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3catwoman3

(23,980 posts)
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 02:07 PM Jul 2018

When away from home, what do you miss most about your own house?

I miss the master bathroom. We had it redone a few years ago, and I love it - prettiest room in the house, actually. Big walk-in shower with vigorous water pressure, and built-in nooks and crannies for all my hair stuff and body stuff. Plenty of room to stretch out my legs while shaving them (trying to shave long legs in a shower stall is next to impossible). Large recessed medicine cabinet. Lots of storage. Good lighting. A deep soaking tub.

As far as the "homey" aspect of the house, I miss our cats when we are away.

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When away from home, what do you miss most about your own house? (Original Post) 3catwoman3 Jul 2018 OP
My garden and my dogs. redstatebluegirl Jul 2018 #1
Mostly my bed.........and my desk top computer. CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2018 #2
My desk top for sure!! LeftInTX Jul 2018 #25
on the money, Peggy! rurallib Jul 2018 #33
My cats Freddie Jul 2018 #3
same here nt yellowdogintexas Jul 2018 #32
My dog--always! hlthe2b Jul 2018 #4
When I had dogs, I could hardly bear to leave Rorey Jul 2018 #10
When I'm away from home, I make it a point to be somewhere where I don't miss home. DFW Jul 2018 #5
... Kali Jul 2018 #8
Exactly. We feel the same way. DFW Jul 2018 #11
My tap water. Cracklin Charlie Jul 2018 #6
When we had dogs, I missed them like crazy. LisaM Jul 2018 #7
Cleanliness, solitude and privacy Rorey Jul 2018 #9
SO spot on! pnwest Jul 2018 #17
Amen!! zeusdogmom Jul 2018 #18
My library. Aristus Jul 2018 #12
My bed and my kitchen Phoenix61 Jul 2018 #13
The dogs Runningdawg Jul 2018 #14
My cats, my bed ailsagirl Jul 2018 #15
I miss my flock of birds and the dog I rescued in Alabama. In_The_Wind Jul 2018 #16
Riverfront location! elleng Jul 2018 #19
The first sight of the house as we drive up the road LakeArenal Jul 2018 #20
Just the fact that it's my house and my stuff. The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2018 #21
Only the dogs and we usually take them...so not a damn thing Phentex Jul 2018 #22
Our custom built shower - and the quiet csziggy Jul 2018 #23
My shower. My showerhead. Iggo Jul 2018 #24
Yeah. dchill Jul 2018 #27
Being able to sprawl out on the floor.... LeftInTX Jul 2018 #26
The smell. cilla4progress Jul 2018 #28
my cat. gopiscrap Jul 2018 #29
The Relaxation and Comfort of Being in My Own House Leith Jul 2018 #30
My bed then bath marlakay Jul 2018 #31
My cats, books, and computers. nt tblue37 Jul 2018 #34

Freddie

(9,265 posts)
3. My cats
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 02:14 PM
Jul 2018

I miss our 2 boys like crazy when we travel even though I know their main concern is that the "feeding person" stops by. And our fairly new fridge with ice in the door. Didn't know how much I'd like that feature til we got one.

hlthe2b

(102,263 posts)
4. My dog--always!
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 02:14 PM
Jul 2018


As soon as she's out of eye shot, I miss her! People, you can message and talk with by phone or videochat. But my girlie---well, it isn't the same.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
10. When I had dogs, I could hardly bear to leave
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 02:33 PM
Jul 2018

I knew they were well taken care of, but I knew they missed me as much as I missed them. We lost our last guy over three years ago, and the worst part of coming home is still that empty feeling of realizing that he's gone.

DFW

(54,378 posts)
5. When I'm away from home, I make it a point to be somewhere where I don't miss home.
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 02:15 PM
Jul 2018

I put in my fifty years of roughing it.

Kali

(55,008 posts)
8. ...
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 02:23 PM
Jul 2018


don't get me wrong - I love my home, I love the ranch and even this decrepit old house, but traveling away from home...I want to enjoy it, not miss home!

DFW

(54,378 posts)
11. Exactly. We feel the same way.
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 02:45 PM
Jul 2018

We are heading off for our annual vacation on Friday. We didn't even have our usual long weekend together in Spain this past March because both my wife and her mom got that horrible flu that was going round.

We are going to spend four weeks away from home, away from Europe, and away from mostly everything. The only things we have scheduled are three concerts at a tiny local venue. Al Stewart, Mary Chapin Carpenter and Arlo Guthrie. Nothing else on the timetable other than picking up the occasional family member or friend at the local airport (8 seater Cessnas the biggest planes that can land there), and catching as many incredible sunsets from our dinner table as Mother Nature is willing to offer us.

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Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
6. My tap water.
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 02:22 PM
Jul 2018

My city has some of the best in the nation (there are contests).

First thing I do when I get home...pour a big, icy glass.

LisaM

(27,811 posts)
7. When we had dogs, I missed them like crazy.
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 02:23 PM
Jul 2018

Now, I guess I miss being able to watch my sports teams (we have the MLB and NHL packages), and my books, plus being able to cook.

Our apartment is fine, but it's an apartment, and there's nothing in it I'm particularly attached to.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
9. Cleanliness, solitude and privacy
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 02:29 PM
Jul 2018

I am not a fan of hotels, public restrooms, airplanes, airports, and most restaurants. I know that makes me sound like a hermit. I'm not. I enjoy seeing things and experiencing things. It's just really nice to sleep in my own bed, shower in my own shower, and eat from my own kitchen.



Phoenix61

(17,003 posts)
13. My bed and my kitchen
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 02:51 PM
Jul 2018

Although if I have access to a grocery store it's just the bed. I don't like eating out every meal because the portions are so large. I know, I know, I could always get a go box but when it tastes so yummy it's hard to stop. Don't even get me started on the evil little shits who come by with that damn dessert cart.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
16. I miss my flock of birds and the dog I rescued in Alabama.
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 03:10 PM
Jul 2018

It isn't luxurious but it is my roof over our head.

LakeArenal

(28,817 posts)
20. The first sight of the house as we drive up the road
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 04:55 PM
Jul 2018

I miss driving in the drive way and saying...
HOME, YAY

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,686 posts)
21. Just the fact that it's my house and my stuff.
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 05:56 PM
Jul 2018

If I'm away from home I feel a little out of sorts because nothing is mine. The house itself is nothing special - it's small and old - but it's my lair and I'm comfortable there. And I always miss my cats when I'm away.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
22. Only the dogs and we usually take them...so not a damn thing
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 06:04 PM
Jul 2018

I love my toilet but hotels have decent ones. I don't hate my house but I would move tomorrow if I could.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
23. Our custom built shower - and the quiet
Tue Jul 10, 2018, 11:00 PM
Jul 2018

Our shower is really pretty simple - 5x5 foot room, big bench at the back, shower head on one side, handheld spray on the other, grab/safety rails all over, tiled to the ceiling. But it is so comfortable to use and I feel safe in it even when I am unsteady on my feet.

The other thing I miss when we travel is the quiet. It's not as quiet in this area as when we first bought the farm in 1978. Now there are subdivisions all around us. But it is still very quiet, especially since our "new" house is made with ICF walls with great insulation. I can't hear my neighbors much any more and most noise never makes through the walls.

LeftInTX

(25,316 posts)
26. Being able to sprawl out on the floor....
Wed Jul 11, 2018, 01:39 AM
Jul 2018

I've got a bad back and I spend a good chunk of time on the floor stretching.

Leith

(7,809 posts)
30. The Relaxation and Comfort of Being in My Own House
Wed Jul 11, 2018, 11:27 PM
Jul 2018

I can shuffle around in my jammies, the fridge and pantry have snacks that I like best and are already paid for, the TV stations are where I expect them to be. I know exactly what went into cleaning the place and any dirt is just mine.

Maybe somebody can relate, but I love my own bathroom. It has my toothbrush in my holder and my favorite toilet paper.

marlakay

(11,465 posts)
31. My bed then bath
Wed Jul 11, 2018, 11:37 PM
Jul 2018

We just bought trailer and the one thing i had done before we left was upgraded bed immediately.

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