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demmiblue

(36,845 posts)
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 07:37 PM Aug 2020

A 19-Year-Old Who Blackmailed a Girl for Nudes Just Won a Democratic Primary in Kansas

Source: Vice

A 19-year-old who admitted to blackmailing a girl for nude photographs and viciously bullying girls in middle school won a Democratic primary for a seat in the Kansas state House of Representatives. One of the women even says the candidate drove her to attempt suicide.

Aaron Coleman, a community college student and dishwasher, defeated the incumbent Stan Frownfelter by just 14 votes on Monday. Although Frownfelter pledged to run as a write-in candidate on Tuesday — and has the support of Democratic leadership in the state — no Republican has filed to run in the district.

The young woman who says she attempted suicide after Coleman’s abuse told the Kansas City Star that he started bullying her in the sixth grade. Coleman was “calling me fat, telling me to kill myself, like I’m never going to find anyone, like I’m worthless, just downgrading me every day.” She recalled him, in one message, calling her a “whale” and urging her to go on a diet and get braces.

In social media posts seen by the Star, another woman said that Coleman “harassed me for months,” including relentlessly calling her family’s home phone.


Read more: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/7kpqez/a-19-year-old-who-blackmailed-a-girl-for-nudes-just-won-a-democratic-primary-in-kansas






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A 19-Year-Old Who Blackmailed a Girl for Nudes Just Won a Democratic Primary in Kansas (Original Post) demmiblue Aug 2020 OP
We've got our own Kavanaugh. CaptYossarian Aug 2020 #1
First face that popped into my head, too. n/t intheflow Aug 2020 #22
so elect him and then kick him out. Don't elect a puke. Demsrule86 Aug 2020 #26
Or re-elect the incumbent caraher Aug 2020 #34
Two possibilities Warpy Aug 2020 #39
Dems have publicly denounced him & his behavior SheltieLover Aug 2020 #2
He has quite a history MuseRider Aug 2020 #3
Apparently he wants to legalize pot. LisaL Aug 2020 #7
LOL. Snap! PSPS Aug 2020 #13
The day that happens here is still a long long way from now. MuseRider Aug 2020 #42
Who doesn't ??? nt Progressive Jones Aug 2020 #54
Is that a bad thing? JonLP24 Aug 2020 #60
There are very few things that would make me urge write-in but this is one. TygrBright Aug 2020 #4
Had a great aunt in Illinois (she died in 2017 at 101) rpannier Aug 2020 #20
Those were the days of Governor James "Jim" Thompson, a moderate/liberal GOP Governor. Progressive Jones Aug 2020 #55
No worries, they are organizing a write-in for the Incumbent who lost by 14 votes for the General aeromanKC Aug 2020 #5
Sounds like a Cluster B-disordered person to me. Laelth Aug 2020 #6
so why wasnt he charged with crimes and arrested? nt msongs Aug 2020 #8
Good question. Laelth Aug 2020 #10
One of the things he is accused of, is sending "nudes" of a girl LisaL Aug 2020 #18
Indeed. Laelth Aug 2020 #21
Like I said, we don't know if the girl ever reported it to the police. LisaL Aug 2020 #23
Maybe because he was a minor himself. LisaL Aug 2020 #16
That's what Rebl2 Aug 2020 #25
trDump kicked this door open,... men who abuse women and treat them like shit are macho men who,... magicarpet Aug 2020 #9
There are sociopath Dems too. Javaman Aug 2020 #11
Want to keep Kansas teen Democrat who admitted to revenge porn out of office? Here's how Judi Lynn Aug 2020 #12
Aaron Coleman has a punchable face rpannier Aug 2020 #14
re: Herman Cain, I didn't laugh, but I also didn't give a shit. not_the_one Aug 2020 #30
Hopefully Frownfelter wins youth write in votes. JI7 Aug 2020 #15
Yikes! intheflow Aug 2020 #17
Unfortunately being a registered Democrat does not make you a good person. GulfCoast66 Aug 2020 #32
A republican plant? Another dirty trick they are known for. nt yaesu Aug 2020 #19
No rpannier Aug 2020 #24
Here we see the difference between Democrats & Repugs Orrex Aug 2020 #27
Don't be surprised if Fuckface invites him to speak at the Repug convention Orrex Aug 2020 #28
Sounds like a stealth GOP plant. hadEnuf Aug 2020 #29
Or he's a horrible person who happens to be a Democrat. Jedi Guy Aug 2020 #33
Of course being a Democrat doesn't automatically make someone a good person. hadEnuf Aug 2020 #43
Is anyone at all arguing that being a Democrat automatically makes someone a good person? LanternWaste Aug 2020 #48
Ah, there you are, my old friend. So good to see you, as always. Jedi Guy Aug 2020 #49
I don't know if anyone else caught your reference EllieBC Aug 2020 #52
You, madame, are awesome. I'm glad you got a giggle out of it. :) N/T Jedi Guy Aug 2020 #53
The "no true Scotsman" defense was essentially floated RhodeIslandOne Aug 2020 #57
He mostly attacks Democrats . JI7 Aug 2020 #51
OMG!! This is a safe seat!! LeftInTX Aug 2020 #31
The girl was only 13 at the time Withywindle Aug 2020 #35
They have odd standards for acceptable behavior. How wasn't he arrested or sued? marble falls Aug 2020 #36
He may have been 14 years old (going on 15) when he blackmailed the girl. chowder66 Aug 2020 #38
ugh. iluvtennis Aug 2020 #37
Hopefully the write-in candidate can beat him Luciferous Aug 2020 #40
He's going to be a republican star someday. SergeStorms Aug 2020 #41
This is where "blue no matter who" takes a necessary re-evaluation Gore1FL Aug 2020 #44
This message was self-deleted by its author applegrove Aug 2020 #45
Kick Omaha Steve Aug 2020 #46
Thank you for the unlock... incel arseholes need to be called out! demmiblue Aug 2020 #47
What a way to drive a point home DFW Aug 2020 #50
This guy is a Bernie supporter dansolo Aug 2020 #56
I feel a little sorry for 19 year olds RhodeIslandOne Aug 2020 #58
Kansas Candidate who Admitted to Blackmail Drops out muriel_volestrangler Aug 2020 #59

Warpy

(111,254 posts)
39. Two possibilities
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 10:19 PM
Aug 2020

First, he grew out of that behavior (very unlikely)

Second, he'll change his registration to GOP as soon as the votes are counted.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
2. Dems have publicly denounced him & his behavior
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 07:39 PM
Aug 2020

Not sure if they can stop him from using Dem designation.

Sociopath.

Wohl plant?

MuseRider

(34,107 posts)
42. The day that happens here is still a long long way from now.
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 11:00 PM
Aug 2020

They are still calling it "the evil weed" on the floor. Both sides. While there is a possibility we might break the super majority I do not know how long it will take to get more Democrats in office and I am not even certain they would vote for legalizing weed. We will hold out until the rest of the country has had it for 25 years and still it will be hard. It is crazy but remember, this is the state that made the Airlines pick up the alcoholic drinks from their passengers as they flew overhead.

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
60. Is that a bad thing?
Mon Aug 24, 2020, 01:06 PM
Aug 2020

Alcohol is legal and I'm sorry it just isn't my thing. If you drink too much you get delusional tremors. Cannabis doesn't do that to me.

Oh well. We can pass most things in Arizona by ballot measure so hopefully it will be legalized here this year.

Looking him up it appears he supported policies other than cannabis legalization.

TygrBright

(20,759 posts)
4. There are very few things that would make me urge write-in but this is one.
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 07:41 PM
Aug 2020

Time to mount a really powerful write-in campaign for the incumbent.

wearily,
Bright

rpannier

(24,329 posts)
20. Had a great aunt in Illinois (she died in 2017 at 101)
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 08:23 PM
Aug 2020

She always voted Democratic - except one year
In 1986, LaRouche-ites Mark Fairchild and Janice A. Hart won the Democratic primaries for lieutenant governor and secretary of state.
Great Aunt Lena voted for the Republicans in both GE races.
I think, she'd vote for whomever had the best chance of beating him - even if it were a Republican

Progressive Jones

(6,011 posts)
55. Those were the days of Governor James "Jim" Thompson, a moderate/liberal GOP Governor.
Sun Aug 23, 2020, 12:36 AM
Aug 2020

Thompson was relatively popular, and those "LaRouchies", running as Democrats, threw a monkey wrench into the 1986 election.

Nobody liked the "LaRouchies", especially Adlai Stevenson III, who was the Dem running for Gov. Those were the days of "Straight Ticket" voting here in IL. Adlai didn't want to run on the same ticket as the "LaRouchies". He tried a 3rd party gambit, but Thompson won.


Side note: Thompson passed away a week ago. RIP

aeromanKC

(3,322 posts)
5. No worries, they are organizing a write-in for the Incumbent who lost by 14 votes for the General
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 07:49 PM
Aug 2020

And in Kansas you do not have to write the name in it's entirety. "Stan F" is fine for example.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
6. Sounds like a Cluster B-disordered person to me.
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 07:52 PM
Aug 2020

My ex-wife bragged about the fact that an ex-boyfriend of hers from High School committed suicide about a month after they broke up.

I should have listened to her warning way back when she told me this story. Instead, I projected my own good nature onto her. That was a mistake. Some people are just born evil. My ex was, Donald Trump was, and it sounds like Aaron Coleman was born that way too. I would advise everyone to heed Holly O’Reilly’s warning about this young man.

-Laelth

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
10. Good question.
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 07:56 PM
Aug 2020

I would only note that emotional abuse is very hard to prove and rarely prosecuted.

-Laelth

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
18. One of the things he is accused of, is sending "nudes" of a girl
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 08:21 PM
Aug 2020

to people, when she refused to send him more "nudes" of herself. That's not just emotional abuse.

magicarpet

(14,145 posts)
9. trDump kicked this door open,... men who abuse women and treat them like shit are macho men who,...
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 07:56 PM
Aug 2020

... should be revered, looked up to, and held on a pedestal.

Judi Lynn

(160,526 posts)
12. Want to keep Kansas teen Democrat who admitted to revenge porn out of office? Here's how
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 08:05 PM
Aug 2020

BY THE KANSAS CITY STAR EDITORIAL BOARD
AUGUST 19, 2020 05:00 AM


Kansas Democrats are in the astonishing position of opposing their own party’s nominee for a Wyandotte County seat in the state Legislature this November.

Let’s hope they get a lot of help in making this happen.

Monday’s official results from the Aug. 4 Democratic primary election gave a 14-vote win to embattled 19-year-old Aaron Coleman — who has acknowledged bullying, revenge porn and blackmail of girls in middle school some five years ago, as well as recent remarks cheering the thought of Republicans dying of COVID-19.

On Tuesday, the respected Democratic incumbent who lost to Coleman, state Rep. Stan Frownfelter, announced he is mounting a write-in campaign against the teenager in the November general election.

. . .

Patrick R. Miller, University of Kansas associate professor of political science, notes: “Across all statewide and congressional elections 2016-2018, Democrats won this district by an average of 23 points over Republicans. It’s a solidly blue Obama-Davis-Clinton-Kelly district that even Jerry Moran lost by about 15 points in 2016. So, Democrats do have a healthy cushion here, and it’s conceivable that they could divide their vote and still prevail over any Republican write-in.”

More:
https://www.kansascity.com/opinion/editorials/article245072565.html

rpannier

(24,329 posts)
14. Aaron Coleman has a punchable face
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 08:11 PM
Aug 2020

To go with his punchable personality

He laughed at Herman Caine's death from Covid
Not funny when you're supposed to be an elected representative
We should expect better

 

not_the_one

(2,227 posts)
30. re: Herman Cain, I didn't laugh, but I also didn't give a shit.
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 08:52 PM
Aug 2020

In their eyes, life is cheap. So be it.

intheflow

(28,463 posts)
17. Yikes!
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 08:20 PM
Aug 2020

It's interesting that there was no Republican running. I've heard of campaigns where Dems have changed their party registration to Republican so they could run against Republicans in primaries, win, and move the local government to the left. I gotta wonder if this guy is a disguised Republican. Maybe a Libertarian.

But beyond that: dude is 19. I want to hear the transformation story of how he's grown up from a troubled teen five years ago to a stable teen now. Was he saved by Jesus? Did he come out? Is he on antipsychotic medicines? I do believe people can change, and people do change a lot from 14 to 19, but this kid's behavior was way OTT. My gut says he isn't one of us.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
32. Unfortunately being a registered Democrat does not make you a good person.
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 09:04 PM
Aug 2020

We have to be able to condemn the assholes in our party or we become like the republicans. Unlike other nations we have no ability to kick someone out of the party. All you have to do is register.

There are way more important things than party affiliation.

rpannier

(24,329 posts)
24. No
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 08:26 PM
Aug 2020

He's a Democrat
A horrible, awful person who happens to be a Democrat
Besides, it's unlikely the Republican Party in Kansas would try and get someone like this in the primary
Kansas has no sore-loser law.
It would be a waste of time and energy to spend money and hours on this guy
The guy he beat is running as a write-in candidate

Every political party has losers and opportunists in them.
During the 70's, 80's and part of the 90's the Democratic Party had the LaRouchies

Orrex

(63,207 posts)
27. Here we see the difference between Democrats & Repugs
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 08:46 PM
Aug 2020

Disgusted by this asshole's disgusting behavior, we want him roundly defeated with no hope of any future political career.

Republicans, faced with a similar candidate, would laud him as a champion and would vote for him in great numbers.

Jedi Guy

(3,185 posts)
33. Or he's a horrible person who happens to be a Democrat.
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 09:13 PM
Aug 2020

Just because someone is a Democrat doesn't automatically make them a good person.

hadEnuf

(2,189 posts)
43. Of course being a Democrat doesn't automatically make someone a good person.
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 11:02 PM
Aug 2020

But I'm also aware that there is no low too low for the GOP.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
48. Is anyone at all arguing that being a Democrat automatically makes someone a good person?
Fri Aug 21, 2020, 06:49 PM
Aug 2020

Anyone at all?

Or are you simply throwing out platitudes to advertise some deep meaning only you're aware of?

Jedi Guy

(3,185 posts)
49. Ah, there you are, my old friend. So good to see you, as always.
Fri Aug 21, 2020, 07:53 PM
Aug 2020

It's reassuring to know that, even though we live in such uncertain times, I can rely on you. It just warms the cockles of my heart. Perhaps even the sub-cockle region. Maybe in the liver. Maybe in the kidneys...

EllieBC

(3,014 posts)
52. I don't know if anyone else caught your reference
Sat Aug 22, 2020, 09:40 PM
Aug 2020

but I’m just seeing this thread now and am rolling.

Maybe in the colon.

LeftInTX

(25,287 posts)
31. OMG!! This is a safe seat!!
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 09:00 PM
Aug 2020

You would think a quality opponent would have clinched this

He will have no opponent in November. This is really a shame. I thought maybe this was a seat that only fringe candidates run in because it's a vanity candidacy. No the seat is not even competitive. What's the matter Kansas Dems?

Withywindle

(9,988 posts)
35. The girl was only 13 at the time
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 09:29 PM
Aug 2020

Those photos are child porn. It's a felony to even have them.

I don't know about the ethics of jailing someone who has just a kid himself, but considering he blackmailed her and it was non-consensual, he definitely should have faced some serious consequences and should NOT be getting elected to public office. This is disgraceful.

chowder66

(9,067 posts)
38. He may have been 14 years old (going on 15) when he blackmailed the girl.
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 10:05 PM
Aug 2020

If he was 14 and sent to juvenile detention or had arrest records they can be sealed or expunged in Kansas.

SergeStorms

(19,199 posts)
41. He's going to be a republican star someday.
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 10:48 PM
Aug 2020

Democrats don't want him, at least outside his House district. The republicans will welcome you with open arms son. Now go away.

Response to demmiblue (Original post)

DFW

(54,369 posts)
50. What a way to drive a point home
Sat Aug 22, 2020, 06:53 PM
Aug 2020

To primary an incumbent Democratic incumbent just because they are incumbent and just because you can, does not automatically mean it's the right thing to do, or that the challenger is automatically deserving of support.

dansolo

(5,376 posts)
56. This guy is a Bernie supporter
Sun Aug 23, 2020, 08:21 AM
Aug 2020

Let's not gloss over his true intentions. He claims to be a progressive, but he clearly isn't. But other progressives will just ignore his background if he claims he is in favor of M4A. I find it funny that they say we shouldn't trust Republicans who are supporting Joe Biden, but then they are more than willing to support misogynistic assholes like this just because they are Bernie supporters.

 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
58. I feel a little sorry for 19 year olds
Mon Aug 24, 2020, 12:27 PM
Aug 2020

They don't remember a time when politicians got embarrassed and dropped out of races for being complete shitbags. Hell, or even for a little plagiarism.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,311 posts)
59. Kansas Candidate who Admitted to Blackmail Drops out
Mon Aug 24, 2020, 12:52 PM
Aug 2020
A 19-year-old Kansas House candidate who had been disowned by some Democrats for his incendiary social media posts and because he abused girls online when he was 14 says he’s dropping out of the race.

Aaron Coleman said on Twitter Sunday that he’s abandoning his campaign. Earlier this month, he narrowly defeated veteran Rep. Stan Frownfelter in the Democratic primary in their Kansas City, Kansas district. Heather Scanlon, chief of staff to House Minority Leader Tom Sawyer of Wichita, said there was a “sense of relief” that Coleman was ending his campaign.

Local Democratic party officials will choose Coleman’s replacement.

https://www.kfdi.com/2020/08/24/kansas-candidate-who-admitted-to-blackmail-drops-out/
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