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The $849,000 Penalty for Being Born Female (Original Post) TalkingDog Jul 2012 OP
Have you read the sheer nastiness of some of the comments? xmas74 Jul 2012 #1
Those are men's right activist,they're nasty and they're sufrommich Jul 2012 #2
I know they're here. xmas74 Jul 2012 #5
No,they don't. They are so toxic,they're considered sufrommich Jul 2012 #8
And yet are still allowed to post their hate here. xmas74 Jul 2012 #9
One of the usual MRA'ers just showed up. Odin2005 Jul 2012 #22
I put them all on ignore. I'm disappointed that sufrommich Jul 2012 #27
I read a few comments and had to stop. Ilsa Jul 2012 #4
That's the one that killed me. xmas74 Jul 2012 #6
Longer Lifespan? Nederland Jul 2012 #3
It can become one later on xmas74 Jul 2012 #7
Clearly, the benefits of living longer outweigh the penalties of living longer... OneTenthofOnePercent Jul 2012 #17
The penalty comes with the COSTS of living longer. Try reading the article please. TalkingDog Jul 2012 #11
That's what I was thinking. xmas74 Jul 2012 #19
So living longer is an inherent disadvantage of being female. Gotcha. EOTE Jul 2012 #21
I did read the article Nederland Jul 2012 #43
It is in fact,an objective *financial* penalty LanternWaste Jul 2012 #25
living longer shouldnt that be seen as a good thing? loli phabay Jul 2012 #35
I'd gladly spend $200k to live another five years taught_me_patience Jul 2012 #10
So you are 85, you can't find a job, you are eating cat food and you can't TalkingDog Jul 2012 #12
Is that what 85 yo women are up to? NCTraveler Jul 2012 #20
I guess they should have spent their husband's life insurance check more wisely. n/t lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #34
as opposed to what being dead, i would rather be 85 and struggling rather than in the ground. loli phabay Jul 2012 #36
It costs a lot of money to live a long time! Think of all the money that black people save! lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #37
I'd imagine it's just as hard to take posters seriously LanternWaste Jul 2012 #26
It's both MattBaggins Jul 2012 #28
Beat me to it. n/t Egalitarian Thug Jul 2012 #31
This is the most ridiculous thing I've read this week. Complete gibberish. lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #13
Okay, I accept your thesis statement. Now defend it. TalkingDog Jul 2012 #15
I edited to add one example. lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #18
Taking time off for family MattBaggins Jul 2012 #30
It is elective time off. Yes. lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #33
The irony of this post = LOL Odin2005 Jul 2012 #23
uh what men shouldnt have rights or have i missed something. loli phabay Jul 2012 #38
Ad hominem. lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #41
Yeah, well, just...don't do it again. randome Jul 2012 #14
Oh yay! Another gender war thread on DU. FourScore Jul 2012 #16
living longer is a bad thing? Liberal_in_LA Jul 2012 #24
That was my thought. I wonder if inheritances are factored in. Motown_Johnny Jul 2012 #29
wow, living longer is a penalty? I stopped reading when i got to that little tidbit. crazyjoe Jul 2012 #32
The rest of it was accurate, but "living longer" is NOT a penalty. Zalatix Jul 2012 #40
I would like to see how many extra hours men have to work as wage slaves... Bonobo Jul 2012 #39
so dumb that it must have been written to crank up the gender war. divide & conquer! HiPointDem Jul 2012 #42

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
9. And yet are still allowed to post their hate here.
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 10:09 AM
Jul 2012

I don't know how many times I alerted back on the old DU and here, yet nothing seems to happen.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
4. I read a few comments and had to stop.
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 09:59 AM
Jul 2012

The bitter commenters think all women are whores, marrying only for money, and spending every night out at bars for free Ladies Night drinks, as if that negates the higher health insurance premiums and lower pay.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
6. That's the one that killed me.
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 10:01 AM
Jul 2012

The comments about abuse shelters, friends giving free haircuts and free drinks at Ladies Night.

What the hell!

Nederland

(9,976 posts)
3. Longer Lifespan?
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 09:56 AM
Jul 2012

I'm supposed to view that as a "penalty" for being born female?

By that logic we could eliminate the "penalty" entirely by killing all females at birth...

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
7. It can become one later on
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 10:02 AM
Jul 2012

when you add in the finances involved with living longer. If the money just isn't there, what are we supposed to do?

 

OneTenthofOnePercent

(6,268 posts)
17. Clearly, the benefits of living longer outweigh the penalties of living longer...
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 12:14 PM
Jul 2012

as evidenced by the number poeple currently living such a scenario (given the simplicity of remedying the inverse scenario).

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
19. That's what I was thinking.
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 12:50 PM
Jul 2012

It's because women live longer is why they are penalized in other ways.

They just don't want to read the article.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
21. So living longer is an inherent disadvantage of being female. Gotcha.
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 01:08 PM
Jul 2012

Oh, the horrors of long life. When will women wisen up and start dying earlier? And yes, I read the article, it's pretty fucking ludicrous. Women are penalized because they take more time off work? How terrible it is to take more days off work and live longer. I thank god every day that I get to die sooner and work more. It's great to be a man!

Nederland

(9,976 posts)
43. I did read the article
Wed Jul 18, 2012, 03:50 PM
Jul 2012

You should try reading the article while imagining how it comes across to someone other than you.

Imagine what would happen if you wrote a post titled "The Penalty for Being Born White" and included the fact that whites live longer than Hispanics and African Americans. What kind of response do you think you'd get?

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
25. It is in fact,an objective *financial* penalty
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 01:25 PM
Jul 2012

It is in fact,an objective and measurable *financial* penalty, regardless of how one may or may not perceive it as compared or contrasted to other contexts....




Maintaining a sense of context within the overall premise does allow us to better comprehend both what is being written, and the ultimate conclusion of what is being written... without the added penalty of appearing as a sub-literate jack-ass.

 

taught_me_patience

(5,477 posts)
10. I'd gladly spend $200k to live another five years
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 10:18 AM
Jul 2012

Hard to take this article seriously when they label that as a "penalty".

TalkingDog

(9,001 posts)
12. So you are 85, you can't find a job, you are eating cat food and you can't
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 11:42 AM
Jul 2012

afford medical bills.... that's living to you?

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
37. It costs a lot of money to live a long time! Think of all the money that black people save!
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 11:23 PM
Jul 2012

The exact "logic" used here (the cost of being a woman includes the cost of an additional 5 years of living) could be applied to race since we unfortunate white people must bear the cost of an additional 5 years of life.

The OP is ludicrous bordering on offensive.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
26. I'd imagine it's just as hard to take posters seriously
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 01:29 PM
Jul 2012

"Hard to take this article seriously..."

I'd imagine it's just as hard to take posters seriously who are either unable or unwilling to see the implied context of a *financial*" penalty, and rather interpret it as living itself being a penalty.

I'd imagine that's either a sign of being sub-literate, or simply embracing one's own intractable dogma...

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
13. This is the most ridiculous thing I've read this week. Complete gibberish.
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 12:01 PM
Jul 2012

For starters (of a very long list) it would seem apparent to anyone with even the most rudimentary grasp of math that it cannot be possible that the bare minimum survival need for an individual is an amount equal to the median HOUSEHOLD income in the US.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
18. I edited to add one example.
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 12:16 PM
Jul 2012

But, for another; do you consider your weekend "a cost"?

Most reasonable people don't consider time that they voluntarily take off of work an expense.

Another, for good measure: In some states, prior to health care reform, insurers were able to pass along the 33% greater health care spending for women to them. Now, those additional costs are passed on to men instead. Gender is the biggest predictor of health care spending, primarily due to women's longer lives. With ACA, men subsidize the cost of that longer life.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1361028/

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
33. It is elective time off. Yes.
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 09:06 PM
Jul 2012

The OP is idiocy. It's Lewis Carroll territory. "Woe is me!! Does no one realize how much it costs to live so long? How much it costs to choose to not work?"

 

Motown_Johnny

(22,308 posts)
29. That was my thought. I wonder if inheritances are factored in.
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 01:56 PM
Jul 2012

I would think that inheriting money and possibly collecting on a spouse's life insurance might offset some portion of that $849,000.


Good thing ACA eliminates that extra cost for medical insurance. At least we made one small step in the right direction.

 

Zalatix

(8,994 posts)
40. The rest of it was accurate, but "living longer" is NOT a penalty.
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 11:41 PM
Jul 2012

I'll take that extra 5 years if anyone thinks it's a penalty!

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
39. I would like to see how many extra hours men have to work as wage slaves...
Tue Jul 17, 2012, 11:34 PM
Jul 2012

They can take the extra wage slave hours, combine them with the lower life expectancy and come up with a reasonable estimate for how many less hours of freedom men have in order to live and do what they want.

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