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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsSo, a question for the ages, what do I wear for my first day in the office tomorrow?
New job starts tomorrow and I have wardrobe conflictions. It looks like the COO does full on corporate. But everyone else is semi formal. I have the choice of suit dress and jacket, or trousers, professional top and a more relaxed Ralph Lauren jacket. I need to get everyone's buy in because I am about to shake up their world, so being too pins and stripes might get create barriers. On the other hand my COO is my COO. I think I might be over thinking this.
LakeArenal
(28,867 posts)FWIW.
Lars39
(26,117 posts)I know Ive been stress eating a bit.
Congrats on your new job!
Soph0571
(9,685 posts)luckily everything still fits if only just. I have been trying on both to try and make my decision. *sigh*
Lars39
(26,117 posts)Soph0571
(9,685 posts)Of course I want to be back on a board asap. hhhhmmm
mitch96
(13,942 posts)Siwsan
(26,318 posts)I'd vote for the trouser outfit.
Soph0571
(9,685 posts)it has been a long 2020! It is a very nice outfit. Going back into my wardrobe to my work clothes is like soooo 2019.
spooky3
(34,525 posts)later. And, you can always take a jacket off on that first day. If someone were to give you a hard time in the event that you seem overdressed, you can just say you need time to learn the norms.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)Dream Girl
(5,111 posts)I would opt for pants vs. a dress. I dont see many women wearing dresses or skirts these days. But it varies so much by where you live. On the west coast tech sector, we are super casual. I say try to appear buttoned up but relaxed. Not trying too hard.
Soph0571
(9,685 posts)I am in a sector you will never heard of in the states. The Independent Learning Provider sector.
alittlelark
(18,890 posts)CASUAL jacket - and a piece of casual statement jewelry.
Make sure u r not 'one of them' - the bosses. U r u and u r accessible.
U will have MINIONS.
Sanity Claws
(21,866 posts)I don't know what kind of office you will be working in but in my world, that first outfit would be appropriate only if meeting with clients or otherwise have a formal meeting.
My advice is based on my work in law firms in Seattle and NYC.
Soph0571
(9,685 posts)I have many formal suits and many semi-formal outfits. I have a creaking room of doom from spending far too much money over the years on these things,
Sanity Claws
(21,866 posts)Can you gauge how people dress in an office by looking at how people dress in the Tube or in the area around the office? For example, in NYC, you would definitely see a different dress code around Wall Street than you would around the Flat Iron district.
pnwest
(3,266 posts)the first day - let the COO and everyone else know that things are going to be serious. Then after that, go semi, so as to be approachable.
PJMcK
(22,068 posts)Best of luck, Soph.
My suggestion is to dress formally at first since that's how the COO dresses. At least at first. Once you've settled in, you can probably lighten up a bit.
I hope this works well for you!
AmyStrange
(7,989 posts)-
Sorry, but I couldn't resist.
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flamin lib
(14,559 posts)Make a first impression and soften it later if need be. You only get one first impression.
Feel like doing a happy dance for ya'.
Tribalceltic
(1,000 posts)And you will Rock them, I can feel it!
Fla Dem
(23,872 posts)Niagara
(7,744 posts)I'm sure you'll do great no matter what you choose to wear.
GemDigger
(4,305 posts)I hope you had a great first day back at the grind.
Soph0571
(9,685 posts)And it was great. I fitted right in. And now I am off to do some financial profiling. LOL