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
63. Black guys also can't look at pellet guns for sale in Walmart, and black kids
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 05:52 PM
Jun 2016

can't hold air guns or water pistols, either. Just white guys can do all this shit and more.

ileus

(15,396 posts)
67. Seen a guy in walturd the other night with a chrome or nickle plated semiauto OCin'
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:03 PM
Jun 2016

We just passed on by him, his wife and daughter. Of course I had my Shield concealed. My son commented that he had a nice 45...LOL

mahina

(17,648 posts)
68. Maybe we should all carry questionnaires printed on notepads, or a checklist to ask each armed
Tue Jun 14, 2016, 06:31 PM
Jun 2016

person we see in public.

Would you characterize yourself as being depressed?

Do you feel especially angry now?

How do you feel about gay people, ok or not ok?

Do you have any strong feelings about pizza or pizzerias?

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