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Not a single trump voter at our thanksgiving table (Original Post) brokephibroke Nov 2017 OP
That is certainly something to be thankful for.... nt Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #1
Same at our table! Va Lefty Nov 2017 #2
Grateful to say that the same is true at mine. MANative Nov 2017 #3
Nor mine Cirque du So-What Nov 2017 #4
Same. Enjoy your day! lunasun Nov 2017 #5
I suspect we have a couple of Trump voters at our table TomSlick Nov 2017 #6
Nor at ours. Aristus Nov 2017 #7
Us too Freddie Nov 2017 #8
I would never break bread with a trump voter gopiscrap Nov 2017 #9
The same with our family. We are truly thankful! Arkansas Granny Nov 2017 #10
Lucky you. Sounds like you hang out with smart people. democratisphere Nov 2017 #11
No, everybody I am with is smart. Doreen Nov 2017 #12
Me too SCantiGOP Nov 2017 #13
Nothing but Trump voters where I am. edbermac Nov 2017 #14
My advice brokephibroke Nov 2017 #15
Last year no one at our thanksgiving table supported twitler kimbutgar Nov 2017 #16
Nor ours, but out of 20 people, only 2 can vote in the USA anyhow. DFW Nov 2017 #17
Don't know for sure, but if there were, they were damned quiet. nt aka-chmeee Nov 2017 #18
At the beginning of our dinner with 24 relatives Danascot Nov 2017 #19
Not a clue about our table. Yonnie3 Nov 2017 #20
Same here! Dulcinea Nov 2017 #21
One sentence was all I heard, all day. sofa king Nov 2017 #22
We invited the Trump supporting side of the family. Baitball Blogger Nov 2017 #23
I was with a mixed crowd but not ONE Upthevibe Nov 2017 #24
I am sure there were a couple, but they kept their mouths shut other than to eat. Thor_MN Nov 2017 #25
Same here Gothmog Nov 2017 #26
Mine was the usual 50/50 split. We don't talk politics, but Alice11111 Nov 2017 #27
Out of 11, we had three djt fans. Comatose Sphagetti Nov 2017 #28

TomSlick

(11,098 posts)
6. I suspect we have a couple of Trump voters at our table
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:02 PM
Nov 2017

but they'd never admit it. Too badly out numbered.

Aristus

(66,380 posts)
7. Nor at ours.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:02 PM
Nov 2017

Mrs. Aristus will be the only erstwhile Republican. But she hasn't voted -R- in a Presidential election in years.

Thanksgiving dinner will be a safe place tonight.

Freddie

(9,267 posts)
8. Us too
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:04 PM
Nov 2017

I am extremely thankful that ALL of my relatives but one is on the correct side of things. My Republican cousin never comes to our family things (she does holidays with family on her dad’s side) which is fine. She’s a retired teacher who enjoys a nice pension thanks to the teachers union, go figure.

democratisphere

(17,235 posts)
11. Lucky you. Sounds like you hang out with smart people.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:48 PM
Nov 2017

I have several deplorable drumpf voters at my table and they give me more than indigestion.

SCantiGOP

(13,871 posts)
13. Me too
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 01:57 PM
Nov 2017

8 out of 9 voted Dem.
Only one who didn't is 13 years old and is probably the most anti-Trump person in the crowd.

edbermac

(15,940 posts)
14. Nothing but Trump voters where I am.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 02:43 PM
Nov 2017

Been here a few days and his name hasn’t been mentioned once. I suspect they’re too embarrassed.

kimbutgar

(21,155 posts)
16. Last year no one at our thanksgiving table supported twitler
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 03:00 PM
Nov 2017

This year we might encounter my cousins in laws who voted for twitler. It will be interesting but I am not going to say a word about him. I don’t want to lose my appetite.

DFW

(54,397 posts)
17. Nor ours, but out of 20 people, only 2 can vote in the USA anyhow.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 03:41 PM
Nov 2017

The rest are citizens of other countries. I had to work all day today, but we are having our big dinner tomorrow night.

Danascot

(4,690 posts)
19. At the beginning of our dinner with 24 relatives
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 10:45 AM
Nov 2017

our host, my brother-in-law announced that politics and religion were off limits as topics for the duration. My b-i-l is a wise man.

Dulcinea

(6,638 posts)
21. Same here!
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 12:17 PM
Nov 2017

It was just me, my husband, & our two teenage daughters. We all agree that Trump is an abomination.

My 16-year-old may be Trevor Noah's biggest fan! We DVR the Daily Show & binge watch! We call him her TV boyfriend.

sofa king

(10,857 posts)
22. One sentence was all I heard, all day.
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 01:22 PM
Nov 2017

Not going to sugar coat this: I spent Thanksgiving with a racist hyperconservative faction of my family, the same ones who spent this time last year in total jubilation and triumph. This year?

Ancient Warhorse: Thank God for McMaster, huh?

Silence...

Silence...

Silence...

Silence...

Aunt: This gravy is great.

I was very, very impressed. There was a weight of shame and regret in that non-response that I frankly never expected to see. Every single one of them yesterday could hear their own parents and grandparents hissing at them, "traitor." And now they can finally hear it, 13 months too late.

Upthevibe

(8,051 posts)
24. I was with a mixed crowd but not ONE
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 01:59 PM
Nov 2017

word regarding politics, current events, etc. was mentioned....I also think people are inwardly embarrassed (but who knows)...


Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
27. Mine was the usual 50/50 split. We don't talk politics, but
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 02:29 AM
Nov 2017

it is all around us...tension. Even the football game sparked my aunt saying that she couldn't watch it any more after the kneeling, as though she expected us to agree with her, rather than change the subject, but most of the Repubs were watching.
We did have fun and laugh a lot though. Having very young kids around provided lots of distractions.

Comatose Sphagetti

(836 posts)
28. Out of 11, we had three djt fans.
Sat Nov 25, 2017, 10:21 AM
Nov 2017

My wife's side of the family. They never said a word about politics. But they are polite and I wouldn't expect them to anyway.

I didn't go to my family's TG. They are all, each and every one, trumpers. Probably 20+ of them. I didn't want to go there and, luckily, our dinner went long so I called and canceled.
It is so, so sad and heartbreaking. I love my family. They have been there for me in rough times and would be again. But I don't want to be around them. It is like they are from an alternate world. The religiosity, authoritarianism, lack of critical thinking skills, cognitive dissonance - I cannot begin to comprehend it. It is as if they have been taken from me - victims of a communal psychosis they cannot and refuse to see.
I used to work with people in recovery. I see the same symptoms in trumpers I saw with addicts - delusion, denial, rationalization, minimization, grandiosity, self-centered fear. And as with addicts, it might take catastrophic consequences to the deluded to elicit change - and sometimes not even then.

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