Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

Danmel

(4,915 posts)
Fri Oct 1, 2021, 05:50 PM Oct 2021

My daughter is getting married in 3 weeks-need suggestions

For first dance with her dad. Some of the songs suggested by the dj strike me as either borderline incestuous or creepily possessive. She isn't our possession after all.
Anyone got any ideas?
Preferably not too twangy.

29 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
My daughter is getting married in 3 weeks-need suggestions (Original Post) Danmel Oct 2021 OP
What a wonderful world bottomofthehill Oct 2021 #1
Louis Armstrong. Grasswire2 Oct 2021 #2
We planned this long before the pandemic Danmel Oct 2021 #11
came here to say this snpsmom Oct 2021 #6
Best choice imo SheltieLover Oct 2021 #16
How 'bout a list of choices Nittersing Oct 2021 #3
There are some great songs on this list! bottomofthehill Oct 2021 #7
My youngest daughter and I dweller Oct 2021 #4
I Hope You Dance catrose Oct 2021 #5
This is perfect and is the song we used Totally Tunsie Oct 2021 #13
I was hoping to dance it with my son at his wedding, should that ever happen catrose Oct 2021 #18
I hope you dance... Totally Tunsie Oct 2021 #20
Aaaaaaaawwwwwwwwww catrose Oct 2021 #22
Excellent! 👏👏👏👏 SheltieLover Oct 2021 #15
Paul Simon. Father and Daughter vanlassie Oct 2021 #8
I like that one..Never heard it before LeftInTX Oct 2021 #21
My daughter and her dad used it. It was lovely. 💕 vanlassie Oct 2021 #27
Wreck of the Edmund Fitsgerald? I didn't say it was a good idea. But you are right about the ... marble falls Oct 2021 #9
I think this is pretty LakeArenal Oct 2021 #10
How about "Our Love Is Here To Stay" by the Gershwins? yellowdogintexas Oct 2021 #12
"Unforgettable" by Nat King Cole and daughter Natalie. Sneederbunk Oct 2021 #14
Whatever you choose, bring your own CD containing the song. Totally Tunsie Oct 2021 #17
Lots of us use that one! catrose Oct 2021 #19
Isn't She Lovely by Stevie Wonder GumboYaYa Oct 2021 #23
This one seems decent. I don't think it's too mushy LeftInTX Oct 2021 #24
I don't have a recommendation per se... but I would avoid Afternoon Delight. cinematicdiversions Oct 2021 #25
Another one to avoid, if you don't want to appear incestuous LeftInTX Oct 2021 #28
Are there any songs that mean something to the two of you? RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #26
Isn't she lovely it is Danmel Oct 2021 #29

dweller

(23,632 posts)
4. My youngest daughter and I
Fri Oct 1, 2021, 06:01 PM
Oct 2021

danced to Tom Petty’s WILDFLOWERS …
Her choice and it was easy and medium slow enough

✌🏻

Totally Tunsie

(10,885 posts)
13. This is perfect and is the song we used
Fri Oct 1, 2021, 06:21 PM
Oct 2021

for the Mother/Son dance at my youngest son's wedding. The sentiment is wonderful.

For my oldest son's wedding, we danced to "I Will Always Love You", Dolly Parton version...another goodie.

marble falls

(57,081 posts)
9. Wreck of the Edmund Fitsgerald? I didn't say it was a good idea. But you are right about the ...
Fri Oct 1, 2021, 06:16 PM
Oct 2021

creep factor about a lot of songs.

yellowdogintexas

(22,252 posts)
12. How about "Our Love Is Here To Stay" by the Gershwins?
Fri Oct 1, 2021, 06:21 PM
Oct 2021

Nothing is more lasting than a parent's love.

Besides, it was George's last composition before he died and Ira's last collaboration with his brother. The lyrics are actually a tribute to George from Ira.

Although it is a beautiful love song useful for any occasion it works very well for a non romantic situation - since that was its original meaning.

Nat King COle

Tony Bennet & Diana Krall

Sinatra


Totally Tunsie

(10,885 posts)
17. Whatever you choose, bring your own CD containing the song.
Fri Oct 1, 2021, 06:31 PM
Oct 2021

Don't rely on the DJ to have it on hand. Ours didn't have "I Hope You Dance", even though it was current at the time. Luckily I brought my copy and gave it to the couple as a memento afterwards.

Have a wonderful time at the wedding!

LeftInTX

(25,327 posts)
28. Another one to avoid, if you don't want to appear incestuous
Fri Oct 1, 2021, 08:06 PM
Oct 2021


I wonder if this song was ever played as a bride and groom's dance?? LOL
"Shotgun weddings" were still a thing back then. (Although guns were no longer involved)

RFCalifornia

(440 posts)
26. Are there any songs that mean something to the two of you?
Fri Oct 1, 2021, 06:48 PM
Oct 2021

A good friend of mine did his first dance with his daughter to "Reeling in the Years" because he and his daughter loved that song and used to sing it in the car on long trips together

Danmel

(4,915 posts)
29. Isn't she lovely it is
Sun Oct 3, 2021, 10:35 AM
Oct 2021

The bride and groom will have their first dance to Louis Armstrong's "A Kiss to Build a Dream On."

Latest Discussions»The DU Lounge»My daughter is getting ma...