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Jeebo

(2,025 posts)
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 08:48 PM Jan 2020

Music addicts...

What do y'all think about people who just HAVE to be listening to music ALL THE TIME?

We all know them. They jog down the street or along the nature trail or through the park with their white earbuds in. They always have the stereo in their car going full blast. They take a shower with the shower caddy radio tuned to the local Top 40 station. They have the table radio at work going constantly, or the computer on Pandora. They even SLEEP, for heaven's sake, with the bedside radio softly humming on the local Top 40 station. They go through life listening to music nonstop; they're NEVER not listening to music.

I think there is some kind of psychological dependency issue here, similar to drug addiction, alcoholism or other forms of chemical dependency. If they were suddenly stranded on a tropical desert island without wi-fi or any kind of electronic connectivity, I think before long they would start exhibiting serious withdrawal symptoms.

I love music. I think it's one of the highest art forms humans have yet invented. I think it's a form of nonverbal communication. (Yes, you can add words to music, but those words, while they ideally should complement the music in some way, are nevertheless something apart from the music itself.)

But even though I love music, and I often listen to it, I don't HAVE to listen to it ALL THE TIME. I can take it or leave it, and I often leave it. I have a Sirius satellite radio in my car, and it is usually tuned to the progressive talk radio station or the old-time radio station, only occasionally to the two or three music stations I like.

-- Ron

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Coventina

(27,135 posts)
1. I have never heard of anyone over the age of 20 obsessively listening to Top 40.
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 09:10 PM
Jan 2020

But I suppose I sort of qualify, if you leave out the showering part.

I listen to music (loosely defined, as sometimes it's noise generators) almost all the time. For me, it's therapy.
It helps me to focus and concentrate as well as relax. (I know that sounds contradictory, but it's true).

I love all genres of music. I get season tickets to our local symphony, I attend rock concerts, I listen to the pop of my youth, and I vastly enjoy world music. I'm almost always listening to one of the above, depending on the situation or mood I'm in.

Sure, I suppose you could call it psychological dependency, but you seem to think that's a bad thing, somehow.
I don't understand why you'd think that, though.

mia

(8,361 posts)
2. I wake up early every day just to go outside and listen to the music of
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 09:20 PM
Jan 2020

my neighborhood waking up. It's still dark. The birds are the first things that I listen for. If I had to choose, I'd rather be blind than to give up hearing. Music soothes my soul.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,777 posts)
4. I listen to classical music most of the time when I'm home or driving.
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 09:33 PM
Jan 2020

Can't stand the Top 40 stuff. Right now I'm listening to some lovely early Baroque music on Sirius/XM radio through my Alexa.

Ahpook

(2,750 posts)
6. It might take the mind off
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 11:08 PM
Jan 2020

the actual workout? For instance, I have ran marathons and a couple triathlons which take not only physical ability, but an equal amount of mental ability. I don't listen to music, though. I listened to my body and surroundings. Natural beauty invigorates me much more.

Everyone is different though!

Sadly, listening to music is a chore to me lately. Playing in bands and multiple instruments kicks in a sense of dissection. I wonder what key or scale. It can go on down to what effects, amps, etc. Its insane and I hate it

Just my 2.

On edit: I am mostly tuned to progressive radio in the car as well. I love Thom , but his show has as much commercial time as show time.

What limited time I can listen is mostly commercials I'd bet it is 50/50 regarding air time and commercials easily.

Makes me want to ditch satellite radio. Very close to it!



Iggo

(47,561 posts)
10. I get that.
Mon Jan 27, 2020, 10:18 AM
Jan 2020

The kids in my office yell “stop it” when they’re playing a current song and I sing along with the song it was ripped off from.

Chord progressions. They never leave you alone.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,492 posts)
7. Some people seem almost to have a fear of silence.....
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 11:22 PM
Jan 2020

I suspect extreme extroverts. Perhaps they can't deal with the realities that come with an undistracted mind.

I know people who can't sleep without the noise of a TV on, which is counter to primitive human nature.

As one that's the exact opposite who must have long periods of silence, I use certain types of music as an anti-depressant - those "feel-good" cords that are well known to composers, but I use it very selectively. I doubt if the folks you speak of are using music in that way.

KY.........

Archae

(46,339 posts)
8. Without my hearing aids...
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 11:48 PM
Jan 2020

I have bad tinnitus.

So I am in the habit of having the TV on, and if not the TV, I put on music.
Still do, since I just like music.

The actual music varies from time to time, I listen to classical the most.

YouTube, (I love 70's and 80's tunes,) Pandora, and when I'm on my bicycle I put on my "assorted" tunes. (Mp3 player with 600+ tunes of just about every genre.)

Dukkha

(7,341 posts)
12. Much better than one guy I know
Mon Jan 27, 2020, 01:13 PM
Jan 2020

Every time he enters the gym the first thing he does is turn on Fox News and CNN and watches both simultaneously. Cable news is not just an addiction it's a mental illness.

Thant being said I live and die for music. I've been making it for 30 years now and listen to it often. BUT I also cherish silence. I'm also self-aware enough to understand that one person's music is another person's noise. SO many neighbors in my past were obtuse to that fact. It goes beyond music some people just need something playing all the time, be it music, TV, online streaming. Because they are uncomfortable with the silence they're not deep thinkers.

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