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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsTry groping someone through a flak jacket.
Go ahead, I'll wait.
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Yep, it's like groping your refrigerator.
IT'S A GAG PHOTO.
Look closely.
He's mugging for the camera.
You can see the shadows of his hands on the jacket.
If he were actually TOUCHING the jacket there would be no shadows.
Oh yeah, his accuser has appeared on Hannity and works at a right wing talk station. Just sayin'.
Got my Nomex long johns on.
Flame away.
50 Shades Of Blue
(10,005 posts)ChubbyStar
(3,191 posts)Pretty simple to figure out. Have a great day.
50 Shades Of Blue
(10,005 posts)ChubbyStar
(3,191 posts)Not hard to ascertain where the thread is going. Just sayin'.
50 Shades Of Blue
(10,005 posts)no, I didn't know.
Kirk Lover
(3,608 posts)50 Shades Of Blue
(10,005 posts)And it looked creepy as hell. Even pretending to grope a women's breasts (through a flak jacket or whatever she was wearing or not wearing) is disgusting. Franken looks creepy as hell in that photo.
Kirk Lover
(3,608 posts)MountCleaners
(1,148 posts)It does seem to me to be a gag. I'm not defending it - it is puerile and stupid - but from the look on his face it looks like he is pretending to be a creep.
If someone did that to me, I'd be annoyed but I'd hardly feel assaulted. An apology should suffice.
awesomerwb1
(4,268 posts)ChubbyStar
(3,191 posts)lame54
(35,293 posts)no one there can manage to see that
they are roasting him on a spit
.99center
(1,237 posts)But CNN can't see them on their 50' screen...
rzemanfl
(29,565 posts)Brother Buzz
(36,440 posts)rzemanfl
(29,565 posts)SandyZ
(186 posts)trof
(54,256 posts)spotthebird
(171 posts)She wasn't even asleep, so why does she say she was?
Why was she the only one wearing military protective gear?
underpants
(182,826 posts)Puzzledtraveller
(5,937 posts)Phoenix61
(17,006 posts)I think it was a joke. That being said, in extremely poor taste. Apparently, Al thought the same thing or he wouldn't have apologized.
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awesomerwb1
(4,268 posts)Maybe you'll get the answer to your question on Breitbart.
Pugster
(229 posts)Seems logical.
IronLionZion
(45,450 posts)flotsam
(3,268 posts)...trying to be funny.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)flotsam
(3,268 posts)We may get an idea if they can locate the photographer.
Marengo
(3,477 posts)Franken.
moriah
(8,311 posts)... said that, without naming the photographer or claiming to be the photographer, and combined the posed picture with a picture of her from modeling work in a way that looks suspiciously like slut-shaming, which would certainly be embarrassing to have retweeted as a liberal if later proven untrue as well", right?
Sorry. I haven't found anything else other than that on the subject, and the previous out on sharing something allegedly pro-liberal that also was false makes me very wary. Especially combined with what could be seen as suggesting something negative about having a nice enough body for people to like to look at in a bikini, and daring to model in one....
Marengo
(3,477 posts)pnwmom
(108,980 posts)and the man sitting on the right side of the photo.
If the whole photo was a gag, and the woman was only pretending to be asleep, they probably know.
ksoze
(2,068 posts)It may have been a staged gag photo, but evidently she was asleep at the time. The fact he didn't actually touch her is irrelevant. If he took the photo and stuck his manhood in her face, the fact he didn't actually touch her wouldn't matter?
Nevernose
(13,081 posts)So your point is completely moot.
Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)Is NOT the same thing as a feigned grope.
Sorry, it's just not. Just like stealing a candy bar is not equivalent to murder.
When you talk in absolutes it diminishes your argument
trof
(54,256 posts)trof
(54,256 posts)that would be jest a leetle different.
jeez
pnwmom
(108,980 posts)It also appears that she's wearing eye makeup. Do soldiers usually do that on missions?
But there are two people who can clear this up: the photographer and the man sitting on the right side of the photo.
Lee-Lee
(6,324 posts)She was a USO entertainer on a tour to entertain troops. Makeup would be perfectly normal.
But if your down to attacking her credibility because she was wearing makeup....
pnwmom
(108,980 posts)Lee-Lee
(6,324 posts)That people are willing to dig up excuses for this picture that even Al doesnt offer or claim to be true is pretty sad. It shows the lengths some people will go to discredit a victim when they speak up if they like the person accused- making claims even the person accused does not offer up.
Had it been a gag she was in on I am sure Al would have said that in his statements. That he didnt says that its not the case even from his perspective, so if the victim says thats not it and the accused attacker doesnt say thats the explanation anyone else offering that possible explanation- unless they were there- is just making up stuff to try and smear a possible victim of unwanted sexual conduct.
pnwmom
(108,980 posts)the event clearly. But there have been reports that others who were there said it was a gag -- which makes sense because the shadows on the flak jacket make it appear that he wasn't actually touching her, and because he couldn't have felt anything through a flak jacket anyway.
We know there were at least two other people: the photographer and the man sitting on the right side of the photo (though many outlets cropped him out). If they do have an investigation, hopefully they'll be able to talk to them.
Lee-Lee
(6,324 posts)Last edited Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:51 PM - Edit history (1)
Except random anonymous twitter accounts some of who also have pushed fake news in the past.
At this point there is nobody named or with any connection or legitimate place to know saying it was a gag.
Repeating claims of fake news purveyors and random unnamed twitter accounts as having credibility or possibly being accurate is irresponsible and how the Russians and others are able to make fake news spread so widely.
You have fallen for it and put doubt in your mind based on no more than a few random anonymous tweets.
spotthebird
(171 posts)pnwmom
(108,980 posts)which offers the protection of a bullet proof vest.
The photo is obviously a joke -- a stupid, sophomoric joke, for which he was right to apologize.
Lee-Lee
(6,324 posts)The gesture and act is just as irresponsible and disgusting if she was asleep in a bikini, a flack vest, a burqa or anything else.
spotthebird
(171 posts)Al's first statement did say something about a bad joke.
Hey, he want's a hearing, I hope he gets one very soon.
Lee-Lee
(6,324 posts)Literally Ive been in that exact same position she was there- side seat on a C-17 in body armor and fast asleep.
So yes, I have. And if one of the Soldiers I worked with or anyone else did that to me when I was asleep I would NOT be ok with it. Its demenaing sexually dominant based humor down at the expense of the divinity of the person.
spotthebird
(171 posts)What do you believe Franken did? Are we looking at the same picture? Are we supposed to ignore the photograph in favor a fictionalized version of what people want to see? I see a vulgar gag, absolutely no contact, much less a grope.
As a military expert, can you explain how someone is groped through a bulletproof vest absent any contact with even the garment?
Lee-Lee
(6,324 posts)People sleep all kinds of ways. Those seats are almost straight up in back and in a helmet that is up against the body of the aircraft is not an unlikely position. But what do I know, Ive just done that exact thing before.
But to the bigger picture. I never said she was groped.
The picture alone is bad enough.
It is simple.
iT IS NEVER ACCEPTABLE TO PRETEND TO GROPE A WOMAN WHO IS ASLEEP.
Period.
End of story.
Its not funny. Its demeaning, its posturing yourself in a position of sexual dominance. Its a gross objectification of a woman as nothing more than a pair of breasts that only exist for men to amuse themselves with. If you think its funny you think its funny to sexually demean women.
It doesnt matter that the picture doesnt show contact. There is nothing at all ok or acceptable about what he is doing. Period.
bagelsforbreakfast
(1,427 posts)This has Stone and Bannon all over it.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)Marengo
(3,477 posts)trof
(54,256 posts)Al woke her briefly and said "Leeann, is it OK with you if we take a gag photo that looks like I'm trying to grope your boobs through your flak jacket?"
She replied "JESUS Al, YES! WHATEVER! Go bother Franny. Just let me go back to sleep."
bagelsforbreakfast
(1,427 posts)Hekate
(90,714 posts)The media and everybody else jump up and down at the latest shiny object, completely bypassing any thought process or fact checking. Again.
hlthe2b
(102,286 posts)That's the problem. But, i hear your frustration that there are some in the media and on the RW in particular who will actively conflate this with the overt sexual assault and even pedophilia of Moore and others.
Cattledog
(5,915 posts)Who gave it to her ??? She showed it to Hannity years ago as he admitted on his radio show today. Word is it was taken on her own camera as a joke. Sometimes jokes go bad. Franken has admitted this.
B2G
(9,766 posts)She was given a CD of pictures from the tour after returning home and that's when she saw.it.
Kirk Lover
(3,608 posts)was it really a good idea to hand that picture of her on a CD. To hand her the 'evidence'. It really is becoming clearer and clearer.
awesomerwb1
(4,268 posts)as he "admitted"? What a strange way to phrase it.
Hannity, the bastion of truth.
tblue37
(65,394 posts)to the narrative that she was upset back then.
madinmaryland
(64,933 posts)Grab stuff out of it all the time.
trof
(54,256 posts)sarisataka
(18,661 posts)If she was in on the gag and agreed then it is consenting adults
If not then it was inappropriate
Period.
sarisataka
(18,661 posts)Ethical contortions to excuse actions of someone I admire and have voted for. Either she agreed to the photo or she did not. Clothing does not change anything whether bikini top, flak jacket or parka.
By all, except one questionable, account it was inappropriate. Apology was rendered and accepted.
For me, the matter of the photo is closed. If witnesses come forth saying all parties agreed then I will change my opinion.
trof
(54,256 posts)Skittles
(153,164 posts)I papered their lockers with nekked pics of men, full-frontal hairy
panader0
(25,816 posts)touches that armor, that is groping?
sarisataka
(18,661 posts)That are in the sca and wear fully functional armor. If you were to walk up and grab their chests in the such manner you would be receiving a slap from a hand in a metal gauntlet
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)Yes, it was inappropriate. Franken has admitted that. But the fact remains it WAS a gag, and that is different from actually attempt at sexual gratification from healing her breasts up.
It doens't make it right, in the least, but it IS different.
sarisataka
(18,661 posts)There are degrees of inappropriate and the actions of one person in no way exonerate any greater or lesser actions of a different person
Squinch
(50,954 posts)consent, though I hope to be proven wrong on that.
Not OK.
His response is very, very good and seems to me to be quite sincere. I'd trust my young nieces with him, of course, and the same can't be said for Moore and Trump, of course. But still, the gag was not OK.
XRubicon
(2,212 posts)"For instance, that picture. I don't know what was in my head when I took that picture, and it doesn't matter. There's no excuse. I look at it now and I feel disgusted with myself. It isn't funny. It's completely inappropriate. It's obvious how Leeann would feel violated by that picture. And, what's more, I can see how millions of other women would feel violated by itwomen who have had similar experiences in their own lives, women who fear having those experiences, women who look up to me, women who have counted on me."
Squinch
(50,954 posts)creepy frat boy way.
But, paradoxically, because of his statement I will have more faith in him than I did before. He clearly gets what he did wrong. I anticipate he will be a really loud voice against that kind of shit, and an effective one because he can come from the point of view of "I did it, and let me tell you how creepy it is."
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,182 posts)The Roger Stone factor in the story has me doing a total 180 on my original reaction to the story.
bagelsforbreakfast
(1,427 posts)trof
(54,256 posts)superpatriotman
(6,249 posts)No grope.
I wish people would stop saying that she was groped.
No grope.
bagelsforbreakfast
(1,427 posts)don't seem to care about that.
Paladin
(28,262 posts)He's offering admissions of inappropriate behavior and apologizing for it.
And he's still got my support for President in 2020.
doc03
(35,344 posts)it's only very lightly and how can you grope someone through a flak jacket. Was this back when he was working as a comedian?
trof
(54,256 posts)Response to trof (Reply #62)
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Puzzledtraveller
(5,937 posts)they could be wearing a suit of medevil armor. Perhaps a lapse in judgement on Al's part and being too relaxed in his art which was comedy and sketches.
trof
(54,256 posts)Especially if it were a three piece suit.
JonLP24
(29,322 posts)Only if it has armour on it, those don't look like they do but hard to tell.
denbot
(9,900 posts)I miss the granite cookies..