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(19,339 posts)Loki Liesmith
(4,602 posts)Assuming he places a high value on physical beauty I would understand it more, because he would have married someone with whom he has a deep incompatibility.
It would not mean I'd think he's any less of a jerk though. Understanding is not justification.
VMA131Marine
(4,138 posts)but you are probably right.
apcalc
(4,465 posts)Which has what to do with her looks?
Skittles
(153,153 posts)YUCK
R. Daneel Olivaw
(12,606 posts)Possibly she stayed with Anthony for as long as possible; which takes resolve.
brush
(53,772 posts)She's a victim who, probably because she wanted her child to have a father, tried to work through the humiliation he caused her in the first sexting incident.
Now that he's done it again she made the right decision to leave him.
She's not a fool, she's a person, like most of us, who has endured the ups and downs and curves life throws at you.
I suppose your life has been a complete utopia?
Skittles
(153,153 posts)brush
(53,772 posts)Skittles
(153,153 posts)I'm sure he is a......NICE GUY!
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Twice was already too many.
brush
(53,772 posts)Who of us knows how we would handle the humiliation of being in a marriage and having a child with a spouse who does something so despicable who then probably begs for forgiveness with promises to never do it again?
She finally decided to move on.
Good for her.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)The repulsive tool needs serious help.
Skittles
(153,153 posts)she would still be with him
Now she really has no choice.
Ugh.
brush
(53,772 posts)None of us know what was going on in their household, whether they were even still intimate with each other, or sleeping in seperate beds.
She reached her breaking point and decided to leave.
IMO, the child was the reason she stayed as long as she did.
Skittles
(153,153 posts)You can't know what someone else is going to decide to do in a relationship.
I just hope Huma has the strong sense of self-worth and confidence that I lacked. I hope she understands that this is all about him and has nothing to at all to do with her.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)Beaverhausen
(24,470 posts)Please
Brickbat
(19,339 posts)Response to Beaverhausen (Reply #4)
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Beaverhausen
(24,470 posts)So if Huma was not beautiful you could forgive wieners actions? Really?
REALLY???
What is the point of this stupid thread?
Loki Liesmith
(4,602 posts)It doesn't intimidate anyone.
People cheat when their expectations for what they "deserve" in a relationship don't align with what they have. If someone is married to someone they do not find attractive, there is a higher probability they will have an affair. It's not sexism.
DoBotherMe
(2,339 posts)LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)"People cheat when their expectations for what they "deserve" in a relationship don't align with what they have..."
A rather self-validating justification for what is little more than choosing to be dishonest... regardless of the appearance of the one's we justify lying to.
Were your little bumper-sticker accurate, then no attractive person would ever have been cheated on, regardless of your righteous allegations of what sexism is or is not.
(this is where you imply additional qualifiers were obvious in your premise and rationalize not stating them to better retain your absolutism of the human condition)
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)...if you don't want to commit to one woman, then don't get married. Don't fool yourself, know what kind of man you are.
Me, I'm the kind of guy that found the right person for me a long time ago and we deeply love one another.
I have no issue with people who don't have that kind of relationship, but don't sucker people along the way as you discover you aren't cut out for monogamy.
jmg257
(11,996 posts)edhopper
(33,575 posts)that he obviously hasn't gotten help for.
MrScorpio
(73,631 posts)And everything to do with his own inability to control himself.
backscatter712
(26,355 posts)Fewer broken hearts that way.
Can't say I blame Human for leaving him.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)Lee-Lee
(6,324 posts)Shankapotomus
(4,840 posts)on how one is using the word "beautiful" so we should always be careful before drawing conclusions.
"Beautiful" does not always have to imply a physical assessment. In someone's estimation another person could have a beautiful spirit or mind or just be a "beautiful" human being as in an assessment of their whole person, including traits like intellect, morals, etc.
Quantess
(27,630 posts)These two statements can be independently true.
mindfulNJ
(2,367 posts)but his wife has NOTHING to do with his problem. I guess you wouldn't have thought him a fool if Huma was not attractive to you?
Sexist crap.
Gothmog
(145,168 posts)PJMcK
(22,035 posts)Although I agree with your view about Mr. Weiner's, your OP is rather superficial, Yavin4.
Huma Abedin is extremely intelligent and accomplished:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Huma_Abedin
That she is a beautiful woman is irrelevant and her dedication to her family is evidenced by her attempts to save her marriage in spite of Anthony Weiner's indiscretions.
I admire and respect her and I hope she'll have a major role in Hillary Clinton's administration.