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MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 10:47 AM Feb 2017

Thanks to Conservative Cave - Sort of...

This is sort of a cautionary tale. Someone told me that the site named above had posted one of my threads from DU, so I went over to take a look. Imagine my surprise when I saw this photo of my father and the other current and retired Fire Department Chiefs from my home town in the thread. I was at the event where the photo was taken, which celebrated that department's 100 year anniversary. My father is at the center, and is the oldest man in the photo. I hadn't seen this photo, so I've saved it to my hard drive:


Here's the cautionary part: Someone has taken the time to track down my home town and find a photo of my father for posting on that website. I don't try to be anonymous on the Internet, since that's sort of an exercise in futility. But, it's interesting that anyone has so much interest in a DUer that they'd hunt for stuff related to me to that extent and post it. I don't care. It's a good photo and I'm very proud of my father, who is 92 years old now. However, others may not be as open as I am about their identities. That a website exists that dislikes DU so much that someone there would go to this extent in an attempt to mock a DUer is somewhat alarming.

But

Thanks for finding that excellent photo, you cavers!

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Thanks to Conservative Cave - Sort of... (Original Post) MineralMan Feb 2017 OP
So easy.... concreteblue Feb 2017 #1
Yes, easy. MineralMan Feb 2017 #2
they love me, too. mopinko Feb 2017 #3
I know the Cavers are reading this. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2017 #4
Come on now. Tommy_Carcetti Feb 2017 #8
FIXED DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2017 #16
One is the quarterback for the NE Patriots. LOL pangaia Feb 2017 #20
He is? edbermac Feb 2017 #42
One of their few female members actually performed a bj on an ex-boyfriend of mine to get msanthrope Feb 2017 #5
Ew. Iggo Feb 2017 #6
Yeah......and ex-boyfriend called me pretty much right after....crying, upset. msanthrope Feb 2017 #7
That is horrible. Demsrule86 Feb 2017 #11
It was very difficult on his parents. He was very vulnerable, trying to recover from addiction, msanthrope Feb 2017 #12
What an awful person...how could anyone do this...these people are truly evil... Demsrule86 Feb 2017 #13
Well.....they think they are the wronged, victimized party. msanthrope Feb 2017 #14
I don't get that...I am of the I hate what you say but will die defending your right to say it Demsrule86 Feb 2017 #15
I suspect its because to them liberals represent change and they dont want that cstanleytech Feb 2017 #27
I don't understand it either. calimary Feb 2017 #29
My God BainsBane Feb 2017 #26
omg....there are no words..... BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2017 #44
This message was self-deleted by its author rug Feb 2017 #10
Holy crap. Who and why? What the hell did Ilsa Feb 2017 #23
I met this person on a family support board. I was having a difficult time with my mother-in-law msanthrope Feb 2017 #38
I'm not certain I understand how someone follows. Ilsa Feb 2017 #45
Used very similar usernames. Now I simply don't care if people know who I am. nt msanthrope Feb 2017 #47
How awful!! LeftInTX Feb 2017 #46
Well, I'm sure O'Keefe has blown many a Republican, like her. nt msanthrope Feb 2017 #48
Good grief Cary Oct 2017 #50
It is stalking is what it is...and with the second amendment crowd that is alarming. Demsrule86 Feb 2017 #9
that's pretty creepy luvMIdog Feb 2017 #17
Well, how nice to get a new photo of your dad anyway. Hortensis Feb 2017 #18
I'm confused ? packman Feb 2017 #19
I think it's suppose to "scare" him Ligyron Feb 2017 #24
Well, I guess it's their way of saying they know who I am, MineralMan Feb 2017 #28
I am only mentioned 5 times on their site, I am so hurt by this that I might take to twitter like cstanleytech Feb 2017 #21
I'm got off Facebook but I get emails saying someone tagged me kimbutgar Feb 2017 #22
Looks like they're doing some stalking between fucking goats MrScorpio Feb 2017 #25
I am so proud to be the DUer who exposed their goat-fucking. nt msanthrope Feb 2017 #37
great photo! samnsara Feb 2017 #30
My dad was 90 when that photo was taken. MineralMan Feb 2017 #32
That's great to see a good thing come out of that horrible place bravenak Feb 2017 #31
Yes. I was glad to see that photo of a group of dedicated people. MineralMan Feb 2017 #35
Thanks for sharing MM OldHippieChick Feb 2017 #33
Why do they even care? Else You Are Mad Feb 2017 #34
I have no idea. MineralMan Feb 2017 #36
Why Do They Even Take Time Out of Their Lives to Do It? Leith Feb 2017 #41
You are super famous over there. Turbineguy Feb 2017 #39
Well, it's heartening to know that I'm famous somewhere. MineralMan Feb 2017 #40
Who took that photo? They might have a copyright case against CC csziggy Feb 2017 #43
How long has this harassment/stalking been going on? bathroommonkey76 Feb 2017 #49

mopinko

(70,135 posts)
3. they love me, too.
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 11:19 AM
Feb 2017

they had quite a bit of fun w my travails w the city. they also loved a thread here where i got a lot of heat for my dealings w a bad tenant.

pretty sure one of the local trolls is a member.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
4. I know the Cavers are reading this.
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 11:20 AM
Feb 2017

I doubt the Cavers are firemen and women or military men and women or policemen and women, et cetera. They are pusillanimous like their putative savior, Donald Drumpf.

DemocratSinceBirth

(99,710 posts)
16. FIXED
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 11:48 AM
Feb 2017

I have upon high authority that one of them is the assistant football coach for Pennsylvania State University who retired after the 1999 season.

edbermac

(15,941 posts)
42. He is?
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 01:16 PM
Feb 2017

Buried in her Instagram comments, a fan asked Bundchen if she and Brady were backing the Republican nominee.

She wrote back on Saturday and simply said, “No!”

http://www.nydailynews.com/sports/football/trump-claims-patriots-quarterback-tom-brady-voted-article-1.2863390

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
5. One of their few female members actually performed a bj on an ex-boyfriend of mine to get
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 11:24 AM
Feb 2017

info about me.

Stalker girl actually left her VA suburban home to drive to Baltimore to hang out with my ex-boyfriend in her quest to get information about me.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
7. Yeah......and ex-boyfriend called me pretty much right after....crying, upset.
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 11:29 AM
Feb 2017

He committed suicide within months.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
12. It was very difficult on his parents. He was very vulnerable, trying to recover from addiction,
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 11:38 AM
Feb 2017

living in their basement. His mother never was the same.

The saddest thing is that this person, this Caver, has children of her own.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
14. Well.....they think they are the wronged, victimized party.
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 11:42 AM
Feb 2017

They truly think we've "done" something to them.

Demsrule86

(68,595 posts)
15. I don't get that...I am of the I hate what you say but will die defending your right to say it
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 11:46 AM
Feb 2017

school...I have never understood how some fear liberals.

cstanleytech

(26,299 posts)
27. I suspect its because to them liberals represent change and they dont want that
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 12:32 PM
Feb 2017

as change can lead to the unknown and what is unknown can hurt you thus they lash out with anger and ridicule because deep down they are afraid.

calimary

(81,323 posts)
29. I don't understand it either.
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 12:33 PM
Feb 2017

Dear msanthrope, I'm so sorry that happened to you.

It's just disgraceful. How people would go to that length to try to hurt somebody.

It's UN-American.

Response to msanthrope (Reply #5)

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
23. Holy crap. Who and why? What the hell did
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 12:30 PM
Feb 2017

She think she would get out of this? What did she do to your ex? Doesn't she realize how vulnerable she is?

Sometimes I wish we could shove all of them onto an island and let them go after each other. Like rats who turn on each other.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
38. I met this person on a family support board. I was having a difficult time with my mother-in-law
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 01:00 PM
Feb 2017

She got offended about my political stance on the Bush administration. Followed me to a Sci-fi board, then here. Then she found the cave.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
45. I'm not certain I understand how someone follows.
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 02:39 PM
Feb 2017

I'm not as internet savvy as some. Did she track your IP address, or is there some other way?

Cary

(11,746 posts)
50. Good grief
Sat Oct 21, 2017, 09:14 AM
Oct 2017

We have real enemies, and they are evil. It makes no sense. I'm sorry to hear that you had to experience this.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
18. Well, how nice to get a new photo of your dad anyway.
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 11:55 AM
Feb 2017

But, hey, maybe someone over there's fallen in love with you and it's a nice obsession. I could see that.

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
19. I'm confused ?
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 12:02 PM
Feb 2017

It's a great picture of men who have made a contribution to their community. It exudes wholesomeness, dignity and has that "band of brothers" aura.

Why would anyone think that this would be insulting or mocking you?



MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
28. Well, I guess it's their way of saying they know who I am,
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 12:33 PM
Feb 2017

and all sorts of things about me. I suppose they think that is sort of intimidating or something. I don't know. I'm glad to have that photo, though. I have a couple of others I took at that celebration, but not a nice overall view of all those Fire Chiefs and former Chiefs. I know all of the men in that photo. Some I went to school with. Others are friends. Every one of them is a civic-minded person who has volunteered time to help protect people who live in that small town.

I couldn't be more prouder of all of them.

cstanleytech

(26,299 posts)
21. I am only mentioned 5 times on their site, I am so hurt by this that I might take to twitter like
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 12:29 PM
Feb 2017

Trump does and do a childish tantrum and blame the "fake" news.

kimbutgar

(21,164 posts)
22. I'm got off Facebook but I get emails saying someone tagged me
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 12:30 PM
Feb 2017

It was from someone I didn't know. I never went on to Facebook again though and made my profile private for my friends only. But I felt like it was a stalker also.

MrScorpio

(73,631 posts)
25. Looks like they're doing some stalking between fucking goats
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 12:31 PM
Feb 2017

And we all know that cavers really love fucking goats.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
32. My dad was 90 when that photo was taken.
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 12:37 PM
Feb 2017

He's 92, now, as is my mother, and they still live on their citrus farm. I'll be visiting them soon. I know all of the men in that photo, and each one of them is an outstanding person who has volunteered to help keep people in that town safe.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
35. Yes. I was glad to see that photo of a group of dedicated people.
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 12:39 PM
Feb 2017

It seems odd to me that someone would choose such an image to attempt to mock me. I couldn't be prouder of my father and all of those other people, each of whom I know.

OldHippieChick

(2,434 posts)
33. Thanks for sharing MM
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 12:38 PM
Feb 2017

It's a great photo of your dad so am happy about that. Too bad the Cavemen have so little going on in their lives they have to try to troll DU. Sad ...

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
36. I have no idea.
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 12:41 PM
Feb 2017

But, the photo is great. I hadn't seen that particular one before. I was there that evening, and have a few photos I took at that centennial celebration of one of the oldest volunteer FDs in California. Great bunch of guys!

Leith

(7,809 posts)
41. Why Do They Even Take Time Out of Their Lives to Do It?
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 01:08 PM
Feb 2017

I've heard of that site, but never bothered to visit it. Now that I've seen it, it isn't worth the trouble of going back.

Can anyone explain the compunction of spending so much time hating on people like they do?

Turbineguy

(37,346 posts)
39. You are super famous over there.
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 01:04 PM
Feb 2017

In fact there are a bunch of DU'ers who are constantly on their minds. But then again, they have an obsession about DU.

They should take up something (of a sexual nature?) to sublimate this unhealthy practice.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
43. Who took that photo? They might have a copyright case against CC
Sun Feb 26, 2017, 01:20 PM
Feb 2017

Or the member who posted it.

I think it would be worth it to try to stir that up!

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