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Pupper moves SOOO carefully, step by step (in reverse), to join cat in large pet bed: (Original Post) tblue37 Jan 2022 OP
The cat doesn't look very happy abut what is transpiring. nt TexasTowelie Jan 2022 #1
Poor dog seems afraid of the cat Sanity Claws Jan 2022 #2
I do the same. I don't know if they understand, but somehow it works. Midnight Writer Jan 2022 #3
I do the same. happybird Jan 2022 #4
They don't understand the words, but wnylib Jan 2022 #9
Poor dog. SharonClark Jan 2022 #5
☹️ Donkees Jan 2022 #6
Cats can be bullies.. Texaswitchy Jan 2022 #7
Agree that pets should not be allowed wnylib Jan 2022 #10
I had a cat that was the boss of the other cats when I was little. Texaswitchy Jan 2022 #11
Among themselves, dogs and cats wnylib Jan 2022 #12
Awww, he needs his own bed. Rhiannon12866 Jan 2022 #8

Sanity Claws

(21,848 posts)
2. Poor dog seems afraid of the cat
Sun Jan 9, 2022, 08:07 PM
Jan 2022

It seems that he knows he has to show deference to the cat.

Maybe I'm crazy but I have always talked to my pets and told them that fighting is not allowed. I am the boss and they have to get along, if they want to stay in my house. I genuinely think they understand a lot more than we give them credit for.

happybird

(4,606 posts)
4. I do the same.
Sun Jan 9, 2022, 08:25 PM
Jan 2022

The cats have 3 rules:
1. No fighting
2. Use the litter box
3. No getting on the kitchen counters or table

All of them have understood. A few newbies had to be taken off of the kitchen counter while getting a stern lecture. It works. So do dramatic, put-upon, woe-is-me sighs.

wnylib

(21,452 posts)
9. They don't understand the words, but
Tue Jan 11, 2022, 03:25 AM
Jan 2022

they pick up the general meaning from tone and body language.

I talk to my pets all the time. Eventually they do pick up some words from context and repetition, especially if the words are associated with food or something else that they like or have strong feelings about.

My cat has picked up a pretty good vocabulary for a cat.

wnylib

(21,452 posts)
10. Agree that pets should not be allowed
Tue Jan 11, 2022, 03:29 AM
Jan 2022

to bully other pets. The home should be a safe, happy, and comfortable place for all pets in it. It's the pet owner's responsibility to teach that bullying is not allowed.

I feel bad for that dog.

Texaswitchy

(2,962 posts)
11. I had a cat that was the boss of the other cats when I was little.
Tue Jan 11, 2022, 07:14 PM
Jan 2022

She ate first...

The other cats waited.

But she didn't bully our dog like that..


That little dog was pure scared

wnylib

(21,452 posts)
12. Among themselves, dogs and cats
Tue Jan 11, 2022, 08:39 PM
Jan 2022

have a hierarchy, with one as the more dominant. It can be observed in pets if they are allowed to run free outdoors and in feral dog packs and cat colonies. They will fight over being the dominant one if challenged, but once the hierarchy is established, they don't terrorize each other as far as I know.

When cats are indoor pets, they will work out territory rules and sharing of space and other issues among themselves. I once had an "only cat" with no others in my home, just him and me. He tried to enforce territory rules on me about where I sat and when. I do some of my reading, online time, and other seated activities at a specific, comfortable chair at my kitchen table. When I was not in that chair the cat would curl up on it. But there were times when he refused to get down so I could sit on it. If I forced the issue, he clung to the sides with his paws. After I was seated, he jumped onto the chair behind me and tried to push me off. He could not understand why I did not agree to a schedule for shared space.

My current cat, a female, accepts that that chair and the couch are my territories. She gets down as soon as I approach. But she has her own space on her cat tree and a few other places that I don't go, e.g. under the bed, the arms of the couch, the windowsills, and the space between the top of my kitchen cupboards and the ceiling.

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