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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI saw a girl who was noticeably pregnant. My guess is she was 11 or 12.
Yesterday, standing on line for ice cream, I saw a girl who was not overweight, not having a fat belly. She was pregnant. The contours of her front said pregnant.
I tried not to stare, but a lot of side-glancing.
OMG. And this isn't Texas, Kentucky, Mississippi, etc. It's New Jersey.
A girl!
North Shore Chicago
(3,316 posts)I hope you are wrong.
Emile
(22,789 posts)a girl 13 was having difficulties with her labor in the room next door to my wife's. This was in Illinois.
abqtommy
(14,118 posts)Effete Snob
(8,387 posts)I've never been at a doctor's office and had the doctor ask us all to line up for ice cream as a diagnostic test, though.
msongs
(67,413 posts)NNadir
(33,525 posts)My wife was such a person. She looked 18 well into her late 20's and used to be asked for ID when ordering alcohol at restaurants until she was 30.
(She used to complain about it; I told her the time would come when she'd miss it; that time is now.)
I was in fact older than her, but looked old for my age. I did get dirty looks, particularly when we went to hotels before we were married, before she had a ring on her finger.
My wife was in her early 30's when she first became a mother, but definitely looked younger.
I don't know this particular case, but I would be careful to not make assumptions based solely on looks.
womanofthehills
(8,718 posts)I knew she was a virgin. It ended up being an ovarian tumor almost the size of a basketball. You never know.
ProfessorGAC
(65,069 posts)I was the only natural child (I have an adopted sister) but my parents could only have one kid. Like most others of that era, they wanted 2 or 3.
The root of it may have been a slow growing tumor. My mom had to have a full hysterectomy when I was 14, so my mom was 36.
She had a bulge in the lower abdomen because that tumor (benign) had gotten so big.
Not the size of your friend's, but bigger than a cantaloupe.
I can easily envision what you described.
Laffy Kat
(16,383 posts)Pregnant girls that young can have all kinds of complications. Very sad.