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La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 06:40 PM Jun 2017

if after Phillando Castille shooting, you as a democrat say ALL LIVES MATTER

when you are asked about the black lives matter movement, i wont vote for you. And i am pretty sure I am not alone

The time to make this error is over.

And if women of color do not show up for your candidate, your candidate has no shot in hell.

Just wanted to make that crystal clear to people who imagine that they have the magic bullet to democrats winning.

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if after Phillando Castille shooting, you as a democrat say ALL LIVES MATTER (Original Post) La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2017 OP
Tamir Rice's murder should have been enough to do that. raging moderate Jun 2017 #1
sure, but i guess each shooting and each acquittal has made me more resolute La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2017 #3
Both shootings were outrageous. DashOneBravo Jun 2017 #34
black lives are devalued. just because a non-white person killed him doesn't invalidate that La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2017 #37
Thank you ma'am DashOneBravo Jun 2017 #46
I agree with Pri. Racism isn't about the murderer in this instance, it's about the victim. Aristus Jun 2017 #51
there are different ways racism manifests itself.. JHan Jun 2017 #52
With clear video that the cop jumped out and started shooting IMMEDIATELY--within tblue37 Jun 2017 #42
yes, thank you! I am NOT crazy, and neither are you! raging moderate Jun 2017 #45
K&R betsuni Jun 2017 #2
That cop shot a grade school lunchroom supervisor. raging moderate Jun 2017 #4
Agreed. we cannot buy this RW "identity" politics framing. Libertarians can fuck off with that. bettyellen Jun 2017 #5
buying into Republican narratives is what's hot in the streets. JHan Jun 2017 #6
Exactly... Docreed2003 Jun 2017 #28
And let's not forget letting the GOP define your brand as "toxic" . . . hatrack Jun 2017 #48
when i hear them whine about "identity" politics, i say, "my identity is american. what's yours?" unblock Jun 2017 #8
I'm an American who wants to control my own body. And live in a just society. Your feeling about bettyellen Jun 2017 #10
the problem isn't black/brown folks engaging in identity politics. geek tragedy Jun 2017 #13
Also educated white men. They need to learn to be part of a coalition and not put themselves above bettyellen Jun 2017 #14
coalitions require work on both ends geek tragedy Jun 2017 #15
Sorry but they have to do more than tolerate us- it's long overdue bettyellen Jun 2017 #22
you're not saying anything that's wrong geek tragedy Jun 2017 #36
I don't belive that. I think too many potential voters were complacent. bettyellen Jun 2017 #38
There were a significant number of Obama-Tr*mp voters. geek tragedy Jun 2017 #39
Way more of OUR voters were prevented from voting, and that voter suppression tblue37 Jun 2017 #44
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lol. yes, asking democrats to value black lives is def a step too far. La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2017 #9
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Justice for everyone ain't a purity test - it's a core value. You all gotta know bettyellen Jun 2017 #11
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Thank YOU! smirkymonkey Jun 2017 #47
Your welcome! bettyellen Jun 2017 #50
That would be the Democratic base. Eom pirateshipdude Jun 2017 #12
The GOP "wins" by cheating BumRushDaShow Jun 2017 #16
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2017 #33
Sure you're on the right site with that old divide and conquer gambit? brush Jun 2017 #20
All Lives Matter NobodyHere Jun 2017 #17
and ? La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2017 #18
No, they don't. Which is why Black Lives Matter is so important. Gravitycollapse Jun 2017 #21
Not in today's society. NCTraveler Jun 2017 #24
No, they don't, just in case you went out of your way to miss the entire point . . . hatrack Jun 2017 #49
... but some lives matter more and some matter less. ck4829 Jun 2017 #61
K & R nt m-lekktor Jun 2017 #19
No Democrat should have been saying it in the first place leftstreet Jun 2017 #23
I understand when it happens as a silly defense the first few times La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2017 #26
Absolutely leftstreet Jun 2017 #27
Nor will I accept them as someone I know. What is happening WhiteTara Jun 2017 #25
I posted this awhile back sheshe2 Jun 2017 #29
I'm with you! n/t MLAA Jun 2017 #31
I saw that video yesterday. How are people not rioting in the streets? Initech Jun 2017 #35
Is there any way that a candidate could retain your support with expanding from "Black lives matter" karynnj Jun 2017 #40
No im reflecting the reality that exists, which is white lives matter and black lives are devalued La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2017 #41
Thanks for answering my question nt karynnj Jun 2017 #43
This message was self-deleted by its author Jim Beard Jun 2017 #53
You compared BLM protestors to Dogs in another post. SaschaHM Jun 2017 #56
This message was self-deleted by its author Jim Beard Jun 2017 #57
Where do you... tonedevil Jun 2017 #62
This message was self-deleted by its author Jim Beard Jun 2017 #65
I've seen no sign... tonedevil Jun 2017 #67
i don't think you are helping at all based on what you just posted JI7 Jun 2017 #66
This message was self-deleted by its author Jim Beard Jun 2017 #70
It's unfortunate you see people expressing righteous anger as trouble makers .. worse yet... JHan Jun 2017 #68
There is no single 'magic bullet.' elleng Jun 2017 #54
Anyone who says "all lives matter" really isn't LISTENING. VOX Jun 2017 #55
Sometimes I think the speaker also bears responsibility marylandblue Jun 2017 #58
No "Too" Is Not Necessary ConnorMarc Jun 2017 #60
Well stated... VOX Jun 2017 #63
Roalnd Martin said that ConnorMarc Jun 2017 #64
+1 lunasun Jun 2017 #69
"all lives matter" implies "black lives matter" 0rganism Jun 2017 #59

raging moderate

(4,305 posts)
1. Tamir Rice's murder should have been enough to do that.
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 06:44 PM
Jun 2017

I still can't believe that really happened. Clearly a kid. But yeah, Phillando Castille's shooting also exposed vicious racism.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
3. sure, but i guess each shooting and each acquittal has made me more resolute
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 06:49 PM
Jun 2017

in my demand that my vote goes to people who value civil rights.

DashOneBravo

(2,679 posts)
34. Both shootings were outrageous.
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 09:50 PM
Jun 2017

I couldn't believe those cops got away with it.

Mr. Castille was shot by Jeronimo Yanez. So I don't understand how race played in unless by the jury.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
37. black lives are devalued. just because a non-white person killed him doesn't invalidate that
Fri Jun 23, 2017, 09:10 AM
Jun 2017

reality.

non whites can also participate in the anti-blackness that exists in society

Aristus

(66,352 posts)
51. I agree with Pri. Racism isn't about the murderer in this instance, it's about the victim.
Sun Jun 25, 2017, 07:21 PM
Jun 2017

There should be no doubt that if the victim had been white, the cop would be facing some very hard time right now.

Since the victim was black, the murderer got everything but a pat on the back and a "Nice shooting there, son." (and I'm not the one to say that didn't happen in a back room somewhere...)

JHan

(10,173 posts)
52. there are different ways racism manifests itself..
Sun Jun 25, 2017, 07:25 PM
Jun 2017

even within communities of color - Shadism, Anti-black sentiment even in hispanic communities ( read accounts of black cubans even in Cuba )

Implicit bias against blacks has been so pernicious and pervasive, it exists within communities of color as well.

tblue37

(65,343 posts)
42. With clear video that the cop jumped out and started shooting IMMEDIATELY--within
Fri Jun 23, 2017, 01:52 PM
Jun 2017

much less than 2 seconds! That little boy was not given a warning and never had a chance to comply because he was shot right away and then left to bleed out while his sister was handcuffed and prevented from going to him.

Similarly, John Walker was shot on sight with no warning, and not even facing the cops.

In both cases the cops lied about how it happened, and clear video proved they lied. Yet they were not charged.

raging moderate

(4,305 posts)
45. yes, thank you! I am NOT crazy, and neither are you!
Fri Jun 23, 2017, 11:02 PM
Jun 2017

This is what I also saw. Just the way you said it.

raging moderate

(4,305 posts)
4. That cop shot a grade school lunchroom supervisor.
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 06:57 PM
Jun 2017

I can hardly take this in. Everybody knows what lunchroom workers are like. Day after day, making school warm and homey, always with cheerful little comments and cute little touches on holidays. And they say Mr. Castille was especially good at his job, with every kid's allergies always in mind and the lunch always so well-planned and a friendly word for everyone.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
5. Agreed. we cannot buy this RW "identity" politics framing. Libertarians can fuck off with that.
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 07:00 PM
Jun 2017

becasue it's not real liberals saying that shit.

hatrack

(59,585 posts)
48. And let's not forget letting the GOP define your brand as "toxic" . . .
Sun Jun 25, 2017, 07:18 PM
Jun 2017

And, of course, responding so as to appease them.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
10. I'm an American who wants to control my own body. And live in a just society. Your feeling about
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 07:15 PM
Jun 2017

Corporate stuff is not more important than our right to life and liberty. But they've got theirs.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
13. the problem isn't black/brown folks engaging in identity politics.
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 07:29 PM
Jun 2017

it's that uneducated white people--of whom there are more than 2X of black and Latino voters combined--also start buying into identity politics

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
14. Also educated white men. They need to learn to be part of a coalition and not put themselves above
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 07:36 PM
Jun 2017

Women and POC if here going to call themselves liberal. This shit is not on.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
15. coalitions require work on both ends
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 07:40 PM
Jun 2017

currently, fairly or not, uneducated white people do not see the Democratic party as welcoming them, including people like them and their neighbors, and reflecting their values.

We need to win over more of them than we did in 2016, 2014, 2012, and 2010 if we're going to retake Congress.

Recommendations as to how we accomplish that?

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
22. Sorry but they have to do more than tolerate us- it's long overdue
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 08:20 PM
Jun 2017

I can't understand the mindset that allows people to put a price on my freedom, or expects me to negotiate over that. I need fellow Dems to explain how to politely explain that. Or have them explain it. But human rights are not on the table.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
36. you're not saying anything that's wrong
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 10:42 PM
Jun 2017

But, at the end of the day there aren't enough voters with our values to win elections.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
38. I don't belive that. I think too many potential voters were complacent.
Fri Jun 23, 2017, 12:59 PM
Jun 2017

We can't change RWers who have been poisoned against liberals, and that's what they are - too tribal. We can only get new voters who realize their voices matter.
We cannot accept their xenophobia. Not going to happen.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
39. There were a significant number of Obama-Tr*mp voters.
Fri Jun 23, 2017, 01:06 PM
Jun 2017

Those are the key, imo.

We got as many Rmoney voters as we could get in 2016.

Imo, our most likely source of votes is negative--to get Tr*mp voters discouraged, complacent or otherwise unmotivated to vote.

tblue37

(65,343 posts)
44. Way more of OUR voters were prevented from voting, and that voter suppression
Fri Jun 23, 2017, 01:55 PM
Jun 2017

is escalating. The Democratic establishment needs to take care of voter suppression and hackable voting machines.

Response to La Lioness Priyanka (Original post)

Response to La Lioness Priyanka (Reply #9)

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
11. Justice for everyone ain't a purity test - it's a core value. You all gotta know
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 07:21 PM
Jun 2017

You aren't a party without us. You don't lead it, women and POC are the majority and you need to accept that we're not taking orders.

Response to bettyellen (Reply #11)

BumRushDaShow

(128,979 posts)
16. The GOP "wins" by cheating
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 07:40 PM
Jun 2017

not by getting more people to vote for them. See Bush v Gore & the 2004 general election in Ohio.

The party registration here in the state of PA is 51% Democrat and 49% GOP yet the state Congressional delegation is 13 GOP and 5 Democrat. How do you think that happened (hint: gerrymandering)?

Response to BumRushDaShow (Reply #16)

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
26. I understand when it happens as a silly defense the first few times
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 08:48 PM
Jun 2017

But the moment has passed to be indulge this any more

leftstreet

(36,108 posts)
27. Absolutely
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 08:52 PM
Jun 2017

This is NO DIFFERENT than what domestic violence women's groups encountered as they fought for legislation, medical care, safe houses etc for victims

"Huh! Well men get hit, too!"

I've seen this trick so many times

WhiteTara

(29,713 posts)
25. Nor will I accept them as someone I know. What is happening
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 08:46 PM
Jun 2017

to the African American communities across the nation would be considered crimes against humanity if this were happening in a different country.

sheshe2

(83,758 posts)
29. I posted this awhile back
Thu Jun 22, 2017, 09:10 PM
Jun 2017

The Real Reason White People Say ‘All Lives Matter’


let’s have an honest talk about why we say “All Lives Matter.” First of all, notice that no one was saying “All Lives Matter” before people started saying “Black Lives Matter.” So “All Lives Matter” is a response to “Black Lives Matter.” Apparently, something about the statement “Black Lives Matter” makes us uncomfortable. Why is that?

Now some white people might say that singling out Black people’s lives as mattering somehow means that white lives don’t matter. Of course, that’s silly. If you went to a Breast Cancer Awareness event, you wouldn’t think that they were saying that other types of cancer don’t matter. And you’d be shocked if someone showed up with a sign saying “Colon Cancer Matters” or chanting “All Cancer Patients Matter.” So clearly, something else is prompting people to say “All Lives Matter” in response to “Black Lives Matter.”

Many of the people saying “All Lives Matter” also are fond of saying “Blue Lives Matter.” If you find that the statement “Black Lives Matter” bothers you, but not “Blue Lives Matter,” then the operative word is “Black”. That should tell us something. There’s something deeply discomfiting about the word “Black.” I think it’s because it reminds us of our whiteness and challenges our notion that race doesn’t matter.

More Here: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/john-halstead/dear-fellow-white-people-_b_11109842.html


karynnj

(59,503 posts)
40. Is there any way that a candidate could retain your support with expanding from "Black lives matter"
Fri Jun 23, 2017, 01:23 PM
Jun 2017

- maybe explaining that saying that is to acknowledge that for many there is real concern that for some black lives don't matter and for that reason it is important and necessary to say affirmatively black lives do matter in as strong and as clear a way possible. I wish it were then acceptable o say that to add that the phrase, black lives matter, should never be parsed to mean that lives of others do not matter.

In 2016, the problem was that candidates were forced to essentially apologizing for saying something that - in and of itself was NOT wrong. I assume that you would agree that all lives matter -- even as you say BLACK LIVES MATTER. In essence, the phrase means more to you than normal parsing of the words were. You are creating a shibboleth to separate those you accept from those you don't using what almost amounts to coded language.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
41. No im reflecting the reality that exists, which is white lives matter and black lives are devalued
Fri Jun 23, 2017, 01:41 PM
Jun 2017

So I need people I vote got to say that they affirmatively value black lives and not bulslhit around with it

Much like I don't want my representative to say that straights need pride too

It's bigotry I won't tolerate. Neither will most of the Democratic base.

Response to La Lioness Priyanka (Original post)

SaschaHM

(2,897 posts)
56. You compared BLM protestors to Dogs in another post.
Sun Jun 25, 2017, 07:35 PM
Jun 2017

I'm surprised that you are still voting for Dems after they made Barack Obama their nominee.

Response to SaschaHM (Reply #56)

Response to tonedevil (Reply #62)

 

tonedevil

(3,022 posts)
67. I've seen no sign...
Mon Jun 26, 2017, 12:25 AM
Jun 2017

of you displaying that, but I have seen you type a couple of quite racist screeds in this very thread.

JI7

(89,249 posts)
66. i don't think you are helping at all based on what you just posted
Mon Jun 26, 2017, 12:22 AM
Jun 2017

that's some fucked up shit .

Response to JI7 (Reply #66)

JHan

(10,173 posts)
68. It's unfortunate you see people expressing righteous anger as trouble makers .. worse yet...
Mon Jun 26, 2017, 01:47 AM
Jun 2017

dogs.

"Biting the people that help them" -

Since you're obviously unaware, the BLM movement is the first of its kind to successfully mount massive political mobilization against police brutality and mass incarceration since the War on Drugs began. For decades liberals of every stripe , including self professed " classic liberals" have been trying to place civil liberties front and centre of political discourse - from civil forfeiture abuse, to the militarization of police , drug decriminalization and addressing the spread of mandatory minimum sentencing . For years there have been calls for police reform and warnings of increased threats to civil liberties and for the first time in a long time there is an energetic movement driving this discourse aimed at ending systemic injustices

- but your hot take is that these activists are "dogs".

In today's climate, if you want to call yourself a Liberal, you should at the very least inform yourself of threats to liberty ... or maybe you really ought to be a Republican.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
55. Anyone who says "all lives matter" really isn't LISTENING.
Sun Jun 25, 2017, 07:32 PM
Jun 2017

Of course all lives matter, that's an everyday given. But it's not the point here. If a BLM individual is told by John Doe that "All lives matter," then John Doe hasn't really been listening.

Anyone who's ever had relationship counseling to improve communication learns that they MUST listen to their aggrieved spouse/partner, even if the subject matter being discussed is difficult. You listen attentively, do not interrupt, you do not counter when the other person is having their say. But with each exchange, when appropriate, you must acknowledge that you have heard every word, and avoid shifting into an unnecessary and counterproductive defensive mode.

This same type of "I hear what you're saying, and you make several excellent points" genuine listening should apply to exchanges with the BLM folks as well.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
58. Sometimes I think the speaker also bears responsibility
Sun Jun 25, 2017, 09:06 PM
Jun 2017

I understand that that black people feel marginalized and are more likely to have negative or dangerous encounters with a cop. But don't they really mean Black Lives Matter TOO? Wouldn't rhat make the point much more obvious?

 

ConnorMarc

(653 posts)
60. No "Too" Is Not Necessary
Sun Jun 25, 2017, 09:46 PM
Jun 2017

The message has been sent loud and clear to black people that their lives don't matter.

Hence a cop can come on the scene and gun down an 11 year old boy in less than 2 seconds of arriving and get off scott free, because society is OK with it.

The response is to say, #BlackLivesMatter

Why do so many white people have a problem with black people being outraged, especially since white people are free to express their outrage at will, mostly for non life-threatening matters.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
63. Well stated...
Sun Jun 25, 2017, 11:02 PM
Jun 2017

And it's an issue that never gets addressed adequately, all the way from 1865 to the present day. Just band-aids applied here and there, but until a majority of Americans sincerely and truthfully deal with this staggering, unspeakable inequality, there will be tragedy heaped upon tragedy, endlessly, as we've seen.

 

ConnorMarc

(653 posts)
64. Roalnd Martin said that
Sun Jun 25, 2017, 11:46 PM
Jun 2017

We won't see an end to the senseless and wrong killings of unarmed blacks by the police unless and until we start seeing multiple/back-to-back videos of whites being killed similarly by the police.

Sad, but true.

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