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Dreamer Tatum

(10,926 posts)
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:45 PM Nov 2017

I think the presumption of innocence for Ds and presumption of guilt for Rs

in criminal and civil matters makes DU look sort of hackish and stupid.

Let's get serious: if Franken was a Republican, none of this sophistry, slut-shaming, and equivocating would be happening at all.

Attaching the accuser to the party you don't like weakens the (righteous) outrage over cases that are far more compelling, and which have far more evidence, with greater implications, e.g., Moore.

It also perpetuates the inherently paternalistic, misogynistic view that political affiliations are primitive to w woman's credibility in such matters.

Just my opinion - flame away, call me a bot, whatever.

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I think the presumption of innocence for Ds and presumption of guilt for Rs (Original Post) Dreamer Tatum Nov 2017 OP
Agree, if anyone even hinted at Moore's accusers were lying Watchfoxheadexplodes Nov 2017 #1
Sorry MFM008 Nov 2017 #2
Suuuuuure. Dreamer Tatum Nov 2017 #3
I dont have to believe a right wing hack MFM008 Nov 2017 #39
...and then Franken apologised and she accepted it and said he shouldn't step down. brooklynite Nov 2017 #5
She didnt expect him to call for an investigation MFM008 Nov 2017 #40
Bingo! Cattledog Nov 2017 #53
that kind of thinking demonstrates the problem Lil Missy Nov 2017 #50
Yes it sure does. Sailor65x1 Nov 2017 #4
It does loyalsister Nov 2017 #6
Thank you.... vi5 Nov 2017 #11
there is so much wrong with the position I took then loyalsister Nov 2017 #34
Al's accuser admits they were in USO comedy skits. NightWatcher Nov 2017 #7
Did you duck in order to miss the point? nt Dreamer Tatum Nov 2017 #8
The photograph MichMary Nov 2017 #61
I generally agree. Caliman73 Nov 2017 #9
"...view that political affiliations are primitive to w woman's credibility in such matters." ??? Glorfindel Nov 2017 #10
Here ya go... Dreamer Tatum Nov 2017 #15
You were called incoherent over one word. The person was just looking for an excuse to dismiss you. SaschaHM Nov 2017 #18
Many thanks. I love learning new meanings of familiar words. Glorfindel Nov 2017 #22
I think your absolute argument is absolute garbage. NCTraveler Nov 2017 #12
Weiner had ten tons of support in the beginning. Dreamer Tatum Nov 2017 #17
Provide links. NCTraveler Nov 2017 #27
You have 24000 posts Dreamer Tatum Nov 2017 #30
Didnt think so. NCTraveler Nov 2017 #41
Yes. Correct. Kingofalldems Nov 2017 #42
That appears to be the relevant distinction better the then and there and the here and now. LanternWaste Nov 2017 #35
So you are complaining about the ideal of moda253 Nov 2017 #54
You have to look at the pattern... it fits. Joe941 Nov 2017 #13
Weinstein is a Democrat and who here is attacking his accusers? Kaleva Nov 2017 #14
THANK YOU Skittles Nov 2017 #23
SO in your world the GOP and their smear machine is never up to any dirty tricks. BannonsLiver Nov 2017 #16
And thank you for making my point as well. nt Dreamer Tatum Nov 2017 #21
Hypocritical sarisataka Nov 2017 #19
It's just a difference of perception Dreamer Tatum Nov 2017 #33
Bullshit. We don't have to fall all over ourselves to immediately condemn our side kcr Nov 2017 #20
I will reply in their place Skittles Nov 2017 #25
How about acknowledging that Franken apologized and the woman accepted the apology? brooklynite Nov 2017 #26
I already replied to you my feelings on that n/t kcr Nov 2017 #31
Nor do we have to immediately call her a liar mythology Nov 2017 #45
No, indeed. We do not. kcr Nov 2017 #47
Do you have specific examples of this? Orrex Nov 2017 #24
Here is my point, using your examples Dreamer Tatum Nov 2017 #36
Okay, to build on your point: Orrex Nov 2017 #43
What do you base your assertion that it was 50/50 here for awhile concerning Wiener? Kaleva Nov 2017 #44
You are wrong. Kirk Lover Nov 2017 #28
Well that was ez. Bonx Nov 2017 #32
Personal opinion... Staph Nov 2017 #29
I think McConnell is also thinking this. Kaleva Nov 2017 #52
Spot on! Cattledog Nov 2017 #56
Context, context, context. Vinca Nov 2017 #37
You also have a source with high credibility versus a source who worked with Hannity. kwassa Nov 2017 #38
..... Kingofalldems Nov 2017 #46
Hope there is an ethics investigation and we let it do its job. eShirl Nov 2017 #48
Franken called for an ethics investigation of HIMSELF. Kingofalldems Nov 2017 #49
Correct, right is right, wrong is wrong. Period. Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #51
Roger Fucking Stone gibraltar72 Nov 2017 #55
Read Franken's response peggysue2 Nov 2017 #57
#fakenews. she voted for trump so she is at lest a rascist pig . stonecutter357 Nov 2017 #58
We have to do the right thing. Isn't that what the Democratic party stands for? nt Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #59
It's a DU classic. linuxman Nov 2017 #60
But Soxfan58 Nov 2017 #62

MFM008

(19,814 posts)
2. Sorry
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:49 PM
Nov 2017

I think she looked at that picture
And thought what can I do with this.
I would have said it about a republican.
The only hack is making this allegation..

MFM008

(19,814 posts)
39. I dont have to believe a right wing hack
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:28 PM
Nov 2017

in a staged photo.
If more accusers step fprward thats another matter.
I believe she looked at the photo and thought how she could make it work for her side.
I dont believe her. We democrats can be suckers
especially when we almost always do the right thing.
And the republicans always BRAZEN it out.

brooklynite

(94,589 posts)
5. ...and then Franken apologised and she accepted it and said he shouldn't step down.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:51 PM
Nov 2017

What a diabolical plot!

 

Sailor65x1

(554 posts)
4. Yes it sure does.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:51 PM
Nov 2017

You are correct, but it's a tenuous position here at best.

On edit; tenuous meaning it could get your posts popped.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
6. It does
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:52 PM
Nov 2017

We have been hypocrites and should have dealt with this correctly when the most high profile incident came to light. But, at that time most of us participated in the abusive smearing of women who told their stories about our president. We have a chance to set straight what we should have acknowledged 20 yrs ago. Women are most likely telling the truth about sexual harassment and rape when they come forward as victims.

I was wrong when I was complicit and I won't be again. No one can defend any of these men, call out the predators when they don't like them, and expect to be taken seriously when they say they care about what happened to the victims. It's time to get real and be honest about our heroes even if it hurts.
 

vi5

(13,305 posts)
11. Thank you....
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:56 PM
Nov 2017

....It's really upsetting to me that I've wanted to make a post just like this, but didn't because I was fairly confident that it would get deleted and possibly get me banned.

We can't pick and choose which accusers we believe and which ones we don't. And just as you say, I was guilty of this back in the 90's and long before this current wave of accusations and accusers I felt uneasy about how I handled things and some things that I said.

No more. I'm done with it.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
34. there is so much wrong with the position I took then
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:14 PM
Nov 2017

The nagging question I now have is whether Trump would have been elected if we had drawn a line that said this is unacceptable behavior by anyone, in any instance, ever.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
7. Al's accuser admits they were in USO comedy skits.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:53 PM
Nov 2017

All of the related harassment occurred during and around said skits.

What was Moore's excuse? Did he, like Al, apologize?

This is a false equivalence.

MichMary

(1,714 posts)
61. The photograph
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 04:34 PM
Nov 2017

was not related to a skit. It was related to a sleeping woman who was vulnerable, and any decent person would have understood that whether actual touching was involved, snapping a photo like that was unacceptable.

Caliman73

(11,738 posts)
9. I generally agree.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:55 PM
Nov 2017

I think that to some people on both sides, it may be deeper than Republican or Democratic affiliation. Some people may see the person who stands accused as the embodiment of virtues that they have presented. In the case of Moore, there are people who believe that he is the righteous defender of the unborn and of Christianity that he claims to be. For defenders of Franken, some see him as a person who has tried to live a life of integrity and a champion of various good causes including his fight to bring justice to victims of assault during the Iraq War. That doesn't mean that they are innocent or guilty. Both could be either.

If all that someone sees to assume guilt or innocence is a (D) or an (R) by the name, then yes, that is being a partisan hack. For people who are conflicted because of their own beliefs, it can be more challenging, but I agree that if we are talking about consistency then if we believe the accusers of one, then we have to give that same respect to people who accuse those who hold some of our political beliefs as well. I think that the survivors deserve the respect to be heard. I do believe that the accused have the right to defend themselves, but above all, we need to be consistent about how we approach these matters.

Glorfindel

(9,730 posts)
10. "...view that political affiliations are primitive to w woman's credibility in such matters." ???
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:55 PM
Nov 2017

"primitive"? Maybe prohibitive? I understand your passion, but it shouldn't cause you to become incoherent.

Dreamer Tatum

(10,926 posts)
15. Here ya go...
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:57 PM
Nov 2017
primitive

(of an algebraic or geometric expression) from which another is derived, or which is not itself derived from another.

Glorfindel

(9,730 posts)
22. Many thanks. I love learning new meanings of familiar words.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:01 PM
Nov 2017

Alas, I never had any knack for algebra or geometry.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
12. I think your absolute argument is absolute garbage.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:56 PM
Nov 2017

You should be flamed for this as it's an incorrect broad brush attack designed to make us all look bad. I don't recall "Weener" having a lot of support.

And yes, we use every moment we can to attack Republicans. Just something else you highlight as a negative.

Dreamer Tatum

(10,926 posts)
17. Weiner had ten tons of support in the beginning.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:59 PM
Nov 2017

Oh, yes he did.

It wasn't until more evidence came out that his support vanished completely.

Go check it out, you'll see I'm right.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
27. Provide links.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:05 PM
Nov 2017

Your broad brush attack is garbage.

"Weiner had ten tons of support in the beginning."

"Tons". Should be easy to capture us all in that one.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
41. Didnt think so.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:29 PM
Nov 2017

Nice claim without verification. You call out “tons” of DU members and don’t back it up.

I question your recollection of events. 😁

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
35. That appears to be the relevant distinction better the then and there and the here and now.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:15 PM
Nov 2017

"It wasn't until more evidence came out that his support vanished completely..."

That appears to be the relevant distinction better the then and there and the here and now.

 

moda253

(615 posts)
54. So you are complaining about the ideal of
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:55 PM
Nov 2017

So you are complaining about the ideal of innocent until proven guilty?

There is nothing wrong with supporting someone until evidence proves otherwise.

Kaleva

(36,307 posts)
14. Weinstein is a Democrat and who here is attacking his accusers?
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:57 PM
Nov 2017

I don't see DUers shaming Kevin Spacey's accusers either.

BannonsLiver

(16,389 posts)
16. SO in your world the GOP and their smear machine is never up to any dirty tricks.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 02:57 PM
Nov 2017

It must be nice to be so blithely unaware of the world around you.

sarisataka

(18,660 posts)
19. Hypocritical
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:00 PM
Nov 2017

Is the word you are looking for.

There have been many comments posted today that if you removed the names you could not tell if they were from here or Hannity

Dreamer Tatum

(10,926 posts)
33. It's just a difference of perception
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:12 PM
Nov 2017

But I perceive it as plainly as day.

Ultimately it doesn't matter much - no one here matters of jurisprudence.

kcr

(15,317 posts)
20. Bullshit. We don't have to fall all over ourselves to immediately condemn our side
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:00 PM
Nov 2017

the instant an accusation, no matter how fishy it seems, is levied. Doubting this hinky accusation against Franken does not make one a hypocrite. Acknowledging that rape, sexual assault and harassment is epidemic does not mean you have to throw all logic, common sense and reason out the window.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
45. Nor do we have to immediately call her a liar
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:39 PM
Nov 2017

But that's what many here are doing. Instead listen to her accusation, listen to Franken's response and then react. In this case Franken admits he made a mistake, meaning at least part of what she said is agreed upon to be true.

You know damn well any accusation against Republicans are immediately deemed to be true.

kcr

(15,317 posts)
47. No, indeed. We do not.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:41 PM
Nov 2017

But there's nothing wrong with commenting on the fishy timing of it, or any aspects of the story you find suspect, either.

Orrex

(63,214 posts)
24. Do you have specific examples of this?
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:02 PM
Nov 2017

You referred to Democrats (plural), so other than Franken, which Democrats are being unreasonably presumed innocent?

Wiener was condemned more or less from day one (and rightly so).

Grayson was harshly criticized for his treatment of his wife.

Edwards as universally vilified for his infidelity and cover-up.

Granted, Republican offenders seem to outnumber Dems by about a dozen to one, but who are the Democrats who, in your view, are getting a pass?



Dreamer Tatum

(10,926 posts)
36. Here is my point, using your examples
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:17 PM
Nov 2017

You referred to Democrats (plural), so other than Franken, which Democrats are being unreasonably presumed innocent?

It's a matter of general opinion.

Wiener was condemned more or less from day one (and rightly so).

Disagree. It was about 50/50 for a while. But the point is this: were Weiner a Republican, the accusations would have been accepted as absolute, immutable truth from the get-go. How am I so sure of this? Find me one example of R figure accused of something similar (or even milder!) and tell me if even one person ever said, "Bullshit! It's Democrat dirty tricks!"

Grayson was harshly criticized for his treatment of his wife.

And was also defended rather vigorously.

Edwards as universally vilified for his infidelity and cover-up.

Yeah - it only took a couple of years or something like that.


Granted, Republican offenders seem to outnumber Dems by about a dozen to one, but who are the Democrats who, in your view, are getting a pass?

It's not about getting passes. I think I've articulated my point appropriately.

Orrex

(63,214 posts)
43. Okay, to build on your point:
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:34 PM
Nov 2017
Edwards as universally vilified for his infidelity and cover-up.

Yeah - it only took a couple of years or something like that.
Well, what would you have preferred? That we condemned him preemptively before the story came to light?

It's not about getting passes. I think I've articulated my point appropriately.
You should be more specific, then. From your OP:
I think the presumption of innocence for Ds and presumption of guilt for Rs in criminal and civil matters makes DU look sort of hackish and stupid.
As you concede, we don't uniformly presume Democratic innocence, so only some of us are "hacks."

Further, since none of us here is empowered to issue binding legal decrees by fiat, we are under no obligation to presume innocence, and we are free to base our assessments on any of a range of mitigating factors.

That doesn't make us hackish; it makes us human.

Kaleva

(36,307 posts)
44. What do you base your assertion that it was 50/50 here for awhile concerning Wiener?
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:36 PM
Nov 2017

You are pulling numbers and timelines out of thin air and made absolutely no attempt to back up your claims. You may have convinced yourself that your worldview is accurate but my guess is that you didn't do actual research because you may find the facts turn your worldview upside down. Or you may not have wanted to put in the great amount of time this research would require and thought it'd be much easier to fling stuff out there and hope it sticks.

Staph

(6,251 posts)
29. Personal opinion...
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:09 PM
Nov 2017

Moore is accused and instantly becomes defensive. "I never did this!"

Franken is accused and releases a statement of apology and requests that an ethics investigation be held. "I'm sorry!"





(And I think that the request for the ethics investigation is a brilliant move, similar to Obama's three-dimensional chess. If Al is investigated, then others accused of sexual harassment (and worse) must also be investigated. That's going to come back and bite Roy Moore in the butt, along with others. Nice move, Al!)


Kaleva

(36,307 posts)
52. I think McConnell is also thinking this.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:49 PM
Nov 2017

Set the stage to expel Moore if he wins the election.

Vinca

(50,276 posts)
37. Context, context, context.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:21 PM
Nov 2017

If Franken wasn't a comedian doing a comedy gig on a tour I would consider this a very serious matter. We now have reports the whole thing was staged. Al Franken is no Roy Moore. The GOP is desperate to deflect to the Dems. They might well find a Democratic politician who rivals David Vitter, but Al Franken isn't it.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
38. You also have a source with high credibility versus a source who worked with Hannity.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 03:28 PM
Nov 2017

And is a Foxsports contributor.

That is a larger factor to me, in these initial stages of inquiry.

I think many are jumping to conclusions prematurely, but that happens everywhere in social media.

peggysue2

(10,829 posts)
57. Read Franken's response
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 04:09 PM
Nov 2017

He is not equivocating. He is not blaming the woman. He is taking full responsibility regardless of the circumstances surrounding the picture taking. He is also openly inviting an ethics investigation.

From where I sit, this is the most honest response I've ever read. And for that, he has my support. Not for the stupid picture, but for a response that shows actual character, something in scant supply in DC circles. Do I suspect the reasons this picture was suddenly released? Yes, I do. But Al Franken does not go there. Instead, he stands up and invites his accusers to throw whatever they want while posting a genuine apology for his actions.

I do not see where this:

perpetuates inherently paternalistic, misogynistic view that political affiliations are primitive to w woman's credibility in such matters.

If anything, Franken has set an example of how a man takes responsibility for an act of sexual harassment once he's called out. You stand up, take ownership and apologize without trying to smear the woman involved.

For the vast majority of men this is a lot harder than it looks or sounds, particularly for those in the public eye. If only men who have been accused of far worse would follow the example set here, we might have a chance of reducing the toxic affects of sexual harassment, something that women are fully aware of and that too many men still deny.

 

linuxman

(2,337 posts)
60. It's a DU classic.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 04:27 PM
Nov 2017

"If X happened, I will be sad. I do not wish to be sad. X therefore never happened."

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