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riversedge

(70,286 posts)
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 03:18 PM Apr 2023

A Montana lawmaker suggested she'd rather risk her child's suicide than let her transition

Source: nbc news




State Rep. Kerri Seekins-Crowe said in a floor debate in March that her daughter "was suicidal for three years" and when asked if she'd do anything to save her, her answer was "no."

April 28, 2023, 11:21 AM CDT By Rebecca Shabad

A recent comment by a Montana Republican state lawmaker who sponsored legislation to ban gender-affirming medical care for transgender minors has gone viral and drawn backlash online.

State Rep. Kerri Seekins-Crowe, R-Billings, suggested during a floor debate that she would rather risk her daughter — who she indicated was transgender and had suicidal ideations — dying by suicide than allow her to transition.

"One of the big issues that we have heard today and we've talked about lately is that without surgery the risk of suicide goes way up. Well, I am one of those parents who lived with a daughter who was suicidal for three years," Seekins-Crowe said in her remarks in March. "Someone once asked me, 'Wouldn't I just do anything to help save her?' And I really had to think and the answer was, 'No.'"

"I was not going to give into her emotional manipulation because she was incapable of making those decisions and I had to make those decisions for her," Seekins-Crowe said................

Read more: https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/politics-news/montana-state-lawmakers-remarks-trans-daughter-draws-backlash-rcna81983



It is so hard to believe that a mother would even think this --rather than help her child.
The mother needs help.




Someone once asked me wouldn’t I just do anything to help save her ...& I really had to think..& my answer was NO’

This is Rep KERRI SEEKINS-CROWE Billings MONTANA on how she would rather her transgender daughter commit suicide than transition

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Montana State Rep. Kerri Seekins-Crowe.


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A Montana lawmaker suggested she'd rather risk her child's suicide than let her transition (Original Post) riversedge Apr 2023 OP
I asked this yesterday. maxsolomon Apr 2023 #1
from the OP: barbtries Apr 2023 #8
I guess. The reporter linked the 2 with "indicated". maxsolomon Apr 2023 #13
well you are correct. I don't know the answer. barbtries Apr 2023 #19
Yeah, it's peculiar maxsolomon Apr 2023 #22
Maybe the reporter had previous background info on her daughter? SouthernDem4ever Apr 2023 #35
How very Old-Testament. Turbineguy Apr 2023 #2
family could have kicked her out of the house . AllaN01Bear Apr 2023 #18
Sounds pro-life IronLionZion Apr 2023 #3
Sick. How old is her child now? I hope there is support somewhere to help them leave at 18... Hekate Apr 2023 #4
My first thought too - sick. SouthernDem4ever Apr 2023 #36
Because the child was a minor, she got to choose, but... LakeVermilion Apr 2023 #5
her poor daughter. barbtries Apr 2023 #6
There was another thread about this yesterday dickthegrouch Apr 2023 #7
Okay atreides1 Apr 2023 #9
She sounds like a danger to her children, the state should investigate and verify they are safe Dorn Apr 2023 #10
That would be the appropriate thing to do. LiberalFighter Apr 2023 #15
"spent hours on the floor in prayer" rurallib Apr 2023 #11
Hours on the floor in prayer lonely bird Apr 2023 #20
God shoulda asked her instead of Abraham to sacrifice her kid Kennah Apr 2023 #12
There's a co-relation here... 2naSalit Apr 2023 #14
I listened to her. She is not fit to be a parent LiberalFighter Apr 2023 #16
Very few of them are. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Apr 2023 #34
I wonder how her voters feel about this. truthisfreedom Apr 2023 #17
the 43rd district is the NE outskirts of Billings. maxsolomon Apr 2023 #24
Our thug governor is pushing anti-trans legislation MontanaMama Apr 2023 #21
The REAL death squads. 2naSalit Apr 2023 #28
That's horrific. That poor kid. Hopefully get out asap at 18 electric_blue68 Apr 2023 #23
This message was self-deleted by its author Chainfire Apr 2023 #25
She acts as if her child was her personal property to dispose of as she wishes. Chainfire Apr 2023 #26
These legislators are turning MT into NK tonekat Apr 2023 #27
This is the kind of hate speech that led to the Holocaust. Initech Apr 2023 #29
She's evil incarnate. paleotn Apr 2023 #30
Is Kerri a 'biological' mother? It would make a difference to MTG. keithbvadu2 Apr 2023 #31
Eve was the first transgender - by creation. For the Bible folks::: keithbvadu2 Apr 2023 #32
THIS is exactly why it's so important for schools NOT to tell parents who don't already know. NullTuples Apr 2023 #33

maxsolomon

(33,384 posts)
1. I asked this yesterday.
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 03:27 PM
Apr 2023

I don't see where she said explicitly that her daughter was Transgender.

She said that 1. without surgery, the risk of suicide for Trans kids goes up, then 2. her daughter was suicidal for 3 years, but she had a line for how far she'd go in "doing anything" to save her.

I can see that it's implied, but did she say it elsewhere more definitively?

barbtries

(28,810 posts)
8. from the OP:
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 03:53 PM
Apr 2023
State Rep. Kerri Seekins-Crowe, R-Billings, suggested during a floor debate that she would rather risk her daughter — who she indicated was transgender and had suicidal ideations — dying by suicide than allow her to transition.

barbtries

(28,810 posts)
19. well you are correct. I don't know the answer.
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 04:17 PM
Apr 2023
Seekins-Crowe did not say that her daughter identified as transgender, but said she was “one of those parents who lived with a daughter who was suicidal for three years.” "One of the big issues that we have heard today and we've talked about lately is that without surgery the risk of suicide goes way up.


i think it was msn. know it was google. I do wonder how her child is doing. All she's giving up is that the child was suicidal. I have not come across an instance where she specifically denied that gender dysphoria was an issue for the child. so i don't know.

maxsolomon

(33,384 posts)
22. Yeah, it's peculiar
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 04:48 PM
Apr 2023

because the headlines, posts and comments are all assuming she was denying Gender-Affirming Care. maybe she was, but that's not what she said.

she said she wasn't going to give in to her kid's emotional manipulations, which isn't 100% unreasonable.

I hope her daughter's OK now. adolescence is hard.

IronLionZion

(45,516 posts)
3. Sounds pro-life
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 03:34 PM
Apr 2023

Good Christian values always emphasize smiting and wrath more than love and understanding.

Hekate

(90,779 posts)
4. Sick. How old is her child now? I hope there is support somewhere to help them leave at 18...
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 03:34 PM
Apr 2023

…and never return. I hope they find strength to overcome a mother’s rejection.


LakeVermilion

(1,043 posts)
5. Because the child was a minor, she got to choose, but...
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 03:39 PM
Apr 2023

by sponsoring legislation, she is taking the choice from every other family. She is imposing her "choice" on all present and future families in Montana.

So "big government" of her.

barbtries

(28,810 posts)
6. her poor daughter.
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 03:42 PM
Apr 2023

son? I want an update on the child's condition.

horrifyingly bad mother, bad person, of course she's republican

Dorn

(523 posts)
10. She sounds like a danger to her children, the state should investigate and verify they are safe
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 03:53 PM
Apr 2023

What an awful thing for Kerri to say.

rurallib

(62,444 posts)
11. "spent hours on the floor in prayer"
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 03:54 PM
Apr 2023

She sure could have used that time much more productively getting to know her daughter.

Prayer makes it look like she is doing something while she does nothing. What a waste of a human.
Whatever happens I hope her daughter survives and thrives despite her crappy mother.

lonely bird

(1,687 posts)
20. Hours on the floor in prayer
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 04:27 PM
Apr 2023

Well, that makes everything better then.

Or not.

How about talking with your child, asshat?

truthisfreedom

(23,152 posts)
17. I wonder how her voters feel about this.
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 04:07 PM
Apr 2023

Sounds like she’s not interested in having her child seen by a counselor… seems that would have been the first thing out of her mouth, if she’d brought her underage child to a doctor for help.

maxsolomon

(33,384 posts)
24. the 43rd district is the NE outskirts of Billings.
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 04:53 PM
Apr 2023

Not the reddest district in the state, but solidly GOP. Her voters probably feel fine about it.

MontanaMama

(23,337 posts)
21. Our thug governor is pushing anti-trans legislation
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 04:39 PM
Apr 2023

with the speed of a freight train and his own son pleaded with him not to go ahead with it. His son, David Gianforte, identifies as non-binary. These people are showing us who they are. We should believe them. The are not a pro-life party. They are pro-death for anyone who doesn't conform to their way of thinking and living.

Response to riversedge (Original post)

Chainfire

(17,613 posts)
26. She acts as if her child was her personal property to dispose of as she wishes.
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 04:57 PM
Apr 2023

Good Republican, good Christian.

tonekat

(1,818 posts)
27. These legislators are turning MT into NK
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 05:04 PM
Apr 2023

Another "hermit nation", with Republicans who sound as if left to their own devices will end up stoning people for being different.

keithbvadu2

(36,887 posts)
32. Eve was the first transgender - by creation. For the Bible folks:::
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 06:25 PM
Apr 2023

Eve was the first transgender - by creation.

For the Bible folks:::

Eve was the first transgender. Originally 100% male.

God was OK with it.

NullTuples

(6,017 posts)
33. THIS is exactly why it's so important for schools NOT to tell parents who don't already know.
Fri Apr 28, 2023, 08:33 PM
Apr 2023

These are the sort of parents that cause LGBTQ teens to either run away from home as young as 13 or commit suicide. And as indicated, the parents - in fact the entire local subculture - is okay with it. Oh, they're not okay with suicide because that's a sin, but then at least the "sin" is on the teen and not the parents for being cruel and abusive.

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