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If you are white, please today (and everyday!) be just a little extra kinder to a person of color (and to someone of the Jewish faith)!
Doodley
(9,091 posts)Wounded Bear
(58,654 posts)I served with many people of color.
VMA131Marine
(4,139 posts)and the people I work with are of very diverse backgrounds and nationalities.
AlexSFCA
(6,137 posts)(unless they are republicans). trump is equally offensive to all races. Not to mention that Heather was white. It is incredibly offensive to be treated differently (even if it means 'better')
Dreamer Tatum
(10,926 posts)Golly, thanks! I'll do just that!
Luciferous
(6,079 posts)Luciferous
(6,079 posts)to be nice to any minority group.
Angry Dragon
(36,693 posts)Texasgal
(17,045 posts)UGH.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)if that is okay with you LOL
sarisataka
(18,654 posts)I am unkind to anyone?
KitSileya
(4,035 posts)Stand up to your relatives, friends and neighbors - don't be a passive racist, but speak out. If you think you are safe, (that is, if it will not put you in harm's way,) speak out against your mother's passive racism against "those people", or your friend's comment about illegals, or your neighbor's Trump sign in the yard. Make it clear that you will cut ties if they do not stop. Then follow through if they don't. And yes, that does include your father, or sister, or nephew. Give them one more chance, stating clearly what will happen if they continue, and then block them on your phone, FB, etc if they continue.
I am sure people of color and people of the Jewish faith would much rather we relieved them of the burden of (some of) the fight than that we smile at them in the street.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)On Wednesdays I'm an asshole to minorities. Tomorrow's totally good for me though.
Dumb OP.
denbot
(9,899 posts)and don't need to be patronized.
Squinch
(50,949 posts)OMG...I didn't know that what I said would be taken so offensively! OK...let me spell it out a little more clearly so as to not offend anyone! I know all of you who read this website are already kind...most of us liberals are already kind people! I guess I needed to say be just a little more kinder....than usual. I guess my leaving out those 2 important words "than usual" implied that I don't think you are kind to begin with. And, please try and understand when I ask for a white person to be more kinder than usual today to someone of color or of the Jewish faith, it doesn't mean to be kind to ONLY them and be unkind to white people or Christian people. The only reason I am saying to be just a little kinder today is because of what we of color (yes, I am of color!) went through yesterday. It was like a punch in the gut. For example, it meant a lot to me today when I was out to lunch and a white couple held the door open, a little longer than was necessary, while they were exiting a restaurant, waiting for me to enter the restaurant from about 20 steps away . Because of yesterday, I took that gesture as the couple saying to me "I don't side with tRUMP on this issue about his condoning of white nationalists and neo-nazis." Being of color, it just means more when a white person is kind to us. Because when a person of color is kind to us, it is expected because they go through exactly what I go through. It is that extra sense of knowing when a white person is kind to us, that even though they haven't experienced what I have gone through, they have still CHOSEN to be kind to me...it means a lot!
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)A kind and sincere sentiment is considered low-hanging fruit by the mean-spirited.
jaxind
(1,074 posts)Thank you! I never thought that my suggestion could be construed into something bad!
unblock
(52,227 posts)Regardless of political affiliation!
Fluke a Snooker
(404 posts)Whites have been in position of privilege (and in Republicans' cases, oppressive hatred) over people of color since Columbus. While unquestionably all progressives are, by definition, caring and gracious of non-whites, we must continually ensure that we mitigate our interactions with the intent that we, indeed, acknowledge our unearned privilege, and not only to treat minorities with kindness, but more importantly, with respect.
jaxind
(1,074 posts)Thank you, also, to both of you! Again, being of color, I was just so hurt yesterday and I was in tears. I truly felt what that little gesture that couple did for me this afternoon, was a dog whistle saying "Even though we are white, we are not racists. After what our President said yesterday, we want you to know that most of us white people in this country are not racists!"