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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region Forumsif after Phillando Castille shooting, you as a democrat say ALL LIVES MATTER
when you are asked about the black lives matter movement, i wont vote for you. And i am pretty sure I am not alone
The time to make this error is over.
And if women of color do not show up for your candidate, your candidate has no shot in hell.
Just wanted to make that crystal clear to people who imagine that they have the magic bullet to democrats winning.
raging moderate
(4,305 posts)I still can't believe that really happened. Clearly a kid. But yeah, Phillando Castille's shooting also exposed vicious racism.
La Lioness Priyanka
(53,866 posts)in my demand that my vote goes to people who value civil rights.
DashOneBravo
(2,679 posts)I couldn't believe those cops got away with it.
Mr. Castille was shot by Jeronimo Yanez. So I don't understand how race played in unless by the jury.
La Lioness Priyanka
(53,866 posts)reality.
non whites can also participate in the anti-blackness that exists in society
DashOneBravo
(2,679 posts)Aristus
(66,352 posts)There should be no doubt that if the victim had been white, the cop would be facing some very hard time right now.
Since the victim was black, the murderer got everything but a pat on the back and a "Nice shooting there, son." (and I'm not the one to say that didn't happen in a back room somewhere...)
JHan
(10,173 posts)even within communities of color - Shadism, Anti-black sentiment even in hispanic communities ( read accounts of black cubans even in Cuba )
Implicit bias against blacks has been so pernicious and pervasive, it exists within communities of color as well.
tblue37
(65,343 posts)much less than 2 seconds! That little boy was not given a warning and never had a chance to comply because he was shot right away and then left to bleed out while his sister was handcuffed and prevented from going to him.
Similarly, John Walker was shot on sight with no warning, and not even facing the cops.
In both cases the cops lied about how it happened, and clear video proved they lied. Yet they were not charged.
raging moderate
(4,305 posts)This is what I also saw. Just the way you said it.
betsuni
(25,519 posts)raging moderate
(4,305 posts)I can hardly take this in. Everybody knows what lunchroom workers are like. Day after day, making school warm and homey, always with cheerful little comments and cute little touches on holidays. And they say Mr. Castille was especially good at his job, with every kid's allergies always in mind and the lunch always so well-planned and a friendly word for everyone.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)becasue it's not real liberals saying that shit.
JHan
(10,173 posts)Docreed2003
(16,858 posts)At the end of the day it's still a dog turd...
hatrack
(59,585 posts)And, of course, responding so as to appease them.
unblock
(52,227 posts)bettyellen
(47,209 posts)Corporate stuff is not more important than our right to life and liberty. But they've got theirs.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)it's that uneducated white people--of whom there are more than 2X of black and Latino voters combined--also start buying into identity politics
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)Women and POC if here going to call themselves liberal. This shit is not on.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)currently, fairly or not, uneducated white people do not see the Democratic party as welcoming them, including people like them and their neighbors, and reflecting their values.
We need to win over more of them than we did in 2016, 2014, 2012, and 2010 if we're going to retake Congress.
Recommendations as to how we accomplish that?
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)I can't understand the mindset that allows people to put a price on my freedom, or expects me to negotiate over that. I need fellow Dems to explain how to politely explain that. Or have them explain it. But human rights are not on the table.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)But, at the end of the day there aren't enough voters with our values to win elections.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)We can't change RWers who have been poisoned against liberals, and that's what they are - too tribal. We can only get new voters who realize their voices matter.
We cannot accept their xenophobia. Not going to happen.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Those are the key, imo.
We got as many Rmoney voters as we could get in 2016.
Imo, our most likely source of votes is negative--to get Tr*mp voters discouraged, complacent or otherwise unmotivated to vote.
tblue37
(65,343 posts)is escalating. The Democratic establishment needs to take care of voter suppression and hackable voting machines.
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La Lioness Priyanka
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bettyellen
(47,209 posts)You aren't a party without us. You don't lead it, women and POC are the majority and you need to accept that we're not taking orders.
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smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)bettyellen
(47,209 posts)pirateshipdude
(967 posts)BumRushDaShow
(128,979 posts)not by getting more people to vote for them. See Bush v Gore & the 2004 general election in Ohio.
The party registration here in the state of PA is 51% Democrat and 49% GOP yet the state Congressional delegation is 13 GOP and 5 Democrat. How do you think that happened (hint: gerrymandering)?
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brush
(53,778 posts)NobodyHere
(2,810 posts)La Lioness Priyanka
(53,866 posts)Gravitycollapse
(8,155 posts)NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)Not in the eyes of the government.
hatrack
(59,585 posts)ck4829
(35,076 posts)This is the unsaid thing.
m-lekktor
(3,675 posts)leftstreet
(36,108 posts)La Lioness Priyanka
(53,866 posts)But the moment has passed to be indulge this any more
leftstreet
(36,108 posts)This is NO DIFFERENT than what domestic violence women's groups encountered as they fought for legislation, medical care, safe houses etc for victims
"Huh! Well men get hit, too!"
I've seen this trick so many times
WhiteTara
(29,713 posts)to the African American communities across the nation would be considered crimes against humanity if this were happening in a different country.
sheshe2
(83,758 posts)The Real Reason White People Say All Lives Matter
lets have an honest talk about why we say All Lives Matter. First of all, notice that no one was saying All Lives Matter before people started saying Black Lives Matter. So All Lives Matter is a response to Black Lives Matter. Apparently, something about the statement Black Lives Matter makes us uncomfortable. Why is that?
Now some white people might say that singling out Black peoples lives as mattering somehow means that white lives dont matter. Of course, thats silly. If you went to a Breast Cancer Awareness event, you wouldnt think that they were saying that other types of cancer dont matter. And youd be shocked if someone showed up with a sign saying Colon Cancer Matters or chanting All Cancer Patients Matter. So clearly, something else is prompting people to say All Lives Matter in response to Black Lives Matter.
Many of the people saying All Lives Matter also are fond of saying Blue Lives Matter. If you find that the statement Black Lives Matter bothers you, but not Blue Lives Matter, then the operative word is Black. That should tell us something. Theres something deeply discomfiting about the word Black. I think its because it reminds us of our whiteness and challenges our notion that race doesnt matter.
More Here: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/john-halstead/dear-fellow-white-people-_b_11109842.html
MLAA
(17,288 posts)Initech
(100,075 posts)karynnj
(59,503 posts)- maybe explaining that saying that is to acknowledge that for many there is real concern that for some black lives don't matter and for that reason it is important and necessary to say affirmatively black lives do matter in as strong and as clear a way possible. I wish it were then acceptable o say that to add that the phrase, black lives matter, should never be parsed to mean that lives of others do not matter.
In 2016, the problem was that candidates were forced to essentially apologizing for saying something that - in and of itself was NOT wrong. I assume that you would agree that all lives matter -- even as you say BLACK LIVES MATTER. In essence, the phrase means more to you than normal parsing of the words were. You are creating a shibboleth to separate those you accept from those you don't using what almost amounts to coded language.
La Lioness Priyanka
(53,866 posts)So I need people I vote got to say that they affirmatively value black lives and not bulslhit around with it
Much like I don't want my representative to say that straights need pride too
It's bigotry I won't tolerate. Neither will most of the Democratic base.
karynnj
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SaschaHM
(2,897 posts)I'm surprised that you are still voting for Dems after they made Barack Obama their nominee.
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tonedevil
(3,022 posts)you get your white robes and hoods laundered?
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tonedevil
(3,022 posts)of you displaying that, but I have seen you type a couple of quite racist screeds in this very thread.
JI7
(89,249 posts)that's some fucked up shit .
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JHan
(10,173 posts)dogs.
"Biting the people that help them" -
Since you're obviously unaware, the BLM movement is the first of its kind to successfully mount massive political mobilization against police brutality and mass incarceration since the War on Drugs began. For decades liberals of every stripe , including self professed " classic liberals" have been trying to place civil liberties front and centre of political discourse - from civil forfeiture abuse, to the militarization of police , drug decriminalization and addressing the spread of mandatory minimum sentencing . For years there have been calls for police reform and warnings of increased threats to civil liberties and for the first time in a long time there is an energetic movement driving this discourse aimed at ending systemic injustices
- but your hot take is that these activists are "dogs".
In today's climate, if you want to call yourself a Liberal, you should at the very least inform yourself of threats to liberty ... or maybe you really ought to be a Republican.
elleng
(130,903 posts)VOX
(22,976 posts)Of course all lives matter, that's an everyday given. But it's not the point here. If a BLM individual is told by John Doe that "All lives matter," then John Doe hasn't really been listening.
Anyone who's ever had relationship counseling to improve communication learns that they MUST listen to their aggrieved spouse/partner, even if the subject matter being discussed is difficult. You listen attentively, do not interrupt, you do not counter when the other person is having their say. But with each exchange, when appropriate, you must acknowledge that you have heard every word, and avoid shifting into an unnecessary and counterproductive defensive mode.
This same type of "I hear what you're saying, and you make several excellent points" genuine listening should apply to exchanges with the BLM folks as well.
marylandblue
(12,344 posts)I understand that that black people feel marginalized and are more likely to have negative or dangerous encounters with a cop. But don't they really mean Black Lives Matter TOO? Wouldn't rhat make the point much more obvious?
ConnorMarc
(653 posts)The message has been sent loud and clear to black people that their lives don't matter.
Hence a cop can come on the scene and gun down an 11 year old boy in less than 2 seconds of arriving and get off scott free, because society is OK with it.
The response is to say, #BlackLivesMatter
Why do so many white people have a problem with black people being outraged, especially since white people are free to express their outrage at will, mostly for non life-threatening matters.
VOX
(22,976 posts)And it's an issue that never gets addressed adequately, all the way from 1865 to the present day. Just band-aids applied here and there, but until a majority of Americans sincerely and truthfully deal with this staggering, unspeakable inequality, there will be tragedy heaped upon tragedy, endlessly, as we've seen.
ConnorMarc
(653 posts)We won't see an end to the senseless and wrong killings of unarmed blacks by the police unless and until we start seeing multiple/back-to-back videos of whites being killed similarly by the police.
Sad, but true.
0rganism
(23,953 posts)i'm not sure the "all lives matter" people understand this