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Huma Abedin is absolutely beautiful. (Original Post) Yavin4 Aug 2016 OP
Would you understand his actions better if she were homely? Brickbat Aug 2016 #1
Yes Loki Liesmith Aug 2016 #26
Looks aren't everything .... VMA131Marine Aug 2016 #2
Yes, he is a fool. apcalc Aug 2016 #3
she is a fool too, for marrying a pervert Skittles Aug 2016 #7
She's a victim. I have no idea about her private life. R. Daneel Olivaw Aug 2016 #13
Maybe rethink that. You think he told her before they married that he would be sexting other women? brush Aug 2016 #16
the guy is just plain CREEPY Skittles Aug 2016 #17
Yes he is, but that doesn't make her a fool. brush Aug 2016 #18
ALRIGHTY THEN Skittles Aug 2016 #25
Huh? brush Aug 2016 #27
This is the THIRD time he's been caught. cwydro Aug 2016 #20
Third time? Not aware of that. brush Aug 2016 #23
Yep. Three times now. cwydro Aug 2016 #24
I bet if the child had not been in the picture Skittles Aug 2016 #35
I'm not at all sure about that. brush Aug 2016 #36
done here Skittles Aug 2016 #38
Not fair. dawg Aug 2016 #32
Is Jon Stewart a fool for being a friend of a pervert? (nt) ehrnst Aug 2016 #34
Delete your account Beaverhausen Aug 2016 #4
Perfection. Brickbat Aug 2016 #5
Post removed Post removed Aug 2016 #9
Take this sexist shit elsewhere Beaverhausen Aug 2016 #10
Oh quit throwing around the s word Loki Liesmith Aug 2016 #28
Sounds like a personal problem DoBotherMe Aug 2016 #33
A rather self-validating justification for what is little more than choosing to be dishonest... LanternWaste Aug 2016 #37
As a man that has been a faithful boyfriend, fiance and then husband to my wife for 15 years... phleshdef Aug 2016 #6
Well - no doubt he is a fool, and not very bright. nt jmg257 Aug 2016 #8
Weiner has a problem edhopper Aug 2016 #11
Weiner's foolishness has absolutely nothing to do with his wife's looks MrScorpio Aug 2016 #12
Weiner should have stayed a swingin' single. backscatter712 Aug 2016 #14
The OP is sexist as hell. KittyWampus Aug 2016 #15
And probably doesn't have a clue what they did wrong Lee-Lee Aug 2016 #19
Of course that always depends Shankapotomus Aug 2016 #22
The readers' assumption is that the 2nd statement is a conclusion of the 1st. Quantess Aug 2016 #21
yes...he is a fool mindfulNJ Aug 2016 #29
No argument Gothmog Aug 2016 #30
Her beauty is far more than physical attractiveness PJMcK Aug 2016 #31

Loki Liesmith

(4,602 posts)
26. Yes
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 08:17 AM
Aug 2016

Assuming he places a high value on physical beauty I would understand it more, because he would have married someone with whom he has a deep incompatibility.

It would not mean I'd think he's any less of a jerk though. Understanding is not justification.

 

R. Daneel Olivaw

(12,606 posts)
13. She's a victim. I have no idea about her private life.
Mon Aug 29, 2016, 10:08 PM
Aug 2016

Possibly she stayed with Anthony for as long as possible; which takes resolve.

brush

(53,772 posts)
16. Maybe rethink that. You think he told her before they married that he would be sexting other women?
Mon Aug 29, 2016, 11:16 PM
Aug 2016

She's a victim who, probably because she wanted her child to have a father, tried to work through the humiliation he caused her in the first sexting incident.

Now that he's done it again she made the right decision to leave him.

She's not a fool, she's a person, like most of us, who has endured the ups and downs and curves life throws at you.

I suppose your life has been a complete utopia?

brush

(53,772 posts)
23. Third time? Not aware of that.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 06:39 AM
Aug 2016

Who of us knows how we would handle the humiliation of being in a marriage and having a child with a spouse who does something so despicable who then probably begs for forgiveness with promises to never do it again?

She finally decided to move on.

Good for her.

Skittles

(153,153 posts)
35. I bet if the child had not been in the picture
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:07 PM
Aug 2016

she would still be with him

Now she really has no choice.

Ugh.

brush

(53,772 posts)
36. I'm not at all sure about that.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:23 PM
Aug 2016

None of us know what was going on in their household, whether they were even still intimate with each other, or sleeping in seperate beds.

She reached her breaking point and decided to leave.

IMO, the child was the reason she stayed as long as she did.

dawg

(10,624 posts)
32. Not fair.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 09:33 AM
Aug 2016

You can't know what someone else is going to decide to do in a relationship.

I just hope Huma has the strong sense of self-worth and confidence that I lacked. I hope she understands that this is all about him and has nothing to at all to do with her.

Response to Beaverhausen (Reply #4)

Beaverhausen

(24,470 posts)
10. Take this sexist shit elsewhere
Mon Aug 29, 2016, 09:29 PM
Aug 2016

So if Huma was not beautiful you could forgive wieners actions? Really?


REALLY???

What is the point of this stupid thread?

Loki Liesmith

(4,602 posts)
28. Oh quit throwing around the s word
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 08:21 AM
Aug 2016

It doesn't intimidate anyone.

People cheat when their expectations for what they "deserve" in a relationship don't align with what they have. If someone is married to someone they do not find attractive, there is a higher probability they will have an affair. It's not sexism.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
37. A rather self-validating justification for what is little more than choosing to be dishonest...
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 02:23 PM
Aug 2016

"People cheat when their expectations for what they "deserve" in a relationship don't align with what they have..."

A rather self-validating justification for what is little more than choosing to be dishonest... regardless of the appearance of the one's we justify lying to.

Were your little bumper-sticker accurate, then no attractive person would ever have been cheated on, regardless of your righteous allegations of what sexism is or is not.

(this is where you imply additional qualifiers were obvious in your premise and rationalize not stating them to better retain your absolutism of the human condition)

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
6. As a man that has been a faithful boyfriend, fiance and then husband to my wife for 15 years...
Mon Aug 29, 2016, 09:19 PM
Aug 2016

...if you don't want to commit to one woman, then don't get married. Don't fool yourself, know what kind of man you are.

Me, I'm the kind of guy that found the right person for me a long time ago and we deeply love one another.

I have no issue with people who don't have that kind of relationship, but don't sucker people along the way as you discover you aren't cut out for monogamy.

MrScorpio

(73,631 posts)
12. Weiner's foolishness has absolutely nothing to do with his wife's looks
Mon Aug 29, 2016, 09:56 PM
Aug 2016

And everything to do with his own inability to control himself.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
14. Weiner should have stayed a swingin' single.
Mon Aug 29, 2016, 10:11 PM
Aug 2016

Fewer broken hearts that way.

Can't say I blame Human for leaving him.

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
22. Of course that always depends
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 06:33 AM
Aug 2016

on how one is using the word "beautiful" so we should always be careful before drawing conclusions.

"Beautiful" does not always have to imply a physical assessment. In someone's estimation another person could have a beautiful spirit or mind or just be a "beautiful" human being as in an assessment of their whole person, including traits like intellect, morals, etc.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
21. The readers' assumption is that the 2nd statement is a conclusion of the 1st.
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 06:27 AM
Aug 2016

These two statements can be independently true.

mindfulNJ

(2,367 posts)
29. yes...he is a fool
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 08:24 AM
Aug 2016

but his wife has NOTHING to do with his problem. I guess you wouldn't have thought him a fool if Huma was not attractive to you?

Sexist crap.

PJMcK

(22,035 posts)
31. Her beauty is far more than physical attractiveness
Tue Aug 30, 2016, 08:44 AM
Aug 2016

Although I agree with your view about Mr. Weiner's, your OP is rather superficial, Yavin4.

Huma Abedin is extremely intelligent and accomplished:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Huma_Abedin

That she is a beautiful woman is irrelevant and her dedication to her family is evidenced by her attempts to save her marriage in spite of Anthony Weiner's indiscretions.

I admire and respect her and I hope she'll have a major role in Hillary Clinton's administration.

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