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Kaye_NY

(71 posts)
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:04 PM Apr 2017

Democrats must support a women's right to choose. Period.

If you personally are pro life, and if you personally would not opt to have an abortion, that's fine.

But if you try to impose your personal view on abortion on any other woman other than yourself, you are not a Democrat, or a Democratic ally.

Women's rights are human rights, and this is non negotiable.

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Democrats must support a women's right to choose. Period. (Original Post) Kaye_NY Apr 2017 OP
And we ALL need to call Liz Warren and Chuck Schumer and tell them to cut this shit out. Squinch Apr 2017 #1
They broke my heart too especially Sen. Warren who I admire so much. nt. Demsrule86 Apr 2017 #15
Are you content with a small tent party? NobodyHere Apr 2017 #2
Women's rights are human rights, Kaye_NY Apr 2017 #5
So you are content with being a small tent party NobodyHere Apr 2017 #6
Sorry, but this is not negotiable. Kaye_NY Apr 2017 #9
Post removed Post removed Apr 2017 #10
I agree. elleng Apr 2017 #11
What was it you agreed with? boston bean Apr 2017 #23
This message was self-deleted by its author elleng Apr 2017 #24
+1000 smirkymonkey Apr 2017 #39
I'm with you Kaye_NY MontanaMama Apr 2017 #53
We don't have the luxury of not supporting women's reproductive rights. 50 Shades Of Blue Apr 2017 #31
The civil, human and Constitutional rights of HALF OF AMERICA musette_sf Apr 2017 #45
Standard platforms in a political party are not purity tests LanternWaste Apr 2017 #59
Are YOU Warpy Apr 2017 #17
Yes, this "acceptance" is REALLY short sighted as well as being cruel to the party's most Squinch Apr 2017 #21
Yes. MontanaMama Apr 2017 #54
Are you content with a party that does not stand up for the right to people to own their own bodies? Squinch Apr 2017 #18
exactly my opinion northoftheborder Apr 2017 #3
However, CHOICE. elleng Apr 2017 #4
"Must support a women's right to choose". - Dick Durbin Kaye_NY Apr 2017 #8
I agree riversedge Apr 2017 #13
I don't think anyone here has any problem with someone who personally would not Squinch Apr 2017 #22
Right. elleng Apr 2017 #25
I don't understand your post. Choice is fine. An anti-abortion stance is not. Endorsing Squinch Apr 2017 #26
Top Democrats, Bernie Sanders Defend Anti-Abortion Members Of Their Party. elleng Apr 2017 #30
Did you mean to repost the same thing as you posted before? Squinch Apr 2017 #32
Yes elleng Apr 2017 #36
We are not the pro abortion party ... angstlessk Apr 2017 #7
k&r Starry Messenger Apr 2017 #12
You are kidding? Demsrule86 Apr 2017 #14
No joke. Starry Messenger Apr 2017 #16
Yep - 2 - personal attack??? - LOL eom asiliveandbreathe Apr 2017 #27
Was there an explanation as to why? Kaye_NY Apr 2017 #62
No, they are just generic categories. Starry Messenger Apr 2017 #65
they would have to be truly pro-life, including mopinko Apr 2017 #19
I'm tired of anti-abortion Republicans who are lapucelle Apr 2017 #35
yup. no more fake xtians who never read the new testament. mopinko Apr 2017 #40
It's easier to compromise on this issue when you are a man, older/married woman. When you are kerry-is-my-prez Apr 2017 #20
It's an issue that affects many women's lives. Kaye_NY Apr 2017 #49
Imagine if "these" type candidates werent FORCED on us in the first place! Eliot Rosewater Apr 2017 #28
I am there with you. boston bean Apr 2017 #33
Indeed nt DURHAM D Apr 2017 #37
K & R!!! 50 Shades Of Blue Apr 2017 #29
Who is it that is not doing so? FiveGoodMen Apr 2017 #34
Jawohl! whistler162 Apr 2017 #38
Agreed. democratisphere Apr 2017 #41
worst kind of voter tiredtoo Apr 2017 #42
The civil, human and Constitutional rights of HALF OF AMERICA musette_sf Apr 2017 #44
Duh! eom tiredtoo Apr 2017 #48
So then, could you please clarify your OP? musette_sf Apr 2017 #58
single issue here is abortion tiredtoo Apr 2017 #60
So your OP *was* referring to the sacred civil, human and Constitutional rights musette_sf Apr 2017 #66
Democrats Must support a woman's right to choose. tiredtoo Apr 2017 #67
Democrats must defend and protect the civil, human and Constitutional rights of ALL citizens, musette_sf Apr 2017 #68
Human rights are not a single issue. Kaye_NY Apr 2017 #50
Define human rights as posted in the OP tiredtoo Apr 2017 #61
Women's rights are human rights. Kaye_NY Apr 2017 #63
Welcome to DU! IronLionZion Apr 2017 #43
I am more terrified of zentrum Apr 2017 #46
And when a candidate says I have changed and won't vote for restrictions anymore? Omaha Steve Apr 2017 #47
As I often say, If you don't believe in abortion, PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2017 #51
Yes. It is a choice. Kaye_NY Apr 2017 #64
Absolutely NON NEGOTIABLE. AgadorSparticus Apr 2017 #52
I support a woman's right to choose. aikoaiko Apr 2017 #55
Hell yes bettyellen Apr 2017 #56
please stop saying "pro-life" Skittles Apr 2017 #57
Pro-forced-birth Squinch Apr 2017 #70
I agree 100% with this. herding cats Apr 2017 #69

Squinch

(51,076 posts)
1. And we ALL need to call Liz Warren and Chuck Schumer and tell them to cut this shit out.
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:07 PM
Apr 2017

They broke my heart with this nonsense.

 

Kaye_NY

(71 posts)
5. Women's rights are human rights,
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:13 PM
Apr 2017

No one is forcing anyone to have an abortion, but the minute you try to take away that right from other women, you are not a Democrat. It is not acceptable and it is not negotiable.

 

NobodyHere

(2,810 posts)
6. So you are content with being a small tent party
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:14 PM
Apr 2017

Sorry but we don't have the luxury of having purity tests right now.

Response to Kaye_NY (Reply #9)

Response to boston bean (Reply #23)

MontanaMama

(23,366 posts)
53. I'm with you Kaye_NY
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 12:49 AM
Apr 2017

I'm fearful of a party split over this. But, choice is MY line in the sand. Not negotiable. We will be sorry if we roll on this issue.

50 Shades Of Blue

(10,090 posts)
31. We don't have the luxury of not supporting women's reproductive rights.
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:55 PM
Apr 2017

They are fundamental and must be unequivocally supported and protected.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
59. Standard platforms in a political party are not purity tests
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 12:32 PM
Apr 2017

Standard platforms in a political party are not purity tests any more than medical school is a purity test for doctors.

Sorry, we don't have the luxury of throwing three people overboard to save one.

Warpy

(111,421 posts)
17. Are YOU
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:34 PM
Apr 2017

Sell out the most basic civil right of half the population and your tent gets really, really small.

Yes, it's that important. Imagine being told you've got to take months out of your life getting over an operation you don't want in order to donate a kidney to someone you don't know. That is the closest parallel I can find to reproductive slavery, not being in control of your own body.

Squinch

(51,076 posts)
21. Yes, this "acceptance" is REALLY short sighted as well as being cruel to the party's most
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:40 PM
Apr 2017

loyal members.

Your analogy is good, except the results don't last a lifetime like forced parenthood does.

It's more like serfdom: some guy on the estate owns your body. He decides how you live, where you live, what you do. Your labor belongs to him for your entire life.

MontanaMama

(23,366 posts)
54. Yes.
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 12:52 AM
Apr 2017

Yes and YES!!! There are enough of us to fill a yuuuuge tent. If we compromise on choice, women lose personally and economically forever. We won't get choice back.

Squinch

(51,076 posts)
18. Are you content with a party that does not stand up for the right to people to own their own bodies?
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:34 PM
Apr 2017

elleng

(131,311 posts)
4. However, CHOICE.
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:10 PM
Apr 2017

Top Democrats, Bernie Sanders Defend Anti-Abortion Members Of Their Party [View all]

From the article:

WASHINGTON ― Top Democratic leaders said Sunday that their party welcomes people who are pro-life, despite the party being strongly defined by its support for abortion rights.......

Senate Minority Whip Dick Durbin (D-Ill.) said it’s fine if an elected Democratic official personally opposes abortion, but from a policy standpoint, he or she must support a woman’s right to choose.........

Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.) went to Omaha last week to rally for Heath Mello, who is trying to unseat the city’s current GOP mayor. He said Sunday that he didn’t think the intraparty scuffle was that big of a deal.
“I have a 100 percent lifetime pro-choice voting record,” Sanders said on CBS’ “Face The Nation.”


So in the name of growing the Party, some Democrats are willing to accept that not every Democrat personally agrees with every position, but every Democrat should be willing to promote official Democratic platform policy.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/democrats-pro-life_us_58fcd709e4b06b9cb917a7ee

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=8987748

Squinch

(51,076 posts)
22. I don't think anyone here has any problem with someone who personally would not
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:42 PM
Apr 2017

have an abortion but who supports others' rights to choose. Endorsing those who do not support others' rights to choose is where the problem lies.

Squinch

(51,076 posts)
26. I don't understand your post. Choice is fine. An anti-abortion stance is not. Endorsing
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:50 PM
Apr 2017

someone with an anti-abortion stance is not.

elleng

(131,311 posts)
30. Top Democrats, Bernie Sanders Defend Anti-Abortion Members Of Their Party.
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:53 PM
Apr 2017

From the article:

WASHINGTON ― Top Democratic leaders said Sunday that their party welcomes people who are pro-life, despite the party being strongly defined by its support for abortion rights.......

Senate Minority Whip Dick Durbin (D-Ill.) said it’s fine if an elected Democratic official personally opposes abortion, but from a policy standpoint, he or she must support a woman’s right to choose.........

Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.) went to Omaha last week to rally for Heath Mello, who is trying to unseat the city’s current GOP mayor. He said Sunday that he didn’t think the intraparty scuffle was that big of a deal.
“I have a 100 percent lifetime pro-choice voting record,” Sanders said on CBS’ “Face The Nation.”


So in the name of growing the Party, some Democrats are willing to accept that not every Democrat personally agrees with every position, but every Democrat should be willing to promote official Democratic platform policy.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/democrats-pro-life_us_58fcd709e4b06b9cb917a7ee

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=8987748

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
16. No joke.
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:29 PM
Apr 2017

I voted against this being an attack. I'd be fascinated to know what the motivation was behind the alert as a personal attack. Or maybe not...

mopinko

(70,311 posts)
19. they would have to be truly pro-life, including
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:37 PM
Apr 2017

being wholly and fully pro-life. anti-war, anti-death penalty, pro care for the poor and the sick.
you dont get to call yourself xtian if you cant recite the beatitudes.
like the late cardinal bernadin preached- a seamless garment of life.

we need to take back the idea of just who is the party of small govt. small govt does not police people's bodies and homes and families.

lapucelle

(18,378 posts)
35. I'm tired of anti-abortion Republicans who are
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:58 PM
Apr 2017

pro-death penalty and think they are still entitled to frame their position as "pro-life", like the disgraceful Asa Hutchinson of Arkansas who had no problem scheduling and arranging the deaths of several men in quick succession so he could game the "use by" expiration date on the poisons he intends to have injected into their veins.

I am also tired of anti-abortion politicians who feign compassion by patting themselves on the back with rape and incest exceptions. It is a dead giveaway that the determining factor for them is not whether "all life is sacred" or whether "life begins at conception"; the crucial factor is whether or not the woman chose to have sex.

I'd like to see Democrats take the moral high ground away from the dissembling Republicans who pretend stand on it. Call them out on their inconsistencies, and make them own what they really mean.

mopinko

(70,311 posts)
40. yup. no more fake xtians who never read the new testament.
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 08:26 PM
Apr 2017

would rather that religion be banished from the govt root and branch. but the least we can do is strip the cloak from these hypocrites.

kerry-is-my-prez

(8,133 posts)
20. It's easier to compromise on this issue when you are a man, older/married woman. When you are
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 07:40 PM
Apr 2017

a young woman/girl and have a life that could be wrecked by an unwanted pregnancy it is a big, big, big deal. I knew plenty of women in college who had to have abortions. It was tough to do. I don't know anyone who took it flippantly. It was very accessible back then. Now I don't have the urgency and fear about this issue anymore but fair is fair. I had people who fought for this issue for me when I needed it and I cannot forget the women who are there now. I was in Jr. High School when the fight began. I didn't get it at first but it sure became important when I was 16-40. It had the potential to change my life. Back then it was not as much the political weapon/tool that it has turned into. The Republicans manipulated Evangelicals and many Catholics into fighting against it in large numbers. The Catholic Church was the main opposition to it in the beginning if I remember correctly. Now it's a whole different ballgame.

It's a big "eff you" and insult for ALL women for people to tell us that they have the right to "own" and control us.

 

Kaye_NY

(71 posts)
49. It's an issue that affects many women's lives.
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 12:03 AM
Apr 2017

It's an issue that effects not only their quality of life, but their life in general.

It's a human rights issue and it's non negotiable.

musette_sf

(10,208 posts)
58. So then, could you please clarify your OP?
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 12:29 PM
Apr 2017

What was the context you intended on "single issue voters"? Which "issue" did you have in mind with regard to those "worst kinds of voters"?

tiredtoo

(2,949 posts)
60. single issue here is abortion
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 03:11 PM
Apr 2017

Personally, i am against abortion but would not take it upon myself to outlaw the practice. Abortion is a decision for the woman, her family, her doctor and her God.
Having said that i would not exclude a good Democratic candidate from getting my vote just because of their opinion on this issue.
We have Democratic officials are in favor or not against various issues just to avoid losing an election. Gun control comes to mind.

musette_sf

(10,208 posts)
66. So your OP *was* referring to the sacred civil, human and Constitutional rights
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 05:11 PM
Apr 2017

of innocent female US citizens, i.e., HALF OF AMERICA, as a "single issue".

Looks like I need to say it AGAIN - the sacred civil, human and Constitutional rights of HALF OF AMERICA are NOT a "single issue", and women who vote to protect and defend those sacred rights are NOT "single issue voters".

If a Democratic candidate does not strongly and unambiguously support those sacred civil, human and Constitutional rights, s/he is NOT a "good Democratic candidate".

tiredtoo

(2,949 posts)
67. Democrats Must support a woman's right to choose.
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 05:26 PM
Apr 2017

Says nothing about a woman's right to vote, a woman's right to equal pay, a woman's right to drink alcohol, a woman's right to play football. Just a single issue "A woman's right to choose".

musette_sf

(10,208 posts)
68. Democrats must defend and protect the civil, human and Constitutional rights of ALL citizens,
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 06:03 PM
Apr 2017

PERIOD.

Any "Democrat" who violates this core precept is NOT a Democrat.

I demand that ALL Democrats defend and protect, for HALF OF AMERICA, the SAME 14th Amendment rights that each and every MALE citizen is endowed with at birth.

And anyone who thinks that the 14th Amendment rights of HALF OF AMERICA are a "single issue", is NOT a Democrat. The party platform is quite unambiguous about this.

 

Kaye_NY

(71 posts)
50. Human rights are not a single issue.
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 12:06 AM
Apr 2017

There is nothing more important than the sanctity of Human Rights.

tiredtoo

(2,949 posts)
61. Define human rights as posted in the OP
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 03:15 PM
Apr 2017

Do humans have a right to clean water?
Do humans have a right to vote?
Do humans have a right to healthcare?
Do humans have a right to free speech?
ad infinitum .

zentrum

(9,866 posts)
46. I am more terrified of
Thu Apr 27, 2017, 10:04 PM
Apr 2017

....Repug victories and the effect of Repug policies on women than I am of anything else. I believe women will be terribly more harmed under any Repug than in any other way.

We'll have more traction against a pro-life Democrat than we ever will against any Repug. And the Democrat's other policies will make it easier to access health care in general.

This is a terrible choice, but this Mello election will also be seen as a Trump test-victory. Very damaging. Will embolden Trump even more. I can see the tweets now.

I'd rather bring caravans of women into Omaha to protect access to Planned Parenthood than to let the Repugs have their way with women and children there. Women in Omaha will be really abandoned if the Repug wins. We can still prevail but it will be more doable with a Dem at the top.

A Repug at the top is also a much bigger threat to all immigrant women and their families.

I'm a pro-choice woman, like Warren, and letting Mello go down will help no woman.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,926 posts)
51. As I often say, If you don't believe in abortion,
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 12:14 AM
Apr 2017

then don't have one.

Otherwise, stick your nose into someone else's business.

I'm a woman, despite my screen name, although in my late 60s somewhat too old to have to worry about a personal abortion. Like any woman, I can envision circumstances in which I'd abort an unwanted/unplanned pregnancy, and others in which I would not. But those are MY choices, not anyone else's.

None of us is EVER in a position to judge someone else. Ever. Think of every possible circumstance (rape, incest, Down Syndrome, other genetic anomalies, and on and on.) and there are some who'd choose to have the baby, others who would choose not. Neither choice is morally superior to the other. I repeat: neither choice is morally superior. It is just a choice.

Oh, and what outrages me even more, is that those most opposed to choice are equally opposed to supporting unwanted/unplanned pregnancies, babies with various special needs, or even the simple support of a woman through her pregnancy. Hypocrisy, thy name is anti-choice.

 

Kaye_NY

(71 posts)
64. Yes. It is a choice.
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 04:42 PM
Apr 2017

A choice that only the woman herself should make. Neither choice is morally superior to the other. Thank you.

herding cats

(19,569 posts)
69. I agree 100% with this.
Fri Apr 28, 2017, 06:18 PM
Apr 2017

If a person is anti-choice then I'm not interested, and our party should not be either. If they're anti-abortion on a personal level, but support an individual's right to choose, that's a different matter.

I couldn't trust an anti-choice politician, in either party, to not work to reduce women's right to choose. That's not what being a Democrat is about.

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