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Marthe48

(17,018 posts)
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 08:21 PM Nov 2020

Ideas for gift of the month

My daughter and her husband do a lot for me. They are financially secure and have all they need. I usually get them restaurant gift cards, which they use and appreciate, but with Covid-19, this year I'd like to do something different. My daughter gives a lot of time and money to the community, so even if donating to the food bank or humane society in their name is an option, I'd like to give them a gift just for them that is meaningful. I'd get them memberships to the local live theatre or history museum, but not this year. I'm going to make her a photobook, such as Shutterfly.

I'm thinking about a gift of the month, but instead of the same thing each month, I'd love to find a service that offered different categories, not just different themes. I saw a subcription for candles, kind of liked that, but even high-end candles don't say what I want to say. I saw a cool idea where you pick cities and each month you get a sampler of food and items from small businesses in cities you picked.

Does anyone have any suggestions? Any experience with any monthly gift subscriptions? Thank you for any ideas

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Ideas for gift of the month (Original Post) Marthe48 Nov 2020 OP
Coffee or wine of the month? SheltieLover Nov 2020 #1
They don't drink a lot Marthe48 Nov 2020 #4
I'm not sure if it would apply: LakeArenal Nov 2020 #2
I like the idea of flowers every month Marthe48 Nov 2020 #5
If you take care of them and change the water everyday you can make cut flowers last two weeks LakeArenal Nov 2020 #8
My son-in-law just brought me a bouquet of roses Marthe48 Nov 2020 #10
Also. if you use 30% flat soda of some kind... 2naSalit Nov 2020 #11
Yes. You love flowers too. LakeArenal Nov 2020 #12
My aunt used to get my grandmother fresh cut flowers every week. applegrove Nov 2020 #3
How sweet :) Marthe48 Nov 2020 #7
Yes. Flowers are great. I love colour and have fake flowers here and there. applegrove Nov 2020 #14
Look at the goodies on nuts.com nocoincidences Nov 2020 #6
That's a good idea Marthe48 Nov 2020 #9
A friend told me about this site that lists dozens of subscription boxes. It looks Arkansas Granny Nov 2020 #13
Thanks! Marthe48 Nov 2020 #15
Got in touch with my nephew's wife Marthe48 Nov 2020 #16
There's always the Hefer Organization. Laffy Kat Nov 2020 #17
my 2 cents NJCher Nov 2020 #18
I like that one too Marthe48 Nov 2020 #19
Here is a link to that idea Marthe48 Nov 2020 #20

Marthe48

(17,018 posts)
4. They don't drink a lot
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 08:32 PM
Nov 2020

My daughter loves McDonalds coffee and I usually get her a gift card for 30 days of coffee. S-I-L doesn't drink much coffee.
I got them Harry and David Tower of Chocolate 2 times this last year.

LakeArenal

(28,845 posts)
2. I'm not sure if it would apply:
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 08:24 PM
Nov 2020

One year Mr Lake gave me fresh flowers every month for a year.
Different vase every month.
For Mr L. that’s the height of romance.

Marthe48

(17,018 posts)
5. I like the idea of flowers every month
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 08:38 PM
Nov 2020

I loved it when my husband got me flowers. It wasn't every month, but every big day

LakeArenal

(28,845 posts)
8. If you take care of them and change the water everyday you can make cut flowers last two weeks
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 08:42 PM
Nov 2020

So they are much nicer than a dinner out somewhere that lasts about eight hours and ends in your toilet.

Marthe48

(17,018 posts)
10. My son-in-law just brought me a bouquet of roses
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 08:49 PM
Nov 2020

My best friend told me years ago to run hot tap water over the cut end of the roses and cut about an inch off each stem while the water is running over them. Then arrange them in room temperature. Almost always helps the flowers stay fresh.

The bouquet he brought me lasted over 2 weeks and dried really nice. I always cut the bloom off and save them.

2naSalit

(86,775 posts)
11. Also. if you use 30% flat soda of some kind...
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 08:58 PM
Nov 2020

It makes them last a long time. Still change the water often but the highly refined sugar helps feed them. The reason you cut the stems under water, you can do it in a bowl, is because you want water to be what gets into the stem. If you do it out of water, the stem gets air in it and blocks any other hydration after that.

Does that make any sense?

applegrove

(118,778 posts)
14. Yes. Flowers are great. I love colour and have fake flowers here and there.
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 09:30 PM
Nov 2020

I can't afford the real kind every week.

nocoincidences

(2,229 posts)
6. Look at the goodies on nuts.com
Sat Nov 28, 2020, 08:38 PM
Nov 2020

They have gift baskets, all kinds of assortments of nuts, candies, dried fruit and other treats.

http://nuts.com

Marthe48

(17,018 posts)
16. Got in touch with my nephew's wife
Sun Nov 29, 2020, 01:26 PM
Nov 2020

She sells Young Living essential oils. She is going to set me up with an initial gift and then maybe a different oil each month. She is checking possibilities.

I got some other gifts ordered last night, which I think they'll enjoy.

Thanks for all of the suggestions. I'm taking notes for others on my list

NJCher

(35,730 posts)
18. my 2 cents
Sun Nov 29, 2020, 07:28 PM
Nov 2020
I saw a cool idea where you pick cities and each month you get a sampler of food and items from small businesses in cities you picked.


CLEVER.

And fun, too.
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