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Behind the Aegis

(53,955 posts)
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 03:04 AM Jun 2016

Her Grandson Was Killed in Orlando. What These Passengers Did On Her Flight to His Funeral? TEARS!

Funerals are beginning for the victims of this week’s tragic mass terrorist shooting in Orlando, and family members from across the country have begun their sad journeys to say goodbye. In the midst of their great grief, the support of their communities and even strangers are bringing much comfort to these bereft relatives of lost loved ones. Perhaps the most shining example thus far, one that truly restored faith in humanity, is the treatment of victim Luis Omar Ocasio-Capo’s grandmother on her JetBlue flight to Orlando. JetBlue employee Kelly Davis Karas detailed the extraordinary event in a Facebook post, saying:


Today my dear friend Melinda and I had the sad privilege of attending to his grandmother on our flight as she made her journey to Orlando to join her family during this unspeakable time.

Knowing she was making this hard journey alone, JetBlue employees made sure to be at her side every step of the way. Melinda stood quietly by her wheelchair while we waited until it was time to board. Kellie, the gate agent, boarded with her and helped get her settled. Melinda and I gave her a blanket, a pillow, a box of tissues and water so she could be as comfortable as possible. She was understandably distraught, but met us with kindness and gentleness. And gratitude.

But here’s where our flight got truly inspiring. I had the idea to pass around a piece of paper to everyone on board and invite them to sign it for this grieving grandmother. I talked it over with Melinda and she started the process from the back of the plane. As we took beverage orders, we whispered a heads up about the plan as we went.

Halfway through, Melinda called me, “Kel, I think you should start another paper from the front. Folks are writing PARAGRAPHS.” So I did. Then we started one in the middle. Lastly, running out of time on our hour and fifteen minute flight, we handed out pieces of paper to everyone still waiting.


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Her Grandson Was Killed in Orlando. What These Passengers Did On Her Flight to His Funeral? TEARS! (Original Post) Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 OP
so glad this lady MFM008 Jun 2016 #1
This is how we should all be! herding cats Jun 2016 #2
Thank you for sharing this. Lunabell Jun 2016 #3
There are many of us in the South who love you (me for a bit longer) Tsiyu Jun 2016 #8
Like you, I have been crying off and on since Sunday. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #12
I feel stupid bursting out in tears Aerows Jun 2016 #17
OrlandoStrong! ReRe Jun 2016 #4
... BooScout Jun 2016 #5
Sometimes "we the people" can get it right. marble falls Jun 2016 #6
+1000 nt ProudProgressiveNow Jun 2016 #7
... brer cat Jun 2016 #9
K&R.... spanone Jun 2016 #10
K&R sheshe2 Jun 2016 #11
Tears. Helps to restore my faith in humanity. bullwinkle428 Jun 2016 #13
I Thought This Was Going To Be Something Bad ProfessorGAC Jun 2016 #14
Oh my goodness C_U_L8R Jun 2016 #15
This was horribly devastating for everybody. Aerows Jun 2016 #16

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
2. This is how we should all be!
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 03:25 AM
Jun 2016
As we deplaned, EVERY SINGLE PERSON STOPPED TO OFFER HER THEIR CONDOLENCES. Some just said they were sorry, some touched her hand, some hugged her, some cried with her. But every single person stopped to speak to her, and not a single person was impatient at the slower deplaning process.


Thank you for this reminder of our goodness. It made me cry, but these were better tears.

Lunabell

(6,080 posts)
3. Thank you for sharing this.
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 04:43 AM
Jun 2016

I was moved to tears. I don't think I have spent a day since Sunday without tears. Monday at work I was sick to my stomach all day as was my dear friend who works with me. This hits so close to home. I live in the deep south and am an out lesbian. I haven't seen the face of hate directly, but I know its out there and it scares me that one day I may see it face to face.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
8. There are many of us in the South who love you (me for a bit longer)
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 06:29 AM
Jun 2016

and we have your back.

Been sick, too, and so unsettled over all of the hate in the world over the stupidest things.

We should be fighting diseases, poverty and hunger, not killing one another.

Behind the Aegis

(53,955 posts)
12. Like you, I have been crying off and on since Sunday.
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 01:09 PM
Jun 2016

Sometimes tears of sadness, sometimes anger, sometimes happiness. I grew up in the deep South and still have strong roots there, with many gay friends. Where we part ways is I have faced the hate directly on a number of occasions. I hope you never have to do it. I hope no one ever has to do it!

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
17. I feel stupid bursting out in tears
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 12:47 AM
Jun 2016

but I have been.

Horrible at processing a bunch of emotions. I just don't know how to cry well, but I certainly am.

Awful. Sad. Too many.

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
4. OrlandoStrong!
Thu Jun 16, 2016, 04:46 AM
Jun 2016

Finally, when I got to the bottom of her story, my eyes burst with painful tears. Those injured young people in the hospital and the bereaved family members might not realize it yet,
but they are getting a giant hug from this country.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
16. This was horribly devastating for everybody.
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 12:44 AM
Jun 2016

I know I'm a bystander and *I* still have a hard time processing it.

We have to do better for each other. We have to focus on one another. We live together, we thrive together, and we die together.

Go fast, travel alone. Go far, travel together.

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