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Heartstrings

(7,349 posts)
Tue Aug 8, 2017, 08:38 PM Aug 2017

Liam is 7 years old and has been in Japan since 6-8

visiting his mother's family in the Miyazaki region. But he's basically alone in a different culture and language. I would consider him fluent in Japanese, but what do I know....other than Spanish in HS, I've spoken English my entire life.

He's enjoying himself! He went to school with his cousins and was extremely popular as he was "American". He's gone camping and to Disneyland. Best of all tho, are all the spiders in his "Ba-Ba" and "Gi-Gi's" (grandpa and grandma) yard! There's nothing Liam loves more than spiders, he always has. He does love to read books tho, which makes me proud! I'm thinking Science might be his calling. His smile and laugh are truly infectious and he's quick with witty come-backs. Just a great kid with a big heart, wouldn't hurt a flea....seriously, he loves bugs!

Liam's father, my son Seth, and his younger 2 year old brother, Kai, will be traveling to bring him home 8-16. They fly from Chicago, through Seoul, to Tokyo. Then fly down to Miyazaki from Tokyo and will spend 2 weeks there. Their scheduled departure from Tokyo, through Seoul again, and on to Chicago is 8-30.

Liam is my grandson...Kai is my grandson...Seth is my son....

The "what ifs" are plentiful and gut wrenching, to say the least...

If you're of the religious nature, please keep them in your prayers...and I thankfully, welcome any positive vibes as well, as they make their journeys in these very uncertain areas and times.

Thank you from Seth's mom, and Liam and Kai's Nana


Liam, Seth and Kai

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Liam is 7 years old and has been in Japan since 6-8 (Original Post) Heartstrings Aug 2017 OP
Beautiful grandchildren, handsome daddy of them. Ilsa Aug 2017 #1
Thank you! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #17
You have a lovely family. herding cats Aug 2017 #2
Thank you! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #18
My ancestors came from Miyazaki and I may still have yuiyoshida Aug 2017 #3
What a beautiful area, thank you so much Heartstrings Aug 2017 #19
Hawaii is beautiful btw..... Heartstrings Aug 2017 #33
would you believe I went to Moorea Tahiti yuiyoshida Aug 2017 #36
Handsome bunch of guys... bet you can't wait to hug them all. nt procon Aug 2017 #4
Thank you and yes! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #20
Safe Travels tazmaniac Aug 2017 #5
Thank you! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #21
I have relatives stationed in Iwakuni. TNNurse Aug 2017 #6
It's really hard, isn't it? Heartstrings Aug 2017 #22
Thanks, I keep thinking about all those in Guam TNNurse Aug 2017 #34
I remember those days well......nt Heartstrings Aug 2017 #35
My boy is also half Japanese with family in Kobe. Lucky Luciano Aug 2017 #7
Quite the handsome young man! Thank you for sharing his pic! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #23
Good vibes going their way. WinstonSmith4740 Aug 2017 #8
Thank you so much! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #24
K&R... spanone Aug 2017 #9
Thank you! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #32
All best wishes and good vibes all around for your amazing family Glorfindel Aug 2017 #10
Thank you! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #25
I'll be praying for your beautiful family pnwmom Aug 2017 #11
Thank you! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #26
Those are three seriously Bettie Aug 2017 #12
Thank you! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #27
How wonderfully handsome they all are. Safe travels. nt monmouth4 Aug 2017 #13
Thank you! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #28
Prayer for traveling mercies. madashelltoo Aug 2017 #14
Thank you! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #29
What cute boys! betsuni Aug 2017 #15
Thank you! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #30
Stay positive. oasis Aug 2017 #16
Thank you! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #31
Done jpak Aug 2017 #37
Thank you! Heartstrings Aug 2017 #38

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
1. Beautiful grandchildren, handsome daddy of them.
Tue Aug 8, 2017, 08:44 PM
Aug 2017

Please say a prayer of peace for yourself, too, as we pray for their safety and for those all around them. Try and remember something that has worked for you before that calms your nerves. You and they are not alone.

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
2. You have a lovely family.
Tue Aug 8, 2017, 08:46 PM
Aug 2017

My positive thoughts are with them.

I wish the WH chef could start slipping some Thorazine in Trumps two scoops every night. We'd all sleep better if he did.

yuiyoshida

(41,831 posts)
3. My ancestors came from Miyazaki and I may still have
Tue Aug 8, 2017, 09:06 PM
Aug 2017

family there. Most of my family went to Hawaii to work the sugar fields all those many years ago. If I were to ever visit Japan, the first place I would go is Miyazaki, its a beautiful place ...










I would love to visit Hawaii too... maybe someday soon.

yuiyoshida

(41,831 posts)
36. would you believe I went to Moorea Tahiti
Wed Aug 9, 2017, 08:27 PM
Aug 2017

I met native people there and they greeted me as a sister...I was like, damn, this is a great place to be...and I told them I was part Hawaiian native and they called me sister...very sweet. They taught me how to water ski, I never could ever stand up...and they taught me how.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
6. I have relatives stationed in Iwakuni.
Tue Aug 8, 2017, 09:11 PM
Aug 2017

Mom and the girls are in the States right now, Dad is on the base. They are headed back there soon.

I cannot stand to think about it.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
34. Thanks, I keep thinking about all those in Guam
Wed Aug 9, 2017, 09:15 AM
Aug 2017

both civilian and military. I want to go hide under my desk like in elementary school...and believe that would help like I did then.

Lucky Luciano

(11,254 posts)
7. My boy is also half Japanese with family in Kobe.
Tue Aug 8, 2017, 09:16 PM
Aug 2017

He went to preschool for a month in Kobe during May and came home 6/6. I'm sure your family will be just fine and just realize your grandkids are having an amazing experience!

My boy in May a month before he turned 5

WinstonSmith4740

(3,056 posts)
8. Good vibes going their way.
Tue Aug 8, 2017, 09:35 PM
Aug 2017

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I hope this doesn't come across wrong, but I teach at a school that is very diverse, and we have many mixed-race kids. I've found it doesn't matter what the mixture is...those kids range from cute as hell to drop dead gorgeous. Your grandchildren are certainly an example of that.

Glorfindel

(9,729 posts)
10. All best wishes and good vibes all around for your amazing family
Tue Aug 8, 2017, 09:47 PM
Aug 2017

Thanks for sharing the story and the pic!

madashelltoo

(1,698 posts)
14. Prayer for traveling mercies.
Tue Aug 8, 2017, 10:23 PM
Aug 2017

Father, please travel with this family; protect them from hurt and harm seen and unseen. We ask this in the name of Jesus. Amen.

betsuni

(25,498 posts)
15. What cute boys!
Wed Aug 9, 2017, 12:25 AM
Aug 2017

I came to the "what ifs" in your post and wondered what you were talking about, then realized, oh yeah, North Korea, and I'm in Japan too ... So far I'm choosing to think NK is bluffing as usual and Trump won't be allowed to do anything by the military. I'm afraid to read too much about it. There's a large Japanese Self Defense Force base in my ward and my apartment is right under a military flight path and it makes me nervous when traffic picks up, but it's been quiet so far.

This is a good weekend to be in Japan because of the O-Bon festival. It's the best time to drive around the countryside because you'll run across little local festivals, some are ancient fire festivals. Fireworks. The cities empty out and the countryside fills up. I'll be at my mother-in-law's house. She died earlier this year so it's her first O-Bon and she'll be real mad if I don't get a nice fruit selection to put in front of her altar at home and clean up her grave.

Too bad Liam won't be around to see the huge autumn spiders, the Jorogumo. I used to be scared of them until I found out they're harmless and it's the female that grows so big and colorful. The males are little brown things.


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