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IronLionZion

(45,528 posts)
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 12:55 PM Jul 2017

Disabled and disdained

In rural America, some towns are divided between those who work and those who don’t



GRUNDY, Va. — Five days earlier, his mother had spent the last of her disability check on bologna, cheese, bread and Pepsi. Two days earlier, he had gone outside and looked at the train tracks that wind between the coal mines and said, “I don’t know how I’m going to get out of this.” One day earlier, the family dog had collapsed from an unnamed illness, and, without money for a veterinarian, he had watched her die on the porch. And now it was Monday morning, and Tyler McGlothlin, 19, had a plan.

“About time to go,” said his mother, Sheila McGlothlin, 57, stamping out a cigarette.

“I’m ready,” Tyler said, walking across a small, decaying house wedged against a mountain and strewn with dirty dishes, soda cans and ashtrays. They went outside, stepping past bottles of vodka his father had discarded before disappearing into another jail cell, and climbed a dirt path toward a housemate’s car.

He knew his plan was not a good one. But what choice did he have? He had looked inside the refrigerator that morning, and the math didn’t add up. Five people were living in the house, none of whom worked. It would be 17 days before his mother received another disability check and more food stamps. And the refrigerator contained only seven eggs, two pieces of bologna, 24 slices of Kraft American cheese, some sliced ham and one pork chop.

It had to be done.

Tyler would hold a sign on the side of the road and beg for money. He would go to a town 30 miles down the road and stand at one of the region’s busiest intersections, where he prayed no one would recognize him, to plead for help from people whose lives seemed so far removed from his own.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/sf/local/2017/07/21/how-disability-benefits-divided-this-rural-community-between-those-who-work-and-those-who-dont/?utm_term=.0ff1b660560e

It's quite a story and worth a read. There are people like this all over America.

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ret5hd

(20,518 posts)
1. Up to $200/day according to some here on DU.
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 01:16 PM
Jul 2017

No worries, he'll be driving a BMW by the end of the month.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
3. My question is
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 01:34 PM
Jul 2017

how do the rich bastards that essentially caused this sleep at night. Theres not enough ambian to go around so how do they do it?

IronLionZion

(45,528 posts)
4. Prosperity gospel
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 01:51 PM
Jul 2017

is a religious belief among some Christians, who hold that financial blessing and physical well-being are always the will of God for them, and that faith, positive speech, and donations to religious causes will increase one's material wealth.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prosperity_theology

God wanted them to be rich. Oh and of course it's because they work hard and everyone else is lazy and stupid.

The article is mainly about the divide among people who live in the same areas. The ones who have good jobs are encouraged to look down on the ones who don't. It's the thinking of many Trumpsters who want to cut benefits for their own neighbors.

Squinch

(51,007 posts)
5. Wait a minute. Just after the election, weren't there about a dozen people here
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 04:15 PM
Jul 2017

telling us about how rural people take care of each other and are generally just more virtuous than the rest of us? Where's all that neighborliness?

Also, not for nothing but I had a little familiarity with Grundy, VA a few years back. Recently Appalachian Law School and a dental school opened there. Those brought in a little money. Three or four new stores opened up on the main street, with hopes of a few more. A few folks got new jobs. The economic wheels were starting to grind up when ... Walmart came to town. The stores closed, the tax base (because of course Walmart got a deal for coming into town) dropped and you know the rest of the story. Now there are the law school, the dental school and twenty part time jobs that don't pay benefits and don't contribute much to the local economy. And, of course, a Waffle House.

Iggo

(47,565 posts)
6. I dunno.
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 04:22 PM
Jul 2017

I was too busy reading about how the White Working Class* are only a little bit racist but that's okay.

(* as opposed to The Rest Of Us Working Class)

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
7. People take care of their neighbors
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 04:26 PM
Jul 2017

as they are willing or able too. Either way this true in both urban or rural areas.

 

Motownman78

(491 posts)
8. These are the people who voted for Trump.
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 04:34 PM
Jul 2017

There are millions like Tyler out there. Somehow, like Bernie, Trump struck a cord with them. HRC was seen as the establishment candidate in an anti-establishment year.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,433 posts)
9. It's tempting to tie this story to Trump or the current social climate in our country but the truth
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 04:58 PM
Jul 2017

is the idea of a worthy poor and an unworthy poor has been around for decades. We will never get anywhere with things like single payer, universal basic income and so on until we figure out a way to let go of "worthy" and "unworthy."

IronLionZion

(45,528 posts)
12. I don't know how to teach people to care about other people
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 06:26 PM
Jul 2017

That's the root of it. Some people don't value the rising tide lifts all boats and keep safety net so people don't slip through the system and fall to their deaths.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,433 posts)
14. I just don't get the mindset of giving a shit that someone might get something they don't deserve.
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 07:09 PM
Jul 2017

Like...okay? Who has that kind of time to worry about that?

IronLionZion

(45,528 posts)
16. Millions of people worry someone is getting something they don't deserve
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 08:27 PM
Jul 2017

it's jealousy.

I struggle with the concept of someone deciding what someone else deserves. It's disgusting that people even make that judgment.

It's a big part of the mindset behind the people opposing single payer claiming care will be rationed out. They constantly think about what other people deserve and they are worried someone will think they don't deserve what they want and refuse to let them have it.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,433 posts)
18. Agreed.
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 08:45 PM
Jul 2017

It just amazes me that people are willing to spend time and energy keeping score. We all die in the end, but as we make things better for others, they become better for ourselves, too. We all do better when we all do better, as Paul Wellstone said. (Pouring one out on his birthday here.)

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,433 posts)
10. I have been haunted by this photo all day.
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 04:59 PM
Jul 2017

That, and the image of two men standing with signs; one trying to earn money with it, and the other with enough money that he has the free time to stand with a sign to shame someone else.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,433 posts)
17. .
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 08:40 PM
Jul 2017

Going back and reading this subthread, I see that the way you responded to my original comment confused me, compounded by this gin I've been drinking since making that comment, which is why you might feel like we're talking in circles. We're on the same page. The photo in the OP haunts me. The photo of the asshole next to the father of the guy in the OP photo fills me with rage.

a kennedy

(29,707 posts)
19. I saw a guy today picking through the cigarette butts in the bucket
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 08:53 PM
Jul 2017

outside a kwik trip........I didn't know what to do.

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