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trof

(54,256 posts)
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:32 PM Nov 2017

Try groping someone through a flak jacket.

Go ahead, I'll wait.
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Yep, it's like groping your refrigerator.

IT'S A GAG PHOTO.
Look closely.
He's mugging for the camera.
You can see the shadows of his hands on the jacket.
If he were actually TOUCHING the jacket there would be no shadows.

Oh yeah, his accuser has appeared on Hannity and works at a right wing talk station. Just sayin'.

Got my Nomex long johns on.
Flame away.

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Try groping someone through a flak jacket. (Original Post) trof Nov 2017 OP
These are getting painful to read. 50 Shades Of Blue Nov 2017 #1
Then don't read them! ChubbyStar Nov 2017 #4
I won't after I develop psychic powers to know what a post says before I click on the link to it. 50 Shades Of Blue Nov 2017 #14
The OP did have a header ChubbyStar Nov 2017 #15
Since groping through a flak jacket didn't appear that difficult from the photo I saw, 50 Shades Of Blue Nov 2017 #28
Except he's not touching her so maybe you didn't look at the photo that closely. Kirk Lover Nov 2017 #42
It appears he EASILY could have, in the fraction of time the photo shows. 50 Shades Of Blue Nov 2017 #46
He is supposed to look creepy and it is supposed to be a joke. It's very obvious it's a joke. Kirk Lover Nov 2017 #48
Woman and feminist here.... MountCleaners Nov 2017 #75
Lordy awesomerwb1 Nov 2017 #25
Pretty Much ChubbyStar Nov 2017 #31
tell that to CNN and MSNBC... lame54 Nov 2017 #2
We can see the shadows on our tiny smartphone screens .99center Nov 2017 #22
Of course it's a gag photo. What I want to know is whether it was taken on an airplane. n/t rzemanfl Nov 2017 #3
The photo in question appears to be the interior of a Boeing C-17 Globemaster Brother Buzz Nov 2017 #41
Thank you Buzz. Some people have been saying it was a skit. n/t rzemanfl Nov 2017 #45
The skit was about the kiss. The photo is the woman sleeping, on plane and mock groping. SandyZ Nov 2017 #47
Yes, according to reports they were on their way back home. trof Nov 2017 #44
Hold your head up while asleep sitting up spotthebird Nov 2017 #82
True but he did the right thing today underpants Nov 2017 #5
Al is handling better than we are. Puzzledtraveller Nov 2017 #71
I was thinking the same thing Phoenix61 Nov 2017 #6
Post removed Post removed Nov 2017 #7
Good question comrade awesomerwb1 Nov 2017 #27
I get it. I believe the woman, therefore I'm Russian Pugster Nov 2017 #54
What is the custom in your country, comrade? IronLionZion Nov 2017 #53
The guy was a comedian... flotsam Nov 2017 #8
Did she consent to be the object of this type of humor? Marengo Nov 2017 #10
We don't know flotsam Nov 2017 #13
Someone who claims to be the photographer said she did, but so far no one else has, including Marengo Nov 2017 #16
You mean, "A Twitter account already outed for disinformation on Politifact... moriah Nov 2017 #37
Yep, thats the one being promoted as indesputable proof she gave consent. Marengo Nov 2017 #66
That's to be determined. And there were two other witnesses: the photographer pnwmom Nov 2017 #24
It may be a gag, but she wasn't in on it ksoze Nov 2017 #9
But he didnt do that Nevernose Nov 2017 #17
Whipping out your junk and waving it in someone's face Drahthaardogs Nov 2017 #21
Exactly trof Nov 2017 #50
Uh...if he'd actually whipped it out... trof Nov 2017 #23
She could have been in on a gag. It's not hard to close your eyes for a photo. pnwmom Nov 2017 #26
Shes not a Soldier on a mission Lee-Lee Nov 2017 #55
She was an entertainer who could have closed her eyes as part of a gag. Right? n/t pnwmom Nov 2017 #65
At this point she says shes asleep and he doesnt say it was a gag or she consented Lee-Lee Nov 2017 #79
It happened 11 years ago. My impression from his statement was that he didn't remember pnwmom Nov 2017 #80
Nobody has said it was a gag she was aware of and in on Lee-Lee Nov 2017 #81
As to the photo, it was clearly intended to be funny but wasnt. I shouldn't have done it. nt spotthebird Nov 2017 #87
You have fallen for the idea that anybody could be groped through a flak jacket, pnwmom Nov 2017 #89
I havent fallen for anything Lee-Lee Nov 2017 #90
Have you ever fallen asleep on a plane or in a car without a neck pillow? spotthebird Nov 2017 #83
Ive actually been asleep in that exact same kind of plane in body armor Lee-Lee Nov 2017 #85
It takes discipline to hold one's head up while asleep spotthebird Nov 2017 #86
Let me use small words and see if you can understand Lee-Lee Nov 2017 #91
For god's sake think of Sean Hannity! Won't someone think of Sean Hannity! bagelsforbreakfast Nov 2017 #11
Stone knew about it before she came forward. Hortensis Nov 2017 #38
Did she consent to be the object of this gag? Marengo Nov 2017 #12
Actually, she did. trof Nov 2017 #32
So now Trump has to consent before they can shoot SNL? bagelsforbreakfast Nov 2017 #74
Thank you. The VRWC is going to try to kill us dead one way or another... Hekate Nov 2017 #18
While I admit it was meant in a comedic way, that doesn't take away from its inappropriateness... hlthe2b Nov 2017 #19
How did she get the photo? Cattledog Nov 2017 #20
She addressed that. B2G Nov 2017 #30
If they didn't think it was a joke and it really was a picture of Al groping her... Kirk Lover Nov 2017 #49
Wait... awesomerwb1 Nov 2017 #35
She says she didn't tell anyone about it until now, so Hannity is lying to lend credence tblue37 Nov 2017 #72
Dude! I grope my refrigerator all the time. I love it. madinmaryland Nov 2017 #29
NO NO NO. Door CLOSED only! trof Nov 2017 #34
Doesn't matter if she was in plate armor sarisataka Nov 2017 #33
Sez you trof Nov 2017 #39
I'm not going to do sarisataka Nov 2017 #51
Revelation: Sometimes gags are a bit tasteless. trof Nov 2017 #57
when guys papered my locker with centerfolds Skittles Nov 2017 #63
+1000 Cattledog Nov 2017 #73
So if a person is wearing "plate armor" as you say, and someone panader0 Nov 2017 #59
I know some ladies sarisataka Nov 2017 #67
True, but there is a "but..." attached to that. Adrahil Nov 2017 #84
Agreed sarisataka Nov 2017 #88
Nope. Doesn't make it OK. She was used as a prop for a sexual gag, apparently without her Squinch Nov 2017 #36
I agree with you and I am pretty sure he agrees with you XRubicon Nov 2017 #58
If it turns out the photo was taken without her consent, I really will find iit repulsive in a Squinch Nov 2017 #61
It was a dumb picture. But that's all I've got so far. Tommy_Carcetti Nov 2017 #40
Some people need to go back to the Convent. n/m bagelsforbreakfast Nov 2017 #43
No kidding. trof Nov 2017 #56
Puritanical guilt superpatriotman Nov 2017 #76
The problem is this tends to trivialize all harrassment - but some people (Russian bots?) bagelsforbreakfast Nov 2017 #77
Franken's dealing with this in the correct way. Paladin Nov 2017 #52
That picture is rediculous, it's obviously a gag photo, if he is even touching the jacket doc03 Nov 2017 #60
Yep, '06 or '07 trof Nov 2017 #62
This message was self-deleted by its author doc03 Nov 2017 #64
I would never reach my hands toward anyone like that Puzzledtraveller Nov 2017 #68
OK, if it was a suit of medevil armor that would be different. trof Nov 2017 #70
I wear one hard to grope I agree JonLP24 Nov 2017 #69
Trolls gotta troll denbot Nov 2017 #78

50 Shades Of Blue

(10,005 posts)
28. Since groping through a flak jacket didn't appear that difficult from the photo I saw,
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:50 PM
Nov 2017

no, I didn't know.

50 Shades Of Blue

(10,005 posts)
46. It appears he EASILY could have, in the fraction of time the photo shows.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 07:02 PM
Nov 2017

And it looked creepy as hell. Even pretending to grope a women's breasts (through a flak jacket or whatever she was wearing or not wearing) is disgusting. Franken looks creepy as hell in that photo.

MountCleaners

(1,148 posts)
75. Woman and feminist here....
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:04 PM
Nov 2017

It does seem to me to be a gag. I'm not defending it - it is puerile and stupid - but from the look on his face it looks like he is pretending to be a creep.

If someone did that to me, I'd be annoyed but I'd hardly feel assaulted. An apology should suffice.

lame54

(35,293 posts)
2. tell that to CNN and MSNBC...
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:34 PM
Nov 2017

no one there can manage to see that

they are roasting him on a spit

.99center

(1,237 posts)
22. We can see the shadows on our tiny smartphone screens
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:46 PM
Nov 2017

But CNN can't see them on their 50' screen...

spotthebird

(171 posts)
82. Hold your head up while asleep sitting up
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:21 PM
Nov 2017

She wasn't even asleep, so why does she say she was?

Why was she the only one wearing military protective gear?

Phoenix61

(17,006 posts)
6. I was thinking the same thing
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:37 PM
Nov 2017

I think it was a joke. That being said, in extremely poor taste. Apparently, Al thought the same thing or he wouldn't have apologized.

Response to trof (Original post)

 

Marengo

(3,477 posts)
16. Someone who claims to be the photographer said she did, but so far no one else has, including
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:43 PM
Nov 2017

Franken.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
37. You mean, "A Twitter account already outed for disinformation on Politifact...
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:54 PM
Nov 2017

... said that, without naming the photographer or claiming to be the photographer, and combined the posed picture with a picture of her from modeling work in a way that looks suspiciously like slut-shaming, which would certainly be embarrassing to have retweeted as a liberal if later proven untrue as well", right?

Sorry. I haven't found anything else other than that on the subject, and the previous out on sharing something allegedly pro-liberal that also was false makes me very wary. Especially combined with what could be seen as suggesting something negative about having a nice enough body for people to like to look at in a bikini, and daring to model in one....

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
24. That's to be determined. And there were two other witnesses: the photographer
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:48 PM
Nov 2017

and the man sitting on the right side of the photo.

If the whole photo was a gag, and the woman was only pretending to be asleep, they probably know.

ksoze

(2,068 posts)
9. It may be a gag, but she wasn't in on it
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:39 PM
Nov 2017

It may have been a staged gag photo, but evidently she was asleep at the time. The fact he didn't actually touch her is irrelevant. If he took the photo and stuck his manhood in her face, the fact he didn't actually touch her wouldn't matter?

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
21. Whipping out your junk and waving it in someone's face
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:46 PM
Nov 2017

Is NOT the same thing as a feigned grope.


Sorry, it's just not. Just like stealing a candy bar is not equivalent to murder.

When you talk in absolutes it diminishes your argument

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
26. She could have been in on a gag. It's not hard to close your eyes for a photo.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:49 PM
Nov 2017

It also appears that she's wearing eye makeup. Do soldiers usually do that on missions?

But there are two people who can clear this up: the photographer and the man sitting on the right side of the photo.

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
55. Shes not a Soldier on a mission
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 07:15 PM
Nov 2017

She was a USO entertainer on a tour to entertain troops. Makeup would be perfectly normal.

But if your down to attacking her credibility because she was wearing makeup....

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
79. At this point she says shes asleep and he doesnt say it was a gag or she consented
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 07:32 AM
Nov 2017

That people are willing to dig up excuses for this picture that even Al doesn’t offer or claim to be true is pretty sad. It shows the lengths some people will go to discredit a victim when they speak up if they like the person accused- making claims even the person accused does not offer up.

Had it been a gag she was in on I am sure Al would have said that in his statements. That he didn’t says that it’s not the case even from his perspective, so if the victim says that’s not it and the accused attacker doesn’t say that’s the explanation anyone else offering that possible explanation- unless they were there- is just making up stuff to try and smear a possible victim of unwanted sexual conduct.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
80. It happened 11 years ago. My impression from his statement was that he didn't remember
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:39 PM
Nov 2017

the event clearly. But there have been reports that others who were there said it was a gag -- which makes sense because the shadows on the flak jacket make it appear that he wasn't actually touching her, and because he couldn't have felt anything through a flak jacket anyway.

We know there were at least two other people: the photographer and the man sitting on the right side of the photo (though many outlets cropped him out). If they do have an investigation, hopefully they'll be able to talk to them.

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
81. Nobody has said it was a gag she was aware of and in on
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:15 PM
Nov 2017

Last edited Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:51 PM - Edit history (1)

Except random anonymous twitter accounts some of who also have pushed fake news in the past.

At this point there is nobody named or with any connection or legitimate place to know saying it was a gag.

Repeating claims of fake news purveyors and random unnamed twitter accounts as having credibility or possibly being accurate is irresponsible and how the Russians and others are able to make fake news spread so widely.

You have fallen for it and put doubt in your mind based on no more than a few random anonymous tweets.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
89. You have fallen for the idea that anybody could be groped through a flak jacket,
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:49 PM
Nov 2017

which offers the protection of a bullet proof vest.

The photo is obviously a joke -- a stupid, sophomoric joke, for which he was right to apologize.

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
90. I havent fallen for anything
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:52 PM
Nov 2017

The gesture and act is just as irresponsible and disgusting if she was asleep in a bikini, a flack vest, a burqa or anything else.

spotthebird

(171 posts)
83. Have you ever fallen asleep on a plane or in a car without a neck pillow?
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:24 PM
Nov 2017

Al's first statement did say something about a bad joke.

Hey, he want's a hearing, I hope he gets one very soon.

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
85. Ive actually been asleep in that exact same kind of plane in body armor
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:32 PM
Nov 2017

Literally I’ve been in that exact same position she was there- side seat on a C-17 in body armor and fast asleep.

So yes, I have. And if one of the Soldiers I worked with or anyone else did that to me when I was asleep I would NOT be ok with it. It’s demenaing sexually dominant based “humor” down at the expense of the divinity of the person.

spotthebird

(171 posts)
86. It takes discipline to hold one's head up while asleep
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:39 PM
Nov 2017

What do you believe Franken did? Are we looking at the same picture? Are we supposed to ignore the photograph in favor a fictionalized version of what people want to see? I see a vulgar gag, absolutely no contact, much less a grope.
As a military expert, can you explain how someone is groped through a bulletproof vest absent any contact with even the garment?

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
91. Let me use small words and see if you can understand
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:58 PM
Nov 2017

People sleep all kinds of ways. Those seats are almost straight up in back and in a helmet that is up against the body of the aircraft is not an unlikely position. But what do I know, I’ve just done that exact thing before.

But to the bigger picture. I never said she was groped.

The picture alone is bad enough.

It is simple.

iT IS NEVER ACCEPTABLE TO PRETEND TO GROPE A WOMAN WHO IS ASLEEP.

Period.

End of story.

It’s not funny. It’s demeaning, it’s posturing yourself in a position of sexual dominance. It’s a gross objectification of a woman as nothing more than a pair of breasts that only exist for men to amuse themselves with. If you think it’s funny you think it’s funny to sexually demean women.

It doesn’t matter that the picture doesn’t show contact. There is nothing at all ok or acceptable about what he is doing. Period.

 

bagelsforbreakfast

(1,427 posts)
11. For god's sake think of Sean Hannity! Won't someone think of Sean Hannity!
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:40 PM
Nov 2017

This has Stone and Bannon all over it.

trof

(54,256 posts)
32. Actually, she did.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:52 PM
Nov 2017

Al woke her briefly and said "Leeann, is it OK with you if we take a gag photo that looks like I'm trying to grope your boobs through your flak jacket?"
She replied "JESUS Al, YES! WHATEVER! Go bother Franny. Just let me go back to sleep."

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
18. Thank you. The VRWC is going to try to kill us dead one way or another...
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:44 PM
Nov 2017

The media and everybody else jump up and down at the latest shiny object, completely bypassing any thought process or fact checking. Again.

hlthe2b

(102,286 posts)
19. While I admit it was meant in a comedic way, that doesn't take away from its inappropriateness...
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:45 PM
Nov 2017

That's the problem. But, i hear your frustration that there are some in the media and on the RW in particular who will actively conflate this with the overt sexual assault and even pedophilia of Moore and others.

Cattledog

(5,915 posts)
20. How did she get the photo?
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:46 PM
Nov 2017

Who gave it to her ??? She showed it to Hannity years ago as he admitted on his radio show today. Word is it was taken on her own camera as a joke. Sometimes jokes go bad. Franken has admitted this.

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
30. She addressed that.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:51 PM
Nov 2017

She was given a CD of pictures from the tour after returning home and that's when she saw.it.

 

Kirk Lover

(3,608 posts)
49. If they didn't think it was a joke and it really was a picture of Al groping her...
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 07:06 PM
Nov 2017

was it really a good idea to hand that picture of her on a CD. To hand her the 'evidence'. It really is becoming clearer and clearer.

tblue37

(65,394 posts)
72. She says she didn't tell anyone about it until now, so Hannity is lying to lend credence
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 09:16 PM
Nov 2017

to the narrative that she was upset back then.

sarisataka

(18,661 posts)
33. Doesn't matter if she was in plate armor
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:52 PM
Nov 2017

If she was in on the gag and agreed then it is consenting adults

If not then it was inappropriate

Period.

sarisataka

(18,661 posts)
51. I'm not going to do
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 07:07 PM
Nov 2017

Ethical contortions to excuse actions of someone I admire and have voted for. Either she agreed to the photo or she did not. Clothing does not change anything whether bikini top, flak jacket or parka.

By all, except one questionable, account it was inappropriate. Apology was rendered and accepted.

For me, the matter of the photo is closed. If witnesses come forth saying all parties agreed then I will change my opinion.

Skittles

(153,164 posts)
63. when guys papered my locker with centerfolds
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 07:44 PM
Nov 2017

I papered their lockers with nekked pics of men, full-frontal hairy

panader0

(25,816 posts)
59. So if a person is wearing "plate armor" as you say, and someone
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 07:34 PM
Nov 2017

touches that armor, that is groping?

sarisataka

(18,661 posts)
67. I know some ladies
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 08:09 PM
Nov 2017

That are in the sca and wear fully functional armor. If you were to walk up and grab their chests in the such manner you would be receiving a slap from a hand in a metal gauntlet

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
84. True, but there is a "but..." attached to that.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:30 PM
Nov 2017

Yes, it was inappropriate. Franken has admitted that. But the fact remains it WAS a gag, and that is different from actually attempt at sexual gratification from healing her breasts up.

It doens't make it right, in the least, but it IS different.

sarisataka

(18,661 posts)
88. Agreed
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:44 PM
Nov 2017

There are degrees of inappropriate and the actions of one person in no way exonerate any greater or lesser actions of a different person

Squinch

(50,954 posts)
36. Nope. Doesn't make it OK. She was used as a prop for a sexual gag, apparently without her
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:54 PM
Nov 2017

consent, though I hope to be proven wrong on that.

Not OK.

His response is very, very good and seems to me to be quite sincere. I'd trust my young nieces with him, of course, and the same can't be said for Moore and Trump, of course. But still, the gag was not OK.

XRubicon

(2,212 posts)
58. I agree with you and I am pretty sure he agrees with you
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 07:27 PM
Nov 2017

"For instance, that picture. I don't know what was in my head when I took that picture, and it doesn't matter. There's no excuse. I look at it now and I feel disgusted with myself. It isn't funny. It's completely inappropriate. It's obvious how Leeann would feel violated by that picture. And, what's more, I can see how millions of other women would feel violated by it—women who have had similar experiences in their own lives, women who fear having those experiences, women who look up to me, women who have counted on me."

Squinch

(50,954 posts)
61. If it turns out the photo was taken without her consent, I really will find iit repulsive in a
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 07:39 PM
Nov 2017

creepy frat boy way.

But, paradoxically, because of his statement I will have more faith in him than I did before. He clearly gets what he did wrong. I anticipate he will be a really loud voice against that kind of shit, and an effective one because he can come from the point of view of "I did it, and let me tell you how creepy it is."

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,182 posts)
40. It was a dumb picture. But that's all I've got so far.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 06:57 PM
Nov 2017

The Roger Stone factor in the story has me doing a total 180 on my original reaction to the story.

 

bagelsforbreakfast

(1,427 posts)
77. The problem is this tends to trivialize all harrassment - but some people (Russian bots?)
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 10:13 PM
Nov 2017

don't seem to care about that.

Paladin

(28,262 posts)
52. Franken's dealing with this in the correct way.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 07:08 PM
Nov 2017

He's offering admissions of inappropriate behavior and apologizing for it.

And he's still got my support for President in 2020.

doc03

(35,344 posts)
60. That picture is rediculous, it's obviously a gag photo, if he is even touching the jacket
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 07:38 PM
Nov 2017

it's only very lightly and how can you grope someone through a flak jacket. Was this back when he was working as a comedian?

Response to trof (Reply #62)

Puzzledtraveller

(5,937 posts)
68. I would never reach my hands toward anyone like that
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 08:15 PM
Nov 2017

they could be wearing a suit of medevil armor. Perhaps a lapse in judgement on Al's part and being too relaxed in his art which was comedy and sketches.

trof

(54,256 posts)
70. OK, if it was a suit of medevil armor that would be different.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 08:18 PM
Nov 2017

Especially if it were a three piece suit.

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
69. I wear one hard to grope I agree
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 08:18 PM
Nov 2017

Only if it has armour on it, those don't look like they do but hard to tell.

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