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debm55

(25,531 posts)
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 01:48 PM Apr 2023

What we did/do for "beauty". Wire bra, girdles, spiked shoes, slept in curlers with wire brushes

inside-like sleeping on hair brushes. Can you remember or think of others. My earliest one was the hard plastic headbands with teeth in them.

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What we did/do for "beauty". Wire bra, girdles, spiked shoes, slept in curlers with wire brushes (Original Post) debm55 Apr 2023 OP
Those headbands hurt! Wicked Blue Apr 2023 #1
Oh yes the garter belts. When you sat down they would rub into your skin on the back of your legs.. debm55 Apr 2023 #3
Also those things that held the menstrual pads Wicked Blue Apr 2023 #31
I used a safety pin to hold my pad in place. That thing would creep up to my waist and the pad was debm55 Apr 2023 #35
I had one of those headbands, my grandmother worked in a dress store Walleye Apr 2023 #2
I could never walk in high heels. I wore what we called pussy cat heels--about an inch and a half. debm55 Apr 2023 #4
I flat out rebelled against all that, I haven't worn a bra since high school I think Walleye Apr 2023 #5
Me either. And the padded bras! No way. Anyone remember Dippity Do hair gel? debm55 Apr 2023 #6
Yes! Dippity Do. Laffy Kat Apr 2023 #36
Some women appreciate the support wnylib Apr 2023 #21
I have nothing against it for other women, I just think it's uncomfortable Walleye Apr 2023 #26
kitten heels... RegulatedCapitalistD Apr 2023 #11
Polyester dresses gay texan Apr 2023 #7
And wearing those shoulder pads. Yes, the polyester dresses. debm55 Apr 2023 #8
Polyester slacks Wicked Blue Apr 2023 #32
With the matching blazer? debm55 Apr 2023 #33
I feel like I'm looking at a sears catalog from 1977 n/t gay texan Apr 2023 #49
Nair made my legs break out in a rash. wnylib Apr 2023 #22
I hated those hard plastic headbands, too. Diamond_Dog Apr 2023 #9
I had the pin curls with the bobby pins. I slept in mine. If you want to call that sleeping. debm55 Apr 2023 #14
Pure torture! Yep I remember sleeping on them a few times. Diamond_Dog Apr 2023 #15
Jelly flats gay texan Apr 2023 #10
I did the same. thought they would be very comfy--NOT debm55 Apr 2023 #12
I was talking with bestie gay texan Apr 2023 #16
Clip-on earrings. They pinched. Ocelot II Apr 2023 #13
They sure did. My mother opposed me getting my ears pierced. wnylib Apr 2023 #24
So did mine, at least at first. She said girls with pierced ears were "fast," Ocelot II Apr 2023 #29
"Those girls" were not us WASPs. "Those girls" were Mexicans. CTyankee Apr 2023 #40
Not in my neck of the woods; the Midwest wasn't very diverse in those days. Ocelot II Apr 2023 #41
I never did understand why pierced ears only went out of yellowdogintexas Apr 2023 #51
I wanted to get my ears pierced in 9th grade. My mother took me and my friend who had a note Rhiannon12866 Apr 2023 #37
I had friends who offered to pierce mine for me, but wnylib Apr 2023 #38
Merry widows. madamesilverspurs Apr 2023 #17
Do you remember the Jean Nate bath line? Powdered eye liner that you had to add water to. debm55 Apr 2023 #19
I still use cake eyeliner with water. It is the easiest yellowdogintexas Apr 2023 #50
I remember the Toni home perms. And the home frosting kit that you pulled strands of your hair debm55 Apr 2023 #23
Plastic curlers. qwlauren35 Apr 2023 #18
Were those the hard plastic ones or the foam ones. debm55 Apr 2023 #20
Hard plastic. qwlauren35 Apr 2023 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author debm55 Apr 2023 #27
They where so hard to sleep in. We had a hair drier too. the hose was always comming apart from the debm55 Apr 2023 #28
We used to iron our hair. blue neen Apr 2023 #30
Did that too, but not with the wax paper. Also used empty soda cans. Some curlers had these sticks debm55 Apr 2023 #34
My grandmother was a career woman from the 1940's to the 1980's. Aristus Apr 2023 #39
A neighbor lady when I was a kid always wore high heels - not because she had to Ocelot II Apr 2023 #43
Like ballerina feet. High heeled slippers? Not me. debm55 Apr 2023 #45
So very sad. debm55 Apr 2023 #44
Thankfully, no bras, girdles, perms or rollers. quaint Apr 2023 #42
My hair was wavy, I so wanted straight hair. Now that I'm older, I wish I had the wavy hair.When I debm55 Apr 2023 #46
I'll bet you were adorable. quaint Apr 2023 #47
Thank you------------------------------------ debm55 Apr 2023 #48

Wicked Blue

(5,857 posts)
1. Those headbands hurt!
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 01:55 PM
Apr 2023

Nylon stockings and garter belts.

The white gloves girls and women had to wear in the 1950s-early 1960s.

debm55

(25,531 posts)
3. Oh yes the garter belts. When you sat down they would rub into your skin on the back of your legs..
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:02 PM
Apr 2023

It was great when panty hose came out.

debm55

(25,531 posts)
35. I used a safety pin to hold my pad in place. That thing would creep up to my waist and the pad was
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:00 PM
Apr 2023

Last edited Tue Apr 11, 2023, 10:32 AM - Edit history (1)

messing getting off. Didn't use a tampon, as it was not proper.

Walleye

(31,068 posts)
2. I had one of those headbands, my grandmother worked in a dress store
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 01:55 PM
Apr 2023

She wore a girdle, nylon stockings and high heels every day of her life, I don’t ever remember seeing her in flat shoes, her back got so bad she couldn't walk without pain

debm55

(25,531 posts)
4. I could never walk in high heels. I wore what we called pussy cat heels--about an inch and a half.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:06 PM
Apr 2023

Also the nails being done and that awful Aqua Net hairspray to keep your hair in place.

wnylib

(21,647 posts)
21. Some women appreciate the support
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:38 PM
Apr 2023

that a bra offers. But, otherwise, why bother with it? And underwire bras are ridiculous, unnecessary, and very uncomfortable.

Walleye

(31,068 posts)
26. I have nothing against it for other women, I just think it's uncomfortable
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:17 PM
Apr 2023

But to me most clothes are uncomfortable, anything beyond T-shirts and cut offs. In fact I’m having a lot of anxiety now because my niece is getting married next month and I have to figure out what to wear

Diamond_Dog

(32,104 posts)
9. I hated those hard plastic headbands, too.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:28 PM
Apr 2023

When I was small, my mother used to put up my hair in pin curls, the kind where you fasten them with 2 Bobby pins in an X. Then sit under the hair dryer with a bonnet on my head attached to the dryer with a hose. Yuck! The bonnet pinched my forehead and the dryer was loud and you had to sit still in a chair for 1/2 an hour. I hated it!!! I remember she used something called Rinse Away on my hair. Later on came those stockings with garter belts that were just AWFUL.

Diamond_Dog

(32,104 posts)
15. Pure torture! Yep I remember sleeping on them a few times.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:40 PM
Apr 2023

And boys would complain about wearing neckties.. I remember thinking, wow, you don’t know the half of it, brother ….

gay texan

(2,477 posts)
10. Jelly flats
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:34 PM
Apr 2023

Remember them?

They were super cute and came out in the early 80's

I wanted a pair so bad, until I tried them on.

Omg, they were Horrible!!!!!!

gay texan

(2,477 posts)
16. I was talking with bestie
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:41 PM
Apr 2023

The other day and I commented how I wanted to look like daisy Duke back in the day. She got to wear all the cute stuff like those Candies high heel mules.

She said "oh hell no! Be glad you didn't!!!!"

She broke her ankle in a pair!!

wnylib

(21,647 posts)
24. They sure did. My mother opposed me getting my ears pierced.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:45 PM
Apr 2023

She said it was barbaric. So I did not get mine done until I was 25. Eventually, when everyone that my mother knew had pierced ears, she got hers done and wished that she had done it sooner. Once the ears healed, the pierced earrings were so much more comfortable than the clip on ones.

Ocelot II

(115,879 posts)
29. So did mine, at least at first. She said girls with pierced ears were "fast,"
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:36 PM
Apr 2023

which might have been true when she was a teenager in the '30s. But I whined and complained, finally got mine pierced when I was about 17. Then Mom did it. She didn't like the pinchy ones, either.

Ocelot II

(115,879 posts)
41. Not in my neck of the woods; the Midwest wasn't very diverse in those days.
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 11:14 AM
Apr 2023

I don't know where my mom got her idea about girls with pierced ears while growing up in Wisconsin in the '30s. Maybe from the movies? She said the same thing about ankle bracelets, which nobody wore that I knew of.

yellowdogintexas

(22,277 posts)
51. I never did understand why pierced ears only went out of
Wed Apr 12, 2023, 11:36 PM
Apr 2023

fashion in the US.(and only part of the US). My grandmother was 2nd generation Norwegian and had pierced ears. I had wanted them for years, and when I went to college, one of the first things I did was get my ears pierced.

Ultimately my mom got hers pierced too, I think at the same time my youngest sister got hers done.

LOL that same sister and I have daughters who are only 3 weeks apart. We made a pact that ear piercing would be the big 13th birthday event. I asked my daughter when she thought she would pierce her daughter's ears. Her answer: whenever she really wants it.

Rhiannon12866

(206,226 posts)
37. I wanted to get my ears pierced in 9th grade. My mother took me and my friend who had a note
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 01:58 AM
Apr 2023

From her mother - but my mother wouldn't let me. I went to boarding school for my last two high school years and my roommate pierced my ears for me, even let me borrow a pair of her earrings. She'd done it before for other girls and I never did have a problem. However, when I went home for vacation, I rode to Albany with another girl's mother and spent the night at my aunt and uncle's - and when my mother came to pick me up the next day, she noticed as soon as she walked in the door. She was not pleased, but a few years later she got her own ears pierced.

wnylib

(21,647 posts)
38. I had friends who offered to pierce mine for me, but
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 07:38 AM
Apr 2023

I was too squeamish to let them do it. I worried about my ears getting infected.

When I did finally get mine pierced, it was in a mall at a kiosk that sold earrings. They used a piercing gun that implanted a pair of small gold studs. My ears took a long time to heal. I switched to thin wire hoops to let the pierced holes get more air for healing and that helped.

madamesilverspurs

(15,810 posts)
17. Merry widows.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:02 PM
Apr 2023

Also the lingering stench to go with the frizz of home perms.

Raccoon tan (from goggles) to prove you'd been skiing, went with the sunburned knees from wearing cutoffs on the slopes.

Wrapping wet hair around small juice cans to give a gentler "natural" curl.

Torpedo bras.

Evening in Paris.

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yellowdogintexas

(22,277 posts)
50. I still use cake eyeliner with water. It is the easiest
Wed Apr 12, 2023, 11:30 PM
Apr 2023

and always looks smooth. Clinique still makes it in brown.

debm55

(25,531 posts)
23. I remember the Toni home perms. And the home frosting kit that you pulled strands of your hair
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:40 PM
Apr 2023

through a cap with a hook and applied the frosting stuff.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
18. Plastic curlers.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:16 PM
Apr 2023

The snap-on kind.

Oh, and I once shaved my legs. I got a two inch gash at my ankle. Never did it again.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
25. Hard plastic.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:46 PM
Apr 2023

I slept in the foam ones. The hard plastic went under the dryer. For 1-2 hours. Burned my ears.

Response to qwlauren35 (Reply #25)

debm55

(25,531 posts)
28. They where so hard to sleep in. We had a hair drier too. the hose was always comming apart from the
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:31 PM
Apr 2023

bonnet.

blue neen

(12,328 posts)
30. We used to iron our hair.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 05:21 PM
Apr 2023

Yep. Laid the hair out on the ironing board, covered it with wax paper, and ironed it with a hot iron.

This was all to make our hair "straight", but the minute you got out in the humidity it was all curly again!

debm55

(25,531 posts)
34. Did that too, but not with the wax paper. Also used empty soda cans. Some curlers had these sticks
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 06:07 PM
Apr 2023

that would go through the curlers and stab you in the head.

Aristus

(66,468 posts)
39. My grandmother was a career woman from the 1940's to the 1980's.
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 10:29 AM
Apr 2023

Which was rare enough when she started. She was required to wear pumps every day in the workplace, and suffered horribly from bunions until she retired. She got them operated on later, but one of my strongest memories of her was coming to visit, and not being able to join the family until she got her shoes off and gave her feet a rest.

Ocelot II

(115,879 posts)
43. A neighbor lady when I was a kid always wore high heels - not because she had to
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 04:29 PM
Apr 2023

but because she liked them - she even wore high-heeled slippers. Eventually, though, she couldn't wear flat shoes at all. My mom, a nurse, said it was because wearing high heels all the time for years had probably made it hard for her to extend or stretch her Achilles tendons. I hate to think what her big toes looked like.

quaint

(2,584 posts)
42. Thankfully, no bras, girdles, perms or rollers.
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 04:20 PM
Apr 2023

Luckily I was born in SoCal, had straight hair and turned into a small hippy chick.

debm55

(25,531 posts)
46. My hair was wavy, I so wanted straight hair. Now that I'm older, I wish I had the wavy hair.When I
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 04:54 PM
Apr 2023

was young the pin curls would be put in ringlets. It was called the Shirley Temple.

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