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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI accompanied my disabled son to his Night To Shine prom (Tim Tebow Foundation)
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on Friday along with tens of thousands of other disabled students, young adults, and parents and guardians across the US and even internationally. The proms are coordinated by various churches through the Tim Tebow Foundation. I know many here don't like him, or his quarterbacking, sports commenting, or how he expresses his religious beliefs publicly. That's fine, because people being overtly religious in front of strangers outside of church bugs me too. But I liked him as a sports commentator. From his foundation, it is apparent to me that TT loves kids, and has a very kind heart and soft spot for the disabled. I see sincerity.
A prom for these kids may not seem like a big deal, but it is. It requires volunteers in numbers 2-3 times the number of special needs people. Communities chip in money, food, limo services (from parking lot to red carpet), photographers, music, formal wear, monitors, and buddies. It's important that neurotypical peers participate to maintain that bridge of social connectivity, understanding, and acceptance as they grow older. They are together in public schools already, which helps significantly, not just for the disabled child, but for their peers to learn about disability. These are the kids that won't buy into trump's nazi propaganda about the disabled being disposable. The focus of the proms is valuing these people as equals and worthy. As a parent, it's wonderful to see them having a normal rite of passage experience.
Anyway, I considered writing "I bought myself a Cabinet position" Sec. DeVos to invite her to attend a prom near her next year. I hope she'll see the benefits in all of these children growing up together in public schools, since she never had to face disabled children in her or her kids' private schools. I'm hoping that if she's as big a Christian as she proports herself to be, maybe the experience will grow her shriveled republican heart.
Did anyone else do Night To Shine?
I forgot to mention this: I'm in a red area, but I never met so many anti-DeVos people.
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)(Or anyone elses) and, as an FSU fan, I didn't like him as a college quarterback.
But I'll happily cheer him on for helping make disabled kids lives better. Nice work Mr. Tebow.
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)Other stuff that doesn't really matter. Doing right by disabled people matters, as it reflects who we are as a nation.
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)ProfessorGAC
(65,058 posts)Tebow is still a terrible person. Both can be true
Oh yeah, in football he can't play dead and his baseball thing is an abomination
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)I think he does fine as an SEC analyst, even though his playing stank.
malaise
(269,026 posts)I am an atheist but I acknowledge good where I see. People just want to be treated as equals.
Pssssssssssst! I still don't like TT
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)malaise
(269,026 posts)Lucinda
(31,170 posts)Ilsa
(61,695 posts)Lucinda
(31,170 posts)better. You'd think that would have been a vote killer for Trumpy, but he gets a pass, and DeVos seems to be a "low level Cruella" to them, for now, anyway.
tavernier
(12,392 posts)Thanks for sharing!
We all have friends who we relate with more easily because of shared problems, sorrows or even joys (I struggle with weight as a problem, and belong to a group of theater enthusiasts as a joy). Human nature to buddy up with someone who can understand.
I bet the smiles and laughter were worth all the hard work. (Can you share a pic or two, or prob not without permission?)
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)Tomorrow, but the foundation's website and Night to Shine on Facebook and Instagram have tons of pix uploaded by participants. All of the proms are very similar ... limo, red carpet, papparazi entrance, photographs, corsages and boutonnieres, DJ, dancing, etc. Please keep in mind that these are church-based programs, so religion is part of this.
Here's a youtube from the organization showing some of the activities from a previous year:
As much as I enjoyed it, I felt good knowing there were so many volunteers that are not a part of the disabled community choose to be a part of it.
tavernier
(12,392 posts)Ilsa
(61,695 posts)panader0
(25,816 posts)I'm glad that he was able to go to the prom. It doesn't matter about Tebow
or where the money came from. What matters is that your son and many
others got to party!