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dipsydoodle

(42,239 posts)
Wed May 21, 2014, 05:35 PM May 2014

California woman abducted at 15 found alive after 10 years - police

Source: Thompson Reuters

LOS ANGELES, May 21 (Reuters) - A Southern California woman who was abducted a decade ago at the age of 15 has been found alive and her accused kidnapper arrested, police said on Wednesday.

The woman, who is now 25 years old, was reported missing by her mother in August 2004, the Santa Ana Police Department said in a statement.

Read more: http://www.trust.org/item/20140521212747-h35yb



Missing woman found after 10 years.

A California woman who had been reporting missing for 10 years was found alive after she contacted police and her alleged captor was arrested.

The victim was reported missing to the Santa Ana Police Department by her mother, when aged 15. She is now 25.

Isidro Garcia, 41, has been arrested on multiple charges including kidnapping for rape and false imprisonment.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-27508752
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California woman abducted at 15 found alive after 10 years - police (Original Post) dipsydoodle May 2014 OP
Isidro Garcia GeorgeGist May 2014 #1
A face that deserves a baseball bat in the head and then a kick in the balls. Archae May 2014 #3
Looks like his head Helen Borg May 2014 #4
Thug rule? Or a nation of laws? Cruel & unusual punishment? Mob vigilanteism? Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #12
It is OK to feel that way AgingAmerican May 2014 #18
An excellent response. Thanks! n/t ms liberty May 2014 #27
You got it absolutely right! fujiyama May 2014 #34
Sure, but 1) It's bigotry about his face, 2) It's not the poster's family. Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #43
so we should have just been kinder when we spoke about Jeffery Dahmer? VanillaRhapsody May 2014 #52
Whatever. Progressives don't judge people on appearance. Be bigoted about appearance if you like. nt Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #53
He is not being judged by his appearance.....that is secondary to the fact that he kidnapped VanillaRhapsody May 2014 #54
The post reads "a face that deserves" a violent beating. nt Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #55
and he does..... VanillaRhapsody May 2014 #57
You have just admitted you advocate violence against ugly people because they are ugly. Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #61
Second, it is not his child or anybody related to him. nt Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #56
No one ever said it was HIS child..... VanillaRhapsody May 2014 #58
You & other guy keep raising "what if she was your child". She isn't the child of anybody Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #62
+1000 Tom Ripley May 2014 #82
I think that guy deserves a trial by jury, and he has a face his mother would have a tough time MADem May 2014 #51
+1 Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #63
I'll help you. 840high May 2014 #31
Shades of Ariel Castro in Cleveland. Ms. Toad May 2014 #2
I just got done reading all the responses this far in this thread. Raine1967 May 2014 #21
You must also have a hyperactive (predictive) autocorrect on your computer. tblue37 May 2014 #26
OMG. You're correct. Raine1967 May 2014 #28
Thank you Ronald Reagan - TBF May 2014 #5
Not everything can be blamed on mental illness. gcomeau May 2014 #6
lol - the defense of RR on here is very telling. nt TBF May 2014 #9
That is not a defence of Ronald Reagan, and you are hijacking this thread muriel_volestrangler May 2014 #11
I am not AT ALL surprised by the folks TBF May 2014 #35
It's your repeated accusations of DUers being conservative that are out of bounds muriel_volestrangler May 2014 #49
In post #50 I spell the republican meme TBF May 2014 #67
And it's still offensive, even if you're saying it again and again muriel_volestrangler May 2014 #73
I'm sorry but we disagree. TBF May 2014 #74
The difference is that you're insulting us muriel_volestrangler May 2014 #75
No - TBF May 2014 #77
FYI Rex May 2014 #78
No - disagreeing with you is not 'right wing' muriel_volestrangler May 2014 #79
+1, Muriel. Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #69
It's not about RR, it's about facts and the truth. Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #13
A progressive recognizes that mental illness exists - TBF May 2014 #36
Your assertion he is ill, thus the ball is in your court. Progressives don't just make stuff up. Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #42
As I have said in several posts TBF May 2014 #45
Nope. I merely await the facts. You are the one jumping to conclusions. Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #50
This demand to blame everything on the individual TBF May 2014 #65
Your demand to never blame the individual is a Republican parody of progressives. nt Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #66
Read: I never assigned blame. You can't show a sentence of mine assigning blame for this crime. nt Bernardo de La Paz May 2014 #68
LOL. Sheldon Cooper May 2014 #47
Who the hell was defending RR? gcomeau May 2014 #15
BS. There are evil people. 840high May 2014 #32
I get that but I think there is a point TBF May 2014 #33
Yes, of course political decisions have long term repercussions for people fujiyama May 2014 #37
I'm sorry you didn't like my TBF May 2014 #44
"criticizing Reagan's policies is taboo" Veruca Salt May 2014 #46
I admit I'm not going to lose any sleep TBF May 2014 #48
If it helps at all. . . . Tansy_Gold May 2014 #59
Thanks - TBF May 2014 #70
Also totally off topic, TBF May 2014 #71
Actually I'd be really interested in hearing more about your experiences fujiyama May 2014 #80
i don't think this has anything to do with medical mental health issues,some people are just shits JI7 May 2014 #8
Amazing ears, absolutely amazing. Shrike47 May 2014 #7
Startling!At first I wondered if they weren't upside down.His head is tilted back too far. Judi Lynn May 2014 #14
Many medical and developmental conditions are associated with such ear malformation. nt tblue37 May 2014 #29
The details are heartbreaking. Brickbat May 2014 #10
Well, after enough abuse she had been mentally and emotionally Blue_Tires May 2014 #72
So many changes in anyone's life between 15 and 25. Unbelievable! Judi Lynn May 2014 #16
Those ears will serve him well in prison HipChick May 2014 #17
Justice would be being sentenced to prison, not being brutalized there. Comrade Grumpy May 2014 #19
When you say " prison justice", what are you referring to? kath May 2014 #22
Prison Justice? Earth_First May 2014 #24
Please self-delete. Ms. Toad May 2014 #25
yes, she needs to clarify. Jokes or comments about prison rape should absolutely be banned here. kath May 2014 #81
Rape/torture is not part of a prison sentence. nomorenomore08 May 2014 #84
These stories make me ill AgingAmerican May 2014 #20
She was kidnapped when Bush was President. AngryAmish May 2014 #23
wow excellent gopiscrap May 2014 #30
Sociopaths do not see themselves as mackerel May 2014 #38
Usually these sorts of stories end much worse fujiyama May 2014 #39
She stayed with him because he threatened to have her family deported, Liberty Belle May 2014 #40
She's going to need to be treated for PTSD. The UK article says she has a three year mackerel May 2014 #41
This guy needs his freedom taken get the red out May 2014 #60
What about the parents? Mean Gene May 2014 #64
It's hard to wrap my head around Rhymes With Orange May 2014 #76
He told her that her family Le Taz Hot May 2014 #83

Bernardo de La Paz

(49,005 posts)
12. Thug rule? Or a nation of laws? Cruel & unusual punishment? Mob vigilanteism?
Wed May 21, 2014, 06:41 PM
May 2014

I thought we had settled those things, but apparently you don't think so.

Also, it seems you would convict people based on their appearance. That is bigotry.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
18. It is OK to feel that way
Wed May 21, 2014, 07:31 PM
May 2014

That is why we have a justice system. Because revenge is not justice. People feel strongly about such things. Personally, if he did that to my daughter, I would want to bash his head in too. In the end, justice will prevail.

Michael Dukakis should have said that when he was asked the 'If you wife was raped and killed, would you want the death penalty' question. He should have answered, "Of course I would want revenge, but revenge isn't justice".

fujiyama

(15,185 posts)
34. You got it absolutely right!
Wed May 21, 2014, 10:29 PM
May 2014

It's nice to see a response that reflects the reality of what we as humans feel about such abhorrent acts (kidnapping, rape, murder, etc) - and about how we control our impulses as a society through the rule of law.

Bernardo de La Paz

(49,005 posts)
43. Sure, but 1) It's bigotry about his face, 2) It's not the poster's family.
Thu May 22, 2014, 06:03 AM
May 2014

The poster was not asked about his family. He is not related to victim or assailant.

The poster advocated violence based on the way the guy's face looks (plus of course the accusation, which is only an accusation at this point).

Advocating violence against people because of their appearance is bigotry and prejudice.

You make my point that we have a justice system to combat bigotry and mob revenge.

 

VanillaRhapsody

(21,115 posts)
52. so we should have just been kinder when we spoke about Jeffery Dahmer?
Thu May 22, 2014, 09:22 AM
May 2014

OH! and John Wayne Gacy too!


What this guy did is despicable.....and people are THINKING of what he deserves for his actions...No one is calling for justice to be subverted.

 

VanillaRhapsody

(21,115 posts)
54. He is not being judged by his appearance.....that is secondary to the fact that he kidnapped
Thu May 22, 2014, 09:30 AM
May 2014

and raped a child....causing mental anguish this woman will deal with for the rest of her life! Trust me on this...I KNOW! She will likely need years of therapy....

If it were your child.....I am sure YOU would also imagine what you would do to that person if you personally caught them.

No one is calling for vigilante justice....they are doing something very human....they are trashing someone who apparently did something so heinous not to mention inhumane that there is no real justice for....even the death penalty is too good for him..... He certainly didn't have any empathy for his victim. He kept a child as his sexual slave for 10 yrs!

Bernardo de La Paz

(49,005 posts)
61. You have just admitted you advocate violence against ugly people because they are ugly.
Thu May 22, 2014, 09:42 AM
May 2014

That's prejudging, ... prejudice.

 

VanillaRhapsody

(21,115 posts)
58. No one ever said it was HIS child.....
Thu May 22, 2014, 09:36 AM
May 2014

certainly not I....

And I do not care if it WAS his child or not....he still doesn't deserve our "respect"....he will get a trial. Just like Dahmer and Gacy did...but we don't have to be nice to people (on the Internet) who are so sick and evil.

Bernardo de La Paz

(49,005 posts)
62. You & other guy keep raising "what if she was your child". She isn't the child of anybody
Thu May 22, 2014, 09:44 AM
May 2014

You & other guy keep raising "what if she was your child". She isn't the child of anybody in this thread.

But that fact doesn't get in the way of people calling for vigilante violence.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
51. I think that guy deserves a trial by jury, and he has a face his mother would have a tough time
Thu May 22, 2014, 09:20 AM
May 2014

loving. No wonder he had to kidnap his bride. Allegedly, of course...

Ms. Toad

(34,075 posts)
2. Shades of Ariel Castro in Cleveland.
Wed May 21, 2014, 05:57 PM
May 2014

Except he kidnapped 3, and had a child by one before they escaped/were rescued an average of a decade after they were kidnapped.

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
21. I just got done reading all the responses this far in this thread.
Wed May 21, 2014, 07:42 PM
May 2014

Last edited Wed May 21, 2014, 08:25 PM - Edit history (1)

and I have to say that your response waw the very same I had upon reading this story. It horrific, it's terrible and I truly hope this woman can find some normality (whatever that may be) in her life. To be taken away and abused in such a manner is just heartbreaking.

(Edited thanks to tblue37 pointing out my stupid auto correct error! )

tblue37

(65,403 posts)
26. You must also have a hyperactive (predictive) autocorrect on your computer.
Wed May 21, 2014, 08:18 PM
May 2014

Sometimes I am astonished to read the bizarre things my computer has changed my typed words into--and sometimes I don't catch it before hitting "post" (or hitting "send" on an email message).

I am quite certain that you did not type "abused in sushi a manner"!

TBF

(32,064 posts)
5. Thank you Ronald Reagan -
Wed May 21, 2014, 06:09 PM
May 2014

this is what we get when we cut mental health funding. We need to make services widely available and affordable so folks can get the help they so obviously need.

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
6. Not everything can be blamed on mental illness.
Wed May 21, 2014, 06:14 PM
May 2014

Some people are just evil bastards. I see no indication in the article that mental health issues played a roll here.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,321 posts)
11. That is not a defence of Ronald Reagan, and you are hijacking this thread
Wed May 21, 2014, 06:38 PM
May 2014

This is not about mental health. This man seems to have continually and cleverly acted in his own disgusting interests.

TBF

(32,064 posts)
35. I am not AT ALL surprised by the folks
Wed May 21, 2014, 10:29 PM
May 2014

who are unwilling to consider that mental illness might be an issue & that reactionary policies may have repercussions.

Very, very telling indeed.

And as for "hijacking" - it is not hijacking to consider that it is possible that a man that does this sort of thing is mentally ill. I would hazard a guess that it is more likely he is mentally ill than not. But oh no so many have to jump on the "he's an evil individual - kill him" train of thought that is so rampant amongst conservatives in this country. And apparently in other countries as well.

I feel like I am at a meeting of the young conservatives club.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,321 posts)
49. It's your repeated accusations of DUers being conservative that are out of bounds
Thu May 22, 2014, 08:20 AM
May 2014
No-one here has defended Reagan. What several of us have done is point out that you have no basis whatsoever for your claim that this man is mentally ill. You just don't like his morals. You have made the leap to blaming that on some mental illness in him, and then hit out any anyone who disagrees, unjustly accusing them of be conservatives.

TBF

(32,064 posts)
67. In post #50 I spell the republican meme
Thu May 22, 2014, 12:14 PM
May 2014

as follows:

Star Member TBF (24,260 posts)
65. This demand to blame everything on the individual

is a republican meme.

If you don't work hard enough you are bad and deserve to be poor.
If you aren't smart enough you are bad and deserve to be poor.
If you are ill and do horrible things you are bad and deserve to be poor (and/or die).
If you are ill and want health care too bad, you probably didn't work hard enough (because you're not smart enough).

This is the way they push everything on to the individual and decide that we don't need to fund services because it isn't society's fault - it's the individual.

Only republicans spout that crap. And third-way dems apparently.

It's wrong.

Peace out.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,321 posts)
73. And it's still offensive, even if you're saying it again and again
Thu May 22, 2014, 12:57 PM
May 2014

This is not about:
working hard
being smart
illness
healthcare

This is about someone who carefully abducted a girl, threatened her, made her believe she had no way out, and raped her repeatedly. The available evidence is that this man was pretty smart and hard-working - at keeping the girl/woman under his control. it is not 'Republican' to see him as an autonomous person who made decisions. Your repeated attempts to politicise this by calling DUers names are misplaced.

TBF

(32,064 posts)
77. No -
Thu May 22, 2014, 04:06 PM
May 2014

I had an opinion and you along with others attacked with a right-wing response. You should expect to be questioned about that on a progressive website.

Your characterization of events and general bossiness is laughable.

Go push someone else around.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
78. FYI
Thu May 22, 2014, 04:48 PM
May 2014

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muriel_volestrangler

(101,321 posts)
79. No - disagreeing with you is not 'right wing'
Thu May 22, 2014, 05:34 PM
May 2014

No-one has been right wing in this thread. You are just unable to accept anyone who doesn't support you. Keep your ego out of it. Stop insulting DUers.

Bernardo de La Paz

(49,005 posts)
13. It's not about RR, it's about facts and the truth.
Wed May 21, 2014, 06:44 PM
May 2014

Give us a credible reference that shows how the perpetrator is mentally ill or is more than 50% likely to be mentally ill.

If you can.

You can't. You don't have the fact.

So which is, wild allegation Republican style, or dependence on the facts, Progressive style?

TBF

(32,064 posts)
36. A progressive recognizes that mental illness exists -
Wed May 21, 2014, 10:33 PM
May 2014

as opposed to the reactionary "bad, bad man" that a republican yells out.

A progressive recognizes that policies have repercussions while a conservative will cut mental illness funding without a second glance.

Show me that this man is not mentally ill. I would say his actions are much more indicative of mental illness than not.

But this thread has been very interesting indeed. All manner of "evil, evil man" - "evil INDIVIDUAL" - as opposed to thinking about the various reasons someone could act out in this manner.

Very, very interesting indeed.

Bernardo de La Paz

(49,005 posts)
42. Your assertion he is ill, thus the ball is in your court. Progressives don't just make stuff up.
Thu May 22, 2014, 05:56 AM
May 2014

It's not very progressive to say "prove that he isn't mentally ill". That is just as unfounded as saying prove that Elizabeth Warren "isn't mentally ill" or George Clooney or Dick Cheney.

You made an unsupported assertion. Prove it. Provide credible references to his health history or analysis by credible psychological professionals. Ball is in your court. As a progressive you don't get to just make stuff up.

But I bet you won't ever admit you just made it up that this man has mental illness untreated because of Ronald Reagan and then you published the assertion to be recorded on DU.

Of course mental illness exists. So does cancer and football. Duh.

Of course policies have repercussions. But you have not shown any link. You think you can just spout off some wild speculations and not get called on it. Dream on.

TBF

(32,064 posts)
45. As I have said in several posts
Thu May 22, 2014, 07:46 AM
May 2014

you and others are intent on finding the "lone individual" evil and guilty rather than consider societal forces/policies that affect them. That is very conservative and even reactionary.

And even more surprisingly showing that horrible conservative policies can result in real world problems is a problem for you? I could understand your reaction if I said "Barack Obama's policies of cutting xyz led to ..." but I did not say that. I correctly brought up the policies that have resulted in mentally ill not being treated properly - Ronald Reagan's policies.

Again you and others refuse to understand policy can have impacts - individuals are affected by those policies. Instead you jump right to the republican "but he was evil and needs to die" model. Very telling.

Bernardo de La Paz

(49,005 posts)
50. Nope. I merely await the facts. You are the one jumping to conclusions.
Thu May 22, 2014, 09:16 AM
May 2014

You can find nothing in my posts where I say he is "evil" or "guilty" or make any assertion about him at all.

You have nothing when all you do is try to put words in my mouth.

Think and read and think again.

TBF

(32,064 posts)
65. This demand to blame everything on the individual
Thu May 22, 2014, 12:12 PM
May 2014

is a republican meme.

If you don't work hard enough you are bad and deserve to be poor.
If you aren't smart enough you are bad and deserve to be poor.
If you are ill and do horrible things you are bad and deserve to be poor (and/or die).
If you are ill and want health care too bad, you probably didn't work hard enough (because you're not smart enough).

This is the way they push everything on to the individual and decide that we don't need to fund services because it isn't society's fault - it's the individual.

Only republicans spout that crap. And third-way dems apparently.

It's wrong.

Peace out.

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
15. Who the hell was defending RR?
Wed May 21, 2014, 06:46 PM
May 2014

I think the guy was an unmitigated disaster, but that doesn't have anything to do with this thread.

TBF

(32,064 posts)
33. I get that but I think there is a point
Wed May 21, 2014, 10:27 PM
May 2014

to be made that sometimes our public policy decisions have repercussions. But it is interesting to note all the "it's just a bad, bad man and nothing can be done responses". Very reactionary and quite telling.

fujiyama

(15,185 posts)
37. Yes, of course political decisions have long term repercussions for people
Wed May 21, 2014, 10:38 PM
May 2014

but that's fairly obvious (unless you're an oblivious Tea Bagger).

However, that still doesn't rule out the reality that some people are just too far gone and just plain evil. Mental health funding may or may not have helped in this case. That certainly doesn't justify what Reagan did in terms of cutting mental health funding.

Look, even a country like Norway, with some of the most accessible mental health services in the world, couldn't prevent a lunatic from killing over 60 people (most of whom were children).

I honestly don't know what Reagan has to do with this story. I think there are much better and plenty of obvious examples of awful incidents that have occured, which better mental health access would have prevented.

TBF

(32,064 posts)
44. I'm sorry you didn't like my
Thu May 22, 2014, 07:39 AM
May 2014

comment. There are obviously many examples and I know exactly what you're speaking of in Norway - that was an example in which leftist (communist) youth were attacked. I worked in mental health for awhile in the 90s near Washington DC and the direct results of Reagan's cuts were obvious. I guess it really stuck with me because of that personal experience.

I still fail to see why criticizing Reagan's policies is taboo on this site, but live and learn I guess.

Veruca Salt

(921 posts)
46. "criticizing Reagan's policies is taboo"
Thu May 22, 2014, 07:56 AM
May 2014

Far from it! I would be right next to you criticising the hell out of that bastards policies, particularly when it involves all the mental health institutions that were closed and the people, who needed them, who were thrown out to the streets.

In this case though, until shown otherwise, all I see is an evil man who kidnapped then raped and enslaved a teenager for 10 years.

TBF

(32,064 posts)
48. I admit I'm not going to lose any sleep
Thu May 22, 2014, 08:05 AM
May 2014

over this guy. I have had to respond to all these comments and I was really surprised by them. I guess my mind made a jump that wasn't clearly a logical jump simply because I had the experience of working in a mental health field and seeing so many lose the services they needed.

I was speaking to societal level, but on an individual level I do think he's mentally ill - someone of sound mind would not perform what he is accused of. But whether he would be rehabilitated is another matter. Obviously I wouldn't want him living on my street or anywhere near my own kids. I do understand the visceral reaction many have and I share that.

TBF

(32,064 posts)
70. Thanks -
Thu May 22, 2014, 12:17 PM
May 2014

the bright spot is that I've just added more third-way dems to my ignore list.

I hope to god Elizabeth Warren runs in 2016 - I'm not sure how much more of this I can take.

TBF

(32,064 posts)
71. Also totally off topic,
Thu May 22, 2014, 12:19 PM
May 2014

but I just wanted to comment that I love your user name.

My daughter is in Willy Wonka this summer.

fujiyama

(15,185 posts)
80. Actually I'd be really interested in hearing more about your experiences
Thu May 22, 2014, 07:35 PM
May 2014

during the time of the cuts. And I have heard the cuts resulted in many on the streets.

I just didn't see a direct or relevant link between a lunatic that kidnapped a woman for some ten years and a dead president that's been out of office for twenty five years. Criticizing Reagan is great, and his abhorrent policies should be brought to light. However, unless there is evidence that this guy at some point sought mental health treatment and was turned away or was the victim of such cuts, I'm not seeing a link.

That certainly doesn't negate the evil of Reagan's policies.

JI7

(89,252 posts)
8. i don't think this has anything to do with medical mental health issues,some people are just shits
Wed May 21, 2014, 06:16 PM
May 2014

Judi Lynn

(160,545 posts)
14. Startling!At first I wondered if they weren't upside down.His head is tilted back too far.
Wed May 21, 2014, 06:44 PM
May 2014

It probably might make them look much farther down than they really are. I would hope!

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
10. The details are heartbreaking.
Wed May 21, 2014, 06:22 PM
May 2014
Police said in a statement he had been living with the girl's family at the time of her disappearance.

The abuse began in 2004, the statement said, when Mr Garcia was dating the victim's mother and living with the family in Santa Ana, a city in Orange County.

The police allege that Mr Garcia began sexually assaulting the victim in June of that year. Two months later he assaulted the victim's mother and drugged the then-14-year-old, locking her in a garage.

The two moved on several occasions to avoid police detection, the police statement says."


He forced her into a marriage and got her pregnant. I'm curious about how easy it was for them to escape detection. (I'm implying disinterest from the authorities.)

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
72. Well, after enough abuse she had been mentally and emotionally
Thu May 22, 2014, 12:42 PM
May 2014

conditioned to "play" her role as wife and later mother, so she was essentially hidden in plain sight...The fact that they hosted parties and their neighbors all saw them as an everyday hardworking, loving couple is pretty scary...

The big difference between this and Castro is Castro shielded his victims from ALL public contact...

Judi Lynn

(160,545 posts)
16. So many changes in anyone's life between 15 and 25. Unbelievable!
Wed May 21, 2014, 06:50 PM
May 2014

Hope the very best for this young lady: may she find a way into the world again, to resume her real life. Best wishes to her and her family, also traumatized. Undoubtedly they lived in fear so long that she had been murdered.

Earth_First

(14,910 posts)
24. Prison Justice?
Wed May 21, 2014, 07:51 PM
May 2014

Let's not ignore that this happens...however, making casual comments/banter on the vanity of this individual to equate that he'll "hear his justice coming..." is very troubling.

Ms. Toad

(34,075 posts)
25. Please self-delete.
Wed May 21, 2014, 07:52 PM
May 2014

Or clarify, on the unlikely chance you are suggesting something other than prison rape. Suggesting rape as a punishment is not cool.

kath

(10,565 posts)
81. yes, she needs to clarify. Jokes or comments about prison rape should absolutely be banned here.
Sat May 24, 2014, 12:46 AM
May 2014

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
84. Rape/torture is not part of a prison sentence.
Sun May 25, 2014, 07:51 AM
May 2014

And if it were, I'm pretty sure that would violate the 8th Amendment.

Otherwise, though, I couldn't really care less what happens to this particular piece of shit.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
20. These stories make me ill
Wed May 21, 2014, 07:34 PM
May 2014

To ruin a young womans life like that. To take her adolescence and post adolescence from her. That is the golden period in our lives. When we say, "Back in the day" that is generally the period of which we speak.

I'm glad her family has her back, I assume they gave her up for dead after that long.

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
23. She was kidnapped when Bush was President.
Wed May 21, 2014, 07:50 PM
May 2014

When is he going to answer for his crimes, including this?

mackerel

(4,412 posts)
38. Sociopaths do not see themselves as
Wed May 21, 2014, 10:51 PM
May 2014

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mentally ill and there is no workable treatment for a sociopath. Sociopaths are born that way.

fujiyama

(15,185 posts)
39. Usually these sorts of stories end much worse
Wed May 21, 2014, 10:58 PM
May 2014

It's incredible she survived this. I hope he never sees the light of day again.

Liberty Belle

(9,535 posts)
40. She stayed with him because he threatened to have her family deported,
Thu May 22, 2014, 02:33 AM
May 2014

according to PBS. One more reason why we shouldn't have people forced to live in the shadows.

 
76. It's hard to wrap my head around
Thu May 22, 2014, 03:33 PM
May 2014

why she didn't escape earlier. But I have no idea how it feels to be in that situation.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
83. He told her that her family
Sat May 24, 2014, 04:18 PM
May 2014

didn't want her and that, if she reported him/escaped, he would call ICE and have her family deported (they were/are undocumented workers). Remember, she was 15 when she was taken, I'm assuming didn't speak English well and had little/no skills, so, in her mind, there were no other options.

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