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The real point of LaydeeBug's beautiful post (Original Post) malaise Dec 2016 OP
Thank you so much. We really are stronger together. nt LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #1
That was how it must be done - they will not get away with dissing malaise Dec 2016 #5
NO. It may take getting in their face about it. calimary Dec 2016 #56
I no longer try malaise Dec 2016 #58
The *reason* there are 'mega-dittoes' is because they DON'T. WANT. TO. THINK. LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #64
Yep. calimary Jan 2017 #65
I like how Deplorables has become part of common parlance. DemocratSinceBirth Dec 2016 #2
Yep - and every thinking person malaise Dec 2016 #12
They are emboldened now. We have to tap that down LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #14
Goes to show ... lpbk2713 Dec 2016 #3
You shouldn't fugging care malaise Dec 2016 #6
This was taught to me in private school. If you know better, you say something LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #17
Our Grandparents were so much tougher than we are malaise Dec 2016 #18
Yep. You shared. You don't judge until you've walked in their shoes, or right LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #20
One of my paternal granny's regular lines was malaise Dec 2016 #23
And the point I made to her that I want to make again is if you are a man and you do Eliot Rosewater Dec 2016 #4
Cowards die a thousand deaths malaise Dec 2016 #8
I am actually trying to make a point of how horrible they are, not an excuse not Eliot Rosewater Dec 2016 #32
LOL malaise Dec 2016 #35
"Oh yeah, Bob, I know Eliot Rosewater Dec 2016 #36
Seriously that requires a level of stupid malaise Dec 2016 #44
couldn't have said it better. nt TheFrenchRazor Dec 2016 #43
THANK YOU bravenak Dec 2016 #60
Women get beaten up all the time. nt DLevine Dec 2016 #26
I noticed your need to use fear of and/or violence as a deterrent to doing the right thing LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #39
No, I thought I was just making a point of how violent and terrible they are. Eliot Rosewater Dec 2016 #40
They aren't violent and terrible when you cut them down to size LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #42
No, you are not at all, and if you were taking a tone with me I would deserve it, trust me Eliot Rosewater Dec 2016 #45
They. keep. doing. it. and. pretending. it's. par. for. the. course. nt LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #47
How many Germans in the 30s awoke_in_2003 Dec 2016 #51
it arrived full force on 11/9/2016 niyad Dec 2016 #61
wearing my pin or not, NOBODY gets to be an asshole around me. as I agreed in another OP niyad Dec 2016 #7
The pin has no meaning without action malaise Dec 2016 #10
I think I have to go back to wearing spike heels as well. niyad Dec 2016 #13
Hehehehehehhe malaise Dec 2016 #15
they come in handy sometimes!! niyad Dec 2016 #16
amen!!! LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #41
I am surrounded doggie breath Dec 2016 #9
What is a CPL? malaise Dec 2016 #11
License to carry a concealed weapon oberliner Dec 2016 #22
Thanks malaise Dec 2016 #24
CPL doggie breath Dec 2016 #25
Same here in Sanilac County snpsmom Dec 2016 #37
Agreed Gothmog Dec 2016 #19
Screaming obscenities at people is not the way to go oberliner Dec 2016 #21
obscenties is a risk DonCoquixote Dec 2016 #27
I agree that standing up to this person was good oberliner Dec 2016 #29
The obscenity was that asshole she screamed at NastyRiffraff Dec 2016 #48
I agree. cwydro Dec 2016 #53
Agreed JPPaverage Dec 2016 #28
An earlier incarnation in DU? oberliner Dec 2016 #30
It means I had a different username JPPaverage Dec 2016 #33
Interesting oberliner Dec 2016 #38
No no. JPPaverage Dec 2016 #46
I keep seeing these posts from folks who say they couldn't come back as themselves after the hack. cwydro Dec 2016 #54
hi bluzmann57, good to see you again, whatever incarnation!! niyad Dec 2016 #62
LOL malaise Dec 2016 #31
Thanks. JPPaverage Dec 2016 #34
65,844,610 for HRC + 7, 800,000 for 3rd parties v. 62, 900,000 for d.ump Marthe48 Dec 2016 #49
Recommendation #50 H2O Man Dec 2016 #50
I hope there's another store nearby TexasMommaWithAHat Dec 2016 #52
Plus they can no longer say the have the 'Moral Values' high ground...not with trump and his... Tikki Dec 2016 #55
+1,000 malaise Dec 2016 #57
We must stand for the next 4 years heaven05 Dec 2016 #59
Yes Solly Mack Dec 2016 #63

calimary

(81,313 posts)
56. NO. It may take getting in their face about it.
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 09:27 PM
Dec 2016

Because nobody does, on Pox Noise. Nobody does on hate radio. Only "mega-dittos" allowed. There are no consequences for their lousy attitudes and shitty priorities and staggering mean-spiritedness, arrogance, cruelty! They SNEER at empathy. Remember when dick cheney did? LAUGHED and SCOFFED and SNEERED at the idea of empathy. Like it signified something against one's manhood or some such shit. HORRIBLE, HORRIBLE, HORRIBLE excuses for human beings, they are.

I try to understand. I try to understand these people. I try every day. And it's damn hard. Damn near impossible, really.

malaise

(269,054 posts)
58. I no longer try
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 09:35 PM
Dec 2016

Some people are just scumbags - heartless & greedy- they would steal from their own

 

LaydeeBug

(10,291 posts)
64. The *reason* there are 'mega-dittoes' is because they DON'T. WANT. TO. THINK.
Fri Jan 6, 2017, 09:55 PM
Jan 2017

They want to be TOLD what to think

calimary

(81,313 posts)
65. Yep.
Sat Jan 7, 2017, 01:30 AM
Jan 2017

I actually heard rush limbaugh state, flat-out, on the air: "you don't even have to think! I'LL do the thinking FOR you!"

I sat there, in the car, mouth agape. We all joke about statements like that. But he actually said it - said THAT. Word for word.

lpbk2713

(42,759 posts)
3. Goes to show ...
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 06:46 PM
Dec 2016



You never know when you will get support from others around you.

I'm so proud of her for taking the chance.

malaise

(269,054 posts)
6. You shouldn't fugging care
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 06:51 PM
Dec 2016

whether you are getting support - not when they think it's cool to belittle people in public.
Caring for others is a conviction - we have to stop standing by politely. Take them fugging on!

 

LaydeeBug

(10,291 posts)
17. This was taught to me in private school. If you know better, you say something
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 07:03 PM
Dec 2016

GOD expects you to stand for the meek.

And we can debate whether or not she is actually 'meek' and those implications, or we can just start standing the fuck up, like our GRANDPARENTS would want us to.

 

LaydeeBug

(10,291 posts)
20. Yep. You shared. You don't judge until you've walked in their shoes, or right
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 07:08 PM
Dec 2016

beside them barefoot.

malaise

(269,054 posts)
23. One of my paternal granny's regular lines was
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 07:10 PM
Dec 2016

'there but for the grace of god go I'.
(she did believe that)

Eliot Rosewater

(31,112 posts)
4. And the point I made to her that I want to make again is if you are a man and you do
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 06:49 PM
Dec 2016

this expect to be beaten or if they are smaller than you, threatened.

Soon they will discard the old idea that women are off limits for beatings (in public anyway), but until then men need to be especially careful.

I walked into the pizza store last night, wearing my very nice sweatshirt from Nordstrom, a gift at Xmas, with the RAINBOW RIBBON I had embroidered onto it the very next day, and received threatening looks from a group of the neanderthals.

It is important to remember these people actually do hate you if you fit into any of the categories that we all know too well.



malaise

(269,054 posts)
8. Cowards die a thousand deaths
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 06:55 PM
Dec 2016

I don't give a shit who hates me - never did. They can only kill me once - death can't be worse than having them in charge. When they attempt to belittle, diss or use racist language we cannot remain silent - good grief are people that afraid of these morons

Eliot Rosewater

(31,112 posts)
32. I am actually trying to make a point of how horrible they are, not an excuse not
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 07:39 PM
Dec 2016

to act or react.

Personally I have a little trick I do, I have LG earbud headset and I am usually listening to my music or a political show but when I know I will be around the neanderthals I pretend I am in a conversation that goes something like this, and I am loud about it too:

"Yeah, I know, Trump is gonna take all of our benefits, and all because a bunch of white people wanted to show how much they hate the black president"

I pretend I am talking to someone of course. I fully expect serious repercussions any day now, but like you I dont fucking care.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,112 posts)
36. "Oh yeah, Bob, I know
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 07:48 PM
Dec 2016

I mean how fucking god damn STUPID do you have to be to believe a word coming out of dipshit trump's mouth?"


I do that one often.

 

LaydeeBug

(10,291 posts)
39. I noticed your need to use fear of and/or violence as a deterrent to doing the right thing
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 07:50 PM
Dec 2016

I said it that thread, and I will say it here...better to die on your feet than to live on your knees.

Stand up!

I'm 5'2". I could probably play a hobbit, lol. But we are the same size once we're on the ground, and I can concealed carry too.

A bully will bully you until you fight back.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,112 posts)
40. No, I thought I was just making a point of how violent and terrible they are.
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 07:52 PM
Dec 2016

And was loudly applauding what you did.

Then I explained that in actual real life I do something very similar to what you do, I just mentioned it here.

Sorry if I gave you any other impression, sincerely.

 

LaydeeBug

(10,291 posts)
42. They aren't violent and terrible when you cut them down to size
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 07:55 PM
Dec 2016

and I don't want you to think I am taking a TONE with you, because this is a message board and lots gets lost in it

LOL.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,112 posts)
45. No, you are not at all, and if you were taking a tone with me I would deserve it, trust me
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 08:09 PM
Dec 2016


I am a real pain in the ass, actually.



I am so angry that the FBI and Russians hacked our elections, and in that I include voting machines hacked by the Russians or someone.

This election was more than stolen like the two W elections were stolen. This one was compromised by our enemy who is now best friends with "certain" Americans because he is a white man.

What he is in reality is a murderous dictator and I believe Donald Trump wants to be one also.

More people did not vote for Donald Trump in those 3 rust belt states, no chance. Bullshit. All this shit about what did we learn, we learned that we won the election and once again the republicans stole an election. Not like there isnt precedence for this.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
51. How many Germans in the 30s
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 08:41 PM
Dec 2016

refused to say anything because they were afraid of what might happen? Don't tell me fascism won't come here, it has been creeping closer and closer for over 30 years.

niyad

(113,336 posts)
7. wearing my pin or not, NOBODY gets to be an asshole around me. as I agreed in another OP
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 06:52 PM
Dec 2016

several days ago, I have no fucks left to give, and will take on anybody who tries to belittle, demean, hurt or humiliate anyone else in my presence.

malaise

(269,054 posts)
10. The pin has no meaning without action
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 06:56 PM
Dec 2016

They must be afraid to belittle, demean, hurt or humiliate people.

doggie breath

(30 posts)
9. I am surrounded
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 06:55 PM
Dec 2016

by red voting racists (look up Livingston County, Michigan) but I also have a CPL and know how to use it if I have to.

doggie breath

(30 posts)
25. CPL
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 07:12 PM
Dec 2016

Concealed Pistol License.

Around where I live, every Bubba and his brother has a gun in the car, trunk or bed of their truck.
During hunting season it sounds like Mosul on a busy day. I'm afraid to even let my dogs out since most of these morons will shoot at anything that moves.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
27. obscenties is a risk
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 07:15 PM
Dec 2016

but have you considered that the very reason they feel they can kick us around is because we try to be polite, and American has taught people that being polite means we FEAR them?

NastyRiffraff

(12,448 posts)
48. The obscenity was that asshole she screamed at
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 08:24 PM
Dec 2016

Personally, I'm tired of trying to be polite when someone is acting like a bigoted jerk (BJ). If the BJ doesn't like my language, he (and it's often a he) can shut up, go away, or apologize.

Democrats as a group are too fucking polite. I don't CARE if a BJ is offended by curses.

Kudos to LaydeeBug!

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
53. I agree.
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 08:54 PM
Dec 2016

And if I were the person being "defended", I would have felt humiliated.

But I think we know what the story was about, don't we?

JPPaverage

(508 posts)
28. Agreed
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 07:24 PM
Dec 2016

As I told her in my reply to her post, and as I posted in an earlier incarnation here in DU, I once told a trumpite I'd rip his head off his shoulders and shove it up his ass. He said stuff about my kid. Nobody does that. I may have reacted wrongly, but I don't care. LaydeeBug reacted in a great way and I admire her for it. Fuck these trumpites. We must stand up to them and if it takes cursing and/or threats, then so be it. Btw, I am a large man, so people sometimes take me seriously when I "discuss" things with them. Especially when they are all show and no go.

JPPaverage

(508 posts)
33. It means I had a different username
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 07:41 PM
Dec 2016

I was known as Bluzmann57 but after the attack on election day, I was unable to recover my password. I contacted the administrators several times to no avail and finally just said, "Screw it, I'll just change my username." If I can ever remember my password, I will go back to my former username. But either way, I'm still the same guy.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
54. I keep seeing these posts from folks who say they couldn't come back as themselves after the hack.
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 08:56 PM
Dec 2016

I had no problem.

Neither did 99.9% of posters as far as I know. I see the same names with the same post counts.

Marthe48

(16,975 posts)
49. 65,844,610 for HRC + 7, 800,000 for 3rd parties v. 62, 900,000 for d.ump
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 08:29 PM
Dec 2016

The majority is not deplorable. But the majority needs to speak up. I blasted somebody at the post office last year for Fauxspeak, and wasn't banned from the building


Tikki

(14,557 posts)
55. Plus they can no longer say the have the 'Moral Values' high ground...not with trump and his...
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 09:09 PM
Dec 2016

talk about physically hurting any woman he wants and bullying the disabled.

If they try to turn the subject to what might or might not have happened with Democratic men...
turn the subject right back on them...with trump, gingrich, guiliana, etc, it should be easy...

You might, also, remind them if cuts in Social Security and Medicare happen it is their
responsibility to make up any difference their parents need...out of their own pocket.

If cuts in the VA happen they are being UNAMERICAN.

Make them verbally explain themselves in some kind of detail, to those gathered in ear shot, as to why they say what they said.

Tikki

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
59. We must stand for the next 4 years
Thu Dec 29, 2016, 09:42 PM
Dec 2016

never give in. I am chomping at the bit for something like this to happen on my watch.

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