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Texasgal

(17,045 posts)
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:14 PM Nov 2016

The love of my life passed

away this past thursday.

My beautiful, compassionate and loving husband passed away from liver failure on Thursday Nov. 3rd. He was listed on a liver/kidney transplant list. We made it all the way to #2 in our region until he was stricken with a fungal infection in his brain. He passed away peacefully as I held his hand with hospice in our home.

My husband was a kind man. He was an inspector and drove all around Austin when he was working. He would go to the store once a week and buy bread, cheese and cold cuts along with juice and water and cookies. He would spend hours on a sunday night making kits that he handed out to homeless people while out and about in our city. He would also buy a huge bag of dog food and treats and hand out to the homeless that had dogs. He was a lover of animals and nature. He was also a lover of our older population and would always check in with as he inspected different properties. He loved me, our dogs and his family.

There are so many other things I can say about a wonderful man he was but it would fill this page!

In his memory, please make sure you are an organ donor. If we had enough of them he would have been transplanted when he truly got sick! we wouldn't have had to wait so long. The last year and a half have been horrific and hard on his body and our lives.

Save lives... become an organ donor now. Do not wait.

https://www.donatelife.net/

He was not able to vote but he wanted too. He was a Hillary fan.

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The love of my life passed (Original Post) Texasgal Nov 2016 OP
I am so very very sorry. Peace, love and comfort to you and all who love him. PeaceNikki Nov 2016 #1
Wishing you comfort and peace, sister. apcalc Nov 2016 #2
I am so sorry Texasgal zbird Nov 2016 #4
No regrets Scarsdale Nov 2016 #234
My sincerest condolences, Texasgal. CherokeeDem Nov 2016 #5
Beautiful tribute LyndaG Nov 2016 #6
I'm so sorry. Siwsan Nov 2016 #7
I am so sorry for you... chillfactor Nov 2016 #8
I'm so sorry, texasgal. Your dear husband was a kind and caring man. ((((hugs))) sueh Nov 2016 #9
Oh, TexasGal, I am so very sorry! Sissyk Nov 2016 #11
Very sorry to hear about your loss senegal1 Nov 2016 #13
I'm so terribly sorry for his lost. He sounds like Neema Nov 2016 #14
What a mensch. SusanCalvin Nov 2016 #16
Sadness A HERETIC I AM Nov 2016 #17
I'm sorry. Ellipsis Nov 2016 #18
My sincere condolences. Cooley Hurd Nov 2016 #19
So sorry for your loss. joshcryer Nov 2016 #20
My deepest sympathy and condolences. roamer65 Nov 2016 #21
I'm sorry. Buckeye_Democrat Nov 2016 #22
My deepest condolences ismnotwasm Nov 2016 #23
I am so sorry for your loss Texasgal. This was a beautiful memorial to your livetohike Nov 2016 #24
My sincere condolences, Texasgal. Ilsa Nov 2016 #25
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. orwell Nov 2016 #27
Prayers and condolences JonathanRackham Nov 2016 #28
I'm so sorry Texas Gal kimbutgar Nov 2016 #29
... shenmue Nov 2016 #30
Dear Texasgal, I am so sad at your loss. Your husband sounds like such a wonderful person. You are monmouth4 Nov 2016 #31
In tears at the loss sunnystarr Nov 2016 #32
My Sincerest Condolences ButSeeYa Nov 2016 #33
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Maraya1969 Nov 2016 #36
☆💔 spanone Nov 2016 #38
He was an amazing person :) metroins Nov 2016 #39
I am so very sorry for your loss. Ms.Lib Nov 2016 #41
Sorry for your loss :( JHan Nov 2016 #42
I wish you strength. livingonearth Nov 2016 #43
Our deepest sympathies. rurallib Nov 2016 #45
Oh, sorry extremely sorry for your loss. What a wonderful man. sinkingfeeling Nov 2016 #46
You have my sincere condolences. brer cat Nov 2016 #47
I am so sorry for your loss. uppityperson Nov 2016 #48
... SunSeeker Nov 2016 #50
I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband. lucca18 Nov 2016 #51
My sincere condolences Lindalouuu Nov 2016 #52
So sorry to hear this. Jim__ Nov 2016 #53
I am so sorry for your loss Moostache Nov 2016 #54
My heart goes out to you Generic Brad Nov 2016 #55
I am sorry for your loss. Ms. Toad Nov 2016 #56
Please accept my sincerest sympathies. ClusterFreak Nov 2016 #58
I'm deeply sorry. volstork Nov 2016 #60
I am so sorry for your loss--and ours. He was the kind of person we need more of! nt tblue37 Nov 2016 #61
I'm so sorry, Texasgal. lapucelle Nov 2016 #62
So sorry. Sounds like he was an exceptional person. Tess49 Nov 2016 #63
So very sorry for your loss, Texasgal. sheshe2 Nov 2016 #64
I'm saddened to hear this. RKP5637 Nov 2016 #65
I'm so sorry. shraby Nov 2016 #66
So very sorry to hear it. Aloha no. mahina Nov 2016 #67
My condolences . He sounds. like he was a big hearted man CentralMass Nov 2016 #68
I'm so sorry for your loss, Texasgal. badhair77 Nov 2016 #69
I'm so very sorry for your loss gwheezie Nov 2016 #70
I am so sorry. redwitch Nov 2016 #71
He sounds like a wonderful man. I'm so very sorry for your loss. liberalla Nov 2016 #72
So sorry for your loss. n/t GP6971 Nov 2016 #74
My thoughts and prayers are with you LibraLiz1973 Nov 2016 #75
Wishing you love and strength. madaboutharry Nov 2016 #76
I am so sorry. nt Andy823 Nov 2016 #77
So very sorry for your loss. relayerbob Nov 2016 #78
Deepest condolences. Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2016 #79
What a loving tribute. I'm so sorry. JohnnyLib2 Nov 2016 #80
This world needs more like him. Laffy Kat Nov 2016 #83
I am so very sorry Texasgal 40RatRod Nov 2016 #84
So sorry for your loss texasfiddler Nov 2016 #85
Holding you in my heart, Texasgal. TygrBright Nov 2016 #86
So very sorry. progressoid Nov 2016 #87
Condolences Lotusflower70 Nov 2016 #88
I'm very sorry for your loss, and thankful that you let us know what we all lost... Barack_America Nov 2016 #89
i am so sorry JI7 Nov 2016 #90
So very sorry for your loss Moral Compass Nov 2016 #91
I hope it helps to see all the love and support from your DU family. You did an amazing job of Tanuki Nov 2016 #92
So sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers to you. skylucy Nov 2016 #93
I am so sorry, Texasgal. Lars39 Nov 2016 #94
I'm sorry for your loss. IrishEyes Nov 2016 #95
My heart aches for you. His suffering has ended, but williesgirl Nov 2016 #96
I am so sorry to hear this joeybee12 Nov 2016 #97
I'm so very sorry for your loss. femmedem Nov 2016 #98
I am profoundly sorry for your loss. Texin Nov 2016 #102
Sorry healthnut7 Nov 2016 #104
((Texasgal)) blm Nov 2016 #105
May peace find you and yours in this most difficult of times Texasgal. bench scientist Nov 2016 #106
Hope your path to peace is wide and smooth. IADEMO2004 Nov 2016 #108
How fortunate that you found a love like that and with a wonderful person. TrekLuver Nov 2016 #109
My sympathies on your loss. CrispyQ Nov 2016 #110
Most sincere condolences MFM008 Nov 2016 #111
So very sorry for your loss, Texasgal mcar Nov 2016 #112
I am Truly Sorry kebob Nov 2016 #113
I'm so sorry, Texas Gal. Jane Austin Nov 2016 #114
I'm so sorry NYFlip Nov 2016 #115
May his memory Mme. Defarge Nov 2016 #116
So very sorry for your loss TexasGal BadGimp Nov 2016 #117
I'm so sorry for your loss, you'll be in my thoughts. nt Raine Nov 2016 #118
I am so sorry for your loss! LongTomH Nov 2016 #119
My deepest condolences to you and your family for your loss CousinIT Nov 2016 #121
I know some of what you are feeling FightingIrish Nov 2016 #122
For you and the love of your life Jbowman Nov 2016 #123
What a beautiful soul your husband was! raging moderate Nov 2016 #124
I am so sorry for your loss. yardwork Nov 2016 #125
.. Liberal_in_LA Nov 2016 #126
Sorry for your loss cap Nov 2016 #127
Sorry for your loss. alfredo Nov 2016 #128
So sorry to hear of your lost loved one. I promise to drag someone to the polls to cast a vote FailureToCommunicate Nov 2016 #129
QEPD msedano Nov 2016 #130
I am so sorry you have lost this amazing person at your side. AllyCat Nov 2016 #131
I am very sorry for your loss. And your point is well taken. Warren DeMontague Nov 2016 #132
... cry baby Nov 2016 #133
Very, very sorry AwakeAtLast Nov 2016 #134
What a wonderful article about a wonderful man grantcart Nov 2016 #135
I am so sorry for your loss. Stinky The Clown Nov 2016 #136
So sorry, Texasgal. AirmensMom Nov 2016 #137
condolences and take care lunasun Nov 2016 #138
I'm so sorry Texasgal. montana_hazeleyes Nov 2016 #139
I am so sorry. LisaM Nov 2016 #141
My deepest condolences Rorey Nov 2016 #142
I am so sorry. mountain grammy Nov 2016 #143
So sorry. Sounds like he was a wonderful man. I know it's a sad time. I lost my wife recently too. brush Nov 2016 #144
Love and light to you. Womaninabinder Nov 2016 #145
I am so sorry. annabanana Nov 2016 #147
Sorry for your loss. 47of74 Nov 2016 #148
Deep condolences Richard D Nov 2016 #149
I lost my husband 18 months ago. NanceGreggs Nov 2016 #150
amen, I will do so soon uponit7771 Nov 2016 #156
Organ donor here Omaha Steve Nov 2016 #151
what you wrote is so very nice.... IcyPeas Nov 2016 #152
.. Cha Nov 2016 #153
I pray for your comfort, God Speed on being as whole as possible.... regards uponit7771 Nov 2016 #154
A profound loss sweetroxie Nov 2016 #155
No words are adequate to express my sympathy for your loss. My thoughts still_one Nov 2016 #157
RIP SDOPINION Nov 2016 #158
I ak so sorry for your loss, Texasgal SalmonChantedEvening Nov 2016 #159
My sad condolences.. denbot Nov 2016 #160
I'll do what you ask, have been meaning to do it flamingdem Nov 2016 #161
I'm so very sorry for your loss. :( EllieBC Nov 2016 #162
Omg, I'm so sorry for your loss. pintobean Nov 2016 #163
I feel your pain Kelt_Gyrl Nov 2016 #164
What a beautiful writing zenabby Nov 2016 #165
Our condolences krakfiend Nov 2016 #166
I'm so sorry. snacker Nov 2016 #167
My condolences raising2moredems Nov 2016 #170
I am so sorry for you and your family. Hold those wonderful memories Fla Dem Nov 2016 #172
So sorry for your loss. nt MADem Nov 2016 #173
Peace to you marlakay Nov 2016 #174
I'm so so sorry. I can't imagine what you're feeling ... All I can do is send love .. CaptainTruth Nov 2016 #175
Texasgal, I am so, so sorry to hear of your beloved's passing. Moosepoop Nov 2016 #177
Please accept my condolences TexasTowelie Nov 2016 #178
You have my deepest sympathy. nruthie Nov 2016 #179
Peace be with you Texasgal Greywing Nov 2016 #180
So sorry for your loss. s-cubed Nov 2016 #181
So sorry. . jcboon Nov 2016 #182
I am so sorry for your loss. Lifelong Protester Nov 2016 #183
Love and peace to you... Freedomofspeech Nov 2016 #185
All best and loving thoughts to you... VOX Nov 2016 #188
There are no words DFW Nov 2016 #189
I am so very sorry for your loss. onecaliberal Nov 2016 #190
Deepest sympathy sis malaise Nov 2016 #192
I'm so sorry, Texasgirl choie Nov 2016 #193
Condolences to you and your family thucythucy Nov 2016 #194
So sorry for your loss... JCMach1 Nov 2016 #195
I am so sorry for your loss. What a kind person. Glimmer of Hope Nov 2016 #196
Sincerest condolences CabalPowered Nov 2016 #197
I'm so sorry! OhioBlue Nov 2016 #198
Oh, I'm so very sorry, Texasgal. I lost my husband & best friend of 30 years in 2014, catbyte Nov 2016 #201
I'm so very sorry that this has happened. It sounds like he was a wonderful person based Upthevibe Nov 2016 #205
So Sorry dem in texas Nov 2016 #202
Dance together in your dreams now Tsiyu Nov 2016 #203
I'm so sorry. The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2016 #204
All the best to you. lovemydog Nov 2016 #206
So very sorry for your loss, Texasgal Ruby the Liberal Nov 2016 #208
I am so sorry. Peace to you. senseandsensibility Nov 2016 #209
How painful this must be for you lillypaddle Nov 2016 #210
A loss for the world. colorado_ufo Nov 2016 #211
So sorry, TG. nt awoke_in_2003 Nov 2016 #214
So sorry Egnever Nov 2016 #216
I am so sorry. area51 Nov 2016 #217
Texasgal? busterbrown Nov 2016 #218
Sorry for Your Loss Oldtimeralso Nov 2016 #219
I'm so sorry, Texasgirl. Granny M Nov 2016 #222
Sounds like a great man and a great friend Democat Nov 2016 #225
My Deepest Condolences DarthDem Nov 2016 #227
I am so sorry for your loss. mnhtnbb Nov 2016 #228
My condolences and deepest sympathy, Texasgal. gademocrat7 Nov 2016 #229
So sorry for your loss texasleo Nov 2016 #230
My heart weeps for you. anniebelle Nov 2016 #231
So Sorry for your heart breaking loss! cynzke Nov 2016 #232
I am so very sorry. Lunabell Nov 2016 #233
I am so sorry get the red out Nov 2016 #235
What a beautiful tribute to your husband. democrank Nov 2016 #236
He must have been a remarkable man to being so generous. onecent Nov 2016 #238
So sorry.... panader0 Nov 2016 #241
+1!!! Dadgumit Nov 2016 #242
What a beautiful testimonial to your husband. PunksMom Nov 2016 #244
My sincere condolence to your family - n/t mazzarro Nov 2016 #245
All My Condolences ProfessorGAC Nov 2016 #246
I am so very, very sorry! ColesCountyDem Nov 2016 #247
My deepest sympathies Liberalynn Nov 2016 #248
I am very sorry. I've been listed as an organ donor my entire adult life and were I to go... NNadir Nov 2016 #249
Prayers benld74 Nov 2016 #250
I'm so sorry! Odin2005 Nov 2016 #252
Very sorry. He sounds like a really great guy. GoneOffShore Nov 2016 #253
I am so very sorry Highway61 Nov 2016 #255
I'm so sorry to hear that. MineralMan Nov 2016 #256
deep condolences heaven05 Nov 2016 #257
how very sad orleans Nov 2016 #260
So very sorry blueseas Nov 2016 #261
I am so sorry... Demsrule86 Nov 2016 #264
I am so sorry to read this. He sounds absolutely wonderful. What a blessed women you are. You OregonBlue Nov 2016 #265
So sorry for your loss. Second your call for organ donation. bluesbassman Nov 2016 #267
Very sorry for your loss LittleGirl Nov 2016 #268
Please accept my sincere condolences. Mad_Dem_X Nov 2016 #269
Pleasure accept my sincere and most heartfelt condolences. no_hypocrisy Nov 2016 #270
He sounds like an absolutely incredible person renate Nov 2016 #272
so very sorry for your loss, texasgal, and thank you for sharing a bit of this lovely man niyad Nov 2016 #274
It's so hard to lose one of the good ones...he sure sounded like a great person. Ninga Nov 2016 #275
I am so sorry. Bonhomme Richard Nov 2016 #276
Lost my wife of 23 years on October 10th. paparush Nov 2016 #277
So sorry, Worried senior Nov 2016 #280
My condolences to you. I signed off on the donor with my TXDL. Eleanors38 Nov 2016 #282
I am very sorry. Mickju Nov 2016 #283
What a wonderful tribute to your beloved Divine Discontent Nov 2016 #285
I know this is small comfort but look how many people here care. nolabear Nov 2016 #286
You must be very special yourself to have shared your life with such a loving soul. Boomerproud Nov 2016 #287
I'm so sorry....... Dyedinthewoolliberal Nov 2016 #289
I am so sorry. treestar Nov 2016 #290
Oh, I'm so very sorry babylonsister Nov 2016 #291
Dec 1969 #

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
1. I am so very very sorry. Peace, love and comfort to you and all who love him.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:15 PM
Nov 2016


I am an organ donor, a blood drive coordinator and I am on the marrow registry as well.

zbird

(1,595 posts)
4. I am so sorry Texasgal
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:19 PM
Nov 2016

Your husband sounds like a wonderful soul. May you find peace and comfort in the days to come.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
234. No regrets
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 07:11 AM
Nov 2016

Sounds like he lived a great, loving, caring life. Deepest sympathy for the loss of a REAL man. I understand your loss and hope you find peace knowing he is finally free of pain.

Siwsan

(26,268 posts)
7. I'm so sorry.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:20 PM
Nov 2016

I know you will find comfort in your wonderful memories. I will keep you in my thoughts.

I signed up to be an organ donor, this year.

chillfactor

(7,576 posts)
8. I am so sorry for you...
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:20 PM
Nov 2016

I lost my husband as well..he was the kind of man that your husband was...he was my soulmate and I miss him every day. My thoughts and prayers are with you....be strong, cherish the memories.

SusanCalvin

(6,592 posts)
16. What a mensch.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:22 PM
Nov 2016

I am so sorry for your loss.

I would like to do the same when I retire. Any advice appreciated.

Yes, I am an organ donor.

ismnotwasm

(41,989 posts)
23. My deepest condolences
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:25 PM
Nov 2016

I am a transplant Nurse and I agree-- everyone Please consider becoming an organ donor.

livetohike

(22,145 posts)
24. I am so sorry for your loss Texasgal. This was a beautiful memorial to your
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:25 PM
Nov 2016

husband. Wishing you and your family and everyone who knew and loved your husband peace and comfort.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
25. My sincere condolences, Texasgal.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:26 PM
Nov 2016

I'll keep you and those around you in my prayers. I'm so sad that such a wonderful person has left us all, but especially you.

I'm listed as an organ donor, and I donate blood regularly.

orwell

(7,775 posts)
27. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:27 PM
Nov 2016

I can't imagine your sorrow.

He sounds like a beautiful human being.

kimbutgar

(21,163 posts)
29. I'm so sorry Texas Gal
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:28 PM
Nov 2016

I am already an organ donor.. I wish he would have found a liver in time. He is at rest and peace and probably still there in spirit for you. He probably knew he was loved and appreciated by you and it was his time.

monmouth4

(9,708 posts)
31. Dear Texasgal, I am so sad at your loss. Your husband sounds like such a wonderful person. You are
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:28 PM
Nov 2016

in my thoughts ..

sunnystarr

(2,638 posts)
32. In tears at the loss
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:28 PM
Nov 2016

of such a loving soul from our world. My prayers will join the prayers of all he touched either personally or through you. May they bring you some comfort.

metroins

(2,550 posts)
39. He was an amazing person :)
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:33 PM
Nov 2016

I did not know him, but I read your post, he was an awesome person!

I'm sorry he had complications to life.

rurallib

(62,423 posts)
45. Our deepest sympathies.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:34 PM
Nov 2016

Sounds like you will have wonderful memories.

A very noble and inspiring gesture to call for folks to be organ donors in his memories.

May I also offer that blood donors are always needed and are life savers also. Believe me on that.

We wish you peace.

brer cat

(24,577 posts)
47. You have my sincere condolences.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:35 PM
Nov 2016

That was a very lovely tribute; he sounds like a wonderful man.

Peace to you.

lucca18

(1,242 posts)
51. I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:37 PM
Nov 2016

He sounded like such a wonderful man.
How fortunate you were, to have had him in your life.

Lindalouuu

(91 posts)
52. My sincere condolences
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:38 PM
Nov 2016

He sounds like a wonderful man. I'm sorry for your loss. He will be in your heart forever. ((Hugs))

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
54. I am so sorry for your loss
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:42 PM
Nov 2016

Your husband's kindness in life will inspire others to pick up the mantle in his honor and memory in passing.
Thank you for sharing a small piece of what he was with this community.

Ms. Toad

(34,075 posts)
56. I am sorry for your loss.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:43 PM
Nov 2016

When my daughter was diagnosed with a chronic progressive liver disease, I responded the same way when people asked if there was anything they could do: Make sure you are an organ donor AND talk to your family members so they know your wishes.

Fortunately, my daughter seems to be on the slow track - progression is steady but minor so far. With luck either there will be many more donors when her day comes - or they will have perfected the artificial liver that will eliminate many of the rejection complications transplant recipients face now. I am sorry the progress was not fast enough for your husband.

ClusterFreak

(3,112 posts)
58. Please accept my sincerest sympathies.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:43 PM
Nov 2016

I posted here to inform DU of the loss of my mom three years ago, and I was overwhelmed by the kind response. I hope you take that same comfort from the words and sentiments expressed above and below.

lapucelle

(18,275 posts)
62. I'm so sorry, Texasgal.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:45 PM
Nov 2016

You wrote a beautiful tribute to him. I'm one of those rare practicing Catholics, and I'll pray for you both.

badhair77

(4,218 posts)
69. I'm so sorry for your loss, Texasgal.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:47 PM
Nov 2016

He sounds like a kind and loving man and your tribute was beautiful. I will honor him by trying to follow in his compassionate footsteps. I wish you peace.

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
70. I'm so very sorry for your loss
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:48 PM
Nov 2016

And for all the people he touched who might never gotten a chance to tell him how much he changed their lives for the better.
48 years ago I was living on the street and a man gave me a bag of oranges. Out of all the things that anyone ever gave me, that was the thing that saved me from dispair. I don't think I ever knew his name and he'll never know how it literally saved me. Your husband reminds me of that man.

liberalla

(9,249 posts)
72. He sounds like a wonderful man. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:51 PM
Nov 2016

I've been registered as an organ donor for 20+ years. Thank you for your message and reminder.

I hope you receive peace and comfort.

LibraLiz1973

(8,197 posts)
75. My thoughts and prayers are with you
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:52 PM
Nov 2016

I am an organ donor and have been since I got home license when I was 19. I wish more people understood how important it is to do that.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
79. Deepest condolences.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 09:55 PM
Nov 2016

I hope when the day come for my husband, I have been long gone. I would just miss him too much.

texasfiddler

(1,990 posts)
85. So sorry for your loss
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:00 PM
Nov 2016

A good friend of mine is waiting for a liver transplant and she is not doing well. Organ donation is so important.
He sounded like a wonderful man. What a great tribute you wrote. God bless you!

TygrBright

(20,762 posts)
86. Holding you in my heart, Texasgal.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:00 PM
Nov 2016

And yes, me and the love of my life are both donors.

May time transmute your pain to beauty, and the love of your life remain forever in your heart.

warmly,
Bright

Lotusflower70

(3,077 posts)
88. Condolences
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:01 PM
Nov 2016

I am so sorry for your loss Texasgal. Thoughts and prayers to you and yours. Sending love and light as well as positive and healing vibes.

Barack_America

(28,876 posts)
89. I'm very sorry for your loss, and thankful that you let us know what we all lost...
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:01 PM
Nov 2016

...truly not enough people out there like your dear husband.

I'm already an organ (and bone marrow) donor, so I can't help there, but I will try to be a better person and will remember your husband as an example.

Peace to you.

Moral Compass

(1,521 posts)
91. So very sorry for your loss
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:02 PM
Nov 2016

Your husband sounds like a wonderful man who made a difference while he lived. I wish he could have gotten a liver.

The world needs more people like him.

I am an organ donor. Everyone should be.

Tanuki

(14,918 posts)
92. I hope it helps to see all the love and support from your DU family. You did an amazing job of
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:02 PM
Nov 2016

painting a picture of what a kind and caring man he was in just a few sentences. If he was that compassionate and thoughtful of strangers and animals in need, I can only imagine what a gem of a husband he has been to you over the years. My sincere sympathy at this time of very great loss. I have a cousin who is on a liver transplant waiting list, so i understand a little of what the past year has been like for you.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
95. I'm sorry for your loss.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:04 PM
Nov 2016

He sounds like he was a great man. I'm signed up to be an organ donor. My family knows that I want to be an organ donor if anything happens to me. Thank you for encouraging people to become organ donors.

I read this below on www.liveonny.org

"One organ donor can save up to eight lives. The same donor can also save or improve the lives of up to 50 people by donating tissues and eyes".

williesgirl

(4,033 posts)
96. My heart aches for you. His suffering has ended, but
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:06 PM
Nov 2016

Yours is beginning. Please let me know if I can help in any way. I've been where you are.

femmedem

(8,203 posts)
98. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:07 PM
Nov 2016

I don't know what else to say, except that I am an organ donor, and to thank you for sharing a little bit about him. The way he lived is inspiring, as is your love.

Texin

(2,596 posts)
102. I am profoundly sorry for your loss.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:09 PM
Nov 2016

I wish you and your family and friends of your beloved spouse my deepest condolences. From your moving words, the world has lost an important and impactful presence.

bench scientist

(1,107 posts)
106. May peace find you and yours in this most difficult of times Texasgal.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:11 PM
Nov 2016

So terribly sorry for your loss.
bench.

 

TrekLuver

(2,573 posts)
109. How fortunate that you found a love like that and with a wonderful person.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:19 PM
Nov 2016

I know you will be going through difficult times....

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened. Dr. Suess

When you're going through hell....just keep going. Winston Churchill

mcar

(42,334 posts)
112. So very sorry for your loss, Texasgal
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:21 PM
Nov 2016

And bless you for promoting the importance of organ donation. RIP to your dear spouse and support to you and your family.

BadGimp

(4,015 posts)
117. So very sorry for your loss TexasGal
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:24 PM
Nov 2016

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and memories of him.

All the best.

FightingIrish

(2,716 posts)
122. I know some of what you are feeling
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:32 PM
Nov 2016

A little over two years ago, with no warning, I lost my wife of over forty years. I accepted that my life was over. Six months ago I married another wonderful woman I first met forty-eight years ago. Don't let others tell you how to grieve. Only you will know how. Then let life happen.

Jbowman

(8 posts)
123. For you and the love of your life
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:32 PM
Nov 2016

Texasgal, I'm sooo sorry for your loss. May you find peace love and comfort, during this difficult time. I am a registered organ donor thank you for your post, to remind others how important it is. My prayers to you and yours...peace be with you and the love of the Lord to hold you close and comfort you. The love of your life is with you always...

raging moderate

(4,305 posts)
124. What a beautiful soul your husband was!
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:37 PM
Nov 2016

I am so sorry to hear about his ordeal and death. The love you shared is true forever!

cap

(7,170 posts)
127. Sorry for your loss
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:47 PM
Nov 2016

Hubby has been on kidney transplant list for five years. We are hoping a kidney will come our way.
Many thanks for the shout out for donors

FailureToCommunicate

(14,014 posts)
129. So sorry to hear of your lost loved one. I promise to drag someone to the polls to cast a vote
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:47 PM
Nov 2016

for Hillary that he would have. And of course we are already listed as organ donors.

May you find some peace soon from your sorrow.

AllyCat

(16,189 posts)
131. I am so sorry you have lost this amazing person at your side.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:48 PM
Nov 2016

It was a comfort, I am sure, that you were with him during his passage. What a beautiful tribute you have written about your love. I am an organ donor already, but will talk to others about the need. Peace to you as it can come.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
132. I am very sorry for your loss. And your point is well taken.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:48 PM
Nov 2016

Phil Lesh had his life saved by an organ donor, and he makes the same pitch at every one of his shows.

Hang in there.

Stinky The Clown

(67,808 posts)
136. I am so sorry for your loss.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:52 PM
Nov 2016

Your eulogy demonstrated clearly what sort of a man he was. I wish you peace and healing.

AirmensMom

(14,643 posts)
137. So sorry, Texasgal.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:57 PM
Nov 2016

He sounds like a wonderful man. I am so sorry for your loss.

Harleydad and I are both organ donors.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
138. condolences and take care
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 10:59 PM
Nov 2016

one of the best ways I've seen it promoted > Become an organ donor - Recycle yourself !

montana_hazeleyes

(3,424 posts)
139. I'm so sorry Texasgal.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:02 PM
Nov 2016

Your husband giving and caring so much for others in need shows what a wonderful man he was.

mountain grammy

(26,624 posts)
143. I am so sorry.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:03 PM
Nov 2016

My family are all organ donors and will continue to encourage others to give the gift of life. I only wish your husband could have been saved.

brush

(53,787 posts)
144. So sorry. Sounds like he was a wonderful man. I know it's a sad time. I lost my wife recently too.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:05 PM
Nov 2016

NanceGreggs

(27,815 posts)
150. I lost my husband 18 months ago.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:09 PM
Nov 2016

I understand your sense of loss.

Sadly, my husband's body was too riddled with cancer for his organs to be of any use - but we (it was a joint decision before he died) donated tissue and body parts to be used for research into the type of cancer that ended his life.

I join you in asking everyone to sign up NOW to donate to organ transplant programs, as well as programs that can utilize body parts that might lead to a better understanding how all diseases can be avoided, dealt with, and ultimately cured.

My heart goes out to you and your family. Your plea for signing up as an organ donor is a beautiful tribute to his memory.

IcyPeas

(21,889 posts)
152. what you wrote is so very nice....
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:14 PM
Nov 2016

it sounds like a lot of people will be missing him and wondering what happened to him. he touched people's lives.

so sorry for your loss.

((hugs))

sweetroxie

(776 posts)
155. A profound loss
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:20 PM
Nov 2016

I know. I've been there. I so very sorry for your loss. I still miss my husband, after 17 years. Your husband sounded like a simply good and pure human being. How fortunate to have loved him. How sad that it had to end so soon. I am an organ donor, but no one really wants my organs since I myself have kidney failure. But viable organs are in impossibly short supply.

still_one

(92,219 posts)
157. No words are adequate to express my sympathy for your loss. My thoughts
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:21 PM
Nov 2016

and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Please take care


SDOPINION

(11 posts)
158. RIP
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:22 PM
Nov 2016

I am so sorry for your loss and what a beautiful tribute to your husband and important message along with it. Thank you for posting.

EllieBC

(3,016 posts)
162. I'm so very sorry for your loss. :(
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:24 PM
Nov 2016

May you know no more sorrow and may his memory be for a blessing.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
163. Omg, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:24 PM
Nov 2016

I was just reading an old thread that you were heavily involved in, and thinking what a good person you are. Then I saw this thread.
He must have been a wonderful person.

Kelt_Gyrl

(24 posts)
164. I feel your pain
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:24 PM
Nov 2016

I have had a loved one pass while waiting for an organ and that is why I am an organ donor because we can all help others by making the decision to donate organs. It is sad that it took so long to get so close only to lose the fight. Your husband sounds like a wonderful person with great compassion for others. Soon, scientists will be able to grow replacement organs in a lab and while it doesn't help your husband it will help shorten the list for those needing a transplant. I wish the best for you as you grieve the loss of your husband. I know that Hillary will win and you can share that gift with the memory of your love.

zenabby

(364 posts)
165. What a beautiful writing
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:28 PM
Nov 2016

for a beautiful person. He came alive through you. He seems to have been an incredibly kind and sweet man. My deepest condolences. I am an organ donor, but I will remind my friends and family to make sure they are organ donors too. It is really sad to know that he did not get an organ when he needed it. Hugs.

raising2moredems

(641 posts)
170. My condolences
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:42 PM
Nov 2016

I am an organ donor as our my children. There is a special place for your husband - compassion and empathy for his fellow man as well as animals. I have always been of the mindset that things happen for a reason - but we may not always know what the reason is. Take care and may his kindness for others help lessen your grief.

Fla Dem

(23,691 posts)
172. I am so sorry for you and your family. Hold those wonderful memories
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:45 PM
Nov 2016

of such a kind and loving man close to your heart. They will see you through your times of sorrow. May peace be with you.

Moosepoop

(1,920 posts)
177. Texasgal, I am so, so sorry to hear of your beloved's passing.
Sun Nov 6, 2016, 11:53 PM
Nov 2016

I'm already listed as an organ donor on my driver's license, and have made sure that my family is aware of my wishes to donate anything deemed usable upon my death. Any organs, any tissues, anything possibly useful to someone else. In your husband's memory (and my late brother-in-law's), I'm going to resume urging others who haven't registered as donors to do so. I've gotten away from doing that for some time, and your beautiful tribute to your husband is a powerful reminder of the constant need for donation.

It is so like you to use your loss to try to help others. I wish I could just reach through the computer screen and hug you.

It's no wonder your husband fell in love with you -- you're as beautiful, compassionate, loving and kind as he was.

Freedomofspeech

(4,226 posts)
185. Love and peace to you...
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 12:03 AM
Nov 2016

He sounds like an amazing man. IF only more people were so compassionate....how lucky you were to share your life with such a loving, compassionate man. We are already organ donors. Much love to you.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
188. All best and loving thoughts to you...
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 12:06 AM
Nov 2016

He sounds like a heck of a wonderful guy. It's not much to go on in the days ahead, but he's tucked into your heart, and that's forever.

All love

DFW

(54,405 posts)
189. There are no words
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 12:07 AM
Nov 2016

I am so sorry for you. I only hope you have people to stand by you right now, so you don't have to bear this alone.

choie

(4,111 posts)
193. I'm so sorry, Texasgirl
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 12:24 AM
Nov 2016

My love passed away almost three months ago and I know the grief you are feeling. Please know my thoughts are with you. Our lives will never be the same...

Choie

thucythucy

(8,069 posts)
194. Condolences to you and your family
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 12:34 AM
Nov 2016

at this sad time. Sounds like he was a wonderful man, who, I'm sure, will be missed very much.

I'm signed up to be a donor.

Best wishes, and you'll be in my thoughts.

catbyte

(34,403 posts)
201. Oh, I'm so very sorry, Texasgal. I lost my husband & best friend of 30 years in 2014,
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 01:10 AM
Nov 2016

so I know something of what you're feeling. My husband was ill for a long time, too, so I know the stress that causes. Please try to take care you yourself. I know it's easier said than done, but you've been through hell, and you need your strength to even begin to process this. You're in my thoughts. If you need to speak to somebody who understands what you're going through, please don't hesitate to message me. Please take care.

Upthevibe

(8,053 posts)
205. I'm so very sorry that this has happened. It sounds like he was a wonderful person based
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 01:18 AM
Nov 2016

on the things he did for those less fortunate. I hope that your memories will sustain you during this time. Yes, take care.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
203. Dance together in your dreams now
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 01:13 AM
Nov 2016

He set a beautiful example.

Sorry to hear of such a profound loss.

Be very good to yourself, Texasgal





The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,734 posts)
204. I'm so sorry.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 01:18 AM
Nov 2016

He sounds like a wonderful person.

I'm an organ donor but I never really thought about how incredibly important it is. This brings it home.

senseandsensibility

(17,066 posts)
209. I am so sorry. Peace to you.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 01:49 AM
Nov 2016

I hope you find the strength to deal with this terrible loss. Remember that your friends here at DU are here for you.

lillypaddle

(9,580 posts)
210. How painful this must be for you
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 01:51 AM
Nov 2016

my deepest sympathies. Don't forget to take care of yourself during this trying time.

colorado_ufo

(5,734 posts)
211. A loss for the world.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 02:00 AM
Nov 2016

Thank you for bringing so much joy and comfort to this good man's life.

I hope your beautiful tribute inspires others to carry on his benevolent work.

busterbrown

(8,515 posts)
218. Texasgal?
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 03:15 AM
Nov 2016

You’ll live on knowing how fortunate you both were to share each other’s lives..

He knew that till the end.....And believe me it never really ends....


Oldtimeralso

(1,937 posts)
219. Sorry for Your Loss
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 03:19 AM
Nov 2016

Your husband sounds like a great person, cherish the time you had together.

I am a donor, I hope this worn out body may still have some reusable parts.

Granny M

(1,395 posts)
222. I'm so sorry, Texasgirl.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 04:13 AM
Nov 2016

He was a wonderful, generous man. I wish you peace and comfort in the midst of your grief.

We carry donor cards and we are aware of each other's wishes regarding organ donation. It's important that our families know, in case we can't speak for ourselves.

DarthDem

(5,255 posts)
227. My Deepest Condolences
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 06:15 AM
Nov 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss.

What a wonderful person. My eyes welled up thinking of him spending so many hours helping the homeless and their pets.

Thank you for posting the moving tribute. My heart goes out to you in your time of loss. RIP.

mnhtnbb

(31,392 posts)
228. I am so sorry for your loss.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 06:28 AM
Nov 2016

Your husband truly touched the lives of others. How lucky you were to have him. How sad to lose him so soon.

Sending you light and love and hugs.

anniebelle

(899 posts)
231. My heart weeps for you.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 07:03 AM
Nov 2016

What a wonderful person you were able to share your life with. I have been an organ donor as long as I can remember and also a blood donor. When my brother died of colon cancer I had a battle with his children to donate his organs, he never put it in writing, so it was up to the. They finally agreed and I think my brother would smile and thank his little sister (I'm 71 years old) for doing this. I hope, more than anything, for you to be able to find peace in the next hours, days, weeks, months, years. Thank you for sharing during this time of your tremendous grief.

cynzke

(1,254 posts)
232. So Sorry for your heart breaking loss!
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 07:03 AM
Nov 2016

My condolences to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your warm memories with all of us. Your tribute to your departed husband is quite touching. It reminds all of us how precious our loved ones are to us. We sometimes lose sight of that, caught up in the grind of our daily routines.

Lunabell

(6,089 posts)
233. I am so very sorry.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 07:08 AM
Nov 2016

I have been an organ donor my whole life. I am so sorry for the loss of your mate. Hugs.

democrank

(11,096 posts)
236. What a beautiful tribute to your husband.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 08:08 AM
Nov 2016

Peace to you, Texasgal. I understand what you`re going through.

onecent

(6,096 posts)
238. He must have been a remarkable man to being so generous.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 08:21 AM
Nov 2016

He must have been a wonderful man to LOVE!!!

PunksMom

(440 posts)
244. What a beautiful testimonial to your husband.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 08:49 AM
Nov 2016

My husband passed away 5 years ago, and was an organ donor. I've received letters from those who've benefited from his donations. Thank you for spreading the message of what a vital program Organ donation is.
You have my deepest sympathy

NNadir

(33,525 posts)
249. I am very sorry. I've been listed as an organ donor my entire adult life and were I to go...
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 09:20 AM
Nov 2016

...it would be an honor to save a life like your husband's life.

As no one had that honor, please accept my sincerest condolences.

OregonBlue

(7,754 posts)
265. I am so sorry to read this. He sounds absolutely wonderful. What a blessed women you are. You
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 11:12 AM
Nov 2016

got one of the best.

bluesbassman

(19,374 posts)
267. So sorry for your loss. Second your call for organ donation.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 11:24 AM
Nov 2016

One of my closest friends is waiting for a kidney at this time.

Peace to you Texasgal.

renate

(13,776 posts)
272. He sounds like an absolutely incredible person
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 01:01 PM
Nov 2016

So compassionate, kind, thoughtful, and loving.

I am so sorry for your loss, and for your community's loss. He will be missed very much.

niyad

(113,344 posts)
274. so very sorry for your loss, texasgal, and thank you for sharing a bit of this lovely man
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 01:32 PM
Nov 2016

with your du family. may all who love him find peace and comfort.

have been an organ donor for many years now. I tell people, as an environmentalist and conservationist--take everything that is reusable (including eyes, skin, etc) crisp the rest, and yse it as compost.

Ninga

(8,275 posts)
275. It's so hard to lose one of the good ones...he sure sounded like a great person.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 02:34 PM
Nov 2016

So sorry for your loss..sending you peaceful healing hugs from Ohio.

paparush

(7,964 posts)
277. Lost my wife of 23 years on October 10th.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 03:44 PM
Nov 2016

I'm very sorry for your loss. I only have a month of living with my own new reality, but I can tell you, it gets better.

Divine Discontent

(21,056 posts)
285. What a wonderful tribute to your beloved
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 06:09 PM
Nov 2016

My condolences, and I carry a donor card. Yes, everyone, do consider donating your body when it's your time.

nolabear

(41,986 posts)
286. I know this is small comfort but look how many people here care.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 06:22 PM
Nov 2016

Sending a hug and warmest thoughts for your man. He sounds like a fine one.

Boomerproud

(7,955 posts)
287. You must be very special yourself to have shared your life with such a loving soul.
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 07:57 PM
Nov 2016

He will be missed by all the people he touched, and that sound like it was in the hundreds. A life truly well-lived! A huge hug to you!

babylonsister

(171,070 posts)
291. Oh, I'm so very sorry
Mon Nov 7, 2016, 08:49 PM
Nov 2016

to read this, Texasgal. My deep condolences; he sounds like a really kind, loving man. I'm so glad you had him in your life.

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